Japhet04:
ok, so harddon after u have been rejected what do you later say to the girl that would actually make her sober and can sometimes send her running back and probably realize that you had good intentions.

I need that kind of valedictory speech

HARDDON:





I know wit u, system wud go into looping! Lol

Ehmmm, u havent told us about the bank B now.
Waz d story?

Cant imagine im engaging in cheap gossips al thanks to ur crazy suspense

Eleniyan15:



WhatsApp chat

babsir:
Harddon sir and the guys I hail thee, good job!

My own ish is, had issues with my gf in December when she uploaded one dude pics as her cover on Fb I told her to take it off but she refused so i git angry and stopped talking talking to her. I ignored her since then till early this month, tho she tried contacting me which I didn't respond to but now we got talking and I have agreed to meet with her on Sunday but I dunno what to do, if I should take her to a restaurant or we should just hang around and just talk or what do you guys think?

HARDDON:


What r u doing with a lady that has no single respect for u?
Imagine the double barrel slap! Using another guy's pix as fb Cova n refusing to take it down ! so u were offiacially the assistant/auxiliary bf.

N now that d guy has had enuf browsing n moved on witH his life , she crawling back? n u thinking of actually seeing her n letting her back ? so u do left ova? Aiit.

This gurl really got ur balls , u r even confused on where to take her to.. so all tru ur dating, u didnt see her naked huh?


My Advise?
None.

Until i know exactly what u want with her. Why you hooking up wit her @ all after all these time.

babsir:



From my findings I figured the guy isn't actually based in Nigeria. Am not trying to justify her behavior but while we were dating I wasn't really the present guy so maybe the propted the whole pics thing and yes I have seen her unclad but she wouldn't allow me drill her cause she virgin and I don't wantu force her so twont be like rape or something.

Why I was hooking up with her?
Well also had a gf am actually dating but she travelled home so I felt kinda bored and I decided to just hook up with her and hopefully get the cherry

solomix10:
nd u believe she is virgin? I cant believe any lady tellin me dat until i check it out myself.. I dnt trust any gal no matter hw holy she place to be... Even that guy she uploaded on fb might av banged her

babsir:



From my findings I figured the guy isn't actually based in Nigeria. Am not trying to justify her behavior but while we were dating I wasn't really the present guy so maybe the propted the whole pics thing and yes I have seen her unclad but she wouldn't allow me drill her cause she virgin and I don't wantu force her so twont be like rape or something.

Why I was hooking up with her?
Well also had a gf am actually dating but she travelled home so I felt kinda bored and I decided to just hook up with her and hopefully get the cherry

HARDDON:



Virgin n u were physically n emotionally not available( this is why she didnt let u dv her, cos she knew she cant trust u to be there. Whoever wants to lose her vv to a rolling stone?) Now i see where the strong head erupted from.
To her u werent even dating.

So let me get this: u just wano hook up n tidy up the unfinished biz huh? Disvirgin her n just move on wit your life or u wano start doing two timing?
Kindly Enlighten me

babsir:


Bro no doubt I like the girl so whatever happens tomorrow would determine if Id be able to date her or not. Right now I really am confused sef hence the need for your experience and advise

ZYZZA:
Hay boss HARDDON, I know after your long dating drills ,you would be expecting testimonies. Pardon me pls , I still need little help. After reading your drills I wanted to but My knowledge to test.. my phone got missing so my cousin gave me one of his phone. I got a girls number from the phone added her on my what's app. I used the picture on her DP to start a conversation, I teased the picture in a funny way, she replied with really and after few minutes she changed it. And she replied with "longest time ", note we never had any chat B4. I replied with ya its been a while ". And she went of line. Boss I really don't want to blow this off. Need you help boss

HARDDON:


SENSE PILL 99:

The FEAR of not blowing it, is actually the beginning of blowing it! Its a privilege we let them share our spot, space n sprite.


R u sure that the number registered on that whatsapp is urs?
N for her to change her pix after u fun jabbed , she values d opinion of that person that has d whsp n0
U shld also note that she is very sensitive to words

LordZero:
Desperation/Being desperate.
The fact that we desire some sort of relationship with the opposite sex will bring out desperate behaviors in most of us. We all know desperation kills attraction.
The ff are some of the behaviors that shows desperation;
1. Always giving the woman attention/talking to to her at every given opportunity (Do you know what "having a life of your own" means?).
2. Always in agreement with her even if she's bullsh1tting him (Nobody wants a weakling that's nit man enought to hold is ground/defend his stance on matters).
3. Always calling and texting her (calling immediately after collection of number/always eager to answer or return calls/always apologizing for missing her call and some other 4ked up shii in that line will only make you look like a lifeless and jobless mofo).
4. Always available (Like you don't have nothing going on for you in life except her.. "hey can you come over" and you are there within 5 minutes just to help her fix her light. Wehdone sir).

Imagine a woman did all of the above for you, what happens?
You'll lose all the attraction you have for her because you mind will be telling you she's desperate cos nobody wants her and why should you settle with an unwanted element

There is no shortcut to get rid of these sign but the main thing to do to reduce desperation to the barest minimum is to adopt the "Am the price mentality and the Abundance mentality(There are a lot of women out there).
When you see yourself as the price, you will stop putting women on pedestal. When you start treating a girl as the best thing in your world, she will believe it and b4 you know it she'll dump your a55 because you've given her enough reasons to believe she's better and deserves better than you..
Let her know you have an amazing life without her and she's lucky to be part of it..
You don't have to go out of your way to impress her, she's to prove that she's worth your time..

