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Re: Men Are Getting Weaker And Women Are Getting Stronger by Ngokafor(f): 8:39pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
Berbierklaus: ...No abeg no disgrace them further ..they are doing a good job of that themselves 4 Likes |
Re: Men Are Getting Weaker And Women Are Getting Stronger by Berbierklaus(f): 8:40pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
wristbangle:As if I don't know what you are before,that is why I gave myself brain that year when you been dey ask me out nah Na second citizen you dey find, continue you go dey alright 4 Likes |
Re: Men Are Getting Weaker And Women Are Getting Stronger by ideology(m): 8:41pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
pls post them, this thread was to educate them, till u baes felt threatened, Posting them will support Putit's write up and help those guys wake up, thank u Berbierklaus: 7 Likes |
Re: Men Are Getting Weaker And Women Are Getting Stronger by Berbierklaus(f): 8:43pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
pocohantas:Haha haha haha haha haha haha I so laughed tonight,mehn you baddest. I've carried out that acting like a dumbo experiment before,works like magic,suddenly you will start getting likes, PMs,praises,as if that changes anything. 5 Likes |
Re: Men Are Getting Weaker And Women Are Getting Stronger by sammyj: 8:43pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
This is amazing !!! Tallesty1: 1 Like |
Re: Men Are Getting Weaker And Women Are Getting Stronger by Berbierklaus(f): 8:44pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
Tallesty1:What is true I don't have strength for argument this night biko,I'm just here to laugh and jest Hahahahahahahahahahahahah |
Re: Men Are Getting Weaker And Women Are Getting Stronger by Saintmary(f): 8:45pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
ideology:you are so full of yourself. linking up with intelligent people simply means we are better together. I think you feel threatened by the prospect of a large number of females working together. I decide not to be offended but rather pity you because you are so accustomed to the status quo that you are afraid of change. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Men Are Getting Weaker And Women Are Getting Stronger by ideology(m): 8:46pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
giving them attention is just not the main issue but always acting stupid just because the person is a lady. Now lady's feel they should be treated nicely just because they are ladies ... Just like u are telling me to be soft on her, I hope its not because she is a lady Odunharry: 4 Likes |
Re: Men Are Getting Weaker And Women Are Getting Stronger by blackfase(m): 8:46pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
I love this thread/ post. Can personally relate to it. Op, welldone! A bit more excerpts from Vilars' satire.... "The book argues that, contrary to common feminist and women’s rights rhetoric, women in industrialized cultures are not oppressed, but rather exploit a well-established system of manipulating men. Vilar writes, “Men have been trained and conditioned by women, not unlike the way Pavlov conditioned his dogs, into becoming their slaves. As compensation for their labours men are given periodic use of a woman’s vagina.” The book contends that young boys are encouraged to associate their masculinity with their ability to be sexually intimate with a woman, and that a woman can control a man by socially empowering herself to be the gate-keeper to his sense of masculinity. In addition, Vilar states that this has happened and has been going on for some time. The author says that social definitions and norms, such as the idea that women are weak, are constructed by women with their needs in mind . Vilar explains how it works; if women are viewed as weak, less is expected of them therefore they are given more leeway in society than men. The concept of “gold-diggers” is referenced, with Vilar stating that is a fundamental trait of women as a whole. Furthermore, that to help control men praise is only given to a man when a woman’s needs are met in some way. Vilar claims that women can control their emotional reactions whereas men cannot, and that women create overly-dramatized emotional reactions to attempt to control men and get their way. She says that women “blackmail” men, with emotion blackmail being their most common tactic, and use sex as a tool. The book argues that women use traditions and concepts of love and romance, which are seen more positively than sex, to control men’s sexual lives. Vilar writes that men gain nothing from marriage and that women, who are out to get men’s money, coerce them into marriage under the pretense that it is romantic. The book closes with Vilar stating that it would be difficult to change the situation, as women are unsympathetic to the plight of men along with not wanting to give up their comfortable position in society and that men need to see past the deception and emotional blackmail and call it out before any meaningful changes can occur.” 3 Likes
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Re: Men Are Getting Weaker And Women Are Getting Stronger by Nobody: 8:48pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
Ngokafor:Gbam!!!You couldn't have said it better. Men are the most confused entities on the planet.Women will continue to control and manipulate them as long as they keep thinking with their d!cks.They say all we have to offer is pussy but isn't that what most of them want?You hardly find a man that is genuinely interested in you these days without asking for sex.They demand sex as a reward for favors yet still call women "oloshos" and rant about how ladies are materialistic. Confused species they are! 6 Likes |
Re: Men Are Getting Weaker And Women Are Getting Stronger by Nobody: 8:48pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
Malakh:OMG, u just said my mind. Thumps up!!! 2 Likes |
Re: Men Are Getting Weaker And Women Are Getting Stronger by Nobody: 8:48pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
@pics. Are these the strong women? |
