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Re: Ladies Please Save Us The Distraction In Church by Nobody: 11:01am On Apr 23, 2017 |
NotOfThis:You are a lady and can't claim you know what goes through an active man mind. Notwithstanding, Christianity is a personal race and until when you see your ultimate goal as christ, overcoming certain temptation irrespective of the environment would be impossible. Always remember the world has become increasingly spiritual, the fight is on n real n only the strong would eventually win this race. Stay blessed. |
Re: Ladies Please Save Us The Distraction In Church by ExInferis(m): 11:05am On Apr 23, 2017 |
She's going to the wrong church. Apostate Suleiman's cult group will be more to her taste. Who knows, she might even get a mansion and a yacht. |
Re: Ladies Please Save Us The Distraction In Church by Nobody: 11:07am On Apr 23, 2017 |
COdeGenesis: I think you are setting a very high standard for the Op and men in general. The church is not the world and should not allow the burdens and values of the world; money, power and sex to oppress and weigh it down. It is an oasis within the world. However where the Op erred and hopefully this might help him is in his definition of church; What is the church? Is it a place? A building? No. In fact the church is people gathered in Jesus name. This can take place in a building, a home, under a tree or on a bus. Two or three is the quorum. It is entirely possible that where Op goes there is no sideways relationship with other members at a deeper level than " how are you doing?" If there is no depth of relationship between brothers and sister then where Op is attending is no different to attending a christian event; music concert or seminar. It is not a church. No matter how grand it is. It is a Christian event. In that wise, Op must expect to meet a wide variety of people many of whom are not Christians. You therefore cannot appeal to them as "brothers or sisters." They simply dont feel that way about you. Your considerations are unimportant. To them, you are just another attendee like themselves. The only duty they have towards you is not to detract from your enjoyment of the event. If what i have written leads anyone to question if it is possible to GO to churchor or to actually wonder where church is erupting all over your city, I have no apologies. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Please Save Us The Distraction In Church by yazach: 11:08am On Apr 23, 2017 |
No wonder we always hear the news of pastors having sex with Church members. Them be human na 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies Please Save Us The Distraction In Church by JuneOctober(f): 11:09am On Apr 23, 2017 |
blackberlin: Some people hate the truth but you can't run from the truth. Knowing the truth and dodging it is self deciet. Happy Sunday sir. |
Re: Ladies Please Save Us The Distraction In Church by Jerrick(m): 11:10am On Apr 23, 2017 |
NotOfThis:Listen, men are moved by what they see. Temptation does not have a particular person or group of people it devours. And about controlling eyes and mind, O. P has finished this.......dont assume you can think for man, it's not that easy. |
Re: Ladies Please Save Us The Distraction In Church by omogidi234(m): 11:15am On Apr 23, 2017 |
EmtolalaaPRAISE: I had this discussion recently, I didn't succeed, so I left it. I said that any man who sexually harrases a woman should face the FULL wrath of the law but that our women shouldn't dress in such a way that they wouldn't entice a man. The truth is any man will take a first look at a pretty and well dressed woman. But they tend to brew terrible thought when they see women who dressed revealing parts of the body or wear dresses showing body line. Even men who have discplined themselves over time and have overcome this issue can still fall prey of this, if they are constantly exposed to such dressing and give opportunity to it. That's why some our MOG are getting involved in sexual issues. Because they are still men. Not condoning that though. Please Fundamentally, rather than complain, I think we should learn how to overcome it ( though tasking), cause the argument from women would always be 'control yourself irrespective of however they dress'. Secondly, the Onus is on us to teach our children, that men are wired by God to be biological aroused by the feminine body, but that the girls shouldn't dress to entice them and the boys should learn how to control themsevles whether or not the girls dress arousingly. Once the war is first won in the society, it would be won in churches and other places of worship. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Please Save Us The Distraction In Church by mkpikpub(m): 11:21am On Apr 23, 2017 |
In Gringori's voice " Before church na house of God but now I am does not know" NotOfThis: |
Re: Ladies Please Save Us The Distraction In Church by Biggsam01: 11:21am On Apr 23, 2017 |
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Re: Ladies Please Save Us The Distraction In Church by MarieSucre(f): 11:25am On Apr 23, 2017 |
EmtolalaaPRAISE: Maybe you can structure churches like mosques. Brothers section and sisters section. Nothing concern one section with the other, your eyes will have no reason to roam during khutbah except you're... clears throat... gay. Everybody minds their business till its all over. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Please Save Us The Distraction In Church by vincent10(m): 11:35am On Apr 23, 2017 |
NotOfThis: Madam! This is very very very difficult. Guys will unde better. |
Re: Ladies Please Save Us The Distraction In Church by dangotesmummy: 11:38am On Apr 23, 2017 |
EmtolalaaPRAISE:so we should wear Mary amaka skirts and big blouses because your phenese cannot stay calm in church for 4hrs without erecting inside your boxers? I've got news for you my dear.you cannot control what other women wear however you can control that tail in between your thighs 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Please Save Us The Distraction In Church by FUNNYBONE1(m): 11:42am On Apr 23, 2017 |
d way some of them dey package, u go think say Na fashion show them dey go |
Re: Ladies Please Save Us The Distraction In Church by FUNNYBONE1(m): 11:45am On Apr 23, 2017 |
dangotesmummy:ONE OF THE BITCHES IS HERE 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies Please Save Us The Distraction In Church by cyrilamx(m): 11:48am On Apr 23, 2017 |
