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Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by Afonjashapmouth: 3:45pm On Apr 27, 2017
Toor in my opinion

Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by aribisala0(m): 3:46pm On Apr 27, 2017
Dominicah:
Love is important in a relationship, however, availability of finance makes the love wax stronger. A man should be able to buy gifts constantly for his girl friend, take her out on dates, send her cash once in a while, transfer airtime to her phone even when she does not ask, these acts keeps the love alive. Take it or leave it, women are moved by such acts, that's why you see a woman say a man is caring once he can meet her needs.

This thread isn't about broke men, when you are broke as a man, its not your fault, but try to share the little you have with your girl, if you don't you are stingy and a stingy man does not deserve a woman. He should go for prostitutes and call girls, leave decent girls alone.

Some mumu boys will call a girl who requires financial support a gold digger, that is wrong. The man is the giver in a relationship, while the woman is the receiver. guys, use your heads and start meeting up with your responsibilities.

For the ladies, its not wise spending on a guy, he will just finish your money and move on, don't be desperate.

A word is enough for the wise.
I can tel,l your background reading this.You grew up eating food cooked with kerosene which tends to shape outlook in lifeThose kids who grew up on gas cooked food reason very differently and my take is make kerosene people dey date kerosene people and make firewood people dey date diasef to avoid quarrel

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Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by gare2510(m): 3:46pm On Apr 27, 2017
1. What is ur definition of stingy, is it capability or willingness?
Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by Acidosis(m): 3:46pm On Apr 27, 2017
This nonsense can only come from a career pr
ostitute or a broke girl from a poor background.

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Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by donqx: 3:46pm On Apr 27, 2017
what is the value of girlfirend that is overdemanding

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Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by JeffreyJamez(m): 3:46pm On Apr 27, 2017
Alero3Arubi:
The rate at which every gender keeps writing about their right to be the one who receives the monetary favors in a relationship on this nairaland romance section is alarming.
What exactly do you want as person going into a relationship?
Is money the only thing that is prevalent in relationships?
And please don't come hitting me with the other most talked about thing 'love'.

What do you expect from people who are just dating to bear the tag "boyfriend" and "girlfriend" with no realostic goals in the relationship.

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Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by wristbangle: 3:47pm On Apr 27, 2017
Safiaa:
Get ready sis. They are coming in 1...2...3.... grin grin

Na this kind thread we go see this tolotolo tongue

Back to topic, I am not comfortable with "constantly" giving a lady money even if the guy is the richest in the world. This would make her unproductive, unfulfilled, dependent and hungry for the rest of her life. Ladies should learn to be independent financially irrespective of the level of financial status of their boyfriends.

Though, I am not in support of stingy guys. Do you know some guys are rich yet they are stingy while some are broke but are generous?

God bless the lady below me and may God bless the hustle of your boyfriend as when he becomes your husband, your marriage will be blissful. No mind the starved bellied OP cool

Between you will shocked that what ladies like the OP have in return is her kpetus which is a liability when marriage is not involved and will even be a liability when expenditure (children) is more than budget (money) in marriage sef cool

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Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by Nobody: 3:47pm On Apr 27, 2017
My boyfriend is not stingy he doesn't have ni and he won't steal to meet my needs, shikena!

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Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by crazymommy(f): 3:48pm On Apr 27, 2017
Dominicah:
it's a woman's nature to be dependent.
Some nigerians and their mumu statment,and if the men too starts claiming their own right that it is a man nature to cheat u will start crying....where u the one that created the nature??did Oprah Winfrey depended on any man before she succeeded??

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Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by Nobody: 3:48pm On Apr 27, 2017
Acidosis:

This nonsense can only come from a career pr
ostitute or a broke girl from a poor background.
Kuku kill the op

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Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by Rubyventures: 3:49pm On Apr 27, 2017
Dominicah:
Love is important in a relationship, however, availability of finance makes the love wax stronger. A man should be able to buy gifts constantly for his girl friend, take her out on dates, send her cash once in a while, transfer airtime to her phone even when she does not ask, these acts keeps the love alive. Take it or leave it, women are moved by such acts, that's why you see a woman say a man is caring once he can meet her needs.

