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Re: My Marriage On The Brink Of Crashing, Experienced People Needed Now. by adam500hr: 4:47pm On Apr 30, 2017 |
dangotesmummy: I have supporting evidence where she degraded me while talking to a man he claims is his friend, talking and making gest of me, once woman don dey shine ur matter to another man, na to open eyes, I dont need no freaking further evidence reason why am still takin thing slow now, I am holding my balls strong on this one, this is one of those many issues I have faced so far. Just getting clearer now. 8 Likes |
Re: My Marriage On The Brink Of Crashing, Experienced People Needed Now. by SURElee(f): 4:55pm On Apr 30, 2017 |
sisisioge: Oh! What he doesn't know won't kill him okwaya? So he sits down like mumu and she keeps galivanting upandan for money till she brings HIV from outside to dash his destiny abi? Mr man, your decision is yours to make solely, you sleep with her, manage your home and you know where it pinches you. Marriage is sweet depending on the cutlery you use to eat it( depending on who you choose to spend your life with). 18 Likes |
Re: My Marriage On The Brink Of Crashing, Experienced People Needed Now. by dangotesmummy: 4:56pm On Apr 30, 2017 |
adam500hr:then discuss with her as husband to wife I said discuss,as in have a civilized discussion devoid of attacks,name calling and confrontations. Tell her you don't like all the disrespect and all and if you disrespected her in front of another woman how will she feel.all you need is a midnight heart to heart conversation and tell her to make her choice. From there you'll know where your marriage is heading to 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Marriage On The Brink Of Crashing, Experienced People Needed Now. by baby124: 5:01pm On Apr 30, 2017 |
The matter too long. Abeg summarize. |
Re: My Marriage On The Brink Of Crashing, Experienced People Needed Now. by Nobody: 5:07pm On Apr 30, 2017 |
adam500hr: The thing is unprotected sexxx is what brought this problem, this marriage and everything that's going on now . Well the mistake has been made already . and seriously I honestly don't know what u can tell such a woman ,that will make her change her mindset . Cause human beings are the most difficult beings to change for the better on earth. May God give u the wisdom to handle her . 6 Likes |
Re: My Marriage On The Brink Of Crashing, Experienced People Needed Now. by adam500hr: 5:21pm On Apr 30, 2017 |
dangotesmummy: UNFORTUNATELY, I have had heart to heart talks with her during past incidences, its just seems not to work, and dont have faith seeing it work,I would have to seek a spiritual procedure, call on God. Cos if God fit give me two wonderful pikin thru this woman wey nor dey loyal, then I need not to blow that blessing away. @Every!, is is best to consult a councilor? I doubt that, cos our first counseling, she gave too much details that even the counselor felt sort of uncomfortable. Will a pastor be advisable? That too depends on the pastor, its only God that can see through a real pastor, some will claim to want to administer help, they use prayers to try to penetrate ones wife. Or is there therapy that can handle this situation? 1 Like |
Re: My Marriage On The Brink Of Crashing, Experienced People Needed Now. by GodnGold: 5:48pm On Apr 30, 2017 |
As always,I don't like one sided stories. But oga Adam, you lost my respect when you started getting worked up about her calls and issues...then you went down yonder to call names...oga...e dalu ya (you fail am ). To remedy your case,those phone calls and etc were done to swing you to action. You know like get you scared of loosing her and then you do her bidding. But that lady is brilliant sha. She is not cheating...she is only working on your mind. I repeat...she is not cheating...mind games. Now,play the fool card,bro,the olodo card. Beg her,tell her how sorry you are, be more olodotic about it by shedding so many shoulder vibrating tears with phlegm oozing out of your nostrils...yes...those tears. Now,buy something for her and promise to help her with the money ...SOON! Peace restored at SOON! Then few days later ...you got her at cloud 99,tell her a touchy tale as to why you can't raise the money. Be sorry man,Show pain,loose your sleep about it, you feel me? Let her see the worry on your face but bro,don't you ever agree to do the loan thingy with her bro. We women can drag one yonder if they let us...I warn you...do not agree...And remember...Show thy pain...let it be written all over you! You owe me you know. 17 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Marriage On The Brink Of Crashing, Experienced People Needed Now. by Nobody: 6:09pm On Apr 30, 2017 |
