SirL0neWolf:

Abeg I just join Nl today..e never even reach one hour..no use bashing pursue me..I need your help

kimbra:
Can't you see her as a sister the same way she's seeing you as a brother?. Must you date her?.

kimbra:
Can't you see her as a sister the same way she's seeing you as a brother?. Must you date her?.

ITbomb:
Asking opinion about another guy?
Maybe she is already tired of waiting for you and wants to make you jealous and tell her your mind.
Do something

YoungBlackRico:
Hian...see wahala

©YBR

kimbra:
Can't you see her as a sister the same way she's seeing you as a brother?. Must you date her?.

Alphamale2017:
this op is funny . you are complaining whereas you are in the right position without knowing .

if she even sometimes ask you about the guy it means u have worked ur way into her head .

you are in a position where with time you will steadily be hitting the punna without actually bearing the loads of been in a relationship .

do u know why a male friend can last 10 years with a girl and yet she and her lover can not last up to 3 years ?

its because of less commitment and responsibility unlike when u two are in a relationship .

the knob is in ur hands .
u are in subtle control of everything from this ur present position .

at the end of the day , u may even hit the punna more than the other guy while actually carrying lesser responsibility than the other guy.

there is nothing , I repeat . nothing that guy will enjoy from that girl that u can not enjoy from this ur position . and u end up bearing less responsibility .

the fact she tells u about that guy sums it up. u are in subtle control . it all depends on how u play ur card.

but if u want to upgrade and become the main boyfriend, u can also do that . but why upgrade when u can still enjoy everything from this subtle position without carrying any relationship wahala it all depends on how u play ur card and how long u can bide ur time . waiting for the loophole and the right time to strike.

SirL0neWolf:

Bad guy

SirL0neWolf:
This is a cry for help. I met this girl late last year and I really like her but I've always had this bad luck of rushing any girl I like and it doesn't work out. I decided to take it slow with this girl to make her feel free with me and comfortable first. I took my time, calls, messages, thoughtgul prayers..no new month that i wont send her a happy new month message and we could chat for hours and I won't make a single romantic comment. My plan was to let her know I liked her without even saying it but it backfired. I started suspecting I was in the friend zone when she would always say gist me..gist me gist me..whenever we talked but then she asked me if there was any girl I liked and I stylishly described her thinking she would understand but she didn't.
She also got so free with me that she hit me playfully on the back or shoulder..now there's nothing wrong but it always feel like a brotherly gesture.
Now the case have gotten worse..just yesterday she called me babes..imagine babes..she now throws all these 'hun' 'dear' so carelessly like she were talking to a sibling or a fellow girl.
People please I need your help..slow and steady is not winning the race anymore..and I feel like the Ambassador for friend zone right now..what's worse there's anoda nigga in the picture and I've dulled the matter too much that she now even ask me my opinion about the dude.

Abeg I just join Nl today..e never even reach one hour..no use bashing pursue me..I need your help

edimolu:
Mayb niggur's got a lotta sisters already

edimolu:
Mayb niggur's got a lotta sisters already

kimbra:
Can't you see her as a sister the same way she's seeing you as a brother?. Must you date her?.