Hmmmm

MadManTalking:
my paddy said he is cheating because:
a. his wife does not give him blowjob_

b. that he likes women who are hairless like catfish/glass but his wife has hairs on her nipplez, legs, butthole_ and her ass_. He can't even caress her ass during lovemaking.

c. he said the level of hairs on his wife's ass_ can't allow him have doggy with her and he likes doggy style so he goes out to fulfill his sex hunger with other women. Sleeping with his wife is like sleeping with a man.

d. after 3 children, his wife's kpekus has lost all manner of friction so he always looks for kpekus wey still tight small.

e. after they got married, the wife had a skin infection on her legs that gave her black spots all over her legs and this disgusted him so he mingle with women with flesh clean spotless laps.

All in all, he is currently seeking for a divorce to marry one pretty, young and rich Calabar doctor he met of recent.

Good. Your paddy will explain to God one day.

Alitair:
Men must cheat. Maybe after like 5years then you will calm down. Go and marry and confirm.

Very foolish and misleading analysis.

TeamFaithfulHubby

Cheat at ur own detriment

Meti99:
cheating is part of man's nature..

women cheat too but they are way too smart for you to detect


in Nigeria's voice
A MAN WHO GOT MARRIED AND DID NOT CHEAT, IS THAT ONE A MAN??

A MAN WHO IS MARRIED AND CANNOT EVEN CHECK OUT AND GIVE A HELPING HAND TO UN MARRIED LADIES IS THAT A MAN

Same question I askd my colleague tday at work. This lady is dating a married man and I just wonder why its so difficult for some married men not to cheat on their wives, tho I askd her why d man is cheating and she told me that the man told her d wife caused it.
Makes me scared the more if I am also not going to cheat on my woman because I will marry soon.
I have come to a conclusion dt 3things combined won't make a man cheat on his woman cos d 3things are very important. If a man has 1 or 2 out of those things, there is 45% possibility that he may still cheat.
The 3things are:
1. True love for ur woman
2. Fear of God plus Holy Spirit
3. 100% self discipline.

leave me weak u hear...all of una pretenders

highchief3:
Only weak men cheat, real men remain faithful to their partner. Which one are you? Choose....

Destined2win:
Because they have smelling anuses

Receive sense!

Greatigbos:
ask afonjas dey will explain beter

Beerfraud stripper seen

What has cheating got do do with the Nigerian Man!
What is cheating self, is it African...... Has there been laws against men relating to women in sexual matters? So what is cheating

Coz once a woman gives birth
.she has expired

I can say that one of the things that can make men cheat is because of disagreement between the couple, especially if the woman is a nagging type, showing unwillingness to change over time.

kimbra:
Does being a man include cheating?. If it's ok, those of you who cheat won't have to hide it from your wives and kids. If it's ok you'd just bring bring your concubine home and introduce her to your wife and kids like there's nothing wrong in it.

Why do people who do bad things hide to do so, because they know it's wrong. So please, spear me of that "Do you know what's like to be a man?".

Cus u ladies do not give the man the liberty to introduce the second wife to you,u wild rather kill than allow a second wife into the home
So to do it on a coded level is better

Why do women cheat on their husband?
Oju kokoro of money and sex
Abi I lie?

princessayesha:

Good. Your paddy will explain to God one day.

Too much porn is affecting ur paddy

PaperLace:




That excuse of sex deprivation is rubbish, do you know how many women are sexually deprived? Go to antenatals and hear stories. Abroad husbands, husbands working in another town, even the ones that don't just like to do. What do people advise her? Focus on your kids. Men too should learn to focus on their kids, not their dicks.

Eh ehn! Those ones dey? *shocked it's coming from a woman*

kimbra:
Only men with flawed values cheat on their wives. I know for sure that there are men that no matter what the lady looks like or how enticing the free sex offer is they'd never cheat on their wives 'cause is usually some minutes pleasure which is likely to ruin your matrimonial home. Weak men cheat, real men don't.

"Cheating is in our DNA". Is an excuse weak men use to feel it's ok to cheat.

We are not looking for condemnation, rather the reason for the evil act and posible solution.

zeongeon:
Calling men who cheat weak men is so so wrong and flawed.. king David, Solomon, Ghengis Khan, etc were never weak men... They were all strong, wise and upright.. What a man should pray for is the grace and strength to overcome temptation and never come across a dare devil Jezebel, Delilah, Potiphar wife, Cleopatra or Helen of Troy....Even Joseph in the Bible had to run.

Men are created to reproduce, get attracted by what they see and to enjoy variety. There is no heterosexual male that isn't inclined to wanting to be with more than one woman. The fact that men are designed to aid reproduction and are moved by what they see is on of the main reasons men date, marry women and the world gets to welcome babies every now and then.

It's the raw truth that MEN weren't configured to be with just one woman. However, it's possible to be with one woman if a man is in Christ and even while in Christ its not easy, it's a feeling and thought you will have to keep on depressing for a long while.

U talk well. This is exactly what men are facing unknown to those who are quick to judge their second.

TheLordIsGr8:


Oga na where u get these statistics from

Or u cram am wen u dey primary school

From personal data collated over a long period of time, you can cross check with yours.

Lol

From series of counselling on Christian marriages I discovered one of the major reasons why men or women cheat in marriage. Firstly, some couple when have disagreement, they deny themselves sex for Months and in the process, they get entice to man? woman. Secondly, Some women/ men can not satisfy themselves, eg, they will keep giving their partner same sex position. