seunmsg:


That a marriage is working today is not a guarantee that it will still work tomorrow. Tell the people around you to enjoy theirs will it last, nobody knows what will happen tomorrow.

"Is working" u started with present tense.
Now u have moved to "tomorrow"......

Anyway, it can also be said that the fact that this man's marriage is having hitches now, doesnt mean that it will not be perfect tomorrow.

There are marriages that have lasted golden jubilees till death that started rough but ended well.....

So.......

Destined2win:
Irrespective of all these discouraging news, I still strongly believe that marriage is a fantastic union and I am going to have one.

Again , I refuse to be discouraged!

May God grant you your heart desires.

Only a beast and a coward will beat his wife. How can I beat my wife whom I call 'My favourite', I can't do it. Marriage remains the sweetest thing in my life.


God Pls take my life today if I will beat my wife tomorrow.

[quote author=soberdrunk post=55405966]Everyone has their limits and anger can make you do things you never thought you will do, am a very 'realistic' person so i wont say its "impossible" to touch your wife in a violent way, you push your wife or give her one or two slaps(its very bad but its understandable and can be blamed on anger issues) but when you beat your wife like say nah she be the armed robber way dey terrorize the area for so long, you are 'useless man" and deserve better mending. I can imagine seeing blood coming out from my sisters eyes, that husband better relocate to another "Continent"........ [/quote

sarrki:



For every action there must be a reaction

It's your actions that provoke her to react

Don't be a wife beater when you marry

What if the beating was also a reaction from the man? Which means he's right to do so based on your logic.

felixomor:


"Is working" u started with present tense.
Now u have moved to "tomorrow"......

Anyway, it can also be said that the fact that this man's marriage is having hitches now, doesnt mean that it will not be perfect tomorrow.

There are marriages that have lasted golden jubilees till death that started rough but ended well.....

So.......

You have your opinion about marriage and i have mine. Good enough, we are both entitled to our opinions.

Stephanie Peter!

What is the husband's Igbo name, we all know the husband is a flat headmaster.

seunmsg:


You have your opinion about marriage and i have mine. Good enough, we are both entitled to our opinions.

Ehen
Sounds better.

fuckboys:
women needs beating once a while to reset their brain,, well Slap can do sha not beat



I slap my woman a lot sha, their mouth fit give person HBP

How I wish this your post the ftc...hehehehe
.

na hot water they for take visit you
.

pocohantas:

If your wife hisses, you start beating her? Something is really wrong with men of this generation.

Please remember to always put 'some'.

I dont understand how two mature adults will allow the break down of communication will cause a hiss to lead to exchanging of fist?

I understand constant disrespect by the woman i love, to the point i seem not to worth anything to her is enough to aggravate any man. But i understand sensible women do not do this.

If you are mad at me for anything, please let it be known in a civil manner like mature adults. Thing is, treat me as i would/do treat you.

dingbang:
what's your advice for me who isn't married yet with respect to such case

Just ignore her(walk out, reduce communications), a well trained babe who is in luv with u, will seek discussions, even if she was d offended party.


If na guy to guy, no escorts, n u know u dont have any limits to getting ur pound of flesh, last man standing tins!

50/50 no cheating. I wonder whether most of these married women and men were forced to marry. Many of them don't love each other.

IamAirforce1:


This is why women like you get the beatings of your lives from your husband.

I just made a harmless comment and here you are hissing on him.

Harmless comment my foot!Your comment does not make sense.It is your type that sees women as someone below them and that is what breeds violence in many marriages.

ashjay001:


Just ignore her(walk out, reduce communications), a well trained babe who is in luv with u, will seek discussions, even if she was d offended party.


If na guy to guy, no escorts, n u know u dont have any limits to getting ur pound of flesh, last man standing tins!

thank you

Vorpal:


Please remember to always put 'some'.

I dont understand how two mature adults will allow the break down of communication will cause a hiss to lead to exchanging of fist?

I understand constant disrespect by the woman i love, to the point i seem not to worth anything to her is enough to aggravate any man. But i understand sensible women do not do this.

If you are mad at me for anything, please let it be known in a civil manner like mature adults. Thing is, treat me as i would/do treat you.

LOL, I forgot my some.
Your post just reminded me of a real life experience. Lots of sense in this post, communication is key. 'Someone' recently accused me of not communicating because I tend to stay silent when angry.

Quinn22:
This comment shows you have no respect for your mum, shame on you!!!

Just STFU will you? I have all d respect in d world for my MUM...... She is my angel.....n who d hell are u....
If a man beats a woman you raise hell....now he just ignores her till she calmed down n they will settle....now d hell is wrong about DAT??
U always claim DAT feminist bullshiiit!!!!! It's boring!!!

ebosie11:
Stephanie Peters was attacked by her husband last night after an argument ensued between them. The man wanted to assert his authority. He beat his wife so hard that blood came out of her eyes. The woman was so upset, she ran downstairs and used a stick to smash the windscreen of the man's car. The pictures confirm this.

