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Re: Men Are Getting Weaker And Women Are Getting Stronger by bukatyne(f): 6:36pm On Apr 23, 2017
putit:
In recent times, men are getting weaker while women are getting stronger. Most men now act weak around women. That's why there are so many spoilt n disrespectful young women out there.

It's damn crazy..

There are so many wussy men who now eat up and condole these girls bad behaviors because they need sex from them. These spoilt women now feel they can eat their cake and have it. That's bad

Women can't live without men and they know it.. It's no surprise all my life I have heard women say they would rather hangout with male instead of female because they tend to get along with guys. And note that women with more male friends have more sex but not actually with them.

If a woman is placed in a jungle were there are wild animals, I doubt if she'll come out alive but put a man in a jungle full of wild animal, there is possibility he'll survive because men have physical attributes that can help him fight predators. Men have the body suited for fighting both animal and man.


Women may not possess the physical attributes of men but they have the ability to emotionally manipulate men..It's no wonder a girl of 20 years old can make a man of 45 years old behave like a 5 years old boy. Sex is the most powerful tool women have against men


Women are the gate keepers of sex while men are the gate keepers of commitment/relationships. Women knows they are the sexual gate keepers, and they know some men can sacrifices their kidneys (or even their life) for sex. That's why they take full advantages of it to emotionally manipulate men to get what they want.

Everybody always tell women to be cautious when it comes giving men sex but nobody told men to be cautious when it comes to the amount of ATTENTION they give women.

SEX is the most powerful weapon a woman have against a man

ATTENTION (or validation) is the most powerful weapon a man have against a woman.

Men are not taking advantage of the power ( of attention) they have. Women needs men attention. That's why they spend long time making up and painting their face before stepping out of their house
Attention is important to women ( and I think they love male attention more than sex itself). A man can manipulate a woman’s desire through adjustments to the amount or intensity of attention he gives to or withholds from her.

That's why a woman will chase a man that pay/give less attention to her.



Are we talking random men/women relationship or marriage?

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Re: Men Are Getting Weaker And Women Are Getting Stronger by Abdul85(m): 6:37pm On Apr 23, 2017
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Re: Men Are Getting Weaker And Women Are Getting Stronger by fran6co(m): 6:37pm On Apr 23, 2017
waywardpikin:
My annoyance isn't with women really. The way they are is the way they've always been. It's the Captain-Save-a-Hoes out there who give us a bad name. And they seem to increase in number everyday. Look at the Kemen issue, I was shocked to see the number of men crucifying Kemen publicly for something that we all do. Which man here will say he has never made a move on a lady? If she says no, we stop. If she says yes, we gbensh.

But these niggas all want to be seen as ladies men/gentleman/mature. Meanwhile them no go talk all the deplorable things they do behind the scenes to get some coochie - in which they still fail. I'm just really thankful for the ladies out there who were unbiased enough to tell the truth as it is on the issue (this REALLY surprised me) cos men these days only play dumb to get the approval of the female folk, like a pet dog seeking the approval of its master. It's such a shame really. Personally I won't call myself an alpha male cos I hate that word, but I have a very good head on my shoulders and I take no bullshit from no one.

Have you seen 15 year old girls with a chip on their shoulders? It's because of stoopid men in their late 20s and early 30s who slide into their DMs saying stuff like 'baby', 'honey', 'wow wow wow', etc. How then can you still demand respect from these little rats when you have sold your birthright for a pot of porridge? These little girls in their late teens and early 20s now turn around and disrespect men in general because of the actions of the thirsty MAJORITY. Like I said, I don't blame the women.

