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Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Nobody: 8:43am On Apr 13, 2017 |
FriendNG: None. I understand general yoruba I guess *the ones in movies or I guess its the one they speak on the streets, I dunno... not dialects *. I will add Arabic to it in sha Allah. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Demmzy15(m): 9:57am On Apr 13, 2017 |
AbdelKabir:Not just wives, most ladies. I've experienced this with my mum! 1 Like |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Nobody: 10:00am On Apr 13, 2017 |
Demmzy15: Lol..... |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by busar(m): 7:34pm On Apr 13, 2017 |
I have been wanting to ask this, is it proper for a brother to ask the sister (who looks righteous and chaste) he intends to marry if she's a virgin. I could remember someone asked Ustadh Paiko about this and he replied "she should slap the brother's face" in a lighter mood and everybody laughed. Or what do you think/feel about this? Is it necessary to ask or not to? |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Nobody: 7:44pm On Apr 13, 2017 |
busar: With all your beards and masha Allaah look.....if a sister ask you, have you ever had sexual relation with any woman in the past....how will you feel? |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by busar(m): 7:50pm On Apr 13, 2017 |
^^ You haven't answered the question |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Nobody: 7:53pm On Apr 13, 2017 |
You asked if its proper.....and I'm trying to put you in such shoes.....so would it be proper for you to be asked? With all the signs of piety that is apparent... Would you like such question... *modified* I hope you didn't read this wrongly; With all your beards and masha Allaah look |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Nobody: 8:07pm On Apr 13, 2017 |
I have thought about the same question.... What if someone specifically wants to marry a virgin? *goes for both gender, not just the sisters* Back to the question- I don't know if its necessary. |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Nobody: 8:29pm On Apr 13, 2017 |
nec·es·sar·y adjective required to be done, achieved, or present; needed; essential. determined, existing, or happening by natural laws or predestination; inevitable. Its not necessary... |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Nobody: 8:33pm On Apr 13, 2017 |
Even if someone specifically wants to marry a virgin? |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by busar(m): 8:35pm On Apr 13, 2017 |
AbdelKabir:I only need your opinion(s) about it,not the usual ways Nigerians use question to answer question..... |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by busar(m): 8:44pm On Apr 13, 2017 |
snapscore:I don't think there's anything wrong in that. One of my friends actually wsnted a tear rubber (virgin) as a wife during his quest but as Allah has decreed, he couldn't get. He got something better I think. Tear rubber is of the slang we use among our brothers in my vicinity for virgins.... |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Nobody: 8:45pm On Apr 13, 2017 |
busar: Its not a Nigerian. Thing..... I'm using shaykh Al-Albaani's methodology.....anyway.... You've already gotten it up there.... |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Nobody: 8:48pm On Apr 13, 2017 |
If the person doesn't mind marrying one who isnt a vigin then he shouldn't ask. I think one should avoid asking questions that if the answer was revealed would upset him/her. But if the person specifically wants a virgin then.... i dunno |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Nobody: 8:50pm On Apr 13, 2017 |
I find the term a bit derogatory and rude.... but thats just me. |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by busar(m): 9:26pm On Apr 13, 2017 |
A sister once told her husband (some time after their nikkah) that she felt really bad when he asked her if she was a virgin at the time he wanted to marry her..... |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by tbaba1234: 9:50pm On Apr 13, 2017 |
snapscore: No question is rude when it comes to marriage. It is better to know all about your partner before marriage not after. 2 Likes |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Nobody: 10:15pm On Apr 13, 2017 |
tbaba1234: The term "tear rubber" is what that poster finds derogatory.... |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by tbaba1234: 10:17pm On Apr 13, 2017 |
AbdelKabir: Understandable then 3 Likes |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Demmzy15(m): 9:35am On Apr 14, 2017 |
busar:Tear rubber!!! Chaiiiii, that vicinity is very funny o, I might come around some time! |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by busar(m): 9:36am On Apr 14, 2017 |
AbdelKabir:seriously! I didn't mean she would be asked in that term. Just the slang we use among ourselves..... |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by busar(m): 10:06am On Apr 14, 2017 |
Demmzy15:don't come empty handed sha |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Demmzy15(m): 10:19am On Apr 14, 2017 |
busar:I won't, but remember I'll be your guest! |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Empiree: 5:26pm On Apr 17, 2017 |
CHOOSE YOUR SPOUSE WISELY! Relationship is one thing that can mess up your life. Be prayerful and sensitive when falling in LOVE. Love can turn a bright future to a miserable life. its painful to know the person you love is actually in love with somebody else. its more painful to fall in love with a person who has another thing in mind. . Every relationship is a game of RISK. No one can say which one is really going to WORK. Some relationship mistakes can cause a life regret . Search for a good heart not a beautiful face. Beautiful things are not always good, but good things are always beautiful.. . Age and pressure is never a reason to date. If you are single and not committed, 'sometimes' means God is putting you on reserve for the one you deserved . Be inspired friends 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Tefs(f): 10:14am On Apr 22, 2017 |
Well, probably haven't found someone to complement me deen wise. |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Nobody: 7:17pm On Apr 22, 2017 |
Tefs: And what could it be you looking for "deen wise"? |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Nobody: 8:20pm On Apr 22, 2017 |
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Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Tefs(f): 9:24pm On Apr 22, 2017 |
AbdelKabir: what do u think it could be? someone whose deen is firm. who believes and follow the laws of Allah(swt). someone I can always rely on when I'm at my lowest peak nd vice versa. someone who puts Allah's first in dealing with me. who would help nd encourage me to strive harder. someone who is ready to help raise my kids with me islamically with the help of Allah. A friend, a companion, a brother, a teacher, a lover and husband who understands that Allah comes first. 1 Like |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Nobody: 9:30pm On Apr 22, 2017 |
Tefs: Someone whose methodology conforms with? |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Tefs(f): 9:40pm On Apr 22, 2017 |
AbdelKabir: with the sunnah nd al-Qur'an of course. if that's what ur question implies |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Nobody: 9:49pm On Apr 22, 2017 |
Tefs: Yea.....Qur'an and sunnah following the methodology of the sahabas in understanding the texts right? |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Tefs(f): 9:53pm On Apr 22, 2017 |
AbdelKabir: definitely. |
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