Harddon can I still join the whatsapp group? Sent you an email though. Keep up the good work.

Oga Harddon.. Am yet to receive any response from you o


Good evening Boss, please I need your assistance.
A girl I so much like is somehow proving too stubborn to get.she hardly call or text,So I didn't want to appear the needy or the begging type cus a nigga also got his own prides to protect,I decided to apply some of the rules I learnt here which is giving her space,I deleted all her contacts on my phone so no calling or texting, this night I got a whatsapp message saying Hi, it's been long blah blah blah so as we got chatting I knew she could be the one so I just dey give her this kyn I DON'T CARE Attitude eventually I asked to know who i was chatting with and she then sent her pix to me and I was like "Oh it's u" and she said yep and started again blah blah blah"It have be long,no call,why?"
Please what perfect response do I give her and what's the next thing to do?
Thanks.

brandon180:
am not really good with chattin with chicks online, through social media, any help pls..

P.S:i can flow freely in real live convo..

I do understand you though most ppl would ask you what d difference is!
You shld know u got a special gift( flowing on ur feet) if only u can balance it wit d virtual roll.


These are the reasons:
1. She isnt physically present so u cant make fun of her dress, skin, hands , eyes etc

Solution? Make fun of d emoticon she uses as if they truly represent her current expresion:
Lets say u got chatty n she use d laughing smiley, you can say: "just look @ those tiny teeth! Can they even chew at all?"

Or she use d kiss one, you say: " mmm, some1 is forming a gud kisser cos she's not here physically, but i am not convienced, she gas prove it.

Or she use the frown smiley, you say: " wow! Just look @ that sexy face! R u trying to seduce me?"


She use an annoyed one , you say: wow bae, what is d plan? Trying to boil eba water for a whole community wit that funky face?"

SHe use hug, u say " i cover myself wit d blood! U cannot tempt me"


She use d surprised one, u say: " wow! R ur eyes that big n dreamy? dont turn me one plz , im working"

In summary, see all emoticons as her n flow in tune!

HARDDON:


I do understand you though most ppl would ask you what d difference is!
You shld know u got a special gift( flowing on ur feet) if only u can balance it wit d virtual roll.


These are the reasons:
1. She isnt physically present so u cant make fun of her dress, skin, hands , eyes etc

Solution? Make fun of d emoticon she uses as if they truly represent her current expresion:
Lets say u got chatty n she use d laughing smiley, you can say: "just look @ those tiny teeth! Can they even chew at all?"

Or she use d kiss one, you say: " mmm, some1 is forming a gud kisser cos she's not here physically, but i am not convienced, she gas prove it.

Or she use the frown smiley, you say: " wow! Just look @ that sexy face! R u trying to seduce me?"


She use an annoyed one , you say: wow bae, what is d plan? Trying to boil eba water for a whole community wit that funky face?"

SHe use hug, u say " i cover myself wit d blood! U cannot tempt me"


She use d surprised one, u say: " wow! R ur eyes that big n dreamy? dont turn me one plz , im working"

In summary, see all emoticons as her n flow in tune!

2. U easily run out of ideas cos most ladies r really boring wen chatting, it takes a real gee that knows his onions to pull them out n soak them in. Once u wheel them out, they start engaging u in real time convo n even initiate chats wit u.
You just need to discover d code n punch it.

Solution?
Plan the way u want the chat to flow. Hv core points u want to discuss n be flexible enuf to know wen to go wit the flow!

HARDDON:




Kindly edit your post n remove that advert of his. The others have been taken care of.

Done boss, no time


And ermm boss, yet to receive the bonds words and reg form for the whatsapp group joining

Balistic4:
Hello Harddon. Nice job you're doing here. Please I need your help.

I've been dating my girl for 5yrs now since my 1st yr in university. I did not start by toasting her but we were just into each other and we started having sex. Fast forwarding things, I truly love this girl and will and pray that I spend my life with her but the thing is, people around her see her as a loose girl and that makes me remember how we started and to add some of my family members don't like her just because of where she is from but I see this as no excuse.
I play my game well (I think) as I've been the guy in the picture for 5yrs now. I don't cheat on her but I stern enough whenever she misbehave. So far her slate is clean as far as I am concerned and I would like to propose to her once we're back from nysc. But my question is, how do you know a girl is loose . And what are the implications of having a loose. And to add, I am in between nice guy and alpha male and I have never cheated on her. And what should I do if she falls in the category of loose girl. Thanks

How can you date a gurl for 5 years and not know if she is lose or not? You had to hear it from others? What exactly do they have against her? Try blend in n find out.

Btw the way, so we are on same page, what do u mean by her been lose?

