Do you know that once you are a guy above 30 and you are still very single without a fiancee or you are a lady above 25 and still not engaged then there is a higher probability that you may remain that way for another couple of years?

I know you may not agree to this but the truth is that the higher you get in age from that point on the more careful you want to be and that is where the real problem sets in...."TRYING TO BE CAREFUL"

The honest truth is that at this stage,you need to free your mind and think less of making any mistake and in fact you need to rid your mind of any panic and be yourself....in other words,don't search because those who search usually make mistakes but those who just live their lives usually find that special person when and where they least expect.

So if you are a guy above 30 or a lady above 25 and single,let's discuss about business,romance and life in general.

Though this is not a dating or meet up thread but you are very free to make friends with anyone...

Remember that it is very difficult to come across this set of single guys and ladies out there as they are usually very busy,focused and mostly indoor so let's make good use of this platform to interact.

I know this is a faceless forum and i know some people below this age group will try to derail the thread but i will appreciate if such group will maintain a status quo and allow only single guys of 30 yrs and above as well as single ladies of 25yrs and above.

*Mods please note that this is not a dating or meet up thread hence should not be moved to dating and meet up zone.

Thanks

Bumbae1

Lefulefu

Bettercreature, after this year I go tie you with woman

Tonyebarcanista, I go fast for you soon

Come here!

You no be better pikin at all.. You sha want make everybody know say dem both don expire for marriage abi.. I smh for you.

Oyind17:
Bumbae1

Lefulefu

Come here!

Oyind17:
Bumbae1

Lefulefu

Come here!

SMH!!!

paybak:
You no be better pikin at all.. You sha want make everybody know say dem both don expire for marriage abi.. I smh for you.

They are single

BiafranBushBoy:


SMH!!!

mtcheeeew

huh

Oyind17:
You for shake your peniss

Mtcheeww!!

Make I take sit as Chairman!

Bring it on, I am ready..... I must to love o!

BiafranBushBoy:


Mtcheeww!!

At the age of 30 the guy want to be very sure before taking that bold step. As a friend would say.. he's very careful not to marry the wrong lady at this point in life.

As for ladies above 25, you need to be extra careful.

i'm 52, no fiancee, no wahala...life continues.

Oyind17:
Shake your peniss for yourself

Gerrout!!

BiafranBushBoy:


Gerrout!!

I didn't mention you, the last thing I expect from you is insult. Pls take your perfect olodolistic self off my mention. You can talk trash when I mention your nick. Now hop off my mention.

FTBOY:
i'm 52, no fiancee, no wahala...life continues.

You are kidding right?

Oyind17:
I didn't mention you, the last thing I expect from you is insult. Pls take your perfect olodolistic self off my mention. You can talk trash when I mention your nick. Now hop off my mention.

Lol... Nice one!!

BiafranBushBoy:


Lol... Nice one!!

I hate it when a supposed friend troll me. I am really angry with you

I'm 25 and this post is scaring me

Toks2008:


You are kidding right?

Is that a strange thing? I know a 40 year old virgin lady.

First time I will agree with Toks2008.
Guys from 30 above are ridiculously too careful , they play some dumvb mind games to be sure the lady coming into their life is not after their possessions, as if the lady herself no get her own possessions..smhhh.... and they end up loosing good women to younger guys or old wealthy men who are carefree and give benefit of doubt

Nomfanelo99:
I'm 25 and this post is scaring me

Nor fear. It's just that things are different now. Everybody dey shine eyes.

Marriage is not a do or die affair. I've seen too many divorces to buttress this.

Africans prioritise religion, marriage and traditions above personal development, science and technology, education and entrepreneurship that's why we're at the back of the queue globally.

Being single or married is just a small dot in the ocean of life.

Nomfanelo99:
I'm 25 and this post is scaring me

Don't be scared .the truth is that mist responsible and purposeful ladies of 25 and above are usually not cut out for regberegbe life...they are either engaged,busy with their life or mostly indoors which makes it even more difficult for them to mix up with great minds so this thread is basically for interaction among fairly mature minds so be free.

Toks2008:


You are kidding right?

i dey find some people mouth.

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Toks2008:
Do you know that once you are a guy above 30 and you are still very single without a fiancee or you are a lady above 25 and still not engaged then there is a higher probability that you may remain that way for another couple of years?

