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Why Do We Love Those Who Don't Love Back? by Momentjs: 9:08pm On Apr 21, 2017 |
Hi Romancelander. I don't know how to write story, so I'll just make this short and understandable. NB - <b>This is the first time I ever create a topic in this section even though I have been on this forum for a while. Am just saying so that you'all know that this is very important and it's really bothering me. Thanks</b> There's this girl I met when I was in 100Level(2015) and I like her. I really like her and I made it known to her that I want her to be my girlfriend. She said NO, as usual i thought she was playing hard to get so I continued letting her know how much I wanted her. But, she always say the same thing - Shes not interested, that its not going to be possible. I asked her why, she'll said nothing Or say I should just drop it that she owe me no explanation. I really love this girl. I am not lonely, I have guys friends, and of course little female friends. I can't get her off my mind and she stands firm on her point. She has never called me, if I don't message her on WhatsApp, she'll never say Hi. Now, am curious, why do I love her when she doesn't even care about me at all? Why am I always thinking about her when she doesn't ever give a damn about me? Am I getting something wrong? Is this how life suppose to be functioning? I just want answers, I want someone/something/anything to tell me what's happening? What do you think I should do? 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do We Love Those Who Don't Love Back? by ikp120(m): 9:24pm On Apr 21, 2017 |
Sorry bro. She doesn't feel nothing whatsoever for you. Back then when I still dey single, if I jam any babe like that, na once I dey press delete! |
Re: Why Do We Love Those Who Don't Love Back? by firstking01(m): 9:25pm On Apr 21, 2017 |
How much are you gon pay if i make you find your way into her heart and perhaps panties ![]() |
Re: Why Do We Love Those Who Don't Love Back? by DaddySLY(m): 9:26pm On Apr 21, 2017 |
one of life's most cruel jokes on us bro... it'll pass... 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Do We Love Those Who Don't Love Back? by generalbush(m): 9:27pm On Apr 21, 2017 |
I can't explain. We continue to chase someone who treats us as bullshit!! Nonsense!! I am out jare!! 1 Like |
Re: Why Do We Love Those Who Don't Love Back? by firstking01(m): 9:28pm On Apr 21, 2017 |
DaddySLY:You no dey try lai lai. |
Re: Why Do We Love Those Who Don't Love Back? by Nobody: 9:28pm On Apr 21, 2017 |
Nairaland is my comedy central. But let me just be serious today and help you. She doesn't care about you because she thinks you are not worth it. You must learn to accept this and move on. You also need to understand that she has a right not to love you. Your love for her does not matter at all. This is reality of life. Pick yourself up and move. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do We Love Those Who Don't Love Back? by firstking01(m): 9:32pm On Apr 21, 2017 |
cruchenuti:You can "make" someone love you but you can't force someone to love you... N:B...The key words there are "make" and "force", meaning, the op still have hope if he plays/throws his dice well ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Why Do We Love Those Who Don't Love Back? by Momentjs: 10:17pm On Apr 21, 2017 |
cruchenuti:But, why would she ever think i do not worth it. She knows how hardworking and focused I am. I always think any intelligent lady should like me, but she actually proves me wrong. Really Bro? This whole situation made me feel like someone you love should automatically loves you back. That's how life should be. But now, I think moving on will do. Thanks. |
Re: Why Do We Love Those Who Don't Love Back? by DaddySLY(m): 10:26pm On Apr 21, 2017 |
firstking01:no be so bro... u no go understand.. |
Re: Why Do We Love Those Who Don't Love Back? by Destined2win: 10:31pm On Apr 21, 2017 |
Go and read your book |
Re: Why Do We Love Those Who Don't Love Back? by Momentjs: 10:35pm On Apr 21, 2017 |
firstking01: Hmmm Getting to her pants rarely flash through my mind, except in my weirdest fantasy. All I just wanted from her is attention. I always try to set up a date, but she'll say she's busy. I'll even beg her to let me visit her in her hostel, she'll just decline and gives some excuse. Right now, I just need a way to stop thinking about her and move on. |
Re: Why Do We Love Those Who Don't Love Back? by darbeelicous(f): 11:13pm On Apr 21, 2017 |
love doctor, so this z how u give ur own counsel ba?........ Continue. ![]() ![]() ikp120: |
Re: Why Do We Love Those Who Don't Love Back? by thowbie7ven(m): 3:11am On Apr 22, 2017 |