Moreover,
About u guys just taking to each other n things excalating, im very used to that! Infact, that is yours truly's rolling logo. Dont usually have it any other way. N this does not mean the ladies r losed, it just mean u got ur self toned. Balls checked n u r in full control of your life's zip.

You wano hear a secret about these drills?
That is exactly what they help u achieve on da constant! Where without stressing to ask em out nor blowing money tru d roof, they get so stung on you giving u ample time to dictate how u want it to roll. There is a way u wud be playing hard to get with Jrod that they practically beg to have it! Yours truly experience on roll..... I wasnt joking wen i said that @ d beginning.

HARDDON:


I do understand you though most ppl would ask you what d difference is!
You shld know u got a special gift( flowing on ur feet) if only u can balance it wit d virtual roll.


These are the reasons:
1. She isnt physically present so u cant make fun of her dress, skin, hands , eyes etc

Solution? Make fun of d emoticon she uses as if they truly represent her current expresion:
Lets say u got chatty n she use d laughing smiley, you can say: "just look @ those tiny teeth! Can they even chew at all?"

Or she use d kiss one, you say: " mmm, some1 is forming a gud kisser cos she's not here physically, but i am not convienced, she gas prove it.

Or she use the frown smiley, you say: " wow! Just look @ that sexy face! R u trying to seduce me?"


She use an annoyed one , you say: wow bae, what is d plan? Trying to boil eba water for a whole community wit that funky face?"

SHe use hug, u say " i cover myself wit d blood! U cannot tempt me"


She use d surprised one, u say: " wow! R ur eyes that big n dreamy? dont turn me one plz , im working"

In summary, see all emoticons as her n flow in tune!

yours truly.!!

engees001:

friendship

You wano fzone her or you want her to fzone u? Fzone from d female folk usually dominate , you should know that.

Nonetheless, your first statement already gave u out: You saw what u luv in her, came preaching on the super beaten lane laced with the over used word LUV word because u wanted to TAP THAT. She saw tru ur lil gimmicks(they always do) n turned u down.

Now u turn around n sue for friendship? Gee, she already fzoned u!

You solutions are lined up all over d pages of this thread. DONT BOTHER READING THEM , aiit?

Obagoblog:


Boss, Expatiate more on that number 1 point and u forgot to mention the third point

Thatz beyond the scope of this drill, nonetheless, if you are in ministry or u have a calling, shot me a mail and i would gladly oblidge you because the rate of insults so called pastors throw on God's face now because of ignorance is heart splitting.

Third point went off long time ago

FreshGuy2:




Good evening Boss, please I need your assistance.

A girl I so much like is somehow proving too stubborn to get.she hardly call or text,So I didn't want to appear the needy or the begging type cus a nigga also got his own prides to protect,I decided to apply some of the rules I learnt here which is giving her space,I deleted all her contacts on my phone so no calling or texting, this night I got a whatsapp message saying Hi, it's been long blah blah blah so as we got chatting I knew she could be the one so I just dey give her this kyn I DON'T CARE Attitude eventually I asked to know who i was chatting with and she then sent her pix to me and I was like "Oh it's u" and she said yep and started again blah blah blah"It have be long,no call,why?"

Please what perfect response do I give her and what's the next thing to do?
Thanks.

If you really hv read d thread,
Solution within the thread from page 1, but i wouldnt advise u read them up.


On a side note, immediately she sent that pix, yours truly wud hv maintained not exclaim like u did(shows u missed her! N aint totaly yet in control of ur roll) , delay repLy n after that say: "works calls now, aiit bye" n just leave d chat . Stay on line, chat with others n just ignore her. This wud send alot of thots down her spine. N breeds curiosity. She wud wait n buzz u up again, ignore, now itz ur time to form hard to get

D Don Juan Pro!..sent you a mail about 6:14 pm. Kindly do the needful..yours truly can't wait to be on board o!

Michellekabod:

Am awaiting your response....add this to the chain of questions I have for you. Are they no nuggets for ladies? Many ladies are bitter as wormwood due to heartache. Can you create a thread for them? So we halt coming to spy here....

PS: not everyone with a child is married...

Ladies bassically got dis part of their lives pre installed by default. Itz only guys that have been gropping in the dark trying to find their feet n face in d world of women

Due to popular demand, We are working on another thread ( Heart 2 Heart) and it would be going live soon.

It would be a solution ground for all diverse ish in d relationship/dating worlds ( all are welcome). We also hope it would act as a platform for bonding too(meet n marry )! There r too many stable fine guys n gurls in here for that not to be happening.

Arisekola90:

@the bolded, you can't do that here (in UI). And in addition to that, most ladies here are not so much interested in your excellent academic performance; politics, money and maybe plus swag make a big boy.

You dont still get it. Those things u listed as Req for big boys are pseudo, very temporal. N if a gurl is stupid enuf to leave u for another wit tv, wish her well. But make sure in 10years, she watches u on dat same tv that wud hv been outdated

Real big boys are known by the contents of their heads. Cos from therein, came to be all that is physical today.
Stop reasoning like average guys.

Take for example Nigeria: with all her wealth, natural n human resources, she is a third world country.
Exporting crude, d wise ones out there buys same , refines n sell back to her @ a higher price!

Sence Pill 96:

Your mind is a gold mine, Dig it!

henro4niger:
Harddon can I still join the whatsapp group? Sent you an email though. Keep up the good work.

Yups!

And for all who dont know,

Dating Drills WhatsApp group is rolling out live on Sat 22nd of April 2017, we rolling hawt, we rolling fresh! Holding nothing back, Unleashed! You cant afford to miss out!
dare to dream? mail: datingdrill@gmail.com for general info.

Samalabz:


Done boss, no time


And ermm boss, yet to receive the bonds words and reg form for the whatsapp group joining

Yea? Hang on.......just a bit

HARDDON:


I do understand you though most ppl would ask you what d difference is!
You shld know u got a special gift( flowing on ur feet) if only u can balance it wit d virtual roll.


These are the reasons:
1. She isnt physically present so u cant make fun of her dress, skin, hands , eyes etc

Solution? Make fun of d emoticon she uses as if they truly represent her current expresion:
Lets say u got chatty n she use d laughing smiley, you can say: "just look @ those tiny teeth! Can they even chew at all?"

Or she use d kiss one, you say: " mmm, some1 is forming a gud kisser cos she's not here physically, but i am not convienced, she gas prove it.

Or she use the frown smiley, you say: " wow! Just look @ that sexy face! R u trying to seduce me?"


She use an annoyed one , you say: wow bae, what is d plan? Trying to boil eba water for a whole community wit that funky face?"

SHe use hug, u say " i cover myself wit d blood! U cannot tempt me"


She use d surprised one, u say: " wow! R ur eyes that big n dreamy? dont turn me one plz , im working"

In summary, see all emoticons as her n flow in tune!

Hello Boss, There is this girl friend of mine with whom i mostly practice these chat drills, buh she has an habit of always going blank for days( like ignore my last msgs for days ) until i initiate a new chat, if i don't, we don't chat for a long time until i initiate a new chat again, i am not attracted to her in anyway tho,
In situations like this, do i go blank for days, OR how do I handle such situations as these, yesterday was her birthday and we are on the same group, On my birthday she still didn't chat me up or anything like it...I wil need ur swift reponse boss....

HARDDON:

Yea? Hang on.......just a bit

You haven't replied my mail

peterpen:


Hello Boss, There is this girl friend of mine with whom i mostly practice these chat drills, buh she has an habit of always going blank for days( like ignore my last msgs for days ) until i initiate a new chat, if i don't, we don't chat for a long time until i initiate a new chat again, i am not attracted to her in anyway tho,
In situations like this, do i go blank for days, OR how do I handle such situations as these, yesterday was her birthday and we are on the same group, On my birthday she still didn't chat me up or anything like it...I wil need ur swift reponse boss....

Harddon this also happens to me, what is the way forward

@Kalatium & Ppen,

HOw many timeS wud i have to drum it? Go to places u r celebrated instead of places u r torelated!


A gurl ignore ur bday n u still hang arnd for wht? If it was a guy that forgets no ish but for a gurl that rarely forgets date n time? Na na

I hate borin peeps, i hate dull ppl. I hate proud ppl even though they r stiill learning how to wash their pants.

HARDDON:
@Kalatium & Ppen,

HOw many timeS wud i have to drum it? Go to places u r celebrated instead of places u r torelated!


A gurl ignore ur bday n u still hang arnd for wht? If it was a guy that forgets no ish but for a gurl that rarely forgets date n time? Na na

I hate borin peeps, i hate dull ppl. I hate proud ppl even though they r stiill learning how to wash their pants.

The most confusing aspect of the whole ish is that, our chats ain't boring and she flows well...

How can a gurl be playing on ur intelligence n u let ha?

a gurl is boring when she lacks what to say n shoots off thereafter.
Simples!

peterpen:
The most confusing aspect of the whole ish is that, our chats ain't boring and she flows well...

I understand you bro, i used to have one like that too. ("used to" cuz i've deleted her number).

