A sharp bobo living abroad would pass this questions with flying colours.
Na when you arrive you go sabi say, the cooking pot is really and truly hot....... . .

if u can use d energy to ask him those questions in praying to God,you'll either receive approval or disapproval to marry he m or not

SirJeffry:
Everything I'm about to write down here is based on a family feud currently going on between a young man and his new wife here.

This young man has no steady job, lives a flamboyant life and post all kind of pictures on social media where he met the wife. I'm pained because the wife in question happens to be my town's girl and after hearing her side of the story, I was mad at her. Well, this is not the topic for today but let me give our sisters some advice here.
These are questions to ask before someone brings you here to suffer unnecessarily;

WHAT DO YOU DO ABROAD? Let him tell you where he works and possibly show you his work ID. If he tells you he's a biz man, watch him closely, that could be a red flag. I know there are genuine bizmen but most unserious and unemployable guys abroad pose as bizmen.

WHAT'S YOUR DEBT PROFILE? Generally in America, if you don't have some debts especially credit cards, you don't qualify for certain things but that doesn't mean one should live on credit.

IS THAT YOUR FLASHY CAR OWNED OR FINANCED? This may lead to you driving today and trekking tomorrow. Without a steady job, car financing coys may take back their car anytime there's a default in payment.

DO YOU LIVE ALONE? This is self explanatory.

WHAT'S YOUR TOTAL SAVINGS AMOUNT? I know this sounds odd but try to get an extimate by calculating the amount he saves monthly. Ask him jokingly if he saves for his future family. He should be more family oriented than friends oriented. "Too much sending my guys money at home" is a no no.

Lastly, if he doesn't personally come down for your wedding except with a very cogent reason maybe life threatening, he probably isn't a legal resident ie no green card or citizenship. In this case, you may likely stay longer in Nigeria until he gets his papers before you join him. Refuse such union because sometimes, he may be tangled with a lady here already for papers, a union he may not easily come out from.

If ladies do this simple research before accepting marriage proposals from obodo oyibo husbands, rate of domestic violence among Nigerians in the States will be at its minimum.

Yankee marriage is favourable to ladies who their husbands already made the ground running. They come to consolidate on their husband's achievements and prosper it more.

OP, your topic started with "abroad", your story ended with "yankee". Where have you been to to concoct this nonsense, "abroad" or "yankee"? I asked because you sounded like you have no idea what "abroad" means and probably is hell bent on making some goro-chewing cats on nairaland feel like they're prettier and smarter than Beyonce, Alicia Keys, Taylor Swift etc,

Abeg, deal with ur problem wherever ure located.

If you are having problems with talking to girls wherever you are in any foreign country, you don't need TB Joshua to help you solve your problems. Stop discouraging people by saying all the crap you said above. Their problem is different from yours. Who knows if you're dealing with erectile disfunction? There you go trying to tell females to come to people like you and avoid others. Who wants to come to something that can't stand up as needed?

Na you suppose control ur idea, na ur idea dey control u. Abeg go si down.

SirJeffry:
Oga, debt profile, length of credit alongside good debt servicing habit make up good credit. Those that have CREDITKARMA account will understand.
As for your last paragragh, I've lived in Los Angeles long before you even applied for your Malaysian visa in Lagos but I'm also a villager like you called me 'cos I travel home every year.

So, if you are not owing, you are not creditworthy abroad?

Alphyno:
All these abroad guys be living a fake life, like our Naija Celebrities....


Na so one abroad guy lied to my X that he's living large over there, and that he came back to Naija to build a multi-Billion naira Estate. Not knowing that the guy was been deported. And now he ends up working in one Bet9ja branch in my area, as a common cleaner seff...

Ladies Beware, Fake Guys Now EveryWhere

I'm sure your X fall for it.


women are fish minded organism

kimbra:
This thread is too good to be derailed. Be warned!.

lwkmd. See as dem dey tell u sweet words u dey blush.. Lmao..

SirJeffry:
Madam, we are saying the same thing. I have total of 5 credit cards with limit of approximately $100k. My monthly utilization hasn't been up to $3k except if I buy airline tickets which I balance at the end of every cycle.

When I wanted to buy a home, I had a credit limit of only about $15k which impacted a little negatively on my mortgage approval.

All I am saying is how much limit does a man have? If he has utilized up to 50% of what he has, then there's a problem.

That's true and that was the same thing I was trying to get across as well. Enjoy

Alphyno:
All these abroad guys be living a fake life, like our Naija Celebrities....


Na so one abroad guy lied to my X that he's living large over there, and that he came back to Naija to build a multi-Billion naira Estate. Not knowing that the guy was been deported. And now he ends up working in one Bet9ja branch in my area, as a common cleaner seff...

Ladies Beware, Fake Guys Now EveryWhere

But she open leg + her bra for ritual initiation, before alarm blow?

Burger01:
It's not a must you get debt profile in US. I like paying for my wants and needs 'cash and carry'. I don't even bother about credits because as far I can think, that's financial bondage... Well, mortgage, yeah.

Or better still, get a pre paid credit card.....

Tell a bad woman your savings amount, you will have yourself to blame later.

dingbang:
lwkmd. See as dem dey tell u sweet words u dey blush.. Lmao..

You no know say na my husband be that?.

ogaibe1:
Big lie, if they cant live with their husbands who is taking care of them. Whose house are they living in, you just want to put salt and pepper into this thread

I can't believe you just asked those questions.
Abeg which school you attend? You no know say he fit rent apartment for her and dey send her money?
JEEEZ!