I know you may not agree to this but the truth is that the higher you get in age from that point on the more careful you want to be and that is where the real problem sets in...."TRYING TO BE CAREFUL"

The honest truth is that at this stage,you need to free your mind and think less of making any mistake and in fact you need to rid your mind of any panic and be yourself....in other words,don't search because those who search usually make mistakes but those who just live their lives usually find that special person when and where they least expect.

So if you are a guy above 30 or a lady above 25 and single as in not engaged,let's discuss about business,romance and life in general.

Though this is not a dating or meet up thread but you are very free to make friends with anyone...

Remember that it is very difficult to come across single guys and ladies out there as these sets are usually very busy,focused and mostly indoor so let's make good use of this platform.

I know this is a faceless forum and i know some people below this age group will try to derail the thread but i will appreciate if such group will maintain a status quo and allow only single guys of 30 and above as well as single ladies above 25.

Thanks

u make marriage seem as if its a do or die affair.a man should set his priorities right and have at least a comfortable living before getting married.whats the point of rushing into marriage if u cant cater for ur family.hmm anybody wey take una so called love relationship advice on nairaland to heart go just run F9 in his relationship.in life there is no definite rule.

alexialin:
First time I will agree with Toks2008.
Guys from 30 above are ridiculously too careful , they play some dumvb mind games to be sure the lady coming into their life is not after their possessions, as if the lady herself no get her own possessions..smhhh.... and they end up loosing good women to younger guys or old wealthy men who are carefree and give benefit of doubt

You are right on point...btw are you 25 or above?

Oyind17:
Bumbae1

Lefu.lefu

Kim.bra

Si.nz overdue for marriage

Better.creature, after this year I go tie you with woman

Tonye.barcanista, I go fast for you soon

Come here!

I'm barely even 30

Toks2008:


Don't be scared .the truth is that mist responsible and purposeful ladies of 25 and above are usually not cut out for regberegbe life...they are either engaged,busy with their life or mostly indoors which makes it even more difficult for them to mix up with great minds so this thread is basically for interaction among fairly mature minds so be free.

Thank you

Nomfanelo99:
I'm 25 and this post is scaring me

you look sweet for take home. let's get married already and start making kids. i'm only 52...it's never too late.

The truth is in this era of 'slay queens' and 'instagram celebs', it is very hard to find a 'single', 'beautiful', 'intelligent', 'mature' lady that is worth settling down with, 'almost' every fine girl now has the 'runs girl' mentality and even our musicians like Yemi Alade are not helping matters, what type of song is "If you love me you go buy me ferrari, if you love me, you go pay me salary"! Gone are the days when ladies used to pick their partners based on 'prospects', now its based on 'wallet', the annoying part is that even the 'working class' ladies too have also developed this 'runs girl' mentality that my man must reward me financially, as if relationship is now 'employment'

lefulefu:




Do you know that once you are a guy above 30 and you are still very single without a fiancee or you are a lady above 25 and still not engaged then there is a higher probability that you may remain that way for another couple of years?

I know you may not agree to this but the truth is that the higher you get in age from that point on the more careful you want to be and that is where the real problem sets in...."TRYING TO BE CAREFUL"

The honest truth is that at this stage,you need to free your mind and think less of making any mistake and in fact you need to rid your mind of any panic and be yourself....in other words,don't search because those who search usually make mistakes but those who just live their lives usually find that special person when and where they least expect.

So if you are a guy above 30 or a lady above 25 and single as in not engaged,let's discuss about business,romance and life in general.

Though this is not a dating or meet up thread but you are very free to make friends with anyone...

Remember that it is very difficult to come across single guys and ladies out there as these sets are usually very busy,focused and mostly indoor so let's make good use of this platform.

I know this is a faceless forum and i know some people below this age group will try to derail the thread but i will appreciate if such group will maintain a status quo and allow only single guys of 30 and above as well as single ladies above 25.

Thanks




u make marriage seem as if its a do or die affair.a man should set his priorities right and have at least a comfortable living before getting married.whats the point of rushing into marriage if u cant cater for ur family.hmm anybody wey take una so called love relationship advice on nairaland to heart go just run F9 in his relationship.in life there is no definite rule.

Just as you concluded..NO DEFINITE RULES....and an advice is subject to acceptance or rejection.

Furthermore. ..no one says marriage is a do or die but except you just want to burn with passion or start jumping from one person to another then marriage vital.

gbegemaster:
Nor fear. It's just that things are different now. Everybody dey shine eyes.

Marriage is not a do or die affair. I've seen too many divorces to buttress this.

people always say when uve found the one you will know .