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Re: Share Your Challenges As A First-born by emperormossad(m): 10:54pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
montezz:Lemme call him for you with my landline. I get direct access as him pikin. 1 Like |
Re: Share Your Challenges As A First-born by sharpwriter(m): 10:54pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
Olabenayo:You are talking. |
Re: Share Your Challenges As A First-born by Maxcollins042(m): 10:56pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
darbeelicous:Na you sabi |
Re: Share Your Challenges As A First-born by johntaiwo123(m): 10:57pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
kk |
Re: Share Your Challenges As A First-born by Valkyr: 10:57pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
PublicAssurance: Haha. Name sake Are you docile like me? |
Re: Share Your Challenges As A First-born by darbeelicous(f): 10:58pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
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Re: Share Your Challenges As A First-born by kadunaspecial: 10:58pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
First born comes with a lot of challenges,first from your parent then your siblings.i tell you to be a first born you have to be responsible because even your parent look up to you. or else you'll be term "katon banza"but i thank God for every reponsibility he has giving me the ability.Glory be his holy name 1 Like |
Re: Share Your Challenges As A First-born by emperormossad(m): 10:59pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
Talk2Bella:Sister, you're lucky you aren't the first child. Congrats. |
Re: Share Your Challenges As A First-born by joyberry(f): 10:59pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
Well am the first daughter, HV an elder bro but its not esy for me oh,like the second mom in d house,unnecessary expectations from your family. What makes mine annoying was I lost my elder sis when I was just fourteen, and that mantle just fell on me.its was like everything they expected from her was now my responsibility to fulfill. Also annoying comparison BTW me and my sis.am this quiet indoors, introverted person while she is d opposite, my mom is always you too dull,not smart, your sis might marry before you and all .To make matters worse,had an issue in school, Hv to start over again while sis is in final ur.double stress from them.and my mom always making remarks about my late sis in my presence, at your age, she was this and that. Its pisses me off,most times I just get depressed and all, but optimistic to God that everything would work out for good. Applied for the Airforce, hopefully its works out for me. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Share Your Challenges As A First-born by Escobapablo(m): 11:00pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
I am first of 5. The most memorable thing I recall growing up as first is d flogging by my dad. At one point, flogging wasn't enough, it changed to me being a punching bag, then I turned to football. Then when I was to hand over, it stopped. Maybe he figured it wasn't d best approach. However, I am glad I went thru all that. I Wuld hv turned out to be worse. God will keep blessing you dad. I totally understand. 1 Like |
Re: Share Your Challenges As A First-born by Valkyr: 11:01pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
Maychang: Jesus is the first born of God's people (how exactly do they put it in theology)...I don't think he found things funny.. Has your mother laid her hands on you? You are the first fruit of her womb... |
Re: Share Your Challenges As A First-born by Maxcollins042(m): 11:03pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
darbeelicous:O obere ihea m kwuru ka ahu ji agbaka GI? o buru na I guru ihe m dere ofuma I ga ahu na mu dere "most of you", asighim na o bu unu nile. Iwe GI Adina oku nwanyi oma. |
Re: Share Your Challenges As A First-born by gcof(m): 11:04pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
dhantey324:exactly. No matter what the challenges are, I love it 1 Like |
Re: Share Your Challenges As A First-born by gregyboy(m): 11:06pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
dhantey324: lol.i feel ur pain yea it also happened to me d day i came back from skul without my younger sister i was flogged like jesus christ and told never to leave your younger ones alone 1 Like |
Re: Share Your Challenges As A First-born by darbeelicous(f): 11:07pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
warefa...... ![]() Maxcollins042: |
Re: Share Your Challenges As A First-born by Nobody: 11:09pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
I'm the last. I'm the baby. ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Share Your Challenges As A First-born by montezz(f): 11:09pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
emperormossad:I dey wait |
Re: Share Your Challenges As A First-born by montezz(f): 11:10pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
Taryur3:Done! |
Re: Share Your Challenges As A First-born by Maxcollins042(m): 11:11pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
darbeelicous:dorrrrrrrrr |
Re: Share Your Challenges As A First-born by athorello(m): 11:11pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