MsNas:

You're almost right except for the debt part. You don't have to have debt or service them to build up a superb credit profile. I run my bills through my credit cards then pay it off by the due date. I let a small amount report to the credit bureau though and then pay it off before incurring interest charges. That way, I don't have CC debt but I have some utilization reporting every month. Max of 15%.

hi.. Are you married?

kimbra:
You no know say na my husband be that?.

abeg no make em burst laff for midnight abeg

Burger01:
It's not a must you get debt profile in US. I like paying for my wants and needs 'cash and carry'. I don't even bother about credits because as far I can think, that's financial bondage.

Trust me, as an Anambra man, I use to think this way until I needed to move up to a certain level. Some transactions in the US are not done with cash or debit card even conmon LAX AIRPORT car rental, go make enquiries. They only accept credit card. Have good credit limit but dont use much, it helps to make you.

1bkaye:
If he's Nigerian ask him if he's married

And you expect him to say the truth...

InyinyaAgbaOku:


So, if you are not owing, you are not creditworthy abroad?

That's a complete lie. Only idiots in America think that way.

Even the current president of the US - Donald Trump filed for bankruptcy 4 times. His explanation- " I'm smarter than most people".
Yet Africans fill a huge portion of the spot he meant - the gullible ones! They know themselves, they can only brag of one thing alone - a US passport. Afterwards, everyone else in Nigeria is expected to listen to them whenever they talk - that how most of them think in their shallow minds.

There go a Nigerian lecturing people here on how the credit system in the US works when it's apparent he hasn't gotten the full picture yet.

SirJeffry:
Everything I'm about to write down here is based on a family feud currently going on between a young man and his new wife here.

This young man has no steady job, lives a flamboyant life and post all kind of pictures on social media where he met the wife. I'm pained because the wife in question happens to be my town's girl and after hearing her side of the story, I was mad at her. Well, this is not the topic for today but let me give our sisters some advice here.
These are questions to ask before someone brings you here to suffer unnecessarily;

WHAT DO YOU DO ABROAD? Let him tell you where he works and possibly show you his work ID. If he tells you he's a biz man, watch him closely, that could be a red flag. I know there are genuine bizmen but most unserious and unemployable guys abroad pose as bizmen.

WHAT'S YOUR DEBT PROFILE? Generally in America, if you don't have some debts especially credit cards, you don't qualify for certain things but that doesn't mean one should live on credit.

IS THAT YOUR FLASHY CAR OWNED OR FINANCED? This may lead to you driving today and trekking tomorrow. Without a steady job, car financing coys may take back their car anytime there's a default in payment.

DO YOU LIVE ALONE? This is self explanatory.

WHAT'S YOUR TOTAL SAVINGS AMOUNT? I know this sounds odd but try to get an extimate by calculating the amount he saves monthly. Ask him jokingly if he saves for his future family. He should be more family oriented than friends oriented. "Too much sending my guys money at home" is a no no.

Lastly, if he doesn't personally come down for your wedding except with a very cogent reason maybe life threatening, he probably isn't a legal resident ie no green card or citizenship. In this case, you may likely stay longer in Nigeria until he gets his papers before you join him. Refuse such union because sometimes, he may be tangled with a lady here already for papers, a union he may not easily come out from.

If ladies do this simple research before accepting marriage proposals from obodo oyibo husbands, rate of domestic violence among Nigerians in the States will be at its minimum.

Yankee marriage is favourable to ladies who their husbands already made the ground running. They come to consolidate on their husband's achievements and prosper it more.

Asking is easy...getting honest answers is difficult.

It is funny that people who don't understand the credit system in US talk about it.

The foundation of US is built on debt.

Anyone who lives in US knows that there is only one question that answers all these queries.

Add naija sense to American society, you will be ok.
Live like Americans and you will be neck-deep in debt like most of them.

/

so without living abroad hardworking guys making it sucessfully in nigeria are failures abi ?

SirJeffry:
Oga, debt profile, length of credit alongside good debt servicing habit make up good credit. Those that have CREDITKARMA account will understand.
As for your last paragragh, I've lived in Los Angeles long before you even applied for your Malaysian visa in Lagos but I'm also a villager like you called me 'cos I travel home every year.

Wehdon sir.... Anambra man to the core

Nothing for obodo oyibo wife?

Ladies should be generally careful of who they settle with be it obodo oyibo husband or Naija husband.
As for me Nothing beats really getting to be friends with who you finally settle with.

dingbang:
abeg no make em burst laff for midnight abeg

Stay there make pant dey wear you.

You are very right

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There is a difference in living abroad and visiting abroad. Many niggas living on bus cards and food stamps think they can deceive the exposed. Its not rosy as you think. Read more and expand your horizon.

1bkaye:
If he's Nigerian ask him if he's married

So men cannot have side chick again.

Are u single?

princechurchill:
Lamentations​ of a home base

And buyer's remorse.

InvertedHammer:


Asking is easy...getting honest answers is difficult.

It is funny that people who don't understand the credit system in US talk about it.

The foundation of US is built on debt.

Anyone who lives in US knows that there is only one question that answers all these queries.

Add naija sense to American society, you will be ok.
Live like Americans and you will be neck-deep in debt like most of them.

/

US dey owe China over $1 trillion. That's one of the most indebted country on earth. I wish Naija fit get up to $100 billion debt talk more of $1 trillion.

I wish Nigeria has the kinda credit system they've got over there, we would have seen billionaires springing all over Naija. Imagine having access to over $100k credit on your credit card. Just imagine all the investments you would be able to make. Really incredible mehn!

kimbra:
Stay there make pant dey wear you.

na u wey pant dey wear na... Abi pant no dey wear u ni