The woman admitted that she wondered if she should stab him with a knife in self defence.


Source: http://www.trezzyhelm.com/2017/04/lady-smashes-her-husband-car-windscreen.html

After you knack am holy kiss on wedding day, you come dey knack am cruel blows for house. Oga, mbut why? Why hit a woman you claim you love? What are you teaching this little son of yours? Take a walk , leave the house for a moment when the heat is up. Don't lift a finger on your wife. Some men suppose dey inside zoo

dingbang:
thank you

Abi o.....n DAT dried up fish Quinn22 is spewing rubbish

ifyain:
Is marriage worth all these hassles? I think the society should find alternatives to producing babies without marriage. it is very disheartening to see these violence everyday in the name of been married.I personally won,t advice anybody to engage in this thing called marriage unless you are ready to lose your sanity.

There is a monicker on nairaland called "sagamite" who always says all marriages are failures and i completely agree with him.For goodness sake,what is the purpose of marriage in todays' world?It is utter madness!!!

INTERESTING FACTS.
* The state is entitled to punish whoever it deems fit because it is the state.
* The soldier at the junction is entitled to harass and even detain you because he is a soldier.
* The teacher at school is entitled to beat the living daylight out of her children because she is the teacher.
* The boss at work can compel you to literally lick his shoes because he is the boss.
* The elder one at home can discipline the younger one because he is the elder one.
* The Mother can practically skin the child alive because she is the mother.
* But the Husband is expected to keep quiet when he is disrespected in whatever way in his own house by his wife because he is a man abi?
VERY INTERESTING LOGIC INDEED.

This one na car?

IamAirforce1:
Women should learn to behave like women.

I'm not in support of women battering.

But women, if you know that which will provoke your husband don't do it.

80% of married men are cowards and stupid but they don't know.

Apina:

What if the beating was also a reaction from the man? Which means he's right to do so based on your logic.

My dear, matured men don't beat their wives only cowards do.

pocohantas:

LOL, I forgot my some.
Your post just reminded me of a real life experience. Lots of sense in this post, communication is key. 'Someone' recently accused me of not communicating because I tend to stay silent when angry.

That just makes me the more guilty. I and guilt dont mix well at all.

Why do you stay silent? Worried you may say hurtful words?

E be like say woman ever provoke una before
Assuming say I sabi beat woman one for don die for my hand one time
Power them no get but them sabi run mouth and sometimes they will even b d first to attack you .
I have seen this on many occasions and at the end they get to play the victim
All of this women rights activist weh say man and woman deh equal
Strength no

ogologoamu:



80% of married men are cowards and stupid but they don't know.

follow bab

madridguy:
The man no try at all. Though women can run their mouth as fast as ferrari but raising your hand on them as a man is no no no.

Say no to domestic violence.

they deserved it sometimes.

ebosie11:
Stephanie Peters was attacked by her husband last night after an argument ensued between them. The man wanted to assert his authority. He beat his wife so hard that blood came out of her eyes. The woman was so upset, she ran downstairs and used a stick to smash the windscreen of the man's car. The pictures confirm this.

The woman admitted that she wondered if she should stab him with a knife in self defence.


Source: http://www.trezzyhelm.com/2017/04/lady-smashes-her-husband-car-windscreen.html

She didn't do well at all.She should have smashed the whole car, otherwise the wind shield is very easy to replace.Nonsense, I'd teach him a lesson that he wouldn't forget easily.

Vorpal:


That just makes me the more guilty. I and guilt dont mix well at all.

Why do you stay silent? Worried you may say hurtful words?

Yes
Sometimes I just don't like pushing things. I hate the back and forth, makes me feel bad.

Assert authority by beating her ?


only eediots do that.

Emzyme:
E be like say woman ever provoke una before
Assuming say I sabi beat woman one for don die for my hand one time
Power them no get but them sabi run mouth and sometimes they will even b d first to attack you .
I have seen this on many occasions and at the end they get to play the victim
All of this women rights activist weh say man and woman deh equal
Strength no follow bab

Any man that beats his wife for any reason, is MAD.

Destined2win:
Irrespective of all these discouraging news, I still strongly believe that marriage is a fantastic union and I am going to have one.

Again , I refuse to be discouraged!

I admire ur Enthusiasm.

emmatony:

are you married?

What has that got to do with anything? Do you have to be married to have sense?

pocohantas:

Yes
Sometimes I just don't like pushing things. I hate the back and forth, makes me feel bad.

Well i guess the onus falls on him to understand you more and how to manage the situation when you are angry in a way you can make your displeasure known without you saying hurtful words.

Diffusing the tension, even its by saying endearing things towards you. You cant ppossibly say hurtful things to him if he comes by this approach?