Men really need to change! angry
u just killed it bro, men really need to have a rethink

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Re: Men Are Getting Weaker And Women Are Getting Stronger by queenbetsy(f): 6:37pm On Apr 23, 2017
una never see anything. grin this is just the beginning... wink

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Re: Men Are Getting Weaker And Women Are Getting Stronger by oyetpel(m): 6:38pm On Apr 23, 2017
putit:

No bro.. In the olden days Twas never like that. Back then women had respect for men.
..All these rubbish started when men started acting like wussy so women might like them n probably give them sex someday.
...All these rubbish started when people began internalizing "ladies first" mentality and " what a man can do a woman can do better" mentality
Dave Chappelle said something like this in his comedy skit this year that; it was when American men went to world war I that the women took control of the jobs at home and grew in confidence that when their husbands came back from the war, they started standing up to their husbands.

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Re: Men Are Getting Weaker And Women Are Getting Stronger by Berbierklaus(f): 6:38pm On Apr 23, 2017
wristbangle:


who be this one undecided
Ask your komkom head. tongue

Like say you dey there when any of those rantings you posted happened to her gringrin

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Re: Men Are Getting Weaker And Women Are Getting Stronger by lilyheaven: 6:40pm On Apr 23, 2017
[quote author=LaurelP post=55824928]It happens this way simply because men are not aware of the power they possess. Women know and use theirs.
What we have these days are men who think with their balls instead of their brains.
You see a man spend his money, time, effort, energy just to sleep with a woman for just few minutes, after which he feels on top of the world. To him, he actually won!

Men should have sense. A woman talks and u support her even when she's wrong, ur fellow man displays his oratory skills and u begin to misbehave.
A woman insults a man and u foolishly defend her, obviously cos u think she's gonna give u d cookie, mumu.
A woman posts one rubbish thing online and u run to like and comment, but a guy posts a wonderful content and u can't click like.
U help a woman even when she didn't ask for help, but u can't even lend to a fellow man.

Men wake up! Women are coming for you! [/quote





It has always been so, from creation.
Re: Men Are Getting Weaker And Women Are Getting Stronger by Nobody: 6:40pm On Apr 23, 2017
pocohantas:
The post on this thread is the exact reason men will keep getting weaker, stop blaming women for all your woes and use your senses!
Some women have realised their power over some of you and are using it to their advantage.

Women wield sex over men because most of you think with your pricks. I see men saying women offer just sex, that's all you guys want. Women that have been with men who want beyond sex, know well to adjust. But sadly, such men are few, even their fellow men will accuse them of not being a sharp guy.
Now una dey cry? For this same NL where you guys insult your fellow guy because im no fu<k babe? Na una do unasef o. Leave women alone! Una done tire to fu<k?

A thread on sex in relationships, you see guys with so much aggression, campaigning for sex and you don't expect to be used? Y'all ain't seen nothing yet! The worse is yet to come... grin

The most difficult men to manipulate are those that can tame their sexual urges, not even those that hoard attention like you think...

I love you babe

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Re: Men Are Getting Weaker And Women Are Getting Stronger by watchindelta(m): 6:41pm On Apr 23, 2017
abeg na since in the time of odd men don fuckup
Re: Men Are Getting Weaker And Women Are Getting Stronger by odehaj: 6:41pm On Apr 23, 2017
wristbangle:
Each time I read article like this, I often remember great men in the past such as samson (delilah), solomon (700 wives), ahab (Jezebel), Troy (Helen), Atila (Red hair woman) etc who fell due to sexual weakness from the women I bracketed in front of their names.

As good as women are towards building home and nation so they are dangerous to ruining a man's destiny and jeopardising the nation's future.

I wouldn't want to blame these ladies entirely rather we men who chase them endlessly like he-goats. The shame is so profound that two days ago a nairalander was seeking advice from people on how to stop the sexual advice of his neighbour 15 years old daughter and some idiots (may God forgive me, whether they are joking or not I don't know) advised him to embrace her sexual advances hence sleep with her as she is ripe already in their neighbourhood. 15years!!!! Ah some men useless sha. sadsad

Excellent one OP
I remember Iron Mike Tyson too, ruined by ex wife Robbin Givens. And big ups to my man Nelson Mandela who couldn't be manipulated.. Those beings(women) eh!

