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Re: My Girlfriend Of 9 Years Says It's Over Between Us by Kondomatic(m): 12:04pm On May 01, 2017 |
Bibi294:Taking bad advise from friends also causes domestic violence |
Re: My Girlfriend Of 9 Years Says It's Over Between Us by Nobody: 12:09pm On May 01, 2017 |
Life goes on dear. You saw d signs but ignored it. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Of 9 Years Says It's Over Between Us by thesuave10(m): 12:13pm On May 01, 2017 |
Hmm
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Re: My Girlfriend Of 9 Years Says It's Over Between Us by thesuave10(m): 12:14pm On May 01, 2017 |
Kimbra spice and vinegar? Damn! |
Re: My Girlfriend Of 9 Years Says It's Over Between Us by Nobody: 12:21pm On May 01, 2017 |
thesuave10:Lol, that's the plain truth. BTW, this op and his girlfriend of 9 years are confused. |
Re: My Girlfriend Of 9 Years Says It's Over Between Us by Nobody: 12:23pm On May 01, 2017 |
From your story, the relationship is heading nowhere. 9 years and you can't propose marriage to her. Kudos to the girl. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Of 9 Years Says It's Over Between Us by thesuave10(m): 12:28pm On May 01, 2017 |
kimbra: Hehe now you're just tryna scare me off. I think you're sugar+ spice + a Lil mango flavour somewhere. I swear. Sha love is confusing sometimes. I bet yours won't as long that before the big day |
Re: My Girlfriend Of 9 Years Says It's Over Between Us by Chibydinho(m): 12:29pm On May 01, 2017 |
tukurutaiwo:. No qualms... I've been in that sh1ts shoes where I'm not sure if she loves me like I do, and it can be frustrating... But like I said... . Decide what you want with her.. Marriage? Then go and have a talk with her... Dating? I suggest you let her be because 9 years no be beans and she won't forgive you if you turn her mind to continue and you later dump her.. . So, if you've got marriage plans, pay a visit.. Talk and sort things out... Then when things are going well, start using the push and pull method on her. |
Re: My Girlfriend Of 9 Years Says It's Over Between Us by tukurutaiwo: 12:32pm On May 01, 2017 |
Chibydinho: We've been talking about marriage and plans too.. She's not picking my calls and I've been to her place once but she wasn't around. There's no way i can know the time she'll be home cos she's not picking my calls.. |
Re: My Girlfriend Of 9 Years Says It's Over Between Us by extremelygolden: 12:38pm On May 01, 2017 |
This is your 9th year with her, right? You are working, abi? And you don't think it's time you move the relationship to the next level by engaging or marrying her? Her colleague visiting her at home is just her way of letting you know that if you are still not ready to settle down with her after 9 years, she's already considering doing so herself. Oga, that's her way of awakening your consciousness to reality and making you see you could be replaced if you don't act fast. She loves you and I am sorry you will lose her soon! You ought to be smart. She's even slow in dropping your sluggish ass, abeg! Who get time to waste further? |
Re: My Girlfriend Of 9 Years Says It's Over Between Us by Nobody: 12:39pm On May 01, 2017 |
thesuave10:I'm a combination of all. What I deliver depends on what you ask for. Someone once said we should date yearly and if the relationship isn't heading anyway tides should be cut off. I don't know how feasible that is, but there's sense in it cos the longer the worse emotional trauma. Usually if you don't break their heart, they'd break yours, so what's the point?. |
Re: My Girlfriend Of 9 Years Says It's Over Between Us by tukurutaiwo: 12:48pm On May 01, 2017 |
extremelygolden: We've been talking about marriage and plans too.. 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Of 9 Years Says It's Over Between Us by Chibydinho(m): 12:50pm On May 01, 2017 |
tukurutaiwo:. You shouldn't be calling her as if your life depends on her..that's bad... . Also, what about ya side chicks?... This is the moment you need them most. . For her not being around when you visited.. By now, you ought to know the time she should be at home sha. And please, don't act clingy or needy when you meet her at home. Rather talk with ya eyes wide open, but I tell you... You are the person at fault by playing games with her. . But that's not the main reason, your were just all over all and couldn't let her miss you... Like they say goods in large supply are always cheap and not valued as much as goods in little supply.. Use Gold and Water as an example here |
Re: My Girlfriend Of 9 Years Says It's Over Between Us by GodnGold: 12:58pm On May 01, 2017 |
I888:Baba,take am easy na. Make person no go blind for this recession oooo lol. |
Re: My Girlfriend Of 9 Years Says It's Over Between Us by GodnGold: 1:00pm On May 01, 2017 |
Chibydinho:Oga,abeg teach me this push and pull method. |
Re: My Girlfriend Of 9 Years Says It's Over Between Us by OAFMods: 1:02pm On May 01, 2017 |
tukurutaiwo: Dude you are a phool if a girl you have been dating for 9 years is not begging you to marry her. No apologize. Stop being a pussy move on there are several girls out there that have learnt their. They understand what it takes to be valued and without being lectured value the love you are offering chikena. Tired of all these cock n bull stories on NL of some girls feeling whoozy when the guy still have to bear all the responsibilities. Abi na the girl de garri. One more thing you should be talking marriage n not if she's having anything to do with any other guy. If you are not after 9 yrs you obviously do not deserve the girl. On that am less concerned about what could be the cause. 9 yrs is enough to sort it all out. 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Of 9 Years Says It's Over Between Us by Nobody: 1:07pm On May 01, 2017 |
