Blissquare:
From my point as a woman married twice. We are all diff. It is easy to say u wld not let marriage define u. Sometimes, we settle for less not because we want to but we have to. No matter how u front it, it is always ackward to not be married at a certain age. U may not mind but ur mom's happiness may be at stake. U worked hard all ur life, had good grades and got a good job. Why wld u be lonely? Even bad people are getting married. When u are happy alone, people wld still believe u cry urself to sleep. If u opt for kids without marriage, it is also ackward. It is frustrating both ways so I picked d one that makes me comfortable. Good men are few and that is a reality! My current husband is with me for material gains but at least I hav it to share with him. People are envying me that I got a 2nd chance and he adores me as long as d money is there.

crackhaus:
Going by your contribution here:

I daresay you are the person involved, and if that's the case, I don't know why you're asking us if it's okay.

I'm still trying to wrap my head about what she meant by that post. I don't think it's healthy.

jashar:




I'm still trying to wrap my head about what she meant by that post. I don't think it's healthy.

Blissquare:
I witnessed something that seemed wrong to me but the person involved didn't mind. Is it normal for in-laws to ask for money from their wife?