1)Chase after a man who has made it clear to her that he's not interested in her— A lady with self respect knows how to take a hint.if a man isn't interested in her, she won't waste her time chasing after him shamelessly unlike most girls today who throw themselves at men who clearly do not want them.


2)Cook, Clean, Wash and do other chores for a mere boyfriend— it's okay to assist your boyfriend once in a while but a lady with self respect does not turn herself into a househelp for a boy who's not ready to settle down.


3)Have Sex repeatedly with a guy who's not ready to settle down—It's not wise to keep having sex with a guy who hasn't shown any interest in settling down with you. Most girls have ruined their lives by having multiple abortions for a guy who ended up dumping them. They cry their eyes out and lay curses on the boy but the truth is that if they respected themselves enough to close their legs until marriage, they wouldn't be in such a mess.


4)Live with a man who hasn't paid her bride-price— what most ladies do not know is that when a lady lives with a man she's not married to, his neighbours may take note of it and start speaking badly of her and most importantly it makes the man unwilling to settle down with her because most men do not see the need to legally marry a woman who's already living with them and behaving like a wife, that's why most girls remain a girlfriend/fiancee/baby mama for many years. Never allow a man to get used to you before marriage, let him anticipate/look forward to spending his life with you.


5)Fight dirty over a man in public — Have you heard the way people speak about ladies who fight over men in public? That's the most degrading thing a woman could ever do. A lady who fights over a man in public has no respect for herself and people around her will most likely lose respect for her when they find out about it. Never ever fight over a man, learn to act maturely by letting go and moving on. If another girl 'steals' your man, let her be. Do not fight with her, Karma will definitely fight for you.


I know that fuckboys won't agree with me

7. Never collect money or demand for what there father cannot buy for them from their bf

like me true talk

Number 2, u mean she go dey collect my money dey buy her own cloths bt no fit wash my own, Tunda faya anybody wey go fit do me dt

number 3, pls op can u tell me d meaning of boyfriend or girlfriend?
I be rev fada, i go dey look her, as in lebechi nu

go sidon for gutter op

That's the reason you still single...

#Trash!!

#Crappy post!!

P.S. I didn't read tho!!

When all these men vs women threads go end na?

Like I always say
its a free world and everyone got a life to lives

All what you said above are your own views
and that one does any of those doesn't degrade her human status

zyzxx:
7. Never collect money or damand for what there father cannot buy for them from their bf

Correct!

OP ,you better think twice before it is too late, orelse you will become the oldest single

BiafranBushBoy:
That's the reason you still single...

#Trash!!

#Crappy post!!

P.S. I didn't read tho!!

Lol..who told you I'm single?

you're entitled to your opinion tho.. I don't argue with people on social media.

MhizGracie:
Correct!

1 nd 2 na rubish. its not a bad tin if a woman woo a man.

Fmartin:
1 nd 2 na rubish. its not a bad tin if a woman woo a man.

if he's not interested, you don't have to keep forcing yourself on him. Aren't guys always complaining that most of us ladies can't take a hint?

Baawaa:
OP ,you better think twice before it is too late, orelse you will become the oldest single

Fuckboys can't handle ladies who do not cheapen themselves before marriage but guess what? real men can!

MhizGracie:
Lol..who told you I'm single?

you're entitled to your opinion tho.. I don't argue with people on social media.

Lol... I just guessed your single state...

Nice post BTW... I just read but won't modify my original comment

#peace!

Baawaa:
OP ,you better think twice before it is too late, orelse you will become the oldest single

So you're insinuating that if I don't throw myself at men and turn myself into a housemaid and a sex machine for a common boyfriend, I wouldn't get married? smh

I do number 2 and I still have my self respect and self worth. Its all about love.

Ladies with self respect don't apply as much makeups as you do.

Tallesty1:
Ladies with self respect don't apply as much makeups as you do.

Lol..invalid point. Makeup has nothing to do with self-respect and BTW I don't apply too much makeup, I go to classes everyday without makeup.

then men should not spend money on mere girlfriends,if u don't agree then ur biased

MhizGracie:
Lol..invalid point

Same way everything you wrote up there are invalid in my own opinion

Michellla:
8. Never chase after guys.
If hes dumb enough to leave,be smart enough to let him go.

What if you did the wrong that made him leave?

Totally agree with you....

Tallesty1:
Same way everything you wrote up there are invalid in my own opinion

it's invalid because you do not respect women..you see them as maids and sex machines. Would you be happy if you found out that your daughter or younger sister was having sex repeatedly with a guy who's not serious about her and doing chores for him every blessed day like a maid?

.

Your point is invalid. Typical.

Tallesty1:
Ladies with self espect don't apply as much makeups as you do.

MhizGracie:
it's invalid because you do not respect women..you see them as maids and sex machines. Would you be happy if you found out that your daughter or younger sister was having sex repeatedly with a guy who's not serious about her and doing chores for him every blessed day like a maid?

Emotional blackmail works on people with weak hearts not me.

Try again next time, I am not in the mood for too much talk tonight

ToriBlue:
I do number 2 and I still have my self respect and self worth. Its all about love.

op... Now this is a lady with smart lady.

If yu dnt do these, dyu think he'll wanna marry a lady that hardly or doesnt cook,wash or do chores for him? Will yu tell him 'dude, until you put a ring on it before I do these'??

And btw... Sex from ladies aint favours. We both enjoy it so?

Safiaa:
Your point is invalid. Typical.

Invalid yet irresistible

ToriBlue:
I do number 2 and I still have my self respect and self worth. Its all about love.

actually, I said it's okay to do it once in a while, but do not turn yourself into a maid. I wrote this post based on what I've been told by my male friends and my older brothers, if a guy isn't serious about you, becoming his slave won't change anything. If you read the post carefully, you'll see that I was talking about guys who aren't serious.