Spend time on yourself/your hobbies, your dreams and goals in life(everything is not about poosie).
When you believe and act like you're the price, you don't apologize for missing calls because you are busy with your life, you are not always available for meaningless suffs and you don't see women as the sole purpose of your life. You don't call all the time or fret over missed opportunities to talk cos there are others you are attending to.

HARDDON:


U ooze needy airs so dense it saturates dis varsed space. N bliv me, like a lion, ladies can easily pick d scent of a konji induced date from a thousand miles out n even if they wanted it b4 , wud shrink into their shells theteafter..

It baffles me that u hv ever seen her naked n yet u r still this tensed.
Left with me, i'd say you should cancel this date until u can hv a grip of ur balls. If not, u stand to drive a wedge btw both of u.


SENSE PIL 98:
Not matter how konjiFul we are, we never let Jrod Rule our Ride.


If u still want to go on wit dis date, take her to bonding places , places u wudnt hv to talk too much n are fun engaging n relaxing.

Pool: Go swimming ( this is d only place i can recommend based on d foregone)

U can do take away n go watch movies @ ur place. Whatever u do, ur acute sense of judgement shld lead u.

DONT EVER TRY TO FORCE HER INTO LUV MAKING.
U hv learnt enuf here to know how to attract a lil lady

LordZero:
Desperation/Being desperate.
The fact that we desire some sort of relationship with the opposite sex will bring out desperate behaviors in most of us. We all know desperation kills attraction.
The ff are some of the behaviors that shows desperation;
1. Always giving the woman attention/talking to to her at every given opportunity (Do you know what "having a life of your own" means?).
2. Always in agreement with her even if she's bullsh1tting him (Nobody wants a weakling that's nit man enought to hold is ground/defend his stance on matters).
3. Always calling and texting her (calling immediately after collection of number/always eager to answer or return calls/always apologizing for missing her call and some other 4ked up shii in that line will only make you look like a lifeless and jobless mofo).
4. Always available (Like you don't have nothing going on for you in life except her.. "hey can you come over" and you are there within 5 minutes just to help her fix her light. Wehdone sir).

Imagine a woman did all of the above for you, what happens?
You'll lose all the attraction you have for her because you mind will be telling you she's desperate cos nobody wants her and why should you settle with an unwanted element

There is no shortcut to get rid of these sign but the main thing to do to reduce desperation to the barest minimum is to adopt the "Am the price mentality and the Abundance mentality(There are a lot of women out there).
When you see yourself as the price, you will stop putting women on pedestal. When you start treating a girl as the best thing in your world, she will believe it and b4 you know it she'll dump your a55 because you've given her enough reasons to believe she's better and deserves better than you..
Let her know you have an amazing life without her and she's lucky to be part of it..
You don't have to go out of your way to impress her, she's to prove that she's worth your time..

Spend time on yourself/your hobbies, your dreams and goals in life(everything is not about poosie).
When you believe and act like you're the price, you don't apologize for missing calls because you are busy with your life, you are not always available for meaningless suffs and you don't see women as the sole purpose of your life. You don't call all the time or fret over missed opportunities to talk cos there are others you are attending to.

HARDDON:
for a lil sniff of a lady's pants they can sell their soul!

You see them on fb thanking ladies for accepting the friends's request. they like every post of their crush and no matter how ugly, fat and fuggly she is, they wud wax lyrical how beautiful she is.

the try not to annoy them ladies, say the seemingly right words and hope they get noticed. they are the type that go flooding gurl's inbox with messages thinking one day she wud respond
they go spending on gurls thinking that they can BUY them with gifts and gets frustrated when they have been friendzoned

you can overcome all these and turn the tables arround if this write up describe you. kindly note that behaving like this, turns ladies off emotional and wud only hang arround to milk you.

Next post, i would share with you the way out of this weak lane

HARDDON:


SENSE PILL 99:

The FEAR of not blowing it, is actually the beginning of blowing it! Its a privilege we let them share our spot, space n sprite.


R u sure that the number registered on that whatsapp is urs?
N for her to change her pix after u fun jabbed , she values d opinion of that person that has d whsp n0
U shld also note that she is very sensitive to words

LordZero:
Adasun, Ustec, Peterpen and kalatium if four of una ask simple questions again. We go organize ban for una ..

How's everyone doing sha, been a while. .

to be honest we don old for dis class to da ask some question.


Bt na ustec own worse,da dude no get liver to spil his fault.


I guess he is afraid of harddon's wipe

Adasun:





to be honest we don old for dis class to da ask some question.


Bt na ustec own worse,da dude no get liver to spil his fault.


I guess he is afraid of harddon's wipe

peterpen:


Thanks alot

Buh i gat an issue right now...
A friend of mine (not that close tho) used my phone to text his cousin on whatsapp...I am interested in his cousin...buh recently she's been uploading pics abt failed relationships and status abt heart break, they show she is heart broken. I want to make a move buh don't know the way to go abt it...I need your help on this one

solomix10:
lols ustec see as them dey talk to u

peterpen:
Harddon, pls help a brother out here

Ustec:

Japhet04:
Naija boiy I never knew u are one of us

I caught you today

Lool...this is actually my first time of viewing this thread.

I'm still reading through tho...maybe I'll pick a thing or two to add to my knowledge of womanology.

It's a wonderful thread!