Adabite:
Love is not how male and female are sexually attractive 2 each other. That is lust. God is love and it comes of the heart. Genuine Love for an opposite sex means u are loving God in his or her life and u are ready 2 do everything 2 please Him which also include waiting till both of u get married before sex. SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE IS FORNICATION.

thanks dear

ztanleechima:
smh

The guy seem more sensible than you are... have a rethink

Lilyqueeny:


just don't support him

Ok but you know some have sex just for fun.
Isn't it better someone has it within the context of love?.

Sincere4u:
Ok but you know some have sex just for fun. Isn't it better someone has it within the context of love?.

what has come over you

Omagago:
Stupid boy

why will you say such or are you handicap or what? Or is ur gf for fashion or what?

Lilyqueeny:


baseless point

Can any woman honestly tell us why women generally go into relationship with a guy(s) or (to be fair to them) accept a relationship proposal from a men if not for material gain and would not want to reciprocate the kind gesture she receives from the man sexually?

Raypawer:
Bro, what would take you that close to an opposite sex if you are not thinking of Marriage

This is the best comment have seen in Nairaland ever.

What is the need of being intimate with a guy when you claims no se.x.
Even during courtship they should copy from Deeper life church (not being intimate during courtship)

My last ex initiated the sex matter when my intention was to be serious with her till we get to the altar, but hey as a man she brought out the animal in me. In a serious relationship, I don't bring sex to the table but if u bring it up, I will finish it...

Omagago:



I don't support sex outside marriage cos that's fornication.

He is indirectly saying that he is a fornicator.

How old are you?

Lilyqueeny:
this guy is insane

No, he is merely honest

dacruz007:
Can any woman honestly tell us why women generally go into relationship with a guy(s) or (to be fair to them) accept a relationship proposal from a men if not for material gain and would not want to reciprocate the kind gesture she receives from the man sexually?

You are minding those fish brains.
They will be collecting items as if the guy Na their papa. Personally I don't encourage my sis to collect guy gifts.

Eaglesence:


Well brother such as you need urgent help from God. Pardon me to say, you.headed for hell if your belief system is as twisted as this. If you believe God is real, then you had better take His commandments seriously. One of which is " sex outside marriage being wrong" Peace.

Keep quiet and stop twisting your own head and thinking you're quoting God here. Why did God create Eve if He could in His wisdom see that Adam needs a companion (partner in this regard) and better not stay alone? In so many Christian homes today, marriages are standing at the edge of a cliff and falls at any slight push. If you do your findings, you'll discover that majority of them are because of sexual incompatibility. Either the woman is more spiritual and whenever her husband comes to play his husband role, she's either observing quiet time or talking to God and forgetting that the man is the head of the home even as Christ is the head of the church. I don't want to delve into these areas because you may get so confused just as you've exhibited in your few balderdash here.... abeg park well jaree.... next please

Lilyqueeny:


what has come over you

Hahahahaha
My Queen nothing is wrong with me.

I know why you are disappointed but that's cos you have misunderstood me.
I am not supporting indiscriminate and reckless sexual habits or immorality.
All i am saying is that in both Godly and unGodly relationships, love and sex still go together.

steppin:

Spoken like the little girl you are. Come and repeat the same stuff when you're in a serious relationship.
Any girl who intentionally denies a guy sex in relationship and thinks he's celibate and not getting it elsewhere, should look for the part of her brain she lost. It's not possible, not for a sexually active guy.
And yes, we know your boyfriend or your brother is different. They don't engage in such.
But help me tell that to the birds.

JEEZ and soooo
We should drink sniper because the average 21st century men are dogs

menwongo:


You are minding those fish brains.
They will be collecting items as if the guy Na their papa. Personally I don't encourage my sis to collect guy gifts.

They hardly even keep to one guy, they have US in their fleet... check their phone and see what they store your call ID with then you'll cry. They won't use your full name, you'l see something like "T7 Baale st", "Boo M", "Tee Lips", e.t.c.

UIA04:




JEEZ and soooo
We should drink sniper because the average 21st century men are dogs

Maybe. The dog list includes your father and brothers too. No one is exempted.

dacruz007:
Keep quiet and stop twisting your own head and thinking you're quoting God here. Why did God create Eve if He could in His wisdom see that Adam needs a companion (partner in this regard) and better not stay alone? In so many Christian homes today, marriages are standing at the edge of a cliff and falls at any slight push. If you do your findings, you'll discover that majority of them are because of sexual incompatibility. Either the woman is more spiritual and whenever her husband comes to play his husband role, she's either observing quiet time or talking to God and forgetting that the man is the head of the home even as Christ is the head of the church. I don't want to delve into these areas because you may get so confused just as you've exhibited in your few balderdash here.... abeg park well jaree.... next please

Respekkkkkkkkkkk!

steppin:

Maybe. The dog list includes your father and brothers too. No one is exempted.

