Jagabanmonerry:
Bros, I concurred with you, am vr sure we can possibly do that in our place. From ur moniker, I know u are from Okland.....

MISSCONGENIALITY:
I would like to have just the two immediate families and not more that 10friends of the couple during my time. Don't have time for crowd. I would prefer it to be simple if my future spouse approves it.

HARDDON:


He is very right. It is only dream that u shoot very high so that even if u dont hit it, you wud be very close. As for money n expenses n budget, we usually plan llow n leave room for exigencies.

Dont wait to learn d hard way gee

DavidEsq:

Wow! Bro, u have a really good family. Mine is made up of demons. I mean, real life demons. Especially my immediate family. Burned the house down, with everyone in it, several times, in my head

.

Sleekyshuga:

Abia State

Stevengerd:
Hmm! I Own U A Can Of Malt

MaziOmenuko:


Wifey and I are both from Abia. After sorting out everything in the list, my father in law said to me, "did you see me collect any bride price? I didn't because I want you to use it and take care of my daughter. Anyday you lay your hands on her, I will come for you".

I looked at him like...dude relax, the items in the list are more expensive than any bride price you would have asked for...

Thank goodness I didn't say it out shaa.

Hahahahaha.. Well, like I said, it still depends on the family but then, I know outsiders pay more than the insiders..

Mazi is married ? Congratulations. I use to follow your stories way back.. You made Literature section fun..

Mypeople2:
Bro, carry go. Ask her out....now that it is hot

nnamdibig:
I budgeted 800k for my wedding but ended up spending 1.2
It's very difficult to spend exactly what you budgeted.
If you want to spend 500k start planning with 200-300k if you want to spend 1M, start planning with 700k.
My opinion thou

MicroBox:
April 22 remains a nightmare until when it's over..
My gal is not co-operating with me at all,keep inviting family and friends both offline and online it's like she don't understand that there is marriage after wedding.
She's busy choosing this and that while I m having difficult time sleeping and eating even when the food is served.

BabaCommander:

I week married and you are publicly bad mouthing your wife already?
Only God knows what you are doing to her in private
The thunder that will fire you is doing a press up at Sambisa forest.
Ibu onye iberibe

Bigsteveg:
Only God knows why Nigerians love parties especially wedding so much. Personally, it's less than 50k. Just a 20 guest wedding.

MaziOmenuko:



Dude, are you okk?





Wifey and I are both from Abia. After sorting out everything in the list, my father in law said to me, "did you see me collect any bride price? I didn't because I want you to use it and take care of my daughter. Anyday you lay your hands on her, I will come for you".

I looked at him like...dude relax, the items in the list are more expensive than any bride price you would have asked for...

Thank goodness I didn't say it out shaa.

DavidEsq:

Wow! Bro, u have a really good family. Mine is made up of demons. I mean, real life demons. Especially my immediate family. Burned the house down, with everyone in it, several times, in my head.

Sleekyshuga:

Hahahahaha.. Well, like I said, it still depends on the family but then, I know outsiders pay more than the insiders..

Mazi is married ? Congratulations. I use to follow your stories way back.. You made Literature section fun..

bigtimemugu:
My weeding is on Tuesday 18th April, my budget was 500k ,bt right now i hav spent 700k nd its nt yet tuesday.

blovesther:
Though I'm not a man, I wouldn't want my husband to spend more than 500k for just 200 people
I don't want to go hungry and start counting ceiling after my wedding

Eddygourdo:
talk true. What tribe are you. Seems this is a sign.

nnamdibig:
I budgeted 800k for my wedding but ended up spending 1.2
It's very difficult to spend exactly what you budgeted.
If you want to spend 500k start planning with 200-300k if you want to spend 1M, start planning with 700k.
My opinion thou

MicroBox:
April 22 remains a nightmare until when it's over..
My gal is not co-operating with me at all,keep inviting family and friends both offline and online it's like she don't understand that there is marriage after wedding.
She's busy choosing this and that while I m having difficult time sleeping and eating even when the food is served.

blovesther:
Though I'm not a man, I wouldn't want my husband to spend more than 500k for just 200 people
I don't want to go hungry and start counting ceiling after my wedding

Sleekydee:
What me i dont understand now is, is the girl not supposed to contribute et all for the wedding? whr does she and her family come in??

happyheart:
No matter how much my man has to spend, we won't spend more than 400-500k for trad,court and white plus introduction sef.
We go to court on a wed with 2 witnesses each.He wears a suit he already has and I wear a payporte dress..lol
Friday morning, we sit in my bro's living room( dad no dey) As early as 7am. Bride price is paid and we take pics.. and then its straight to church. Wedding will be from 10-11am. No aso ebi but I will inform everyone of my colours for the day. Coffee brown and gold. No one will owe gbese cos of my wedding.
Thank God my church is fine.
The lawn will be decorated and my 30 guests( maybe less cos its a week day. People will be at work..lol)
I have just 2 siblings and 2 friends. My siblings spouses will bring the no to 6 , the other 11 will be from my extended family. My man will bring 15 people too=30.. Lol.
I have planned it down to the last item.
I will rent my wedding gown for 20 k,my man will rent his tux for 20k as well.
Food, drinks and cake "plus including "small chops= 100k.
The church is already decorated.. Lol..a few balloons here and there will brighten the place.
I love music so a good DJ for 30k. My cousin uncle sam is funny, he will be MC.
My aunty has lived in lagos long enough to know the job of the local mc for the trad. She cant tell me that all the aso ebi she has bought for years in Lagos na waste. She suppose dey observe.
My Nephew and nice will be ring bearer and little bride. No bridal train. My man's friend will be best man and one of my friends will be chief bridesmaid. Finish.
Finally it will be boldly printed on the iv, no gifts only cash. Lord knows we need the cash.. Lol
What else... Honeymoon suite.. All na inside the money.
We don't need cars, church near house.
Souvenirs go be bible...I will get 30 Bibles for 15k at bible house at eko.
Lol..i am damn serious o.
Let me goan call my man to come and read my plan. Lol

bettercreature:
Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
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I don't have a cent at the moment,May God bless me before then

Ginaz:
Lol, I'm not a fan of huge stuff and I think the man that gonna marry me gonna be lucky.

I ain't on facebook,
Ain't on instagram
Ain't on I.G
Only on whatsapp I do things my way not cos people expect me to.

On my birthday my guy asked me what I wanted, I said honey cos I wanted to use it for facial treatment , he bought the honey for me and total cost was 3k. That was my first birthday gift since our 6years of dating I no get time and he kuku know though sometimes e dey pepper me say I no dey trouble am. I'm pretty independent, though I don't have money like that sha

I don't makeup( though I love lipsticks like crazy!), I don't go out. Expenses are just for body lotions and clothes and I'm good to go .

My marriage day chaiii, people will only see pictures. I only want my engagement party to be big, gonna invite our friends and family, then he pays my bride price which is 120 in my town.

After then I would loved to organize a small party at home. Maybe give them money to cook food or buy a full goat and share among themselves so dem no go worry me for night.

I have got no worries at all, the person to marry me got no worries too. Na who white and traditional marriage help? My mom's friend that had a whole town for her marriage, she's is in her father's house now instead of her husband's.

Life no get duplicate, do your own style and make people do their own style.

idu1:
150k




Anything more than that I am not doing.

blovesther:
Though I'm not a man, I wouldn't want my husband to spend more than 500k for just 200 people
I don't want to go hungry and start counting ceiling after my wedding

Bigsteveg:
Only God knows why Nigerians love parties especially wedding so much. Personally, it's less than 50k. Just a 20 guest wedding.