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Re: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by Nobody: 1:01pm On Apr 15, 2017 |
KennyID17: Lol trust me Kenny .. na power couple be dat Retire early enjoy your marriage and children .. its the ones who look at hubby for everything that end up Then one marykay side bae go just the woman hubby A womans worth ! |
Re: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by Safiaa(f): 1:01pm On Apr 15, 2017 |
Yeah. Make your own money, of course. But that doesnt take away from the fact that women like to be taken care of. We can provide, but you'll need someone who can compliment that significantly. Trust me, it will cause problems in the run. Bumbae1: 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by Nobody: 1:03pm On Apr 15, 2017 |
KennyID17: |
Re: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by photoshoot(m): 1:04pm On Apr 15, 2017 |
Amarabae: Bless you! |
Re: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by KennyID17(m): 1:05pm On Apr 15, 2017 |
Bumbae1: Op has been lamenting that if u suffer with a man, when he eventually strikes gold, u get relegated, well this is true in some cases, tht is y u should b wise in ya dealings with us men. Open ya eyes and make sure ur hustling with a man that knows ya worth. 4 Likes |
Re: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by Nobody: 1:07pm On Apr 15, 2017 |
Safiaa:Yes of course its give and take When your man knows you work hard ! And also look after the home . Children . He will do more and more without you asking . Its like a friend of mine her hubby always talks to her anyhow .. like a piece of sh!t some of my friends said just leave the guy , blah blah blah . But the guy is a good guy really as he wasnt like that before .. in this country tax fit ki person so he was taking it out on her You know the moment this lady got a job at a local parttime job at a chemist just weekends to help out .. things has changed now its me going to her to complain about guys but the guy didnt want to tell her due to his pride and ego .. as we speak they in spain on holiday .. 3 Likes |
Re: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by KennyID17(m): 1:10pm On Apr 15, 2017 |
Bumbae1: Btw, u have become like Diamönd of late. |
Re: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by Nobody: 1:11pm On Apr 15, 2017 |
KennyID17:Na wrk o even me don tire seff Mynd44 come n bless this thread |
Re: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by KennyID17(m): 1:11pm On Apr 15, 2017 |
Bumbae1: That could be us, but........ |
Re: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by Nobody: 1:13pm On Apr 15, 2017 |
KennyID17:U wey lazy |
Re: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by KennyID17(m): 1:15pm On Apr 15, 2017 |
Bumbae1: I undastand, just dey whine u nii |
Re: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by Nobody: 1:16pm On Apr 15, 2017 |
KennyID17:Kontinue deyplay with tin wey go u |
Re: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by KennyID17(m): 1:16pm On Apr 15, 2017 |
Bumbae1: Being reserved and reclusive don't translate to being lazy my dear! |
Re: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by KennyID17(m): 1:17pm On Apr 15, 2017 |
Bumbae1: No cover ya mouth, talk am make I hia Who's chicken hearted now? 1 Like |
Re: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by Nobody: 1:17pm On Apr 15, 2017 |
KennyID17:See big big english |
Re: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by KennyID17(m): 1:18pm On Apr 15, 2017 |
Bumbae1: U know say i no speak that lingua reach u na |
Re: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by Alphamale2017(m): 1:21pm On Apr 15, 2017 |
Bumbae1: coming from a female . ? my sister the God of Abraham will send u a truckload of blessings this night . via angel Gabriel courier services . soo spot on 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by naijaboiy: 1:25pm On Apr 15, 2017 |
[/quote][quote author=Safiaa post=55585676]I know most men will be triggered by the title of this thread, without reading what i have to say. I really couldn't care less lol. This thread is directed to the ladies !!! And then I ask myself. Why do you have to be with a man at all? Why can't you hustle hard and make your own money and remain comfortable the way you want so you can attract even richer men? A wealthy woman will always have broke men running away from her while she attracts her kind. Leave the guys alone. Whether they have vision or not, it's not your life it's theirs. On a general level no human wants to be poor so everybody knows they have to make that money. Please it's not a do or die affair. Everybody should focus on their own hustle. While your man is working to achieve his vision what are you doing for yourself? Waiting for him to make it so you can tag yourself the "wife that waited". I laugh in hispanic! I say to you girls, it's not about being with the man. If you both are working hard to better yourselves this lame mentality won't even come to your head. If you're also full with vision you won't bother about your man and you can easily move ahead if you discover that he's not serious but by then you've built your own life. But what do we have today? Girls who would rather jump from man to man citing examples as "he's visionless" while they themselves have not carried out any serious plans for their own lives. A girl who is waiting on her man should also be doing something because even if you waited and he finally makes it you'd still be a liability to him. Don't just sit down and wait for your man. Wait and hustle for yourself too. Who says a girl can't have visions? Pffft! 35 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by Nobody: 1:31pm On Apr 15, 2017 |
Bumbae1:so true no be dis digital age a woman go dey aspire to be house wife .as the man dey drop for table na so the woman go dey drop for table.anyway no harm in a babe dreaming to get married to a a multimillionaire or a popular caleb..cos one guy wey i know for my area is still having daydreams of getting married to kim kardeshian ....even when i told him kim k is already married im dream never never falter .dreaming aint bad . |
