All that money and food for a girl you'll probably NEVER marry
OP, where is thy sense?

SorftWerk:
hmmm...i see, I'm back with her though...

oh! That is nice to know.congratulations.

boomssey:
oh! That is nice to know.congratulations.

oshe

chai that babe is some how wicked oo even ordinary kiss she as not given you despite updating her account regularly,op trust me she was probably calling you because in this hard time she cant afford to loose your financial aid and free food.

SorftWerk:
oshe

Hi, I just felt that I should contribute, I dont really know your future plans concerning the relationship.

But I think the lady is trying to test and see the kind of man you are ...

I advise both of you should take out time and talk, she is not sure of you yet, and u need to reassure her of who you are.

If you guys don't talk, she will continue these tricks on you and may end up loosing you, she may be a good lady, but note that some ladies are wired some other way.

Also try not to make moves on her again, no kissing... just be nice and be yourself, let her know your real personality, you can play with her mind psychologically if you know how to, but never make a move.

Trust me, one day, when you visit her, she will be the one tearing your clothes and raping you,

CC: boomssey: what do you think?

TolaTosin:
Hi, I just felt that I should contribute, I dont really know your future plans concerning the relationship.

But I think the lady is trying to test and see the kind of man you are ...

I advise both of you should take out time and talk, she is not sure of you yet, and u need to reassure her of who you are.

If you guys don't talk, she will continue these tricks on you and may end up loosing you, she may be a good lady, but note that some ladies are wired some other way.

Also try not to make moves on her again, no kissing... just be nice and be yourself, let her know your real personality, you can play with her mind psychologically if you know how to, but never make a move.

Trust me, one day, when you visit her, she will be the one tearing your clothes and raping you,

CC: boomssey: what do you think?

might be right can't say.btw you getting through to you on emails is getting difficult that is why have not replied your last message.

boomssey:
might be right can't say.btw you getting through to you on emails is getting difficult that is why have not replied your last message.

Ok dear am sorry, I understand, same here, refreshing inbox again and again, and browsing with PC. Till I get a new phone ...

TolaTosin:
Ok dear am sorry, I understand, same here, refreshing inbox again and again, and browsing with PC. Till I get a new phone ...

it's very difficult

SorftWerk:
I'm really sad right now... I never saw it coming, been dating this girl for 2 months now, she always calls me to check how I'm doing, most times that i don't have airtime on my phone, she calls to know how I'm doing and if I've eaten and all that, we never had issues for once except the day I tried to kiss her and she slapped me then apologized... I took it as nothing and we continued in peace, I see to her every needs, surprise her sometimes with some bank alerts, try my best to see her almost everyday.. We were just totally fine until something happened!

This morning, I was still working out at home when I heard my phone vibrating, I checked it and it was her call, I was breathing heavily from my workout and I can't control my breath, so I picked up. As soon as she heard me panting, she changed her voice and asked me what I was doing, I told her I was having my morning exercises,she still doubted me and asked me to tell her the truth, I repeated my self, then tried to change the topic by asking her if she misses me, she replied with "I don't know" hmmm, I asked her if she's eaten, she said no and I asked why, then she said she has no food to eat, then I said I was gonna prepare some food for her to be brought in the afternoon, "this was another surprise " she was shocked hearing it will be brought in the afternoon instead of morning, still she said OK like she was okay with it.

I quickly got the kitchen and prepared jollof rice for her as fast as I could and dressed it in a cooler before hitting the road, when I got to her place, she was surprised to see me, she asked me to come in, gave me an hug and took the food, (note that, I sent her 50k last week oo) so while she was eating, I noticed her hair wasn't done and it's scattered, I querried her about it and she said she has no money, didn't want to sound bossy by asking her about the last week's 50k, then I sent her another 30k through my mobile banking application, after which she smiled and said thank you.


We continued discussing then she finished with the food, I tried kissing her but she moved her face, telling me there's something she wants to discuss with me, my heart started racing fast, but I composed my self and asked her to speak, then she told me she'll be going to osun state next week, and she won't be coming back soon, and moreover that she's fed up of me... I couldn't wait to hear the rest I quickly took my food flask and bounced from her room heart broken, feeling used and denied, she kept calling me back saying she was joking but i'm gone already, I rode back home and saw her missed calls on my phone, she even hid numbers to call me, what is she calling me for? Why is this life so complicated when it comes to relationships?

What do I do from here? Every girl seem to only wanna use me and leave, why!

I'm really sorry u had to go through that.... maybe she was just after ur money......what's meant for u would never pass u by...nd pls don't get depressed because of this

mhizesther:




I'm really sorry u had to go through that.... maybe she was just after ur money......what's meant for u would never pass u by...nd pls don't get depressed because of this

thanks for your honest advice dear, she's been calling and I've picked up, we back together...for now

SorftWerk:
thanks for your honest advice dear, she's been calling and I've picked up, we back together...for now

All right....wish u the best bro

Brother man, that path is not yours to walk,

If relationship is not working for you, you need to start a spiritual journey, self realization, self development, the path to Divine light and awakening,

There will come a time nothing would work for you, earlier the better,

Am not talking about religious or sort,
I mean finding who you are and your purpose on earth and which karma you are paying as well,

Muchas gracias.

