Love your mother in-law like your own mother

HateU2:
I will continue praying for you dear . Dont come here and apply for ladies o

When will your brain start working properly? Shame dey catch me for you. Tueh!

obontami:



When will your brain start working properly? Shame dey catch me for you. Tueh!

ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!
Why are you after my life

HateU2:
ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!
Why are you after my life

You never see anything na me and you for this nairaland. Big head.

obontami:


You never see anything na me and you for this nairaland. Big head.

ogun fe pa e abi

HateU2:
ogun fe pa e abi

No, sango loma pa e!


Mumunatu

obontami:


No, sango loma pa e!


Mumunatu

mumu-ambali adigun
oya lo ma pa e

HateU2:
mumu-ambali adigun
oya lo ma pa e

Osa loma pa e


I mean lagoon, something like the picture below.

obontami:


Osa loma pa e


I mean lagoon, something like the picture below.

iwo lo ma jump sinu osa ti a ko ni ri e mo layelaye

HateU2:
I will continue praying for you dear . Dont come here and apply for ladies o

Apply kwa. I'm opened to any.....

HateU2:
iwo lo ma jump sinu osa ti a ko ni ri e mo layelaye

Oduun Pele sogbo

Lagoon is calling you

tobianthony:
Bella thanks for posting this ...I haven't read thoroughly tho ..but will comment and give a little of my own experience ... But later on today

thanks dear waiting

Talk2Bella:


thanks dear waiting

To me it still feels like the greatest magic trick ever to be played in this world .

Let me start by saying I made a lot of mistakes in this relationship . I admit that . I did something which I am truly sorry for .

My relationship was going well ... Had gotten engaged till my fiance's mother came to town .

The first incident that left me dumbfounded and shocked was when she requested to see me the day before she left ...and to be honest I couldn't go to see her . She left town the next day ..we are talking and on the phone and she says ," why didn't you come to see me ... do you think I wanted to ask you for money ? "

I was shocked for a second but played it cool be saying mummy no...I was just busy .

It didn't sit well with me that she could be that forward while speaking to me but I shook it off . Little did I know what was coming next ...

Till this day the next event I truly believe was the end of the beginning of my relationship .

tobianthony:


To me it still feels like the greatest magic trick ever to be played in this world .

Let me start by saying I made a lot of mistakes in this relationship . I admit that . I did something which I am truly sorry for .

My relationship was going well ... Had gotten engaged till my fiance's mother came to town .

The first incident that left me dumbfounded and shocked was when she requested to see me the day before she left ...and to be honest I couldn't go to see her . She left town the next day ..we are talking and on the phone and she says ," why didn't you come to see me ... do you think I wanted to ask you for money ? "

I was shocked for a second but played it cool be saying mummy no...I was just busy .

It didn't sit well with me that she could be that forward while speaking to me but I shook it off . Little did I know what was coming next ...

biko continue

In the coming weeks whilst preparing for my introduction things weren't going well .

I travelled to work outside the state and returned the same day . I had to switch my sims because I didn't want to be troubled by some people gave my fiancé and her mum my other number .

Later that night ...her mother calls me . I see the call come in but I'm dead tired and did not want to react badly so I did not pick up . It rang three times or so and went to voice mail . She didn't follow the prompt and hung up . I got a text message from the network saying click 0 to hear voice message

Next day I call her . She did not pick up . Called again later that day ...her mother did not pick up .

The next day I called again to discuss preparation for the introduction .

Her : ... Why did you do this my son

Me: do what Ma ?

Her : why did you do this ?

Me: Ma what happened ?

Her : why did you give your phone to your friends to insult me .

Me: I'm thinking WTF ?

Her : they abused me ...insulted me ,called me all sort of names and told me to never call you again .

Me : mummy I don't understand ...you said what ?

She repeats the whole thing again . First thing that comes to my mind is ...Ma its probably network and they must have connected you to someone else .

She says no ...that it was my line she called and it was my friends she spoke to .

The conversation started to get heated .

I'm trying to explain that I did not do that ...she's trying to pin it on me .

It comes to a point she says are you trying to call me a liar ?

In my mind I can see that I'm being backed into a corner .

Then she goes - instead of you to apologise and say you are sorry .

Omo my mouth was just open ...

In my mind I know that if I apologise ,she would always have this over me . This would be her power .

So I keep trying to defend myself .

She says I'm arguing with her ... I reply no she's trying to force words down my throat .

At this point its really getting heated . So I can't exactly remember but the line cuts perhaps I ran out of airtime but next thing GF calls me ....

She starts screaming at me - you've brought drama again now ...why are you arguing with my mum .

I tried to explain what happened but she's not having it ...at this point I know I'm 4ked .

I mean I'm standing in the sun ...face palming myself thinking what and how did this happen .

She hangs up .

Then my own mother calls me

My mum says ," ....what happened **** called me and said you are arguing with her mother over the phone " .

I said mummy this is what happened . I repeat the story to her . She says hmmmm this strange but call **** mum back and apologise but not for something you didn't do but just to show respect .

I said cool ...

I call **** mum back up

Her mum goes hello ... I start by saying sorry ...that this is all a misunderstanding . Still deny it tho . It feels like I am tiptoeing around a mindfield .

She says she's no longer angry ... Remarks - is it because you are a ( insert my profession here ) that's why you like to argue ...

We start talking about the ceremony ...but I could just tell that things weren't right ...

Next my mum calls me

My mum inquires as to the conversation with ***** mum ...I told her how it went .

My mum said ... You know this is the first time your fiance has called me .

I said enhhh ...

Hold up ...

My mum says yeah I call her and she hardly ever answers or returns the call ...but yeah this is the first time she has ever called me .

I say no ...that's a lie ...it can't be ...its not the ***** that I know .

Apparently my mum had kept this from me .

At that point in time inexperience cost me that relationship . By reading you can already deduce my first mistake in this relationship . What happened next in the coming days was equally if not more strange ...

tobianthony:
At that point in time inexperience cost me that relationship . By reading you can already deduce my first mistake in this relationship . What happened next in the coming days was equally if not more strange ...

wow me I'm speechless lol she probably is used to getting ways one thing I have learnt in this life is never to argue with an older person even if you're right they always see it as a sign of disrespect

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#much love

What if she is my mother is the wrong question to ask.

Your mother in law is not your mother. She is like a mother to you. And my parents are not my husband's parents. They are like his parents.

There are things I will do to my mum and there are ways I would react towards my mum that I will find it difficult to do a mother-in-law.

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All these to make your mother in law love you
What if she doesn't love you after all these mumbo jumbo