kimbra:
Are you now asking for some bucks?.

thesuave10:


Well now that you put it that way

















HELL YH!

tukurutaiwo:
Dear nairalanders,

I've been dating this lady since we left secondary school till this month. We went to different universities but then things went pretty well between us because we get to talk and the communication was absolutely perfect and wonderful.

After graduation and we were posted for nysc, we were posted to different states but i redeployed to her state because we both wanted to be close to each other.

After service, we both started working and little by little things started happening and the communication started falling, so also thr closeness. I do ask her what the issue is but she tells me nothing. After some time, i went to visit her and then i met one of her colleagues at work who was a guy and we greeted each other. While i was at her house, i noticed that the way the two of them were behaving was not making me comfortable but still i didn't leave. After about an hour or thereabout the guy decided to leave and she escorted the guy to the door and i decided to follow her which she did know of and then when she hugged the guy goodbye and was about to turn to the door to come back in the guy kissed her and when she turned her face she saw me but i didn't say anything.. It all got me annoyed but i composed myself.

After that day i met the guy there twice or thrice and then i asked her Wassup with her and this guy and she said there's nothing that they are just friends and i believed her. After then i still had issues with the same guy. We still had issues with another guy too though and my girlfriend was not bothered about it and then i just let her be and gave her some space because all she tells me is that I am too jealous.


I spoke to one of my friends about it and he told me that we should try something out to know if she still cares about me. So myself and my friend composed a message and sent to her. Her sister and her friends inviting them to my wedding with another lady. It actually worked because we spoke on the phone for hours and she said that it's her work and that she's sorry. She cried on the phone and then i later told her it was all planned. After then things went back to the way it used to be and we were both happy.

But after about three months or thereabout things started getting back to the bad way it was before the plan with my friend. I asked her again what the matter is in several occasions but she kept telling me nothing..

I requested for a time out with her and she agreed and then we talked at length and she didn't say anything in particular to what's happening..

So on my own i decided on a plan that i told her some other lady is pregnant for me and her parents are requesting me to come visit them because of their pregnant daughter. After i sent her that message, she got angry and has refused picking my calls since then and I've been apologising but she said it's over between us. After still begging for about two weeks, i decided to stop calling her because she blocked my number from calling her. But then she still uses our picture as dp on bbm.

Do you guys think I'm forcing the relationship by finding several ways to make things work out or i should just let her be since she has made her decision to break up with me??

Please i need honest and sincere advice.

kimbra:
I think I'll pass.

arleck:
bibi294 honey you see where you have mistaken,


you trying to put all that misery on the poor op


From My Own Angle Op has done anything wrong

if you looking for someone to blame may be you should blame it on dat snitched B I T C H


i also dated my x gf for 5yearz and now we've broken up, so what about that?


Op You Deserve Someone Bera Than Dat b*i*t*c*h.. let go of her.. She's not the only girl in this world dude!

Dvampire:
My guy...9 years of relationship?! That's deep. When were you planning of putting the ring on it bro? That aside, let her be. She's still smarting from the drama you served. She will come around. You guys have been together far too long. However when this is resolved, marry her fast or else....don't think she does not have toasters o.

Raine80:
If there was an example of a woman who wanted to get out of a relationship it's this one. Brother you were set up and she used your behaviour as an excuse to end things. This relationship ended long before it ended. You cannot have a relationship where everyone including the kitchen sink is involved. Why people cannot be honest and say look I don't want to be with you anymore painful to hear but it's the truth.

I888:
if I slap u, u will go blind? Who is playing with whose heart here? Didn't u read she kissed the other guy, not know he was behind them?

Yet, she said nothing is going on between them.

Bros easy o, no come blind person o.

©YBR

MissCuppy:
Why do you keep sending stupid messages to her.