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Re: Men Are Getting Weaker And Women Are Getting Stronger by naijacentric(m): 6:42pm On Apr 23, 2017
pocohantas:
The post on this thread is the exact reason men will keep getting weaker, stop blaming women for all your woes and use your senses!
Some women have realised their power over some of you and are using it to their advantage.

Women wield sex over men because most of you think with your pricks. I see men saying women offer just sex, that's all you guys want. Women that have been with men who want beyond sex, know well to adjust. But sadly, such men are few, even their fellow men will accuse them of not being a sharp guy.
Now una dey cry? For this same NL where you guys insult your fellow guy because im no fu<k babe? Na una do unasef o. Leave women alone! Una done tire to fu<k?

A thread on sex in relationships, you see guys with so much aggression, campaigning for sex and you don't expect to be used? Y'all ain't seen nothing yet! The worse is yet to come... grin

The most difficult men to manipulate are those that can tame their sexual urges, not even those that hoard attention like you think...
ur so rite ever since my sex organ became my brain i noticed women find it hard to manipulate me d only tin dey get from me is attention its hard to reduce it but am trying
Re: Men Are Getting Weaker And Women Are Getting Stronger by Fkforyou(m): 6:44pm On Apr 23, 2017
I love this thread... cool

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Re: Men Are Getting Weaker And Women Are Getting Stronger by babasolution: 6:47pm On Apr 23, 2017
this is a great write up,i didnt know men like this are out there,pls all men should wake up,i have been talking about this for a while now,men in the west have been feminized and pussified completely,it is gradually creeping in africa,i always complain about this,there is a conspiracy against men in todays society in nigeria,old men who have been manipulated by women and women themselves are cleverly manipulating society against young men,in other to hand over power to women in the future,they are cleverly subvertly doing this through government aid mainly from western governments,NGO's and sponsorship by successful women eg linda ikeji,they want to boost female power through exclusion of young men and boys,its a wicked conspiracy by women against us,old men as well as pussified estrogen filled younger guys are their tools.pls young guys lets wake up and bond together and help ourselves,the women have infiltrated mens groups and associations breaking the bond of men,while they form women only associations were they secretly plan their agenda,look at the nigerian defence academy were the pussy president allowed girls in,thereby watering down an association of brothers,pls men lets bind together and crush our enemies,women will know they cant compete with real men so they cleverly manipulate and pussify men,unfortunately men are falling for this,pls men lets wake up

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Re: Men Are Getting Weaker And Women Are Getting Stronger by wristbangle: 6:47pm On Apr 23, 2017
Berbierklaus:

Ask your komkom head. tongue

Like say you dey there when any of those rantings you posted happened to her gringrin

She is a frustrated feminist. If she had read my post on the 1st page, her opinion wouldn't have spew from emotional aspect.

odehaj:
I remember Iron Mike Tyson too, ruined by ex wife Robbin Givens. And big ups to my man Nelson Mandela who couldn't be manipulated.. Those beings(women) eh!
Am telling u. We must learn from their mistake

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Re: Men Are Getting Weaker And Women Are Getting Stronger by papae1(m): 6:47pm On Apr 23, 2017
Tri gbosa for you @ OP

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Re: Men Are Getting Weaker And Women Are Getting Stronger by LordIsaac(m): 6:49pm On Apr 23, 2017
Bless you Op...I have often complained of this. How many NGO's out there on girls' issues and, almost zero on boys. The pastors will spend minutes admonishing ladies on how evil men are leaving the girls out. Hmmm, well, very soon, the tables will turn. We would have enough graduate girls queing to date, feed and clothe a street guy. Then, they would finally know the value of the male gender!

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Re: Men Are Getting Weaker And Women Are Getting Stronger by Nobody: 6:51pm On Apr 23, 2017
pocohantas:
The post on this thread is the exact reason men will keep getting weaker, stop blaming women for all your woes and use your senses!
Some women have realised their power over some of you and are using it to their advantage.

