lovelygurl:


Obviously you know nothing about the election because then you'd know more people voted for Clinton but the system there is different. It all depends on the 'election men' who the people vote for and then


You know what, just Google it yourself. Live your life and let other live theirs. Don't kill yourself on top of a matter you can't change.

You are boring me. Your points are too ridiculous for my liking. Ciao

So long feminist, it is called a MAN's world for a reason. Run along and never forget that.

pocohantas:

LOL...
I will marry when I want, my husband will be the head of the home, not because of any African culture or religion, but because he is deserving of it.

My previous post was directed at people that will look at it from religious angle but my uncles with selective understanding are typing story for me. I no dey even read am sef...

African culture also promoted FGM.

Loool I was waiting for them too. I call them the saints . They are the worst. The only time they shout Bible is at times like this

lovelygurl:



Frustrated old single women? Heart broken ladies with complex issues? Well look at her picture I don't think so especially since she said MUM AND DAD are the head of the home. But then again, those are words you throw out at every lady who is not of your opinion. I wonder what your problem is. She's living her life, why not live yours and leave her alone? Why are you so worried, why do you care?

Don't tell me you are SCARED and INSCURE of and about people like her and her beliefs because I don't see how it's your business. I mean can you stop her? NOOOO

You still think that marriage is everybody's goal. Wake up. More and more people don't give a f about marriage, all people care about are kids

They are actually scared, look at how he jumped on my post like a rhesus monkey on sighting my husband would be the head of the home. Some of these men will die if they stop seeing a woman to head over...yet they say women are the insecure ones.

Lemme continue drinking this chilled zobo
Next thing na to call person feminist.

Martin124:
u nor join?

Lol, join where and who?

lovelygurl:


Lol, join where and who?

u know na,u not suppose to ask me oo,coz it was ur comment that brought out that comment from my mouth...

Her opinion doesn't count or amount to anything. Does it?

pocohantas:

They are actually scared, look at how he jumped on my post like a rhesus monkey on sighting my husband would be the head of the home. Some of these men will die if they stop seeing a woman to head over...yet they say women are the insecure ones.

Lemme continue drinking this chilled zobo
Next thing na to call person feminist.

Looooool. EXTREMELY scared and then they will be jumping up and down, as if they can change anything. How? The world is changing. How do you want to stop it.
Sth like Nairaland wouldn't have existed 50 years ago. It's only normal that mindsets are changing too. Such can't be stopped. Change is constant. Who cares if you don't want the world to change? It has and always will! So why stressing yourself?
I don't understand them. I mean who is even stopping you from being the head of your family? Must you marry a lady who thinks otherwise or why the whinings?


So tired of all those baby whinings, it's getting annoying

Martin124:
u know na,u not suppose to ask me oo,coz it was ur comment that brought out that comment from my mouth...

Loool, I don't have to join anything. I have a brain of my own and you don't have to be of my opinion. That's normal, it's what makes humans individuals

lovelygurl:


Loool, I don't have to join anything. I have a brain of my own and you don't have to be of my opinion. That's normal, it's what makes humans individuals

ok ooo mrs lovely,I just dey look ur profile,I still dey wonder about something based on you..

Martin124:
ok ooo mrs lovely,I just dey look ur profile,I still dey wonder about something based on you..

Continue wondering


And you really have to teach me pidgin. I also want to be flexing, flaunting and err scatter peoples' head with my pidgin skills

lovelygurl:


Continue wondering


And you really have to teach me pidgin. I also want to be flexing, flaunting and err scatter peoples' head with my pidgin skills

hahahahha mrs lovely e nor dey hard sha,anyhow I dey with u..

Martin124:
hahahahha mrs lovely e nor dey hard sha,anyhow I dey with u..

Awesome

And keep wondering too

lovelygurl:

Awesome
And keep wondering too

eh eh don be telling that tin again oo

pocohantas:
A man is the head of the family, as said in the bible...but what if she isn't a christian?

Some people will come here to blast her.
She is even better than some of you.

The hypocrisy in Nigeria is something else, men will quickly see the part of the bible instructing women to be submissive, but they don'te". They tell lies, backbite, steal, sleep with their neighbour's wife, but want to be the head.

I saw a thread of some porhnstar, guys were attacking the ladies featuring in the video, but they knew the porhnstar's site for streaming porn videos. These same guys bend ladies with reckless abandon on top bed.

You that will come here to condemn her but fornicate in your closets and her are all sinners, you would all end up in hell.
No sin is greater than the other

For those that will quote me with pain, and tell me not to marry or call me a feminist, don't waste you time ooo. I won't respond

Lol! You just quoted yourself and replied yourself with the bolded. That means you knew what you are saying is wrong.
Everywhere in the world, a man has always been the head of the home even in india where women pays the bride prizze, but being the does n't mean that the leg is not important. Ofcourse the head can not function completly without the eye there or the leg.
Man is there as a leader and the woman is the partner in the marriage. Please just accept ur position.
Inugo?

pocohantas:

LOL...
I will marry when I want, my husband will be the head of the home, not because of any African culture or religion, but because he is deserving of it.

My previous post was directed at people that will look at it from religious angle but my uncles with selective understanding are typing story for me. I no dey even read am sef...

African culture also promoted FGM.

Now you come.

lovelygurl:



They have arrived. The saints that are definitely going to heaven

It's when topics like this are being discussed about that they start shouting Bible

Hypocrites

She might even be an atheist because in her comments she said apart from the Bible which the WHITE MAN brought to us

Even before the church came the man have been the head of the home. Even if we should go back to our traditional life style, she will still complain because that is even the worst.

chisco82:

Even before the church came the man have been the head of the home. Even if we should go back to our traditional life style, she will still complain because that is even the worst.