You are so childish.

chiraqDemon:

Bruh if u r a woman and after 9 years of dating d guy is behaving like he dies not plan to settle down, will u cintinue playing d games, nor forget say women dey under a lot of pressure to get married. 9 years and no signs u have ti start hustling o
If this guy is serious he will put a ring on her, either that or lose her completely

tukurutaiwo:
Dear nairalanders,

I've been dating this lady since we left secondary school till this month. We went to different universities but then things went pretty well between us because we get to talk and the communication was absolutely perfect and wonderful.

After graduation and we were posted for nysc, we were posted to different states but i redeployed to her state because we both wanted to be close to each other.

After service, we both started working and little by little things started happening and the communication started falling, so also thr closeness. I do ask her what the issue is but she tells me nothing. After some time, i went to visit her and then i met one of her colleagues at work who was a guy and we greeted each other. While i was at her house, i noticed that the way the two of them were behaving was not making me comfortable but still i didn't leave. After about an hour or thereabout the guy decided to leave and she escorted the guy to the door and i decided to follow her which she did know of and then when she hugged the guy goodbye and was about to turn to the door to come back in the guy kissed her and when she turned her face she saw me but i didn't say anything.. It all got me annoyed but i composed myself.

After that day i met the guy there twice or thrice and then i asked her Wassup with her and this guy and she said there's nothing that they are just friends and i believed her. After then i still had issues with the same guy. We still had issues with another guy too though and my girlfriend was not bothered about it and then i just let her be and gave her some space because all she tells me is that I am too jealous.


I spoke to one of my friends about it and he told me that we should try something out to know if she still cares about me. So myself and my friend composed a message and sent to her. Her sister and her friends inviting them to my wedding with another lady. It actually worked because we spoke on the phone for hours and she said that it's her work and that she's sorry. She cried on the phone and then i later told her it was all planned. After then things went back to the way it used to be and we were both happy.

But after about three months or thereabout things started getting back to the bad way it was before the plan with my friend. I asked her again what the matter is in several occasions but she kept telling me nothing..

I requested for a time out with her and she agreed and then we talked at length and she didn't say anything in particular to what's happening..

So on my own i decided on a plan that i told her some other lady is pregnant for me and her parents are requesting me to come visit them because of their pregnant daughter. After i sent her that message, she got angry and has refused picking my calls since then and I've been apologising but she said it's over between us. After still begging for about two weeks, i decided to stop calling her because she blocked my number from calling her. But then she still uses our picture as dp on bbm.

Do you guys think I'm forcing the relationship by finding several ways to make things work out or i should just let her be since she has made her decision to break up with me??

Please i need honest and sincere advice.

jeyselassie:
OP 9 years, 9 years, 9 years. and you are still playing games upandan. you are immature. not even a ring you are just taunting the poor geh. dont worry a 600,000,000 volt thunder was approved and signed from 32 villages to take you down. as we speak its in prayer city and moving over to redemption camp tomorrow for final tests. you cant escape it . and quote me- you will soon get invitation card from her to bridal shower as the "head of strippersss"

arleck:


lyk seriously i dont understand the f+u+c+k is wrng with you guys


ya'll talking bou marriage,


let assume he started dating the frm 16+9=25


so ya'll mean a 25yr old gurl is due for marriage ryt?


ya'll need medication

djgrafiti:
Chai my brother has been bewitched that he can't see the glaring signs on his face....dude u are lost,u need to move on,the gal isn't feeling u anymore,9 yrs of dating? oh please!

SgtKisswhere:

i swear the thing weak me o....maybe they didn't see when he said they have been dating since sec school. maybe the guy has not even been able to stand on his feet nd they re talking marriage as if it somewhere you just step in nd if u find it not to your liking, you easily step out

arleck:



you right


marriage isnt a fvcking bed of roses...

SgtKisswhere:


bro, he said they started 9 years ago in sec schl.......now they are both working, but you be guy na......won't you want to be comfortable a bit before putting a ring on that finger? dunno if you re seeing from my angle