Women wield sex over men because most of you think with your pricks. I see men saying women offer just sex, that's all you guys want. Women that have been with men who want beyond sex, know well to adjust. But sadly, such men are few, even their fellow men will accuse them of not being a sharp guy.
Now una dey cry? For this same NL where you guys insult your fellow guy because im no fu<k babe? Na una do unasef o. Leave women alone! Una done tire to fu<k?

A thread on sex in relationships, you see guys with so much aggression, campaigning for sex and you don't expect to be used? Y'all ain't seen nothing yet! The worse is yet to come... grin

The most difficult men to manipulate are those that can tame their sexual urges, not even those that hoard attention like you think...
men have been blaming women for their problems since creation, even adam blamed eve for eating the fruit. Men blame women for infertility issue and so on. It is good their eyes have begun to open cos women will only stick with strong men. If they can discipline themselves, women will support them fully.

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Re: Men Are Getting Weaker And Women Are Getting Stronger by HarveySpecter1: 6:51pm On Apr 23, 2017
Chai. See some of the women here claiming to be intelligent. Na only to twerk show say una dey intelligent.

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Re: Men Are Getting Weaker And Women Are Getting Stronger by FaroukM(m): 6:51pm On Apr 23, 2017
only thing that caught my attention is...“Less attention mode”

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Re: Men Are Getting Weaker And Women Are Getting Stronger by Nobody: 6:56pm On Apr 23, 2017
HarveySpecter1:
Chai. See some of the women here claiming to be intelligent. Na only to twerk show say una dey intelligent.

unintelligent man spotted

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Re: Men Are Getting Weaker And Women Are Getting Stronger by oyetpel(m): 6:57pm On Apr 23, 2017
pocohantas:
The post on this thread is the exact reason men will keep getting weaker, stop blaming women for all your woes and use your senses!
Some women have realised their power over some of you and are using it to their advantage.

Women wield sex over men because most of you think with your pricks. I see men saying women offer just sex, that's all you guys want. Women that have been with men who want beyond sex, know well to adjust. But sadly, such men are few, even their fellow men will accuse them of not being a sharp guy.
Now una dey cry? For this same NL where you guys insult your fellow guy because im no fu<k babe? Na una do unasef o. Leave women alone! Una done tire to fu<k?

A thread on sex in relationships, you see guys with so much aggression, campaigning for sex and you don't expect to be used? Y'all ain't seen nothing yet! The worse is yet to come... grin

The most difficult men to manipulate are those that can tame their sexual urges, not even those that hoard attention like you think...
No man can tame that urge, except to masturbate.

Imagine u wake every morning and ur dïck is standing giripa like network mast.

Or you see Nicki Minaj wore revealing clothes and shake that thing, if you are a man you won't notice your sperm droplets.

Watch Dave Chappelle- Deep in the heart of texas and see how he talks abour married men even masturbate, because their wives have grown tired. And many people online agreed with his view.

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Re: Men Are Getting Weaker And Women Are Getting Stronger by Votukpa(m): 6:58pm On Apr 23, 2017
putit:
In recent times, men are getting weaker while women are getting stronger. Most men now act weak around women. That's why there are so many spoilt n disrespectful young women out there.

It's damn crazy..

There are so many wussy men who now eat up and condole these girls bad behaviors because they need sex from them. These spoilt women now feel they can eat their cake and have it. That's bad

Women can't live without men and they know it.. It's no surprise all my life I have heard women say they would rather hangout with male instead of female because they tend to get along with guys. And note that women with more male friends have more sex but not actually with them.

If a woman is placed in a jungle were there are wild animals, I doubt if she'll come out alive but put a man in a jungle full of wild animal, there is possibility he'll survive because men have physical attributes that can help him fight predators. Men have the body suited for fighting both animal and man.


Women may not possess the physical attributes of men but they have the ability to emotionally manipulate men..It's no wonder a girl of 20 years old can make a man of 45 years old behave like a 5 years old boy. Sex is the most powerful tool women have against men


Women are the gate keepers of sex while men are the gate keepers of commitment/relationships. Women knows they are the sexual gate keepers, and they know some men can sacrifices their kidneys (or even their life) for sex. That's why they take full advantages of it to emotionally manipulate men to get what they want.