My experience in the ministry.... Hmm! Papa constitute almost football team for ground come waka leave us ![]() ![]() Former former bae: I will wait and manage with you ![]() ![]() Ex bae: the money you're sending home monthly is too much. ![]() ![]() Bae: baby I'm scared ![]() ![]() Now that only God's grace is sustaining me as I'm job hunting, one of my younger sis be like don't be complaining, you know you're our father now... And I be like go find husband now o...at least if he double all the money I've spent on your head for me you'll be good to go. ![]() My brethren, it's not easy but the special grace of the Almighty will see us through. 3 Likes |
Re: Share Your Challenges As A First-born by Nickymezor(f): 11:12pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
Here to read comments, I aint the first born tho.Na the opposite I be ![]() |
Re: Share Your Challenges As A First-born by GloriaNinja(f): 11:13pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
sharpwriter:I'M DOING GREAT, WHAT ABOUT YOU? 1 Like |
Re: Share Your Challenges As A First-born by emperormossad(m): 11:14pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
Stephanie1235:My sister, God bless you for this timely piece! To be first born no be the only problem, if you are a male, kasala don burst be that. Our issues no dey get part 2. |
Re: Share Your Challenges As A First-born by ReneeNuttall(f): 11:19pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
where do I start from?All I can say is dat I don't pray to be a first born in my next life, and the life after that.The pressure is limitless. |
Re: Share Your Challenges As A First-born by Mayorranking1(m): 11:22pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
Especially When You Are Also An SS. Its Nt Easy. |
Re: Share Your Challenges As A First-born by Optimist88(m): 11:26pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
I thought I'm the only first born in Nigeria passing through all these stuff! Sometimes I looked at my siblings and ask God why I came first but He's the beginning and the ending so I surrender all to Him. |
Re: Share Your Challenges As A First-born by emperormossad(m): 11:30pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
Kdiva:No being a female ain't as challenging as a male. Trust me, the way devil dey antagonize first males ehhn, if he devotes half that time to others, our world will be a whole lot more reasonable. 1 Like |
Re: Share Your Challenges As A First-born by desmondneke(m): 11:32pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
I dont even knw if mine is a challenge or external family palava...I am d first son but currently my younger one is doing is nysc while I am still waiting fr 1smelling lecturer to free me alone fr the past 3yrs..........e knw easy o 2 Likes |
Re: Share Your Challenges As A First-born by emperormossad(m): 11:34pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
montezz:Baba never pick oo. E be like say angel Michael dey discuss state of the nation with am. Don't worry, He knows what you want before you even ask. Peace! |
Re: Share Your Challenges As A First-born by ChubbychummyICE(f): 11:35pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
Well well well!!! what do I say? I'm d first born and d only girl of d four of us, from an average or do I say below average home sef, being d first born has been a good experience, I've tasted it all, I've been d best, the average and d worst in different works of life most especially in my acada. I know my parents spent so much on me in my school especially my uni, coz I didn't gain admission immediately coz of distractions not because I am dull, nd after which I still wasn't focused in college u know d end of d story nd what wud b my reward for losing focus... My problem wasn't devil ooo if I read well God has blessed me with understanding and retentive memory but I realized myself nd knew d only oda thing to do was to go back restrategize get focused backed up with prayers coz I know wia am coming from, whom I am, and wia am going to. I made so many mistakes for my younger ones and dey didn't have to make d mistakes I made coz I kept telling dem, oh dis was my mistake dat landed me here so dnt do same thank God, God helped dem to listen. Av stayed 3yrs plus after nysc still looking for job, wud tell my story wen its complete meanwhile my younger ones won't stay 1yr b4 getting jobs, dats my sacrifice for being d first. *U can call me up for lands at ibeju-lekki 08138998395 u can get for as low as 600k nd very close to dangote refineries grab urs before d price goes higher* 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Share Your Challenges As A First-born by montezz(f): 11:35pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
lilyheaven:I can relate. Dunno why she keeps taking my bra. Kid sisters ehn. The boys too. They can frustrate you ehn. I settle fights every now and then. |
Re: Share Your Challenges As A First-born by SexyNairalander: 11:37pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
its never been easy being a first born your younger once always expect the best from you plus your parents don't expect you to Bleep up first born are known to take a lot of sacrifice which am currently facing now cos my junior bro is staying with me. . .it ain't easy mhen |
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