Hi Nairalanders, Lets talk about this everyday important question.

I’ve been wondering, most women have this NO SEX ON FIRST DATE motto like it’s the only criteria to know a good girl or good house wife material. They say it gives the guy the impression that you’re too cheap and he would definitely dump you easy – You agree to this?

To me, it’s not true. You can play the hard-to-get for a year and still get abandoned. So, ladies, allow your mood determine for you. If you have to bang that guy, bang him! And who knows, it might result to true love and marriage. Or what do you think, guys?

Share your views and let us know what you think about this?

No, it make her costly.

Just here to read comment .

No, it makes her look dumb....




infact both the fucker and the fuckee are Dumb....

Welldone, you are looking to score cheap goals,( create this thread so that some dumb ladies might actually take you serious)

KentoBility:
Hi Nairalanders, Lets talk about this everyday important question..I’ve been wondering, most women have this NO SEX ON FIRST DATE motto like it’s the only criteria to know a good girl or good house wife material. They say it gives the guy the impression that you’re too cheap and he would definitely dump you easy – You agree to this? To me, it’s not true. You can play the hard-to-get for a year and still get abandoned. So, ladies, allow your mood determine for you. If you have to bang that guy, bang him! And who knows, it might result to true love and marriage. Or what do you think, guys?– Share your views and let us know what you think about this?

Im with you bro. Ive met really cheap girls who refused to give it up at all. These things are not black and white

It doesn't. Makes it easier to decide sooner than later, how the relationship will go.

I like when a girl is open with her sexuality unlike some stingy/selfish idiots who think it only when they feel Hot that they think is the right time for sex to take place and are entitled to having their way + exchanging sex for favors.
Sex is a mutual thing from the contribution of both parties involved. Without two there can't be sex. This is why I laugh when some of them even think that they are doing you a favor by having sex while enjoying theirselves

I have my way of dealing with them sha

xendra:
Welldone, you are looking to score cheap goals,( create this thread so that some dumb ladies might actually take you serious)

We should learn how to give our Ernest opinion to questions

Without attaching extra meaning to the meaning of the post....

Most times our attitude after sexing her on the first date is what makes the girl appear "cheap" so to speak...there's how the human mind and brain works....for a girl to be tagged "cheap" for allowing his "bf/wooer/crush" to go down on her on the first date will solely depend on the attitude of the guy after the show...some idiots of a guy will go about telling his friends and even some of his female friends of how she was so cheap for allowing him have sex with her and after that they will stop the chase and start giving her this disdain and cold treatment, smh...



For me, NO girl should even allow a guy touch her on a first meeting.

it does make her look very cheap

Not necessarily

premarital sex is bad.... therefore they both cheap!

Most ladies only play hard to get to a guy who is wooing them.When it comes to a guy who" pay as you go" they fall cheaply.

No it doesnt..... Mind you, most often than not a girl/guy falls inlove only after the sex...

I'd sell myself cheap if I shag on a first date. I mean, she could be anybody-thief, neighborhood giver, demon possessed, or a lowlife. I don't wanna have such people on my browsing history.

No, i don't think so. The girl I fu/.ck on our first date happens to be the most decent, honest and independent girl I have ever dated. All the rest that refused sex on our first date are all just cheap oloshos that can't survive a day without demanding cash from me. So its not always as it seems

Having sex on the first date or not doesn't guarantee anything.

Only matured men won't see anything wrong with that.. And again




Sex is overrated.

like say na only guys day enjoy sex abeg shift ma see nairaland logo

If you like have sex on the first date, or make him wait for 3 years, if a man wants to marry you he surely will without even thinking about that..

It depends sha; I'm not a story teller and also I don't kiss and tell

Having premarital sex on any day make her and him look cheap....but it depends on the looker

As for me and my family we shalt not judge

To me it does not make her look cheap.

Unless she's a runs babe, having sex with anyone its not about satisfying a primal urge.

So giving yourself to your partner sexually shouldn't be a something that you will later regret.

Unless you are dealing with immature, kiss & tell morons who have no business seeing a lady's underwear. Including those that make sex videos

This question has been asked a zillion times.

It is either you are pro-premarital sex or anti-premarital sex.

There is no difference at all between sex on the first date and sex on the 1,000th date. If having sex on the first date makes one cheap,then sex on the 1,000th date is cheap too.

So choose abstinence or premarital sex. The choice is yours.

For Jmoore, he will choose abstinence till marriage.

rubbish, Wat has sex got 2 do wt tru luv , Op abeg

I am totally different from other guys. I have sex whenever I want to. Girls send me credit and money. My inbox if filled up with all kinds of messages from ladies. SEX is BORING... LADIES are BORING TOO. Those who are love-starved and sex-starved can keep on worshipping girls.

How will you allow me do it on the first day? My sister Cheap is an understatement. Pure water cost pass you