Everybody always tell women to be cautious when it comes giving men sex but nobody told men to be cautious when it comes to the amount of ATTENTION they give women.

SEX is the most powerful weapon a woman have against a man

ATTENTION (or validation) is the most powerful weapon a man have against a woman.

Men are not taking advantage of the power ( of attention) they have. Women needs men attention. That's why they spend long time making up and painting their face before stepping out of their house
Attention is important to women ( and I think they love male attention more than sex itself). A man can manipulate a woman’s desire through adjustments to the amount or intensity of attention he gives to or withholds from her.

That's why a woman will chase a man that pay/give less attention to her.

You didn't choose the red pill
The red pill chose you

Re: Men Are Getting Weaker And Women Are Getting Stronger by odehaj: 7:00pm On Apr 23, 2017
And that Brenda girl on tinsel...I rest my case.
Re: Men Are Getting Weaker And Women Are Getting Stronger by JeffreyJamez(m): 7:03pm On Apr 23, 2017
I love this thread!!! cheesy...Glad to see there are still MEN with brains. grin

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Re: Men Are Getting Weaker And Women Are Getting Stronger by babasolution: 7:05pm On Apr 23, 2017
NotOfThis:
I like the title of this thread.
you are happy men are getting weaker right?
Re: Men Are Getting Weaker And Women Are Getting Stronger by kuchikau1: 7:05pm On Apr 23, 2017
sex is womens greatest weapon against men. Do u no dat if a gal decide to kill a man, it already done. My brother, every i see guy doing all sort of tin just to gain a gals love, they follow tis gals like sheep witout a shephered, making dis gals feel like queen elizabeth. See hw undaage gals no longer have respect for adults,simply because dey are ben beged and chase by idiot who call demselves guys/men. I came to hate gals wen i knew about d chemistry of their menstral process and hw dey have enslaved men. Imagine a guy tinks hw to bed a gal just merely looking at her and these gals has taking adventage of this to manupulate men, kill great men, destroy d future of young guys.

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Re: Men Are Getting Weaker And Women Are Getting Stronger by Nobody: 7:06pm On Apr 23, 2017
I recommend bros to read the book called The Great Female Con.... thank me later smiley

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Re: Men Are Getting Weaker And Women Are Getting Stronger by JeffreyJamez(m): 7:07pm On Apr 23, 2017
oyetpel:

No man can tame that urge, except to masturbate.

Imagine u wake every morning and ur dïck is standing giripa like network mast.

Or you see Nicki Minaj wore revealing clothes and shake that thing, if you are a man you won't notice your sperm droplets.

Watch Dave Chappelle- Deep in the heart of texas and see how he talks abour married men even masturbate, because their wives have grown tired. And many people online agreed with his view.



Don't get it twisted, there are still men who have control over their sexual desires..Don't generalise please. thank you

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Re: Men Are Getting Weaker And Women Are Getting Stronger by babasolution: 7:07pm On Apr 23, 2017
putit:
In recent times, men are getting weaker while women are getting stronger. Most men now act weak around women. That's why there are so many spoilt n disrespectful young women out there.

It's damn crazy..

There are so many wussy men who now eat up and condole these girls bad behaviors because they need sex from them. These spoilt women now feel they can eat their cake and have it. That's bad

Women can't live without men and they know it.. It's no surprise all my life I have heard women say they would rather hangout with male instead of female because they tend to get along with guys. And note that women with more male friends have more sex but not actually with them.

If a woman is placed in a jungle were there are wild animals, I doubt if she'll come out alive but put a man in a jungle full of wild animal, there is possibility he'll survive because men have physical attributes that can help him fight predators. Men have the body suited for fighting both animal and man.


