Alero3Arubi:
The rate at which every gender keeps writing about their right to be the one who receives the monetary favors in a relationship on this nairaland romance section is alarming.
What exactly do you want as person going into a relationship?
Is money the only thing that is prevalent in relationships?
And please don't come hitting me with the other most talked about thing 'love'.

Bumbae1:

Im actually vex seff nothing irritates me more than lazy ass chic
Worthless waiting for men before they can eat .. arrggg


Ki.mbra wer u dey

Dominicah:
Love is important in a relationship, however, availability of finance makes the love wax stronger. A man should be able to buy gifts constantly for his girl friend, take her out on dates, send her cash once in a while, transfer airtime to her phone even when she does not ask, these acts keeps the love alive. Take it or leave it, women are moved by such acts, that's why you see a woman say a man is caring once he can meet her needs.

This thread isn't about broke men, when you are broke as a man, its not your fault, but try to share the little you have with your girl, if you don't you are stingy and a stingy man does not deserve a woman. He should go for prostitutes and call girls, leave decent girls alone.

Some mumu boys will call a girl who requires financial support a gold digger, that is wrong. The man is the giver in a relationship, while the woman is the receiver. guys, use your heads and start meeting up with your responsibilities.

For the ladies, its not wise spending on a guy, he will just finish your money and move on, don't be desperate.

A word is enough for the wise.

Bumbae1:
Trust me I am as Irritated as you right now So sad reading this thread and some actually agree with her Just hope it changes one day ..
Anyway thank God for divorce sha .. incase he make mistake he can rectify

Dominicah:
broke guys are a pain in the arse, it's a suffering and smiling relationship.

Nma27:
What's the essence of a poor girl from a poor background dating a poor guy? The op pointed out one or two key points that only real matured men will appreciate.

and what's the essence of a poor boy from a poor background struggling to make it and dating a poor girl(liability)?

Is that not digging your own grave?

perfecti:
I get where the op is coming from. I once went out with a guy for seven months who was broke because he was owed up to seven months salary. i noticed that when he eventually got paid, he disappeared for some time only to show up empty. When he disappeared the second time after he got paid the second trench, i kicked his stingy ass to the curb. See him begging and all sorts, i was done. I am a working class lady and i pay my bills. the last thing on my mind is to have a stingy man in my life. I learnt that he was naturally stingy, so it is not the case of me being a gold digger because i work hard for the money i spend. I only wanted to be sure that he was responsible enough to take care of me in the future.

kambee:
No value 0-0=0.... And the most annoying thing is that they simply want all the attention and they even ''won do pass'' guys wey they give wella.....their rate is NOTHING.

pryme:
Op you are not so smart, you are just another material girl blessed with a slow working brain, I won't be surprise if you are a very pretty girl, cos most you pretty girls think it's enough to be pretty and that should be enough for what you have to offer.

I said you are short sighted cos you can't see that what you demand in a relationship is only going to run the man down. If the man is not wise and dump your ass you will ruin him financially.

From your write up it's obvious you are liability.

LIABILITIES HAS NEVER MADE A MAN RICH, ONLY INVESTMENTS DO.

'Nuff said.

kimbra:
Lol, funny thread. Women are not made to be dependent on men. The world has evolved and I expect some minds to do same. We're not in the era where women were not allowed to sort for their livelihood but in an era where you command respect by life achievement irrespective of your gender. I don't support women waiting on men for every need no matter what the op calls it. If they give you make you take but if them no give you no make am a big deal. The only person that should take full responsibility of your welfare is either your father when you're single or husband when you're married but don't be a burden to the people around you.

I don't know why I find asking a big deal. Even to my mum, I rather sort things my way.

pryme:
Op you are not so smart, you are just another material girl blessed with a slow working brain, I won't be surprise if you are a very pretty girl, cos most you pretty girls think it's enough to be pretty and that should be enough for what you have to offer.

I said you are short sighted cos you can't see that what you demand in a relationship is only going to run the man down. If the man is not wise and dump your ass you will ruin him financially.

From your write up it's obvious you are liability.

LIABILITIES HAS NEVER MADE A MAN RICH, ONLY INVESTMENTS DO.

'Nuff said.

Safiaa:
Yup.

wanted222:
And what stops you from making your own money and taking care of ur boyfriend don't u ve two hands and legs and brains like him? GOLD DIGGING BITCHES

Dominicah:
some women like to be dependent on men, always asking from him, those are the ones I warn guys against.

