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5 Honest Reasons Why Some Nigerian Girls Are Still Single by ThisTrend(f): 8:26pm On Apr 23, 2017
While a great deal of females are gladly in love and a many more are happily engaged and getting married most weekends, there's a host of other people who find this difficult are remain solo to stupor.

Just how do people meet and show up in love is exactly what they keep requesting.., How do they get blessed? Well, below are a few brutally honest explanations why some Nigerian girls are still solo.

1. You Don’t Behave Like A Proper Lady Should: There are so a lot of women around who've a awful/bad/stuck up frame of mind. They cover it up sometimes by declaring to be too much temperature for whatever man comes their way. It's mainly a 50/50 thing; sometimes it is possible to maintain the facade and other times it blows to smithereens in that person. That is a brutally honest reason they are solitary.

2. You Think Your Beauty Is All There Is: In every situation you are faced with, you believe that your looks would see you through. Truth is if a man talks with you and figures you have nothing else to offer why would he want to make you his woman?

He will still want s3x but that’s it…you would just be a commodity for him to use, admire, and cast away when he’s done.

3. You Are A Gold Digger: Maybe not at this level but what he makes has become your utmost goal. You are so caught up in the money that you overlook the important facets of every relationship. A rich guy who realizes that that’s all you’re about would eventually ignore you.

4. You Think Men Are The Reason For All Your Problems: You remain single because you refuse to make yourself accountable for your actions. All your problems stem from the male populace and you feel all would be well the moment they start to tow the imaginary line you have drawn. You would behave well if the man behaves well.

While I agree that a lot of men need to step up, to often it is a case of a lady feeling more entitled than she should normally feel. This expectancy would need to a relentless series of nagging and yammering.

5. You Don’t Maintain Yourself; While you must not do your nails every week, it is an honest fact that some ladies fail miserably in this regard of taking care of themselves.

Some of you ladies put no effort into your looks and overall hygiene which is really bad.

Thank you for reading.

Source: http://www.thistrend.com.ng/2017/04/5-reasons-why-some-nigerian-girls-are.html?m=1

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Re: 5 Honest Reasons Why Some Nigerian Girls Are Still Single by josephine123: 8:35pm On Apr 23, 2017
nice one op

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Re: 5 Honest Reasons Why Some Nigerian Girls Are Still Single by dollyjoy(f): 8:38pm On Apr 23, 2017
undecided

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Re: 5 Honest Reasons Why Some Nigerian Girls Are Still Single by Nobody: 8:39pm On Apr 23, 2017
Lastly too many 1 minute guystongue

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Re: 5 Honest Reasons Why Some Nigerian Girls Are Still Single by OGsteven(m): 8:41pm On Apr 23, 2017
You only look after rich guys so u always get bleeped and and be left.....

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Re: 5 Honest Reasons Why Some Nigerian Girls Are Still Single by Nobody: 8:43pm On Apr 23, 2017
Nice write up OP.

I think the biggest reason is they prefer to be gold diggers. They prefer to be the side chic or the baby mama. Reaping where they don't sow. Simply due to laziness.

The world is changing. No one likes a liability.
Men now prefer hard working independent women.
If you decide to be a gold digger you'll remain single.

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Re: 5 Honest Reasons Why Some Nigerian Girls Are Still Single by oviejnr(m): 8:44pm On Apr 23, 2017
Op your on point, you'll see the ones that fall in any of these category will bash this write up. The second poster is one of them grin cheesy cheesy cheesy

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Re: 5 Honest Reasons Why Some Nigerian Girls Are Still Single by CaroLyner(f): 8:53pm On Apr 23, 2017
6.Love of career:
Some ladies are so in love with their career and cannot give it up for a man.

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Re: 5 Honest Reasons Why Some Nigerian Girls Are Still Single by TrapHedges(m): 8:57pm On Apr 23, 2017
Lol...
Re: 5 Honest Reasons Why Some Nigerian Girls Are Still Single by Nobody: 9:47pm On Apr 23, 2017
Lmao this is so accurate. Some girls need to come down to earth.

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Re: 5 Honest Reasons Why Some Nigerian Girls Are Still Single by puremaind: 11:26pm On Apr 23, 2017
5 things 1 not be humble. 2 high test. 3 bad manner. 4 greedy. 5 high expectation

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Re: 5 Honest Reasons Why Some Nigerian Girls Are Still Single by Marcus01: 11:35pm On Apr 23, 2017
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Re: 5 Honest Reasons Why Some Nigerian Girls Are Still Single by Doctorfitz: 11:47pm On Apr 23, 2017
Lols. Nairaland girls don buy market for una hand. grin
Re: 5 Honest Reasons Why Some Nigerian Girls Are Still Single by Nobody: 9:19pm On Apr 25, 2017
grin grin grin grin
Re: 5 Honest Reasons Why Some Nigerian Girls Are Still Single by Tazdroid(m): 9:20pm On Apr 25, 2017
Some single ladies right now.

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Re: 5 Honest Reasons Why Some Nigerian Girls Are Still Single by Brymo: 9:20pm On Apr 25, 2017
They are waiting for someone to carry their load

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Re: 5 Honest Reasons Why Some Nigerian Girls Are Still Single by KKKWHITE(m): 9:21pm On Apr 25, 2017
Girls are GOLD DIGGERS undecided

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Re: 5 Honest Reasons Why Some Nigerian Girls Are Still Single by Nobody: 9:21pm On Apr 25, 2017
Your points are VALID sha sad

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Re: 5 Honest Reasons Why Some Nigerian Girls Are Still Single by EWAagoyin(m): 9:21pm On Apr 25, 2017
They talk 2 all guys that comes dere way and become friends with them and expect dere man keep queit and take dem serious

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Re: 5 Honest Reasons Why Some Nigerian Girls Are Still Single by Nobody: 9:21pm On Apr 25, 2017
You didn't add the most important reason to that list:
feminism.

Ladies nowadays, in the name of women empowerment, want to become the head of the family and upset the natural family balance. Who will marry a girl that cannot even offer to cook food for you or do a simple chore while you're dating?

And they expect a guy to "put a ring on it". I'm coming to put a ring on it. . . Just wait oo...

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Re: 5 Honest Reasons Why Some Nigerian Girls Are Still Single by Turks: 9:22pm On Apr 25, 2017
*You think your boyfriend is your father

*B**bs and A** is all you bring to the table, no iota of intelligence. FYI: Guys love intelligent ladies.

*You make up more than a clown

*You nag a lot

To top it all off, YOU CANNOT COOK. angry

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Re: 5 Honest Reasons Why Some Nigerian Girls Are Still Single by verygudbadguy(m): 9:22pm On Apr 25, 2017
Nice write up @OP
First of all, I think Nigerian girls are beautiful. I mean that.

They are beautiful enough to attract men. I mean good men but one thing we are not considering is the ability of guys to cater for themselves, family and ladies.

Most guys these days do not think of marriage. They are not financially stable. Our girls need to appear less of a liability. If a guy earning 100k monthly with little responsibility hanging around his neck, meets a babe earning close to 100k, starting off something won't be difficult.

Another thing we need to deliberate on is this divorce palava hovering every corner of the country. Single guys and ladies no longer see marriage as a norm as they are now embracing baby mama/daddy culture.

Guys need to appear serious too. You don't start sagging about when you are looking for a prospective wife.

Ladies should also drop the i-never-chop attitude and act like a real lady who is ready to settle down for real. Start little, grow the marriage and you will be happy you did.

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Re: 5 Honest Reasons Why Some Nigerian Girls Are Still Single by sheanzy(m): 9:22pm On Apr 25, 2017
Marcus01:
And how is it your business if they are single? For God's sake, you guys should learn to mind your business. Live and let live. Not every one wants to get married. Just mind your business. That's d most important thing. Marry and leave the single ones. How is it affecting you?
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Marcus01:
And how is it your business if they are single? For God's sake, you guys should learn to mind your business. Live and let live. Not every one wants to get married. Just mind your business. That's d most important thing. Marry and leave the single ones. How is it affecting you?
why so pained?

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Re: 5 Honest Reasons Why Some Nigerian Girls Are Still Single by coolestchris(m): 9:22pm On Apr 25, 2017
they wanna punish us for sins of their father's

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Re: 5 Honest Reasons Why Some Nigerian Girls Are Still Single by Goldenrichard(m): 9:22pm On Apr 25, 2017
Op are you single?

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Re: 5 Honest Reasons Why Some Nigerian Girls Are Still Single by Nobody: 9:23pm On Apr 25, 2017
There're females who are single by choice. Why isn't that on the list?

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Re: 5 Honest Reasons Why Some Nigerian Girls Are Still Single by lilyheaven: 9:23pm On Apr 25, 2017
You didn't add, those who
Re: 5 Honest Reasons Why Some Nigerian Girls Are Still Single by Moneyyy: 9:24pm On Apr 25, 2017
Goldenrichard:
Op are you single?
Yes she is, she just told is why she us still single

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Re: 5 Honest Reasons Why Some Nigerian Girls Are Still Single by KKKWHITE(m): 9:24pm On Apr 25, 2017
Oyind17:
Lastly too many 1 minute guystongue
Not even 30 minutes

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Re: 5 Honest Reasons Why Some Nigerian Girls Are Still Single by Nobody: 9:24pm On Apr 25, 2017
6. The witches in your village are licking lollipop with your destiny

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Re: 5 Honest Reasons Why Some Nigerian Girls Are Still Single by Victornezzar: 9:24pm On Apr 25, 2017
CaroLyner:
6.Love of career:
Some ladies are so in love with their career and cannot give it up for a man.
ehn it's hard 2 find a gal hu has a career oo

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Re: 5 Honest Reasons Why Some Nigerian Girls Are Still Single by Nobody: 9:24pm On Apr 25, 2017
CaroLyner:
6.Love of career:
Some ladies are so in love with their career and cannot give it up for a man.

You will give up your career for a man?

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