Evening Nlanders.
I have an issue that is causing me depression ryt now.
There is this girl I met late last year. Honestly, I love her, I mean everything about her. It like we are wired for each other.
But, we are both 'AS' genotype. Since I got to know, have been depressed. For her, she suggested we let go so as not to create more emotional problems.
But d issue is, I can't seem to let go cos I feel there none again like her.

Pls, I need your sincere advice, however hard they may be
Thanks

You still dey ask 4 advice? Youre not serious oh

Make sure you come back like this to beg for help when e go happen

Don't do what your future children will hate you for. I know of one that wished her parents never met.

Unless you don't plan to have kids, if you settle down with her, you'll hate yourself. There's no happily ever after no matter how you see it. So cut all ties with her.

bolt!

Take her advice .. if you want kids big family.. not saying its not possible
But are you prepared for that life if no .... Exit

Love don't solve everything

ambs50:
Evening Nlanders.
I have an issue that is causing me depression ryt now.
There is this girl I met late last year. Honestly, I love her, I mean everything about her. It like we are wired for each other.
But, we are both 'AS' genotype. Since I got to know, have been depressed. For her, she suggested we let go so as not to create more emotional problems.
But d issue is, I can't seem to let go cos I feel there none again like her.

Pls, I need your sincere advice, however hard they may be
Thanks

Go do your research properly. Find our more..all you will get here is " impossible"

BUTCHCASSIDY:

Go do your research properly. Find our more..all you will get here is " impossible"

Its not impossible
But trust me its not easy many can't cope .. having ss child u think its beans .. emotionally , physically, and financially draining

Op. Tho It Hard To Let Go, There Are Alot Of Complications If U Refuse. Take Heart Bro! Talk To God.

ambs50:
Evening Nlanders.
I have an issue that is causing me depression ryt now.
There is this girl I met late last year. Honestly, I love her, I mean everything about her. It like we are wired for each other.
But, we are both 'AS' genotype. Since I got to know, have been depressed. For her, she suggested we let go so as not to create more emotional problems.
But d issue is, I can't seem to let go cos I feel there none again like her.

Pls, I need your sincere advice, however hard they may be
Thanks

I see..

It is very complicated when you have to break emotional bonds because of unforeseen circumstances.

At this point I know it is hard parting away from her, but you should know that you are doing it for a good reason... you are not just saving yourself the pain of giving birth to an ss child that you will spend all your life saving treating... But also sparing that child the pain of going through a life filled with sickness and problems...

Really think hard on why you are letting her go and part ways.. you can still be friends but remember for the sake of the future, you both can't bear children...

Stay Healthy, Stay Wise

#Ifeelyourpain

ambs50:
Evening Nlanders.
I have an issue that is causing me depression ryt now.
There is this girl I met late last year. Honestly, I love her, I mean everything about her. It like we are wired for each other.
But, we are both 'AS' genotype. Since I got to know, have been depressed. For her, she suggested we let go so as not to create more emotional problems.
But d issue is, I can't seem to let go cos I feel there none again like her.

Pls, I need your sincere advice, however hard they may be
Thanks

marry her and give birth to children with aa as and ss the ones with ss will fall sick rapidly while some will die i think that will be great.

Bumbae1:

Its not impossible
But trust me its not easy many can't cope .. having ss child u think its beans .. emotionally , physically, and financially draining

You dont need to have an SS child too. There are procedures done which can see to that.

Actually, am optimistic of a cure or something.
Or miracle you know. That why I still cling to her

BUTCHCASSIDY:

You dont need to have an SS child too. There are procedures done which can see to that.

Is it free tho

Wen ure doing eh

Pour the juice to the right

So a go meet a

Bumbae1:

Is it free tho

Its not
well what is free?
wedding plans?
care during and after delivery?
taking care of the child and mother's health?
education?
...I could go on and on all Im saying is if you meet that one person amd you believe thays the person you will do whatever it takes

BUTCHCASSIDY:

Its not
well what is free?
wedding plans?
care during and after delivery?
taking care of the child and mother's health?
education?
...I could go on and on all Im saying is if you meet that one person amd you believe thays the person you will do whatever it takes

Hmmm i see your point now ... guess you are right

ambs50:
Actually, am optimistic of a cure or something.
Or miracle you know. That why I still cling to her

U can avoid all d ish....butbu need money.. Procedure is foetus DNA contemplation or some bullshiiit like DAT... Basically what they do is analyze the foetus to see d genotype....if SS..terminate.. If not d babe germinates...but I hear it's costly
I feel for u bro!!!!

BUTCHCASSIDY:

Its not
well what is free?
wedding plans?
care during and after delivery?
taking care of the child and mother's health?
education?
...I could go on and on all Im saying is if you meet that one person amd you believe thays the person you will do whatever it takes

Pls I would like to know the procedure to avoid SS birth.
Thanks

This genotype issue has destroyed many relationships. thank God I'm AA.


I ain't gat no worries. .

ToriBlue:
This genotype issue has destroyed many relationships. thank God I'm AA.



I ain't gat no worries. .

Really? DAT ur tall 6'2 bf DAT u always shout about upandan nko??

luminouz:

Really? DAT ur tall 6'2 bf DAT u always shout about upandan nko??

He dey. Any problem? .

ToriBlue:
He dey. Any problem? .

No nah...hope d genotype cool like urs?
U dey fear ni!

luminouz:
No nah...hope d genotype cool like urs? U dey fear ni!

Yeah, its cool.

ToriBlue:
Yeah, its cool.

Congratulobia!!!!!!!!

ambs50:



Pls I would like to know the procedure to avoid SS birth.
Thanks

There are two actually.
The first involves checking the embryo and of its SS they abort it. The second is the use of IVF. You can read up more about it.

BUTCHCASSIDY:

There are two actually.
The first involves checking the embryo and of its SS they abort it. The second is the use of IVF. You can read up more about it.

Thanks. will check it out

ambs50:
Evening Nlanders.
I have an issue that is causing me depression ryt now.
There is this girl I met late last year. Honestly, I love her, I mean everything about her. It like we are wired for each other.
But, we are both 'AS' genotype. Since I got to know, have been depressed. For her, she suggested we let go so as not to create more emotional problems.
But d issue is, I can't seem to let go cos I feel there none again like her.

Pls, I need your sincere advice, however hard they may be
Thanks

Guy, the way I see it, you have 3 options!!.
First option is to marry her, have kids and damm the consequences.
Second option is to marry her and don't have kids and live with that.
Third option, is to move on without her. Personally,this is the most realistic option.

Hmmmm!! This issue again? This is why I always advice people to enquire the genotype of their intending lover before any strong emotion is built...

Op, if you wanna go on and marry her, let me ask you, how wealthy are you? How ready are you to handle the possible effects it will bring? Like someone rightly said you have two options if you marry her, either constant termination of an ss feotus or ivf. But what if most of the feotus turn out to be ss? The crossing are subject to chance, one may even be lucky to have AA or AS offspring all through but what's the certainty that you will be that lucky?

I know of someone who her first three children are sc, she's as and her husband is ac. As you know, sc suffer crisis just like ss..

You can still get married and have your kids through ivf or anyone of you can have a bmt if you are loaded.

Unless you want to abort a foestus that has ss,thereby commitng murder,move on or marry her and face the issue...never terminate a foetus knowingly!!!!