afam500hr There is an app you can use to find out whatever happens on your wife's phone. Whatsapp chats, screenshots and everything. Anyway, its always good to marry woman who has the fear of God and not like all this freethinker ladies and feminist wey full Nairaland. Lemme not call names. Let them not come for my head. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Marriage On The Brink Of Crashing, Experienced People Needed Now. by adam500hr: 6:35pm On Apr 30, 2017 |
GodnGold: I can only owe you on one thing, thats to apologize to her that I called her names, in which I'll immediately provide evidence of slandering me over the phone with the male friend she claim she has. A full explanation on that is required. Moreso, is that how rotten marriages should be, that a woman should use dirty tactics mind games to get her husband to disburse funds that is not and should not be demanded for? If thats the kind of mind games some women use, I am not accommodating such in my own union, na big brother house my famil dey live? Ihian!! If i hear!!! 33 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Marriage On The Brink Of Crashing, Experienced People Needed Now. by dangotesmummy: 6:45pm On Apr 30, 2017 |
adam500hr:well I think there's no problem that doesn't have a solution if you have reasons to doubt her loyalty why then do you want her to have kids for you?don't you know once kids get involved you have no choice that is what she'll use to blackmail you Secondly if you cannot vouch for her faithfulness you might as well restrain yourself from having sex with her so you don't catch another thing. In all of this think it through. Sleep over it and please don't involve pastors because even pastors have their own marital issues.you no know whether pastor marital issues big pass your own. Apart from that you don't want pastor to be using your story to preach in church. You know some pastors are fond of that.you also don't want your marriage to be gossip topic in church among awon mama gbeborun mother in Israel 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Marriage On The Brink Of Crashing, Experienced People Needed Now. by Missonas(f): 6:50pm On Apr 30, 2017 |
Communication is key. Talk to her insults and suspicions aside. Get to the bottom of all this. A woman who is not afraid walk away frm her family for whatever reason obviously has plan B. Are we that selfish ![]() 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Marriage On The Brink Of Crashing, Experienced People Needed Now. by dangotesmummy: 6:50pm On Apr 30, 2017 |
adam500hr:in addition to why I said you should withdraw from her sexually if you don't trust her fidelity 100% is that let her no go play away match con give another man pregnancy to you.you know that's the trending thing women do now.it will be more disastrous if you discovered that years later.if at all there must be kids between you two make sure you do DNA test before accepting the kids before they play a fast one on you 3 Likes |
Re: My Marriage On The Brink Of Crashing, Experienced People Needed Now. by sebod(m): 6:53pm On Apr 30, 2017 |
adam500hr:What happened to you can happen to anybody, agreed. It's obvious you married her out of pity in order to avoid shame. That's the first mistake made. You can't afford to make another by allowing your family scatter, do all you can to salvage your home. Talk to her and pray to God. It's your responsibility as the head to raise a godly home. No child deserves a broken home. 3 Likes |
Re: My Marriage On The Brink Of Crashing, Experienced People Needed Now. by GodnGold: 6:58pm On Apr 30, 2017 |
adam500hr:Oya na! |