Acetyl:
But I think there are many priceless men out there that worth dying for even without them having much cash cos I once read about your topic here castigating men...

EmpresFIDEL:
am a lady and I disagree with you
.. guys must not always be the giver.
girls should also show love by giving, is only call girls that have d mentality of receiving always from the guys... my dear when u give guys and support him when he is in need, he respect you the more.

Dominicah:
Love is important in a relationship, however, availability of finance makes the love wax stronger. A man should be able to buy gifts constantly for his girl friend, take her out on dates, send her cash once in a while, transfer airtime to her phone even when she does not ask, these acts keeps the love alive. Take it or leave it, women are moved by such acts, that's why you see a woman say a man is caring once he can meet her needs.

This thread isn't about broke men, when you are broke as a man, its not your fault, but try to share the little you have with your girl, if you don't you are stingy and a stingy man does not deserve a woman. He should go for prostitutes and call girls, leave decent girls alone.

Some mumu boys will call a girl who requires financial support a gold digger, that is wrong. The man is the giver in a relationship, while the woman is the receiver. guys, use your heads and start meeting up with your responsibilities.

For the ladies, its not wise spending on a guy, he will just finish your money and move on, don't be desperate.

A word is enough for the wise.

Dominicah:
Love is important in a relationship, however, availability of finance makes the love wax stronger. A man should be able to buy gifts constantly for his girl friend, take her out on dates, send her cash once in a while, transfer airtime to her phone even when she does not ask, these acts keeps the love alive. Take it or leave it, women are moved by such acts, that's why you see a woman say a man is caring once he can meet her needs.

This thread isn't about broke men, when you are broke as a man, its not your fault, but try to share the little you have with your girl, if you don't you are stingy and a stingy man does not deserve a woman. He should go for prostitutes and call girls, leave decent girls alone.

Some mumu boys will call a girl who requires financial support a gold digger, that is wrong. The man is the giver in a relationship, while the woman is the receiver. guys, use your heads and start meeting up with your responsibilities.

For the ladies, its not wise spending on a guy, he will just finish your money and move on, don't be desperate.

A word is enough for the wise.

kimbra:
Lol, funny thread. Women are not made to be dependent on men. The world has evolved and I expect some minds to do same. We're not in the era where women were not allowed to sort for their livelihood but in an era where you command respect by life achievement irrespective of your gender. I don't support women waiting on men for every need no matter what the op calls it. If they give you make you take but if them no give you no make am a big deal. The only person that should take full responsibility of your welfare is either your father when you're single or husband when you're married but don't be a burden to the people around you.

I don't know why I find asking a big deal. Even to my mum, I rather sort things my way.

Safiaa:
Yeah. If you dont have much now, you can strive to get something. Doesn't have to be millions, but enough to compliment the womans finances significantly.

Tolexander:
what is now the responsibility of the ladies in a relationship or better put, what do ladies have to offer in a relationship in return to the guys financial spending?

Acetyl:
A reasonable man cannot go broke all the time but definitely there are time things get tough...

Dominicah:
why should she contribute when she wasn't the one that asked him out?

mixter:


Ah. I don't know you, but I just love you especially your comments. Your independent mentality will take you places. please for the real ladies going through the thread. Keep the fire burning . No one wants a liability . The moment you become an asset, it will be difficult for people to do away with you .

kimbra:
Lol, funny thread. Women are not made to be dependent on men. The world has evolved and I expect some minds to do same. We're not in the era where women were not allowed to sort for their livelihood but in an era where you command respect by life achievement irrespective of your gender. I don't support women waiting on men for every need no matter what the op calls it. If they give you make you take but if them no give you no make am a big deal. The only person that should take full responsibility of your welfare is either your father when you're single or husband when you're married but don't be a burden to the people around you.

I don't know why I find asking a big deal. Even to my mum, I rather sort things my way.

kimbra:
Lol, funny thread. Women are not made to be dependent on men. The world has evolved and I expect some minds to do same. We're not in the era where women were not allowed to sort for their livelihood but in an era where you command respect by life achievement irrespective of your gender. I don't support women waiting on men for every need no matter what the op calls it. If they give you make you take but if them no give you no make am a big deal. The only person that should take full responsibility of your welfare is either your father when you're single or husband when you're married but don't be a burden to the people around you.

I don't know why I find asking a big deal. Even to my mum, I rather sort things my way.

mctowel01:

Bro, I ve learnt sometime that an argument with some girls here is purely degrading. Different levels of intelligence. Many of them still think like kids.