OP, please delete everything you know/have about her....her number/s, pictures et all and move on...One million and one babes out there...Trust me, you'll get to a point in your life you'll start selecting babes for yaself just remain focused and be a goal oriented pelzin...I was once in your shoes buh today nko, babes crave for my attention buh funny enough, I no even dey send them coz i've learnt from that only "1" experience I had....God bless your hustle bro!...don't let any babe downgrade you bro!...it's gonna be a shame on you...it may be soo hard at first but trust me, you'll be glad you did...Move on like she never existed 6 Likes |
Re: Why Do We Love Those Who Don't Love Back? by vincentjk(m): 3:35am On Apr 22, 2017 |
Op as a guy i understand how u feel but you gat no more options. The more you think about her the more it hurts you bad I've been in this situation when i was still a learner but i later understood how it works Delete her number so you wouldn't see her on whatsapp again or view her pix Unfriend her on fb Give yourself at least one month the feelings will flee especially when u gets another babe wy make sense pass am 1 Like |
Re: Why Do We Love Those Who Don't Love Back? by ikp120(m): 4:47am On Apr 22, 2017 |
darbeelicous:Hehehehe ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Why Do We Love Those Who Don't Love Back? by Momentjs: 5:08am On Apr 22, 2017 |
thowbie7ven: WoW. Thanks Bro. I'll make sure that I do all that. Thanks once again. |
Re: Why Do We Love Those Who Don't Love Back? by Momentjs: 5:09am On Apr 22, 2017 |
vincentjk: Really appreciate your input. thanks Bro. |
Re: Why Do We Love Those Who Don't Love Back? by 1234onyekwe: 5:46am On Apr 22, 2017 |
thowbie7ven:m not the OP but I have learnt one or two things from ur advice. I always tell guys that a time will come in their lives when, babes will start running after them is just a matter of patience. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do We Love Those Who Don't Love Back? by firstking01(m): 6:08am On Apr 22, 2017 |
Momentjs:Ok, seeing you are giving up already, now, shift that your attention and focus it more on that course you find weird and hard to understand, and trust me, in NO time she'd be the last thing to flash across your mind....you think and fantasize on a particular thing when you 've prioritised it in your mind....the human mind is busy with diff thoughts both good and bad 24/7 just like a fast flowing stream with all kinds of debris, which ever debris you allow to settle in there is what will manifest with time....so, occupy and substitute her for something more important like your book or warrever you find interest in. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do We Love Those Who Don't Love Back? by isyourboy(m): 6:44am On Apr 22, 2017 |
Momentjs:guy, such is life but you've got to move on..... I've experienced this same thing while I was in 300l but guy you can get busy with other thing and with time you'll find out she is not even worth the stress.... my friend let achievement speak for you and with time they will be flocking around yoh |
Re: Why Do We Love Those Who Don't Love Back? by Momentjs: 7:09am On Apr 22, 2017 |
firstking01: Yeah. Thanks Bro |
Re: Why Do We Love Those Who Don't Love Back? by Momentjs: 7:09am On Apr 22, 2017 |
isyourboy: Thanks Bro. |
Re: Why Do We Love Those Who Don't Love Back? by Olasco93: 7:17am On Apr 22, 2017 |
Attraction is Emotional, not Logical. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do We Love Those Who Don't Love Back? by Nobody: 11:54pm On Apr 24, 2017 |
firstking01: No need for all that. There are ladies every where. No time to be convincing a lady. If she doesn't like you. You bounce. |
Re: Why Do We Love Those Who Don't Love Back? by Momentjs: 1:32pm On May 17, 2021 |
thowbie7ven: **redacted** 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do We Love Those Who Don't Love Back? by Ritzybeauty(f): 1:59pm On May 17, 2021 |
Your happiness and peace of mind is more important to you right now, love yourself more and you would understand you really don't need anyone to treat you such way, she is honest with you and might just want to be a friend.. So look elsewhere and you might just find that compatible someone.. Feel sorry for you though |
Re: Why Do We Love Those Who Don't Love Back? by thowbie7ven(m): 12:13pm On May 24, 2021 |
Momentjs:We thank God for the steady growth Bro...Mhen, this is 2021 and i chipped in that comment in 2017 wow!!!....God is good bro...The sky is just the starting point for us...can we connect?? |
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