This thread isn't about broke men, when you are broke as a man, its not your fault, but try to share the little you have with your girl, if you don't you are stingy and a stingy man does not deserve a woman. He should go for prostitutes and call girls, leave decent girls alone.

Some mumu boys will call a girl who requires financial support a gold digger, that is wrong. The man is the giver in a relationship, while the woman is the receiver. guys, use your heads and start meeting up with your responsibilities.

For the ladies, its not wise spending on a guy, he will just finish your money and move on, don't be desperate.

A word is enough for the wise.

Most Nigerian women don't know the meaning of Romance, the presents don't only have to come from the man. I cant stand vain and materialistic women

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Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by Nobody: 3:49pm On Apr 27, 2017
Only a liability not an asset thinks this way...

Ladies, you should be an ASSET to your man, not a liability.

All these bitter ladies that come online to rant sef undecided

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Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by Nobody: 3:49pm On Apr 27, 2017
undecided undecided undecided undecided
Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by Nobody: 3:49pm On Apr 27, 2017
wristbangle:


Na this kind thread we go see this tolotolo tongue

Back to topic, I am not comfortable with "constantly" giving a lady money even if the guy is the richest in the world. This would make her unproductive, unfulfilled, dependent and hungry for the rest of her life. Ladies should learn to be independent financially irrespective of the level of financial status of their boyfriends.

Though, I am not in support of stingy guys. Do you know some guys are rich yet they are stingy while some are broke but are generous.
One of the stingy boys grintongue

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Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by mctowel01: 3:50pm On Apr 27, 2017
Dominicah:
why quote me if you don't want me to quote you? Izzit your data? Nonsense.
comon gerarahia!... unintelligent thing

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Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by wristbangle: 3:51pm On Apr 27, 2017
Oyind18:
One of the stingy boys grintongue

Wow, one of the hungry ladies grintongue

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Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by perfecti(f): 3:51pm On Apr 27, 2017
I get where the op is coming from. I once went out with a guy for seven months who was broke because he was owed up to seven months salary. i noticed that when he eventually got paid, he disappeared for some time only to show up empty. When he disappeared the second time after he got paid the second trench, i kicked his stingy ass to the curb. See him begging and all sorts, i was done. I am a working class lady and i pay my bills. the last thing on my mind is to have a stingy man in my life. I learnt that he was naturally stingy, so it is not the case of me being a gold digger because i work hard for the money i spend. I only wanted to be sure that he was responsible enough to take care of me in the future.

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Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by Cleopatra4(f): 3:51pm On Apr 27, 2017
JeffreyJamez:


Cheating is a natural thing with men? undecided
Yes.
Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by Nobody: 3:52pm On Apr 27, 2017
wristbangle:


Wow, one of the hungry ladies grintongue
I'm not in support of the thread. When last did you buy purewater for a babe? tongue
Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by Ralphdan(m): 3:53pm On Apr 27, 2017
Dominicah:
Love is important in a relationship, however, availability of finance makes the love wax stronger. A man should be able to buy gifts constantly for his girl friend, take her out on dates, send her cash once in a while, transfer airtime to her phone even when she does not ask, these acts keeps the love alive. Take it or leave it, women are moved by such acts, that's why you see a woman say a man is caring once he can meet her needs.

This thread isn't about broke men, when you are broke as a man, its not your fault, but try to share the little you have with your girl, if you don't you are stingy and a stingy man does not deserve a woman. He should go for prostitutes and call girls, leave decent girls alone.

Some mumu boys will call a girl who requires financial support a gold digger, that is wrong. The man is the giver in a relationship, while the woman is the receiver. guys, use your heads and start meeting up with your responsibilities.

For the ladies, its not wise spending on a guy, he will just finish your money and move on, don't be desperate.

A word is enough for the wise.

Lol grin
Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by Nobody: 3:53pm On Apr 27, 2017
what is the value of a girlfriend that sees her boyfriend as ATM?
Fend for yourself my friend angry

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Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by ElDadd: 3:53pm On Apr 27, 2017
mctowel01:
Guys read "the manipulated man", by Esther vilar
Can you mail it to me?