Whenever i text her, our chat is lively, she'll be "loling", calling me a bad boy, i'll tease her, she'll tease me nd all that, our chats are never dull. Buh she never initiates chats.

You got to have this mindset that you're a fun giver, you're interesting. If she's not chatting you up, she's the one missing cuz you're a fun giver.

HARDDON:


Ladies bassically got dis part of their lives pre installed by default. Itz only guys that have been gropping in the dark trying to find their feet n face in d world of women

Due to popular demand, We are working on another thread ( Heart 2 Heart) and it would be going live soon.

It would be a solution ground for all diverse ish in d relationship/dating worlds ( all are welcome). We also hope it would act as a platform for bonding too(meet n marry )! There r too many stable fine guys n gurls in here for that not to be happening.

virtually all the girls that my friends and I have met are aware of this game.
Even most of the comments in here also testify to that..!

Though there are some specific group of girls that ain't aware of this game.if only one can be a very good detective like uv ones said.

so I dont see any need creating a drilling sesion for them.

HARDDON:
How can a gurl be playing on ur intelligence n u let ha?

a gurl is boring when she lacks what to say n shoots off thereafter.
Simples!

Some guys are still perfecting the art of chatting with them ladies,.

Base on their pre-installed software,garbage-in the wrong commands wunt Run their system.

Ever Since have been following the algorithmic method you gave,my issue with that have long been truncated..!

Ustec:


Some guys are still perfecting the art of chatting with them ladies,.

Base on their pre-installed software,garbage-in the wrong commands wunt Run their system.

Ever Since have been following the algorithmic method you gave,my issue with that have long been truncated..!

@Bolded,
Well, they dont seem to get me, cud u lay it across to them ,step by step, from a fellow student's perspective?

Ustec:


virtually all the girls that my friends and I have met are aware of this game.
Even most of the comments in here also testify to that..!

Though there are some specific group of girls that ain't aware of this game.if only one can be a very good detective like uv ones said.

so I dont see any need creating a drilling sesion for them.

@ bolded, ofcos not. Ive been telling them exactly that!
If i try that, i'd either make a monster outa them or i'd end up creating a world full of singles cancelling each other's moves out!
What a world that wud be!

Hello fellow nairalanders... I need your help about a little issue sir There's this girl I met last two weeks during the kick against polio stuff. We were posted to work at the same Centre. We haven't meet before that time,but we worked together for just four days. The moment I set my eyes for her, I felt attracted to her. I tried getting close to her for the first two days, but it didn't work out because my heart skips a beat anytime I tried to talk to her. It was on the third day I got to talk to her, because I was asked to write down the names of everyone present that day so I got to know her name that day. The fourth day been the last day, she came to me that I should borrow her my phone, she wanted to browse. I borrowed her. Finally, when she was leaving for home that day, I gathered the little confidence in me to try run after her and get her number because I might not see her again. She gave me her number, but I never called until last Thursday night when I called her to confirm how we are to get our payment the next day. I wanted to talk to tell her about my feelings for her on Friday but my mind failed me again. She just message me on whatsapp yesterday evening, but I don't know how to start the conversation about the feeling I have for her. Pls help me on how to make her mine...

Drifted much, we have


Now we We get back on track .......

Bowaley17:
Hello fellow nairalanders... I need your help about a little issue sir There's this girl I met last two weeks during the kick against polio stuff. We were posted to work at the same Centre. We haven't meet before that time,but we worked together for just four days. The moment I set my eyes for her, I felt attracted to her. I tried getting close to her for the first two days, but it didn't work out because my heart skips a beat anytime I tried to talk to her. It was on the third day I got to talk to her, because I was asked to write down the names of everyone present that day so I got to know her name that day. The fourth day been the last day, she came to me that I should borrow her my phone, she wanted to browse. I borrowed her. Finally, when she was leaving for home that day, I gathered the little confidence in me to try run after her and get her number because I might not see her again. She gave me her number, but I never called until last Thursday night when I called her to confirm how we are to get our payment the next day. I wanted to talk to tell her about my feelings for her on Friday but my mind failed me again. She just message me on whatsapp yesterday evening, but I don't know how to start the conversation about the feeling I have for her. Pls help me on how to make her mine...

Bro, why not read this thread from the start. Your answer is there. Why you wanna tell her about feelings already especially when you have neither built rapport, bonding nor sexual tension. You are on the wrong path. Give her space and read this thread first....it wont take you more than 3 days if you are determined. Thank Harddon later.

mttcheeew.. dem ladies haven't got the drills, they making life hard for average guys ... What if they get their hands on the drills.. guys wud be frustated nd eventually turn Gay... Harddon no try am o