browniex:
they are insecure and full of jealousy. always suspecting thier men.

Not true

The guy face be like" anyway I don enter am be say I don enter am

Erngie:
Beautiful.Happy married life BUT try and loose weight so that your husband will not quickly cheat on you with them agbanis.

Stay there dey yearn dust,as slim as agbani is,men still cheat on her. It is not about size.

Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder. I'd prefer chubby ladies.

Except she is very rich...

bold-beautiful-woman (bbw)

check below

ZarZar:

And then the rest are like...

lol! You're wicked. #winks.

Cyberrex:
They say plus size ladies are romantic, is that true?

Big and Bold ladies don't argue and you found them easily on the bed, when light goes off, unlike sparrow types ladies that rattles on and on and amebo join.

Archaa:


How are you ZarZar ?


you should be familiar with my former moniker (SASKO) unfortunately, constant fights on political section make me to change moniker like pampers


I lunch back with a new moniker immediately my former is banned, no time to waste time cus those guys over there are very annoying


However, this lady is a typical South African (Xhosa) precisely while the guy is not
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am I right ?
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Welcome back Which lady? The one getting married?

ZarZar:

Welcome back Which lady? The one getting married?

Ooooh.....!!! this your question just made me wick

how many ladies are in that pre wedding picture .

Archaa:


Ooooh.....!!! this your question just made me wick


how many ladies are in that pre wedding picture
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Hence my question because you could have been talking about the one boinking the frog for all I know But anyway, what makes you think she's South African?

ZarZar:


Hence my question because you could have been talking about the one boinking the frog for all I know But anyway, what makes you think she's South African?

there you go again. ..


last time you claimed you could identify a Nigerian among other foreign nationals


I thought you should be smart enough to identify one of your own which I'm pretty sure this particular lady is a Souti lady judging from her physics


very few Nigerians have such body structure
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Archaa:


there you go again. ..


last time you claimed you could identify a Nigerian among other foreign nationals


I thought you should be smart enough to identify one of your own which I'm pretty sure this particular lady is a Souti lady judging from her physics


very few Nigerians have such body structure
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Maybe she belongs to the "few" group South Africans too come in all body types lol. It's not like we have a mould

ZarZar:


Maybe she belongs to the "few" group South Africans too come in all body types lol. It's not like we have a mould

lol...who can argue with a woman


bows out. .
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Archaa:


lol...who can argue with a woman


bows out. .
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Tell me about your Xhosa ex. You never told me that thing you said you like about them

ZarZar:


Tell me about your Xhosa ex. You never told me that thing you said you like about them

Not just Xhosa women but Souti ladies generally...very easy going,humble, soft spoken and stress free


they aren't complicated like nija ladies
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Archaa:


Not just a Xhosa women but Souti ladies generally...very easy going,humble, soft spoken and stress free


they aren't complicated like nija ladies
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Hmmm...and what makes your ladies "complicated"?

ZarZar:


Hmmm...and what makes your ladies "complicated"?

eesh...!! their conditions in love could be some times taller than Calton centre depending on whom you met

apparently, environmental factors comes into play here

as a Souti lady you don't necessarily need to get married before you can start a family have kids and all that but in nija it's a different ball game


a child born out of wedlock is regarded as a bastard and you don't want to bring shame to your family


so an average Nigerian lady want to know if your relationship with her would lead to marriage or you are just a fvck boy


Another invincible force is her parents asking if she hasn't found a suitor because her age mates in the village are now in their husbands house with kids


However, all these factors I listed are in contradiction with your culture
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Archaa:


eesh...!! their conditions in love could be some times taller than Calton centre depending on who you met

apparently, environmental factors comes into play here

as a Souti lady you don't necessarily need to get married before you can start a family have kids and all that but in nija it's a different ball game


a child born out of wedlock is regarded as a bastard and you don't want to bring shame to your family


so an average Nigerian lady want to know if your relationship with her would lead to marriage or you are just a fvck boy


Another invincible force is her parents asking if she hasn't found a suitor because her age mates in the village are now in their husbands house with kids


However, all these factors I listed are in contradiction with your culture
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Interesting. So what do they think of the single mothers in your community? Because they do exist. Anyway, I think that kind of mentality promotes the culture of abortions & ditching babies in drains/trenches, all in the name of keeping up appearances. But to each their own.