Re: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by Nobody: 1:36pm On Apr 15, 2017 |
naijaboiy: 15 Likes
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Re: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by KennyID17(m): 1:41pm On Apr 15, 2017 |
naijaboiy: Op!!! U di hia word? 13 Likes
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Re: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by Safiaa(f): 1:44pm On Apr 15, 2017 |
I'm really finding it hard to understand what you've just said. As a women, especially in your prime you will attract men. It's inevitable. and unless you're a robot, you will entertain some of these men. My thread is trying to tell girls to be smart whilst entertaining these men. Nobody is disputing the fact that women should hustle hard. But realistically , if you're in a relationship with someone, or you're looking to settle down with a person, you cant say 'its their life not mine' You're building a life with someone together and what they choose to do will affect your life significantly. You don't build your life/ hustle to only please yourself. Yes, be successful on your own, but ensure that you be with a man who will compliment that, not a man who will bring you down. naijaboiy: 4 Likes |
Re: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by naijaboiy: 1:45pm On Apr 15, 2017 |
Re: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by Nobody: 1:50pm On Apr 15, 2017 |
Bumbae1:kennyID17 say make i give u popcorn 4 Likes
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Re: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by alexis007(m): 1:55pm On Apr 15, 2017 |
I hate it when a guy argues with a lady...especially over something not too important. It's a WASTE of VALUABLE TIME and ENERGY...something I have noticed that most ladies relish. As for me and my type....We'd keep balling...for our selves' sakes. And if we finally hit it big and a gold-digger from the side think she has seen a cow ready for milking, no problem. We at the same time would view her as a potential prey for money rituals. Her head must enter calabash. My time for nonsense is up. Lemme go back to my hustle. God in his infinite mercy would bless it for me. 27 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by KennyID17(m): 1:55pm On Apr 15, 2017 |
lefulefu: Wey d soda, weytin dey do u na? U wan vex awa VIP guest? |
Re: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by Nobody: 1:57pm On Apr 15, 2017 |
Safiaa: @ Op , I want to say something but I want to just continue lurking . I want to ask you a couple of questions some of them will offend you ... but I just want to understand where you are coming from with this topic . Please do not take offence . Here goes ? 1) be truthful and be honest how old are you ? 2) what do you do for a living ? 3) what goals have you set for yourself and how many of these goals have you accomplished ? 4) what has to physically happen for you to call yourself successful ? 5) I'm assuming that there is a fellow who is (broke) that dated you or someone you know ...is this true ? 6) answer questions 1-4 for him ? 7) finally right as this moment what is your net worth ? Do not take offence I just want to learn more about you . 17 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by naijaboiy: 1:58pm On Apr 15, 2017 |
Safiaa:As a woman you'll attract men but it depends on the kind/type/class of woman you are. If you're a wealthy woman you'll hardly find a poor man who wants to go into a serious relationship come to you except you approach him yourself. Your thread is not telling these girls to be smart while entertaining these men. Your thread is advising your fellow girls to use their feminine touch to attract the rich and already made men and avoid the broke ones. That's what your thread is saying and even a dumb reader will deduce that fact. Yes women should hustle hard and make their money because there is a very high probability for them to attract another rich guy. If you want to marry a rich guy then also try to be financially capable yourself and not using your beauty to entertain the men. Your post is filled with sentiments and wrong advise to your fellow girls and I'll only laugh and shake my head in pity at the dumb ones who wouldn't be able to be subjective about what you wrote. Now you're saying you're encouraging fellow girls to hustle. That's right. But you also said you women want to be treated like queens. Does a queen work? Does a queen fight battles or hustle? No! The moment you girls want to begin to feel like queens when you've not done anything that warrants a man to treat you like that then you're getting it all wrong. You're a lady and you know your girls better than we guys. Ask yourself these questions... How many girls in your circle are really looking forward to hustle hard to make it without thinking of using a man to get there? How many ladies TRULY want to work hard at all? How many girls want to go through the real stress of working hard and coming out successful? We both know the answer to my questions. So tell your girls to fulfill their lives first before coming to look for any guy at all. We are also Getting wiser. The lazy ones we side chick them, the hard working ones we wife them. 50 Likes 16 Shares |
Re: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by canadianprince: 2:01pm On Apr 15, 2017 |
And what will happen when the money is no longer there? 4 Likes |
Re: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by Acetyl(m): 2:01pm On Apr 15, 2017 |
Alesandese:I think I like this your point. |
Re: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by SINZ: 2:04pm On Apr 15, 2017 |
alexis007: With this kind of mindset? |
Re: Say No To Broke Men, Ladies Be Smart! by Nobody: 2:05pm On Apr 15, 2017 |
Op u rock full time, over valid point 201%, don't make any one have to make you over explain yourself, ur points are clear enough. hello Ladies have self purpose, nd value too but don't settle for less or confuse yourself just to fit in someone opinion. guyz will stay or leave, adore or abuse u regardless, mingle right, grow in all aspect, develop u, keep learning, love money and make money, and still remain humble. 2 Likes |
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