Women may not possess the physical attributes of men but they have the ability to emotionally manipulate men..It's no wonder a girl of 20 years old can make a man of 45 years old behave like a 5 years old boy. Sex is the most powerful tool women have against men


Women are the gate keepers of sex while men are the gate keepers of commitment/relationships. Women knows they are the sexual gate keepers, and they know some men can sacrifices their kidneys (or even their life) for sex. That's why they take full advantages of it to emotionally manipulate men to get what they want.

Everybody always tell women to be cautious when it comes giving men sex but nobody told men to be cautious when it comes to the amount of ATTENTION they give women.

SEX is the most powerful weapon a woman have against a man

ATTENTION (or validation) is the most powerful weapon a man have against a woman.

Men are not taking advantage of the power ( of attention) they have. Women needs men attention. That's why they spend long time making up and painting their face before stepping out of their house
Attention is important to women ( and I think they love male attention more than sex itself). A man can manipulate a woman’s desire through adjustments to the amount or intensity of attention he gives to or withholds from her.

That's why a woman will chase a man that pay/give less attention to her.




putit.u are a greatman,i really respect you for this write up,keep up the good work

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Re: Men Are Getting Weaker And Women Are Getting Stronger by lazygal: 7:08pm On Apr 23, 2017
putit:
In recent times, men are getting weaker while women are getting stronger. Most men now act weak around women. That's why there are so many spoilt n disrespectful young women out there.

It's damn crazy..

There are so many wussy men who now eat up and condole these girls bad behaviors because they need sex from them. These spoilt women now feel they can eat their cake and have it. That's bad

Women can't live without men and they know it.. It's no surprise all my life I have heard women say they would rather hangout with male instead of female because they tend to get along with guys. And note that women with more male friends have more sex but not actually with them.

If a woman is placed in a jungle were there are wild animals, I doubt if she'll come out alive but put a man in a jungle full of wild animal, there is possibility he'll survive because men have physical attributes that can help him fight predators. Men have the body suited for fighting both animal and man.


Women may not possess the physical attributes of men but they have the ability to emotionally manipulate men..It's no wonder a girl of 20 years old can make a man of 45 years old behave like a 5 years old boy. Sex is the most powerful tool women have against men


Women are the gate keepers of sex while men are the gate keepers of commitment/relationships. Women knows they are the sexual gate keepers, and they know some men can sacrifices their kidneys (or even their life) for sex. That's why they take full advantages of it to emotionally manipulate men to get what they want.

Everybody always tell women to be cautious when it comes giving men sex but nobody told men to be cautious when it comes to the amount of ATTENTION they give women.

SEX is the most powerful weapon a woman have against a man

ATTENTION (or validation) is the most powerful weapon a man have against a woman.

Men are not taking advantage of the power ( of attention) they have. Women needs men attention. That's why they spend long time making up and painting their face before stepping out of their house
Attention is important to women ( and I think they love male attention more than sex itself). A man can manipulate a woman’s desire through adjustments to the amount or intensity of attention he gives to or withholds from her.

That's why a woman will chase a man that pay/give less attention to he





What power do men possess let's be honest here? Exactly what power put a woman in a jungle and she will charm the beasts .Don't forget your history ,women have destroyed nations with out a single sword and no not with their bodies... Did you know Hitler had a woman he feared

Chairman,when men don't know their duties and women are the cones bringing food to the table ... When men are now asking for women to add to money for home keeping unlike our parents time what respect do u expect ? And do u want women to now go out and be doing SME SME. Outside ?


This piece is rubbish

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Re: Men Are Getting Weaker And Women Are Getting Stronger by babasolution: 7:09pm On Apr 23, 2017
queenbetsy:
una never see anything. grin
this is just the beginning... wink


it will end soon,younger guys are waking up,and we will soon start training men to put an end to this menace of society

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Re: Men Are Getting Weaker And Women Are Getting Stronger by babyfaceafrica: 7:09pm On Apr 23, 2017
You guys should ignore the ladies and face the topic...you don't expect them to agree with you ,do you?..big ups to the OP for not engaging anyone discontented person in an unnecessary discourse...you have a point sir

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