I just need your opinions on this situation. Who did you think is more happy?

Me

Neither

Single got no worries #single_jesus_comes

CUM4WHAT:
Single got no worries #single_jesus_comes

Bro, did u want to become a Reverend father?

CUM4WHAT:
Single got no worries #single_jesus_comes

Bro, did u want to become a Reverend father?

Lordshola:


Bro, did u want to become a Reverend father?

Bro, did u want to become a Reverend father?

am homo and bound to stay alone.... Not Gaaay ooooo

you will know until the two say whats bothering their heart. situation wil tell

single

follyshade:
single

Its not all that rosy being single, at times u just need a shoulder to lean on, someone to share part of ur burden with.

No one can really say cos each status comes with its own burden.

Single...Why
Well, being single gives you enough time, space,privilege...etcetera to be able to build a solid foundation for your future. Although being in a relationship also comes with it's privileges but most times it can be emotionally tasking and as such could give way to terrible consequences.

megareal:
No one can really say cos each status comes with its own burden.

Yes, base on personal opinion.

ShinyJay22:
Single...Why
Well, being single gives you enough time, space,privilege...etcetera to be able to build a solid foundation for your future. Although being in a relationship also comes with it's privileges but most times it can be emotionally tasking and as such could give way to terrible consequences.

Hmmm, but with our culture, do u think one can remain single forever?

Lordshola:



Hmmm, but with our culture, do u think one can remain single forever?

I know it isn't easy to remain single in Nigeria & Africa for life but life is a choice. I believe it's best one tries to utilise the days of singleness properly using that to build character,strong spiritual foundation,independence...(etcetera) in a relationship. So that one's relationship will be built on a solid foundation.

ShinyJay22:
I know it isn't easy to remain single in Nigeria & Africa for life but life is a choice. I believe it's best one tries to utilise the days of singleness properly using that to build character,strong spiritual foundation,independence...(etcetera) in a relationship. So that one's relationship will be built on a solid foundation.

sure, its a nice idea. You do read books? If yes, suggest some.

Lordshola:


sure, its a nice idea. You do read books? If yes, suggest some.

Of course I love reading books...But if it has to do with relationship issues I'd count myself a novice in that aspect of literature. Although I have one book on my must read list though.It's called "The dignity of manhood by Bro.Gbinle Akani".Only came across it once and I loved it.

Lordshola:



Its not all that rosy being single, at times u just need a shoulder to lean on, someone to share part of ur burden with.

bt der will be a frnd or ur mum to lean o

follyshade:
bt der will be a frnd or ur mum to lean o

yes, bt most time, u need someone outside that circle.

ShinyJay22:
Of course I love reading books...But if it has to do with relationship issues I'd count myself a novice in that aspect of literature. Although I have one book on my must read list though.It's called "The dignity of manhood by Bro.Gbinle Akani".Only came across it once and I loved it.

I will also try to add it to my list.

Lordshola:

yes, bt most time, u need someone outside that circle.

as for me i dnt think so

Lordshola:


I will also try to add it to my list.

You had better bro...From the summary,it is a book geared towards teaching men how to be responsible in all aspects of their endeavours as they navigate through life as successful men both financially and spiritually,wonderful husband's & worthy father's.

If you've been both single and in a relationship before you'd realize that there were times you were single and very happy and there were times in your relationship you were sad. Maybe even hurt by the person you love.

Being happy is an outcome of circumstances and personal choices. A relationship can be a source of happiness and a source of sorrow depending on who your partner is.

It is difficult to make generalizations.

follyshade:
as for me i dnt think so

Why?

ShinyJay22:
You had better bro...From the summary,it is a book geared towards teaching men how to be responsible in all aspects of their endeavours as they navigate through life as successful men both financially and spiritually,wonderful husband's & worthy father's.

sure, I will.

Ragnorak:
If you've been both single and in a relationship before you'd realize that there were times you were single and very happy and there were times in your relationship you were sad. Maybe even hurt by the person you love.

Being happy is an outcome of circumstances and personal choices. A relationship can be a source of happiness and a source of sorrow depending on who your partner is.

It is difficult to make generalizations.

Yea, when u are two, challenges tend to set in. Moreover, in this part of the world u just av to brace up for d challenges cus culture won't allow u to stay single for long.

Lordshola:


Why?

cus as for me i relate to my mum well den my frnds even my siblings tho we do fight sometime

Lordshola:


Yea, when u are two, challenges tend to set in. Moreover, in this part of the world u just av to brace up for d challenges cus culture won't allow u to stay single for long.

Funny enough it's the pressure that makes many relationships unhappy. Those who are pressured into relationships are most likely going to be happier if they were single.

follyshade:

cus as for me i relate to my mum well den my frnds even my siblings tho we do fight sometime

then very soon, u will feel the urge to tell someone outside that circle. I think it comes naturally.

Lordshola:


then very soon, u will feel the urge to tell someone outside that circle. I think it comes naturally.

i dnt think so

follyshade:
i dnt think so

Then sorry to say, u don't need to think about marriage.

Lordshola:

Then sorry to say, u don't need to think about marriage.

sha dt ur own opinion

follyshade:

sha dt ur own opinion

Its cus d way u sound, you will prefer comfort of your mum, siblings and friend more than your partners' and it might not want to work out well.