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Re: Dear Nigerians In Diaspora, Is This Wickedness Or Selfishness? by Nobody: 11:27am On Apr 29, 2017 |
taiyeayodeji: You've said it all and they just won't understand till they come and then 'destroy' their lives. There's no way of even going back because they probably have no papers. Even if there was a way to go back, they'll be going with nothing 3 Likes |
Re: Dear Nigerians In Diaspora, Is This Wickedness Or Selfishness? by BiafranBushBoy: 11:29am On Apr 29, 2017 |
In conclusion I want to say... "If you are at least comfortable in Nigeria... Don't quit and hope to go live a fantasy life abroad... It may be just a mirage... BUT If you are in Hell in Nigeria with nofthin to lose... take that risk.. after all there is nothing to lose" It is not all that rosy ooo ![]() #Peace 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Dear Nigerians In Diaspora, Is This Wickedness Or Selfishness? by jalay(m): 11:30am On Apr 29, 2017 |
WellEndowed: How did you know? I suspect you. |
Re: Dear Nigerians In Diaspora, Is This Wickedness Or Selfishness? by donJ2(m): 11:30am On Apr 29, 2017 |
blueseacats: What happened?, can u kindly complete your story, others might learn more from it. Cheers 1 Like |
Re: Dear Nigerians In Diaspora, Is This Wickedness Or Selfishness? by nellyelitz(m): 11:30am On Apr 29, 2017 |
No light, a great deal of tribalism and ethnic division... even the govt will openly exhibit this, no rule of law, only the rich get favorable court judgement, politics and not governance, biased law enforcement and military, failed education policies, i don't care attitude of the president, terrorism and jihad preached in the mosques, Pastors making churches biz venture, bad condition for biz to thrive, babe too demanding, guys taking alomo bitters before bleeping, babes always asking for multiple orgasms and if you cum quick your own don finish... I tire menh pls add your own 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Dear Nigerians In Diaspora, Is This Wickedness Or Selfishness? by ghettochild(m): 11:34am On Apr 29, 2017 |
bebe2:i wonder o. thank god am with a family friend here in south africa |
Re: Dear Nigerians In Diaspora, Is This Wickedness Or Selfishness? by lifeisbeautiful: 11:34am On Apr 29, 2017 |
Am not here to discourage or to encourage anybody that is willing to move aboard,but to assure you that anyone can survive in any country as long as the fellow has a barbing skills and the person must be able to live in black populated cities or ghetto. No where in the world that black don't barb there hairs so if you have barbing skills you can attach yourself to a barber's shop pending the time you will get a better job and barbers are connected due to different people that visit Barbershop 2 Likes |
Re: Dear Nigerians In Diaspora, Is This Wickedness Or Selfishness? by taiyeayodeji: 11:36am On Apr 29, 2017 |
same here in Germany, people wont understand life abroad.forget the trash people who come home from abroad tell you.Your life abroad cud be miserable without papers.even people with papers are struggling, talkless of without papers,you cant do anything without necesary papers.You may end up being a slave to even fellow nigerians.Imagine nigerians enslaving fellow nigerians who dont have papers,you work and the money goes to them, you can even work freely on the street.You can be picked up by the police anytime and there is nothing you can do, you dont have the basic human right,somebody can kill you because you dont have any identity.You may end up being a sex slave to a white lady or even to a gay.Its really terrible,you cant even go to the hospital cos you dont have a document.no insurance covering you.Best way is to come in legally, you may come abroad seeing your an uncle who has left nigerian several years back being a modern slave abroad.lol cosade: 4 Likes |
Re: Dear Nigerians In Diaspora, Is This Wickedness Or Selfishness? by MostHigh: 11:36am On Apr 29, 2017 |
poshestmina: Who no go no know..... Not all that glitters is Gold. And experience they say is the best teacher! 1 Like |
Re: Dear Nigerians In Diaspora, Is This Wickedness Or Selfishness? by MostHigh: 11:39am On Apr 29, 2017 |
Re: Dear Nigerians In Diaspora, Is This Wickedness Or Selfishness? by cosade(m): 11:40am On Apr 29, 2017 |
factwriter: ![]() ![]() ![]() This reminds me of when I travelled to Israel, somewhere in Jerusalem our guide told us to be mindful of the local drivers when crossing the road. Someone in the group was taken aback, he questioned him how come he was referring to his co Israelis as locals. I smiled and educated him. In every country we have the locals. 4 Likes