TolaTosin:
Ok dear am sorry, I understand, same here, refreshing inbox again and again, and browsing with PC. Till I get a new phone ...

am even using a phone not a PC like you and if it were to be a PC it would have made sense.morning

boomssey:
am even using a phone not a PC like you and if it were to be a PC it would have made sense.morning

Good morning dear, I can relate that, An alternative would have been social apps, the phone am using at the moment cant take apps, till i get another. Well if u can get an email app, it could be easier ... #JustThinking

SorftWerk:
u ain't serious bro... Finally picked her call those, we back together... For now.

You are dumb! And you come off as insecure. All these nig*az that use money to date/woo women. When a richer guy comes, she will dump your sorry a$$. Na men like una spoil 9ja women. No wonder most of them these days ain't loyal

TolaTosin:
Good morning dear, I can relate that, An alternative would have been social apps, the phone am using at the moment cant take apps, till i get another. Well if u can get an email app, it could be easier ... #JustThinking

an email app?I had wanted to say Watsapp hmmm....ok let's see what happens but will still try getting through to you.

boomssey:
hmmmn!I like your type of guy.

b/4 nko.
like say if dem put honey for goat mouth e go throway am.

Sorftwerk, one piece of advice.

Please, next time don't show up on some girl's doorstep with a meal flask in hand like one pūssy-wipped papa Ajasco.

Feel free, play the maga all you want, its your paper but don't be a mangina.

TolaTosin:
Good morning dear, I can relate that, An alternative would have been social apps, the phone am using at the moment cant take apps, till i get another. Well if u can get an email app, it could be easier ... #JustThinking

I sent you a mail to your box did you get it?

If u like send her the world, when her fish brain say mk she waka, na movt broda
Them nor dey fit satisfy gurls, na wetin go hurt dem dem like
Them nor dey put woman for head, afterall e nor reach am how many minutes 2 gv anoda guy toto to f**k
#toto nor get metre e nor dey read how many persons don f**k am

Seun plss ban anyone who believes this shit

Modragon:
If u like send her the world, when her fish brain say mk she waka, na movt broda
Them nor dey fit satisfy gurls, na wetin go hurt dem dem like
Them nor dey put woman for head, afterall e nor reach am how many minutes 2 gv anoda guy toto to f**k
#toto nor get metre e nor dey read how many persons don f**k am

Chaiii

SorftWerk:
yes I do.. I believe every responsible bachelor should know how to.

i see a husband in you, Op. ;-)

Alphamale2017:
Seun plss ban anyone who believes this shit

Boo from the other thread,Y nau?

DaisyII:
Boo from the other thread,Y nau?

the story looks like a script from one of those nollywood movies. Haba , it looks so fake

Fake story. Which naija guy is foolish like that ?

A GUY THAT WIRES MONEY TO A GIRL WEEKLY WITHOUT GETTING AS LITTLE AS A KISS THAT ONE NA GUY

We the "ASSOCIATION OF NIGERIAN GUYMEN "have disowned him ...My Afonja brothers from the south-WASTE can have him...

na their way be that.

torqque7:


No mind the mumu..and he is asking why girls treat his lame ass like that..smh some people never learn,just imagine him sending her money weekly when she thinks his mouth stinks and I'm sure this dude has siblings and parents that are broke but he ignores them..pvssy Negros everywhere.

Babes go like this guy sha
80k U no see pant? If him see the nunu him go sell him mama be that

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Alphamale2017:
the story looks like a script from one of those nollywood movies. Haba , it looks so fake

but you know nairalanders and lies be like buhari and recession.Inseparable!

ToriBlue:
Within a space on one week, you sent 80k to a woman, edakun easy with the lies.

it is very much possible, but the thing be say that kinda gal is nt d kind to even send 5k, my advice to guys is not to spend money on girls u re nt seeing a future wit. A gal dt slaps u cos of kiss even wen u don dey try for am is nt d gal, no mata how gal wicked reach and wan keep virginity, 80k go soften am

Altho i dont want to believe dis story, but it is very possible, but what would mk dis story real is that a true guy man will not ignore all dose calls, knowing fully well how much he has invested. Me personally, anything wen mk me spend reach 5k for woman, go be my motivating factor not to give up, i go try nd try until i get somtin to compensate. E don do me b4, babe wen i dey control for 3 yrs straight, any time she waka con see me(we smooched bt no penetration), na 2-3k tfare wen house no far, hair nko nd oda expenses, na e d babe dey yan me say she like me as frnd, d tin provoke me ehn i tell am say "babe no try am oo, if i no fvck u or anybody wen be ur equivalent, u go hear am ooo" she con say she go gimme her frnd, i do her frnd finish con tell am say i neva dey satisfied, last last i fvck am sha. I really liked that gal, but i hate it wen gals try to take advantage of a guy trying to be nice