Re: Men Are Getting Weaker And Women Are Getting Stronger by holycuriousity(m): 8:49pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
Your topic is dope but your write up ain't as insightful as I thought it'll be. .... I'll come back on this one.... |
Re: Men Are Getting Weaker And Women Are Getting Stronger by Nobody: 8:50pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
Women will continue to be stronger while men will grow weaker. They have come to discover what they carry and are beginning to use it. The society must also not blame men for failed families. 1 Like |
Re: Men Are Getting Weaker And Women Are Getting Stronger by Saintmary(f): 8:50pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
ideology:you make sense occassionally, this instance is not one of them! |
Re: Men Are Getting Weaker And Women Are Getting Stronger by ideology(m): 8:50pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
shame, who cares about your number or group ... I only pity the future generation ... Bae, i dont do status quo, U ae the ones looking for a way to maintain status quo because u feel threatened by OP post simple ... SaintMary my foot. I am full of the fact that I don't give a damn to any lady and am proud of that, I command respect everywhere I go, #FoTheREcords Saintmary: 7 Likes |
Re: Men Are Getting Weaker And Women Are Getting Stronger by Nobody: 8:51pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
muller101:Lolz 1 Like |
Re: Men Are Getting Weaker And Women Are Getting Stronger by Nobody: 8:52pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
sarahade:Nl boys?? see what y'all have been reduced to cos of the shameless acts of the majority of you.chai |
Re: Men Are Getting Weaker And Women Are Getting Stronger by Saintmary(f): 8:53pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
ideology:this guy is so pained 4 Likes |
Re: Men Are Getting Weaker And Women Are Getting Stronger by ideology(m): 8:54pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
damn! I knew I have many stalkers on NL but I never knew you were one of them I just noticed u, hahahahahahaaa happy sunday! Saintmary: 5 Likes |
Re: Men Are Getting Weaker And Women Are Getting Stronger by sosa993: 8:56pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
putit: actually you were blaming women indirectly. your situation is me blaming a lecturer for failing a course and then I start making excuses about how the lecturer has hated me and treated me badly when in reality I failed an exam because I didn't prepare. one thing I detest most in my life is blaming others for your own failure. my point is I think men are becoming weaker by the day because tables have turned, you people have taken the nagging trait of women. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Men Are Getting Weaker And Women Are Getting Stronger by Odunharry(m): 8:57pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
Berbierklaus:Madam cool down.. wetin d guy do u |
Re: Men Are Getting Weaker And Women Are Getting Stronger by ideology(m): 8:58pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
hahahahahahhahaha, wetin concern me, Its been long I spent close to 30 mins on NL just to see this nice post with some threatened ladies trying to show themselves. By the way I know how ladies group ends ... so am not moved hahahahahahha Saintmary: 6 Likes |
Re: Men Are Getting Weaker And Women Are Getting Stronger by Saintmary(f): 8:58pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
ideology:puffy ego gets you nowhere. Well, playtime over. |
Re: Men Are Getting Weaker And Women Are Getting Stronger by VanBommel(m): 8:59pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
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Re: Men Are Getting Weaker And Women Are Getting Stronger by Odunharry(m): 9:00pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
ideology:I pity men who act stupid or do things they can't do for their friends all cos of cookie. 6 Likes |
Re: Men Are Getting Weaker And Women Are Getting Stronger by sosa993: 9:00pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
Brownbarbie97: as in they've been reduced gan, this NL guys are the ones who have made me see guys as nothing but sissies. I mean how can a man. able bodied man be nagging . this whole write up is nothing but pure nagging. ever since I've know men, when they fail in something they never look far than to blame women, it's really sickening. it's like me failing an exam then blaming my lecturer, instead of getting serious and prepare more. 5 Likes |
Re: Men Are Getting Weaker And Women Are Getting Stronger by ideology(m): 9:01pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
sosa993:but directly he was blaming the men right! CC SAINTMARY 5 Likes |
Re: Men Are Getting Weaker And Women Are Getting Stronger by Odunharry(m): 9:02pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
ideology:Lmao.. like seriously i no evn get any friend's make they do msc that year or know who you dey talk about. My service year na low key stuffs. For the bae issue, man dey pray make him no make the wrong decision at all. God help us. Me get many things i dey reason for now jare. But e don reach make you get pikin make go dey call me uncle and i go dey buy things for. |
Re: Men Are Getting Weaker And Women Are Getting Stronger by sosa993: 9:04pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
ideology: doesn't change the fact he's tying all or most blames on women. you hardly see a woman fail in something and then blame the opposite gender. this is pure nagging, I think the first thing this new generation men need to become real men again, is to stop NAGGING, when that is settled then talk about controlling your dicks 7 Likes |
Re: Men Are Getting Weaker And Women Are Getting Stronger by ideology(m): 9:04pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
ego ni, u know nothing about me joor ... Leave the matter, sometimes I thank my God am not a lady ... Saintmary: 1 Like |
Re: Men Are Getting Weaker And Women Are Getting Stronger by Odunharry(m): 9:05pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
Berbierklaus:Post pm mk we see.. 2 Likes |
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