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Re: Dear Nigerians In Diaspora, Is This Wickedness Or Selfishness? by jalay(m): 11:41am On Apr 29, 2017 |
Ezionye: Oh dear! I forsee things and I read minds. To be candid with you.. I can say for UK and its never flexible but if you insist coming to UK, I can make the arrangement for you but carry the cross along 1 Like |
Re: Dear Nigerians In Diaspora, Is This Wickedness Or Selfishness? by SmartyPants(m): 11:41am On Apr 29, 2017 |
Originalsly: Which cheap hotel charges 150 per night? I stayed in a decent hotel for 50 dollars a night talk less of those roadside motels. Oga if you want to advice people give them accurate info. 1 Like |
Re: Dear Nigerians In Diaspora, Is This Wickedness Or Selfishness? by alsudaes1(m): 11:44am On Apr 29, 2017 |
poshestmina: Yeah, ,, Even in Nigeria, same is done, you see people discouraging others to move to Lagos or Abuja, claiming life is difficult that they also want out 5 Likes |
Re: Dear Nigerians In Diaspora, Is This Wickedness Or Selfishness? by ojay77: 11:45am On Apr 29, 2017 |
Selfishness? No! Wickedness? Absolutely Not!! People must remember that truth is bitter, and all that glitters is not gold; and of course not everyone wants to hear or listen to the truth. There is no doubt that those of us who live in Western countries enjoy stable electricity, running water, good roads and security of life and property; but beyond these, hmmmmmmm ......? I leave this till another time. Now, why do many of us discourage others from joining us over here? Good question, and here are some of the answers; and I will use the UK (where I live) as example. The UK government have tightened their immigration rules to the point where it's almost impossible for the people they tag as "illegal immigrants" to live here. Examples. It is illegal not only for organisations (public or private) to employ illegal immigrants, but they also impose hefty amounts of money as penalty on any organisation that employs such people. It is also illegal for any landlords to rent out accommodation to illegal immigrants, and anyone caught would get criminal conviction and £10,000 (5,000.000 Naira) fine for every illegal person in their building. The truth is that the majority of our people would fall into the category of "illegal immigrants"; which means they are not allowed to work or rent a room - but note I did not say all. An important issue to bear in mind is that technology is so advanced over here that it leaves no hiding place for anyone; meaning that you can't hide from the government, because you use electronic cards to travel on public transport; GPS satellite navigation system to drive a car; your driving licence, your mobile phone and bank account are all digitally linked and monitored. There are CCTV cameras with facial recognition technology everywhere on the streets, in shops, and offices and they are linked to the police and other numerous state security agencies. Above all, the agencies are both well-resourced in terms of money and manpower and they are highly organised, dedicated and efficient. Besides, there is a lot of racism going on too. So, if your visa says you have no right to work, (assuming you need to work), then your options are very limited indeed; because you would not be able to bypass the system unless you would not travel on public transport; would not travel in a car/taxi; would not use telephone, or operate a bank account. Many of you may not be aware, reports indicate that there are over 70,000 Nigerians in immigration detention centres in the UK and they are deporting plane-loads of our country men and women to Nigeria almost every day. The question is: "why would want to risk all your life savings to embark on a journey to a place like this?" However, there are many legal means to obtain the appropriate visas that would enable you to work and live here and elsewhere without restrictions and I would suggest that everyone should pursue the legal route. For example, you could marry a white man or woman or an African American man or woman; but be honest with them - very, very important. The problem with many of our people is their incredible level of dishonesty. There are tens of millions of white people looking for African men and women to marry, but you have to be sincere and honest with them and be willing to spend the rest of your life with them. So, what are you waiting for? Go online and start your search. Good luck. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Dear Nigerians In Diaspora, Is This Wickedness Or Selfishness? by lilreese: 11:46am On Apr 29, 2017 |
4dor: Oga, did you get a job in the Uk. Help your fellow bro ? |
