lovelygurl:
You are beginning to like her


Op she sounds like a psycho!


Do you have any idea how clingy a person like her can get


Wait or is the gifts you like

GloriaNinja:
IF YOU LIKE HER, THEN ACCEPT HER, SINCE IT'S NOW A TREND FOR YOUNG NIGERIAN MEN TO MARRY OLD OYINBO. LADIES FOR VISA, WHY ARE YOU STILL DULLING IN THIS DULL COUNTRY? YOU BETTER ACT FAST BEFORE YOU LOSE THE WOMAN. BUT I NO GO BELIEVE A NIGERIAN MAN LIKE YOU DID NOT ACCEPT THE MONEY SHE WANTED TO SEND TO YOU VIA WESTERN UNION, ARE YOU FOR REAL?

Hoddor:


No dear, it's not about being clingy, she told me that she was in Nigeria for more that two months, and that she likes Nigerian men, because one of her friends in Austria is married to a Nigerian. That why she wants me is that I'm different from the ones she has met, as she doesn't hide the fact that she likes Nigerian men, so all of them wants to take advantage of it, by trying to force her to marry them, and they keep telling her of all the things they'd do to her on bed... I was plain with her, and told her I had a girlfriend but not married.... She said she knows nigeria is in recession, so everyone wants out, but not me, and that was a sign that I'm for her.

Hoddor:


No dear, it's not about being clingy, she told me that she was in Nigeria for more that two months, and that she likes Nigerian men, because one of her friends in Austria is married to a Nigerian. That why she wants me is that I'm different from the ones she has met, as she doesn't hide the fact that she likes Nigerian men, so all of them wants to take advantage of it, by trying to force her to marry them, and they keep telling her of all the things they'd do to her on bed... I was plain with her, and told her I had a girlfriend but not married.... She said she knows nigeria is in recession, so everyone wants out, but not me, and that was a sign that I'm for her.

Headlesschicken:
Nigga wat r u waiting for,she is d miracle,which u have been asking God for..,n make sure u phuck her silly once u get dia,remember yuh representing yuh entire community..

Hoddor:
Good day my people of NL, please I need help right now, as I can't think straight.
A woman sent me a friend request on Facebook last month, I accepted, she is a 52 years old Austrian Surgeon, with grown kids. At first, she started by seeking my advice about a guy she met in Nigeria, when she came to perform surgery on a politician who was not allowed to travel out, due to some pending case he has with Nigerian Government...
I gave the best advice I could, and then made it know to her, that if she is a scammer, that she will not get a kobo from me, this made her laugh long and hard, then she demanded to call me on Facebook messenger, which I accepted, it was more than two hours video chat... After that, she asked if I had a girlfriend, which I said yes....... Well, to cut the whole story short, she doesn't allow me rest now, always sending me voice notes and videos, I deliberately didn't want to pick her call last week, and she sent me a video of her crying because of it, I had to tell her I was in a bus, that was why I didn't pick, and she didn't even waste time in asking for my details, to send me some cash through western union for a car, I refuse, and she asked for my account number, for her to call some people she knows in Nigeria to pay in money for me, which I also turned down. I think it was my refusal to collect these gifts that has made her so invested. The latest, is that she is asking for my ring size for an engagement ring for me, she called me yesterday, when she was at the ring shop and asked that I show the jeweler my left ring finger for a possible measurement, she also when to Nigerian embassy for a visa, only to be told that we have a holiday, that she should come back by Tuesday...
Now, the problem is that, I'm beginning to like this woman, but I know my family will not allow it, she promised to see me through a dream career that will cost nothing less than $70,000 even to the point of asking for her to forward the money to me, so that I can marry her...

Please advise me, because I'm not thinking straight right now, please. Thanks.

lovelygurl:


Oh well. Are you older than her? (Just curious, I don't think age matters ) and do you really love her? If you guys start dating what happens afterwards? Are you the 1 going to Austria or is she the one moving to Nigeria (which is going to be difficult for her even if she doesn't know yet. It's always difficult for old people to move from a place to another due to the changing of environment BUT this is from Austria to Nigeria which means more changes). There are so many questions you have to ask yourself before you make a decision and also think about the decision you make. Does it make sense

How can you call yourself lovelygurl and not leave any evidence of your loveliness in your profile pic? As for the OP, all I can see for his future is that yet another weddding between an old white woman and a young Nigerian man is in the loading. I hope he knows the way to the Ikeja Directory

Fmartin:
marrying her is nt gud. ask her fr a relationship nt marriage. she has hit menopause, marrying her means u ar nt gona hv kids or go into polygamy.

Hoddor:


I am for real dear, Nigeria is messed up, but that doesn't give me the reason to act like a sell out, again, I have to think of my family, what if I collect all the money and they refuse to give their blessing, how will I then pay back?

Hoddor:


No dear, it's not about being clingy, she told me that she was in Nigeria for more that two months, and that she likes Nigerian men, because one of her friends in Austria is married to a Nigerian. That why she wants me is that I'm different from the ones she has met, as she doesn't hide the fact that she likes Nigerian men, so all of them wants to take advantage of it, by trying to force her to marry them, and they keep telling her of all the things they'd do to her on bed... I was plain with her, and told her I had a girlfriend but not married.... She said she knows nigeria is in recession, so everyone wants out, but not me, and that was a sign that I'm for her.