Re: My Marriage On The Brink Of Crashing, Experienced People Needed Now. by Nobody: 7:15pm On Apr 30, 2017 |
HungerBAD: Dude no offence , but how do you know she's sleeping with someone else ? 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Marriage On The Brink Of Crashing, Experienced People Needed Now. by Nobody: 7:20pm On Apr 30, 2017 |
adam500hr: Dude are you the same guy ,who bugged his wife's phone in another thread ? 4 Likes |
Re: My Marriage On The Brink Of Crashing, Experienced People Needed Now. by YelloweWest: 8:29pm On Apr 30, 2017 |
Op you are either a small boy or very immature. YOUR WIFE IS NOT CHEATING I REPEAT SHE IS NOT CHEATING! She's just trying to get your attention damn it! Go home fix it and handle your marriage like a man! 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Marriage On The Brink Of Crashing, Experienced People Needed Now. by luminouz(m): 8:31pm On Apr 30, 2017 |
Dhayor001:Did u even make sense at all? U never read d post...please read abeg!!!! 5 Likes |
Re: My Marriage On The Brink Of Crashing, Experienced People Needed Now. by Nobody: 8:32pm On Apr 30, 2017 |
adam500hr: I wanted to advice you to give her the 2 million naira if you have it then i read how unfaithful she is and that she has been cheating on you At this point, the marriage is dead, there's only one solution to that, stay in the marriage because of your children and find sexual pleasure outside of your marital home I can stay with a wife who cheats on me because i don't want my children to suffer, do you know what children from broken home go through ?? I would stay in the marriage, stop having sex with her and go find me a side chick who will satisfy me 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Marriage On The Brink Of Crashing, Experienced People Needed Now. by Nobody: 8:33pm On Apr 30, 2017 |
tobianthony: Because he's not a 5 year old boy 17 Likes |
Re: My Marriage On The Brink Of Crashing, Experienced People Needed Now. by Nobody: 8:33pm On Apr 30, 2017 |
Communication is the key. |
Re: My Marriage On The Brink Of Crashing, Experienced People Needed Now. by Doctorfitz: 8:33pm On Apr 30, 2017 |
The kinda breed of women we have these days is what I don't still understand. 3 Likes |
Re: My Marriage On The Brink Of Crashing, Experienced People Needed Now. by bettercreature(m): 8:36pm On Apr 30, 2017 |
She did nothing wrong! she simply want a new shop beside you should stop calling her a hoe it's wrong. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Marriage On The Brink Of Crashing, Experienced People Needed Now. by Despirited: 8:36pm On Apr 30, 2017 |
Dhayor001: To add to it my brov; think about your kids and what become of them. A lifetime emotional imbalance. 1 Like |
Re: My Marriage On The Brink Of Crashing, Experienced People Needed Now. by madgoat(m): 8:36pm On Apr 30, 2017 |
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Re: My Marriage On The Brink Of Crashing, Experienced People Needed Now. by beautiful232(f): 8:37pm On Apr 30, 2017 |
I wonder why everybody brings their marriage problem to social media none of my business tho 1 Like |
Re: My Marriage On The Brink Of Crashing, Experienced People Needed Now. by luminouz(m): 8:37pm On Apr 30, 2017 |
ifyalways:Did u read d post at all? D wife is a cheat!!!! Get DAT into ur skull!!! 2 Likes |
Re: My Marriage On The Brink Of Crashing, Experienced People Needed Now. by YelloweWest: 8:37pm On Apr 30, 2017 |
Dhayor001:Stop that pls. Don't ruin a marriage 3 Likes |
Re: My Marriage On The Brink Of Crashing, Experienced People Needed Now. by SalamRushdie: 8:37pm On Apr 30, 2017 |
adam500hr: You don go marry another man wife 3 Likes |
Re: My Marriage On The Brink Of Crashing, Experienced People Needed Now. by MsFaith: 8:37pm On Apr 30, 2017 |
marriages these days make me feel I can do better than than most married ladies #justmythoughtsthough |
Re: My Marriage On The Brink Of Crashing, Experienced People Needed Now. by toprealman: 8:38pm On Apr 30, 2017 |
OP clearly you married a stranger, someone you knew very lil about. Probably her baca or chelsea reformatted your system.... kpelee ooo. You have to make a tough call.....its entire your call bro! 3 Likes 2 Shares |
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