yes u can't control what one wears but charity entails u dress modestly if u claim to be Christ-like. Charity entails you don't be an occasion of sin. Christ said the thing that causes sin must surely happens. But woe unto whom through which such sin happens. To be one's brother's keeper is to ensure u are mindful of the weaklings among u...so u don't destroy whom Christ died for because you want to appear sexy. St. Paul would say if his eating meat will cause his brother's to sin, he would stop eating food(offered to idols). My sister u are at liberty to dress how u like but you should not turn the house o prayer into a club and still tell me u are Christ-like. NotOfThis: 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies Please Save Us The Distraction In Church by dangotesmummy: 11:57am On Apr 23, 2017 |
FUNNYBONE1:lmao I agree ![]() That B-I-T-C-h is B-bold I-idealistic T-tactful C-curvy H-hot So thanks for the complement ![]() I see Christianity or church attendance is really reflecting in your character ![]() |
Re: Ladies Please Save Us The Distraction In Church by sinola(m): 12:03pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
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Re: Ladies Please Save Us The Distraction In Church by metallisc(m): 12:03pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
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Re: Ladies Please Save Us The Distraction In Church by Ichietome: 12:06pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
dangotesmummy:Y must you wear tight miniskirt to church and who told you that you must reveal sensitive parts of your body in order to look good 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies Please Save Us The Distraction In Church by Sike(m): 12:12pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
God have mercy |
Re: Ladies Please Save Us The Distraction In Church by Jadeng: 12:12pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
I completely disagree with that post! You can help them BUT without any string attached. If you must meet with her for any reason; NEVER do it alone. Jesus helped "Ladies' and most of the times he was with His disciples. Choose to be a Joseph always; run while you still have legs!! Bible says we should flee; stand to bind and cast. Do not choose be a David; You can handle it. No matter your anointing, you can not stand seduction. Learn from Samson. Golden Rule: "Show mercy to those whose faith is wavering. Rescue others by snatching them from the flames of judgment. There are still others to whom you need to show mercy, but be careful that you aren't contaminated by their sins." Jude 22-23(NLT) PastorandMentor: |
Re: Ladies Please Save Us The Distraction In Church by Nobody: 12:13pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
NotOfThis: I beg make we hear word superman with super self control. With dat kind big yansh inside dat tight dress sitting in front of you, there is nothing you can do about it because the yansh will become your bible. When pastor go say open to the book of Genesis 1:4, your own go dey on the book of luke (look) chapter yansh verse boobs 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Please Save Us The Distraction In Church by Nobody: 12:16pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
It is rampant in all churches as pastors become greedy for offerings, very soon people under the age of 18 will stop going to church cos of corrupting influence of indecent dressing amongst ladies.
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Re: Ladies Please Save Us The Distraction In Church by Nobody: 12:17pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
While I think that there is appropriate dressing for every occasion, I also think that OP is a mumu who lacks self-discipline. Face your front or close your eyes. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Please Save Us The Distraction In Church by Gentew(m): 12:22pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
It's not like that, bible doesn't teach us to resist temptation but to flee from it. Ushers needs a lot of work to do as regards dat |
Re: Ladies Please Save Us The Distraction In Church by ifex370(m): 12:24pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
This issue can't be overstated already... House on the Rock Winners Christ embassy.. Are all victims of this... Its very sad..ladies that do this surely have sth else in mind... |
Re: Ladies Please Save Us The Distraction In Church by ifex370(m): 12:24pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
Pastors. Pls caution the ladies... Its too much these days |
Re: Ladies Please Save Us The Distraction In Church by Nobody: 12:26pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
Cleavage out, split skirts are definitely not for church. But with that being said, charity begins at home. If a brother can stop her sister and girlfriend from wearing these "harrasing" clothes in church, everything would be easy. Parents too. See how they let their kids be and still be harrasing everyone else with thier "you'll die a painful death" eye shot, for wearing the very cloth their kids are wearing. Also, I think common sense should be used as such....common. One can easily tell when they are improperly dressed for any ocassion.......lady or guy. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Ladies Please Save Us The Distraction In Church by dangotesmummy: 12:27pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
Ichietome:news flash. Church is a public place. Like a hospital or cinema where any and every person with different orientation and belief system can walk into and so you may see the outfit as indecent but the wearer doesn't 5 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Ladies Please Save Us The Distraction In Church by dangotesmummy: 12:29pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
jagugu88li:with all our outward display of morality. You'll have expected Nigerians or even church going Christians or even pastors not to engage in compromising things they engage in 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies Please Save Us The Distraction In Church by Nobody: 12:38pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
NokiaN8:reddit man, we have heard ooooo,you lots keep spamming threads about this trash, that program is self destruct |
Re: Ladies Please Save Us The Distraction In Church by Ichietome: 12:44pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
dangotesmummy:Well the church is not just any public place. Any Christian must imbibe the basic tenets of Xtianity-charity. How would you claim to be christ-like yet you dress indecently? Dressing good doesn't mean you have to be half-naked. Do not by your actions put others to the test. 1 Like |
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