It's normal for her to complain.
Anybody that is complaining about today and the future should travel back to the past or join those from the past in their graves because THERE IS NOTHING TO complain about. The world will forever keep changing, just live your life the way you want to and let others be.

lovelygurl:


It's normal for her to complain.
Anybody that is complaining about today and the future should travel back to the past or join those from the past in their graves because THERE IS NOTHING TO complain about. The world will forever keep changing, just live your life the way you want to and let others be.

Lol! @ the bolded, U will not kill me with laughter here.

Bunch of confused idiots....dunno wha dey call syllabus?

exlinkleads:
Ladies have no chills this days. I mean, what is the fuss really about? Ladies go to church and believe the words in the bible and yet when you mention that man is the head of the family, they pick offence. What is happening in our world today?

Facebook user, Tina Michelle Obiora, seems not to be concurring to this norm in Nigeria that a a man is the head of the family and has advised teachers, social studies teachers actually to desist from teaching students such ‘Nonsense’.

See her post below and people's reactions

‘Social studies teachers should stop teaching our kids that fathers are head of the home! I didn’t send my daughters to school for a teacher who is still stuck in stone age to teach them to accept patriarchy as a norm! We need to start suing schools! Nonsense!!! MUM AND DAD ARE THE HEAD! Milly’

more @ http://www.exlinklodge.com/2017/04/nigerian-lady-blast-teachers-who-teach.html

cc lalasticlala mynd44 missyb3

But seriously, can a mother and daughter be called a family in Nigeria?
How can she poke her nose into a topic that does not concern her.

Well...Good for her.Does that really mean her daughter should bow to any man cos the teacher said the male figure is the head?.There are many educated and wealthy women who still adhere to this.Ma'am,if you ain't OK,homeschool your daughter.

jejemanito:
Before I forget, egbon OP, please change that "A Teachers" that's causing me chest pain here

.. another person drink sniper, na you wan die..

lovelygurl:



Frustrated old single women? Heart broken ladies with complex issues? Well look at her picture I don't think so especially since she said MUM AND DAD are the head of the home. But then again, those are words you throw out at every lady who is not of your opinion. I wonder what your problem is. She's living her life, why not live yours and leave her alone? Why are you so worried, why do you care?

Don't tell me you are SCARED and INSCURE of and about people like her and her beliefs because I don't see how it's your business. I mean can you stop her? NOOOO

You still think that marriage is everybody's goal. Wake up. More and more people don't give a f about marriage, all people care about are kids

guys please stop fussing about head of the home shit,just be a man,whether your the head of the home or not,as a man you will have your way,the women cant rant all they want,i think more men should start leaving more responsibilities for women and just enjoy their lives,forget about all these girls,just Bleep them,they are cheap bitches

jejemanito:
Before I forget, egbon OP, please change that "A Teachers" that's causing me chest pain here

abeg no get heart attack oo, i don change am. honest mistake

Our Nigerian women want to mix both African culture and Western culture. They are Africans when it comes to dependence on their man but westerners when it comes to Gender equality. How convenient for them.

The thing pain her .... my sister you for kuku ask God to create women first

It's going to be the battle of the titans on this thread, let me grab my popcorn and watch
Interesting debate

I'm sure she's the one feeding her family so she has the right...jus s pious claptrap

exlinkleads:
Ladies have no chills this days. I mean, what is the fuss really about? Ladies go to church and believe the words in the bible and yet when you mention that man is the head of the family, they pick offence. What is happening in our world today?

Facebook user, Tina Michelle Obiora, seems not to be concurring to this norm in Nigeria that a man is the head of the family and has advised teachers, social studies teachers actually to desist from teaching students such ‘Nonsense’.

See her post below and people's reactions

‘Social studies teachers should stop teaching our kids that fathers are head of the home! I didn’t send my daughters to school for a teacher who is still stuck in stone age to teach them to accept patriarchy as a norm! We need to start suing schools! Nonsense!!! MUM AND DAD ARE THE HEAD! Milly’

http://www.exlinklodge.com/2017/04/nigerian-lady-blast-teachers-who-teach.html

This woman is definitely not a well human being. I love it when I hear feminist talk this trash,ask her to share the bills of the home now, she will be like "honey it's your responsibility to take care of the finances of the home." Anyway, I see single motherhood in someone's future.


That Beijing women's conference of 1995 is the genesis of all these rubbish.

everybody is just ranting bullpoop...

whatever nature teaches you do it.... whatever conscience says follow...

NO PASTOR.
NO SCHOOL.
NO CHURCH..

can teach you how life works good or bahd....

pheew..

pocohantas:
A man is the head of the family, as said in the bible...but what if she isn't a christian?

Some people will come here to blast her.
She is even better than some of you.

The hypocrisy in Nigeria is something else, men will quickly see the part of the bible instructing women to be submissive, but they don'te". They tell lies, backbite, steal, sleep with their neighbour's wife, but want to be the head.

I saw a thread of some porhnstar, guys were attacking the ladies featuring in the video, but they knew the porhnstar's site for streaming porn videos. These same guys bend ladies with reckless abandon on top bed.

You that will come here to condemn her but fornicate in your closets and her are all sinners, you would all end up in hell.
No sin is greater than the other

For those that will quote me with pain, and tell me not to marry or call me a feminist, don't waste you time ooo. I won't respond

Whether u reply or not, e no concern me but I will say I agree with you for the 1st time.

On the bolded, why men are the head of home goes beyond providing and taking care of responsibilities which some women actually do when their husband fails to perform their duty.

Men are logical beings while women are emotional. There are certain things men can endure while women feelings would crash when handling it. It takes ruggedness to become a head which takes time for women to achieve such feet.