Any person who is immature enough to spread a false message about impending nuptials to make his/her partner OF 9 YEARS!! feel bad deserves to lose that person, u were with her for 9 yrs and u made her hear from a friend that you're getting married to another, then when she finally dumped you, you're emphasizing that you've been with her for 9yrs, you get no sympathy here. you're immature. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Of 9 Years Says It's Over Between Us by fastjett: 1:13pm On May 01, 2017 |
Relationship rule 101: do not take every advice from ur friends and apply to ur relationship no two relationship is the same. Always seek for a relationship councillor for relationship advice. Op u should have continued trying to talk out things in shape with her rather than doing g what ur friend told u. I know ladies could be so annoying some times and u can't just understand them but with patience and love u can still win there heart, if u really want her. Keep in touch with don't give space otherwise another guy will fill that vacuum, and she may forget u just like that I know how this girls out there reason like fish. |
Re: My Girlfriend Of 9 Years Says It's Over Between Us by tukurutaiwo: 1:15pm On May 01, 2017 |
selflessmaya: Kindly read the article properly |
Re: My Girlfriend Of 9 Years Says It's Over Between Us by tukurutaiwo: 1:16pm On May 01, 2017 |
fastjett: Thanks |
Re: My Girlfriend Of 9 Years Says It's Over Between Us by thesuave10(m): 1:17pm On May 01, 2017 |
kimbra: Kimbra delivery services. I can make some really out of this world orders. So you better deliver and fast too. Lemme guess, this someone is George Clooney. Relationships are always heading some way. So if I decided to get married at 50 I'd probably had 10+ gfs. One for each year. I usually blame men more tho for relationship fck ups. What's the point? Now that's the spirit. We should just be having no strings attached sex (this would solve everything) #friends with benefits activist. |
Re: My Girlfriend Of 9 Years Says It's Over Between Us by Chibydinho(m): 1:17pm On May 01, 2017 |
GodnGold:. Very simple... Act nicely and loving this moment.. Sendless the other moment. . Something happened to me yesterday. I have an online chick that we chat and things are going normal. I noticed on Saturday that she was getting cold on chats, I didn't bother.. I placed a call (my mumu self), she wasn't sounding cheerful like the one I know.. I laughed and as she didn't reply my fb msg that Saturday morning, while she was online.. I vowed to ignore her. . I did that all through yesterday, she sent two msgs on fb calling me sweet names, I didn't bother to open it while I'm online making posts and even when she comments on them, I reply her on my post to show I am online yet I ignored her on inbox..mixed signals...lol . She called, I no pick and didn't call back.. Mind you, na person that we dey be love birds ooo.... . So I'm on the pull method now to try make her realize that without her, I fit be enjoying and being happy. The push method was making her feel big head, so na the thing I dey try reduce... . This is applicable in real life too... Don't act love love everytime, sometime create an issue and ball out small like a boss..lol.... To test if she really kwadu you well... Psychologically, we pursue things we no fit get easily. |
Re: My Girlfriend Of 9 Years Says It's Over Between Us by Nobody: 1:23pm On May 01, 2017 |
She wants competition,you are too easy for her, stop treating her like a trophy because you have been dating for 9 years. she wants the spark. |
Re: My Girlfriend Of 9 Years Says It's Over Between Us by tukurutaiwo: 1:26pm On May 01, 2017 |
Gistedge: Expansiate pls |
Re: My Girlfriend Of 9 Years Says It's Over Between Us by DaAwesome1(m): 1:27pm On May 01, 2017 |
Nne5:d gal sef na binsh + her overpossessive nd obsecced booo.. |
Re: My Girlfriend Of 9 Years Says It's Over Between Us by tukurutaiwo: 1:30pm On May 01, 2017 |
DaAwesome1: Lol |
Re: My Girlfriend Of 9 Years Says It's Over Between Us by Nobody: 1:36pm On May 01, 2017 |
tukurutaiwo Okay. Make her jealous, make her know you are worth it, from what i read you are too caring which makes you weak and that might be pushing her away, you need some of that energy to focus on you right now. Whether or not you send her text she will still find a reason to walk away. I think the spark is gone, and you are trying too hard to convince her to stay, stop doing that else she will stay out of pity or sentiment and not because you both deserve each other. tukurutaiwo: |
Re: My Girlfriend Of 9 Years Says It's Over Between Us by Nobody: 1:42pm On May 01, 2017 |
tukurutaiwo: tukurutaiwo: you don't have to like my reply, it's very blunt and doesn't exactly pamper so i can understand if it's not very liked by u. but don't try to tell me i don't know what i read. you spread a false message about your impending nuptials to a partner of 9 yrs! it's right there in bold. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Of 9 Years Says It's Over Between Us by tukurutaiwo: 1:42pm On May 01, 2017 |
Gistedge: Well that's what I tried to do n it backfired. |
Re: My Girlfriend Of 9 Years Says It's Over Between Us by Nobody: 1:46pm On May 01, 2017 |
tukurutaiwo:Relax!!!!! If she's your wife, she'll come back to you. |
Re: My Girlfriend Of 9 Years Says It's Over Between Us by tukurutaiwo: 1:46pm On May 01, 2017 |
selflessmaya: ****to her,.. |
Re: My Girlfriend Of 9 Years Says It's Over Between Us by Nobody: 1:49pm On May 01, 2017 |
okay. tukurutaiwo: |
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