ZarZar:


Interesting. So what do they think of the single mothers in your community? Because they do exist. Anyway, I think that kind of mentality promotes the culture of abortions & ditching babies in drains/trenches, all in the name of keeping up appearances. But to each their own.

Of course these are the main reason there are high rate of abortions in the country


there are single mothers which can be said to be around 2% of the population


while that of S A could be approximately 50% of the population


Honestly, I prefer that of S A cus it gives women the liberty to be married or not rather than be living silently in bondage in the name of marriage just to appease the society


I have to appreciate this cus I've travelled and witnessed how things are done in other climes, it's also said that travel is part of Education
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Erngie:
Beautiful.Happy married life BUT try and loose weight so that your husband will not quickly cheat on you with them agbanis.

sorry we don't do toothpicks

Archaa:


Of course these are the main reason there are high rate of abortions in the country


there are single mothers which can be said to be around 2% of the population


while that of S A could be approximately 50% of the population


Honestly, I prefer that of S A cus it gives women the liberty to be married or not rather than be living silently in bondage in the name of marriage just to appease the society


I have to appreciate this cus I've travelled and witnessed how things are done in other climes, it's also said that travel is part of Education
.

where is the bondage. only bondage is if the woman is unemployed

Archaa:


eesh...!! their conditions in love could be some times taller than Calton centre depending on who you met

apparently, environmental factors comes into play here

as a Souti lady you don't necessarily need to get married before you can start a family have kids and all that but in nija it's a different ball game


a child born out of wedlock is regarded as a bastard and you don't want to bring shame to your family


so an average Nigerian lady want to know if your relationship with her would lead to marriage or you are just a fvck boy


Another invincible force is her parents asking if she hasn't found a suitor because her age mates in the village are now in their husbands house with kids


However, all these factors I listed are in contradiction with your culture
.

sharp man de find maga to gii bele without responsibility

mikolo80:
where is the bondage. only bondage is if the woman is unemployed

unfortunately every woman including men can not be employed even in a country with the best of economies
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Archaa:


unfortunately every woman including men can not be employed even in a country with the best of economies
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aka some southie single women are in bondage

mikolo80:
sharp man de find maga to gii bele without responsibility

you are going contrary to what we are discussing


it's not about giving belle cus S A govt have children's welfare system that takes care of such cases but will bill and change you to court any day you went to claim the child, this is in contradiction with nija govt that cares for no one


Only the lady I was busy with who knows our story
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Archaa:


you are going contrary to what we are discussing


it's not about giving belle cus S A govt have children's welfare system that takes care of such cases but will bill and change you to court any day you went to claim the child, this is in contradiction with nija govt that cares for no one


Only the lady I was busy with who knows our story
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sharp man. I see you

Archaa:


Of course these are the main reason there are high rate of abortions in the country


there are single mothers which can be said to be around 2% of the population


while that of S A could be approximately 50% of the population


Honestly, I prefer that of S A cus it gives women the liberty to be married or not rather than be living silently in bondage in the name of marriage just to appease the society


I have to appreciate this cus I've travelled and witnessed how things are done in other climes, it's also said that travel is part of Education
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You didn't answer my question, how are single mothers treated? Are they shunned or what? I find this weird but interesting all the same.

ZarZar:


You didn't answer my question, how are single mothers treated? Are they shunned or what? I find this weird but interesting all the same.

Your question must have been answered if you do watch Nigerian movies


it is frown at, seen as an unfortunate situation, they are sometimes been mocked depending on the situation, married women are not allowed to keep them as friends cus it is viewed she could influence her to keep a boyfriend outside marriage


Single mothers or a divorcee are not allowed to take some one on bail either in police station or law court except she is a lawyer by profession


lastl, she can not be voted into public office....Lucky you, you guys have single mothers in elective offices like Mayor and all that
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Archaa:


Your question must have been answered if you do watch Nigerian movie


it is frown at, seen as an unfortunate situation, they are sometimes been mocked depending on the situation, married women are not allowed to keep them as friends cus it is viewed she could influence her to keep a boyfriend outside marriage


Single mothers or a divorcee are not allowed to take some one on bail either in police station or law court except she is a lawyer by profession


lastl, she can not be voted into public office....Lucky you, you guys have single mothers in elective offices like Mayor and all that
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Wow! Very unfortunate & unfair.