Eez paining you abi?

You better retrace your steps back to god
The world we live In is deeper than you think
There is more to sex than 15 minutes enjoyment especially when you lack know of that persons spiritual background

that is why god intended it for only married Couples ,god knows how sweet it is and that abuse is imminent


There is more to life than wasting your time money and spirit man to iNdescriminate sex

Omagago:


I don't support sex outside marriage cos that's fornication.
He is indirectly saying that he is a fornicator.

so you playing God has sentenced him to hell already

Omagago:
Stupid boy

are u the weak type? don't worry I will help u out willingly...Wey u girl or wife.
idiot u think women are television where u watch channel news.

Omagago:


I don't support sex outside marriage cos that's fornication.
He is indirectly saying that he is a fornicator.

and u are protector !!otolo them full here ooh

OmaniPadmeHum:


He definitely hasn't. If he has for other men, he would need infinity life times of wisdom to speak for me.

Coming out with a facade of "I am serious with my own opinion" does not make his opinion correct either. He feels he can demand sex. He should simply note that as strongly as he feels it is his right to ask (only because of freedom of speech and nothing else) , so it is the full right of the Women to say NO! Resoundingly. The same way we conceived and begat the freeborn so we did the slave. No one gender is superior to another.

So before people start yelling "Yes.. Tell them.. Preach preahcer"! He shouldn't let it get into his head that he has made sense or assume he is decisive with his mysogynistic opinion.

He feels if he loves a woman he will ask for sex. Well he should be informed too that some women feel if he loves them he will wait till they are married. The moment he understands that fact and respects the wishes of the women, accepting that they HAVE A CHOICE IN WHO THEY GIVE THEIR BODY TO AND WHEN, then there is no problem. The society is raising more fuckboys than reasonable men that respect the wishes of women regarding their bodies.

He should also not downplay chastity and the benefits of abstinence.

He titled his opinion as

'Stop Downplaying Sex. If I Love You, I Will Ask For Sex'

Well I re-present it to him as follows from the female folk.

'Stop Overrating Sex. If You Love Me, You Will Respect My Decision To Say NO, And Not To Give It When You Ask For Sex'

sorry for you. don't give us , we'll dump your sorry ass and go for the girl next door

dacruz007:


They hardly even keep to one guy, they have US in their fleet... check their phone and see what they store your call ID with then you'll cry. They won't use your full name, you'l see something like "T7 Baale st", "Boo M", "Tee Lips", e.t.c.

You are absolutely correct,most of them are deceptive,they are always watching telemundo,zee world,fox life,korean movies etc but they are very fast in condemning premarital sex in public.They always use the bible as reference but some of them are guilty of masturbation,cheating,deceits etc.

Atlantia:

Uncle sorry to disappoint you,your opinion doesn't count as the opinion of all men.

Your voice is tiny? (do you mean insignificant?)
Good for you then.

sweet hrt !!! The last time I see u r face ur this swt gal good to go.
bia tell me u are a VIRGIN and I will listen
.pretending like u don't want it y give out ur number?

Fucktensei:
sorry for you. don't give us , we'll dump your sorry ass and go for the girl next door

You would be taking trash away from their door steps.
There has never been such a good riddance. Meanwhile just as you go for the girl next-door, she will also give it to a man more deserving. The equation balances.

Omagago:
Stupid boy

Why will his own opinion made him stupid, d guy has said wat he loves, instead of saying ur own, ure abusing d innocent guy.

I just love this guy and his honesty! if you know him in person meet me and collect ₦200k! spoke our mind perfectly! I've chased away 17 virgins because of this same nonsense! I AM A HYPERSEXUAL PERSON AND AM PROUD OF IT! Hyposexuals and Impotent asexuals can go and die! rubbish!

Religion or no religion,traditions or no traditions,fornication or no fornication,sex is the major ingredient of life and relationship,take it or leave it,marriages or no marriages every existence are sexual active. Some people shout against in the public but practice it in the secret either by self service or through a partner, some boys will tell you a girl thought them sex when they were small,but sex is natural instinct.so guy you are on point.

bakynes:
Sex bonds a Man and woman together, I noticed I felt no attachment to a girl that told me no sex.if we had quarrels, I could go days without even thinking she exists but I can't with a girl I have had sex with, her thoughts will always fill my heart.

your head get oil !!

If you are above 18 years,and you are not a virgin.Stop displaying your hypocrisy on this thread because you are nothing but a serpent.Different strokes for different folks,the guy has made his point,he is not imposing himself on you so it is your choice to date or reject him.Shalom

Flawlesbae:
Men n sex....

Just like Babes and Money