PM?
Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by perfecti(f): 3:53pm On Apr 27, 2017
JohnXcel:
Only a liability not an asset thinks this way...

Ladies, you should be an ASSET to your man, not a liability.

All these bitter ladies that come online to rant sef undecided


I get where the op is coming from. I once went out with a guy for seven months who was broke because he was owed up to seven months salary. i noticed that when he eventually got paid, he disappeared for some time only to show up empty. When he disappeared the second time after he got paid the second trench, i kicked his stingy ass to the curb. See him begging and all sorts, i was done. I am a working class lady and i pay my bills. the last thing on my mind is to have a stingy man in my life. I learnt that he was naturally stingy, so it is not the case of me being a gold digger because i work hard for the money i spend. I only wanted to be sure that he was responsible enough to take care of me in the future.

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Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by I888(m): 3:53pm On Apr 27, 2017
Safiaa:
Get ready sis. They are coming in 1...2...3.... grin grin
i had
Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by Nobody: 3:53pm On Apr 27, 2017
No value 0-0=0.... And the most annoying thing is that they simply want all the attention and they even ''won do pass'' guys wey they give wella.....their rate is NOTHING.
Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by JeffreyJamez(m): 3:54pm On Apr 27, 2017
Cleopatra4:

Yes.

No. It's not..Thank you
Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by Nobody: 3:54pm On Apr 27, 2017
Damn!

So women are now slaves ?

I do not think hardworking women will agree with this olosho aspirant mentality.

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Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by Acidosis(m): 3:55pm On Apr 27, 2017
Oyind18:
Kuku kill the op

Yes o. Whoever goes into a relationship on the basis of financial benefits and gains from the better half is a parasitic pros. titute.

I enter into relationships based on feelings (love) and mutual understanding. In the course of the relationship, we are bound to face financial needs, and of course, either party can provide.

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Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by wristbangle: 3:55pm On Apr 27, 2017
Oyind18:
I'm not in support of the thread. When last did you buy purewater for a babe? tongue

Lol I know, I am just kidding m'am.

Ermm I think the last time was 350AD sha

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Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by JeffreyJamez(m): 3:55pm On Apr 27, 2017
perfecti:



I get where the op is coming from. I once went out with a guy for seven months who was broke because he was owed up to seven months salary. i noticed that when he eventually got paid, he disappeared for some time only to show up empty. When he disappeared the second time after he got paid the second trench, i kicked his stingy ass to the curb. See him begging and all sorts, i was done. I am a working class lady and i pay my bills. the last thing on my mind is to have a stingy man in my life. I learnt that he was naturally stingy, so it is not the case of me being a gold digger because i work hard for the money i spend. I only wanted to be sure that he was responsible enough to take care of me in the future.


This scenario is kinda different from what this dumb op is talking about.

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Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by babyfaceafrica: 3:56pm On Apr 27, 2017
Nansense
Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by wanted222(m): 3:56pm On Apr 27, 2017
Dominicah:
Love is important in a relationship, however, availability of finance makes the love wax stronger. A man should be able to buy gifts constantly for his girl friend, take her out on dates, send her cash once in a while, transfer airtime to her phone even when she does not ask, these acts keeps the love alive. Take it or leave it, women are moved by such acts, that's why you see a woman say a man is caring once he can meet her needs.

This thread isn't about broke men, when you are broke as a man, its not your fault, but try to share the little you have with your girl, if you don't you are stingy and a stingy man does not deserve a woman. He should go for prostitutes and call girls, leave decent girls alone.

Some mumu boys will call a girl who requires financial support a gold digger, that is wrong. The man is the giver in a relationship, while the woman is the receiver. guys, use your heads and start meeting up with your responsibilities.

For the ladies, its not wise spending on a guy, he will just finish your money and move on, don't be desperate.
And what stops you from making your own money does the guys have two heads don't you ve brains and ur two hands and legs like dose?

A word is enough for the wise.

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