Re: Dear Nigerians In Diaspora, Is This Wickedness Or Selfishness? by Nobody: 11:48am On Apr 29, 2017 |
No be by force to go Dubai ![]() ![]() Make una shine eyes for this abroad matter oh. Issues plenty. |
Re: Dear Nigerians In Diaspora, Is This Wickedness Or Selfishness? by 4dor: 11:52am On Apr 29, 2017 |
lilreese: Are you a Software Developer? 1 Like |
Re: Dear Nigerians In Diaspora, Is This Wickedness Or Selfishness? by lilreese: 11:53am On Apr 29, 2017 |
jalay: Oga I'm interested |
Re: Dear Nigerians In Diaspora, Is This Wickedness Or Selfishness? by lilreese: 11:54am On Apr 29, 2017 |
4dor: No, Finance & Economics |
Re: Dear Nigerians In Diaspora, Is This Wickedness Or Selfishness? by 4dor: 11:56am On Apr 29, 2017 |
lilreese: Too bad, I only know about Software Development jobs for mid level and senior developers 2 Likes |
Re: Dear Nigerians In Diaspora, Is This Wickedness Or Selfishness? by cosade(m): 11:56am On Apr 29, 2017 |
taiyeayodeji: Nothing! Absolutely nothing would make me stay in any country illegally. Like someone posted earlier, if you can afford cost of passport, visa and air ticket you don't have reason to stay illegally in any country. The money can be better used for business here. Modified: This video gives an idea of what illegal immigrants go through. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dc_Gc4bfnEg 5 Likes |
Re: Dear Nigerians In Diaspora, Is This Wickedness Or Selfishness? by lilreese: 12:01pm On Apr 29, 2017 |
4dor: Mind to share them?, I have friends who are developers. |
Re: Dear Nigerians In Diaspora, Is This Wickedness Or Selfishness? by deskossy(m): 12:09pm On Apr 29, 2017 |
lovelygurl:i live in hamburg. Where in germany do u live? |
Re: Dear Nigerians In Diaspora, Is This Wickedness Or Selfishness? by cosade(m): 12:10pm On Apr 29, 2017 |
kretoz: My guess is that she probably didn't pass the conversion exam and didn't want to get frustrated by working as a Nurse instead. 2 Likes |
Re: Dear Nigerians In Diaspora, Is This Wickedness Or Selfishness? by deskossy(m): 12:14pm On Apr 29, 2017 |
amii131:wie gut is dein deutch? |
Re: Dear Nigerians In Diaspora, Is This Wickedness Or Selfishness? by oyetpel(m): 12:15pm On Apr 29, 2017 |
opribo: Please, an Oscar for this man. I have clapped for you. Valid points, good insight. You just concluded all arguments and lamentations behind this topic. Thank you for this. Applause! Applause!! Applause!!! 6 Likes |
Re: Dear Nigerians In Diaspora, Is This Wickedness Or Selfishness? by prettyzee11(f): 12:18pm On Apr 29, 2017 |
bebe2:But then is always easier if the immigrants have someone over there. Those of us with no one who wish to go look for a greener pastures is just a fail dream since we don't know how to go about it. Been a lady is another challenge too cos it's safer for the men. We hope n pray for people like u to b of help someday. |
Re: Dear Nigerians In Diaspora, Is This Wickedness Or Selfishness? by TheEminentLaity: 12:25pm On Apr 29, 2017 |
I wanted to ignore you...it's good for you to paint a beautiful image of Nigeria in your bubble but the facts show that majority of Nigerians are poor, extremely poor and poverty is on the rise, exponentially. Use that for your average. Pidgin2: 2 Likes |
Re: Dear Nigerians In Diaspora, Is This Wickedness Or Selfishness? by taiyeayodeji: 12:25pm On Apr 29, 2017 |
for you to work abroad,you must have a work permit.nobody can employ you without a work permit, anybody doing it risk heavy fine or jail.Now even your fellow nigerian cant accomodate you in their house for fear of being implicated and deported.You cant even go to the hospital when sick, its not like Nigeria where you can go to pharmacy and buy drugs yourself without doctors prescription.So you see why most people abroad who tell you not to come if you don't have papers.They are still struggling and dont want to be implicated or deported back.you cant even open a bank account, you cant even transfer money home in your name,you have to live and survive with another persons identity and if you are caught, you end in detention or refugee camps.coming illegally may mean coming thru the desert,you may get kidnapped for ransom,then you have to cross the sea to become a slave in europe and most ladies a prostitute.before you go on your journey, think if you have Gods backing.You may end up in destruction.so if somebody ask you to come in illegally, you are breaking the law of that country and would be treated by the law, if the law says 5 years in jail, then you may be at the mercy of the law.i hope you guys understand me, i am only being sincere,living in nigeria in peace without money can be better living as a slave abroad. ojay77: 5 Likes |
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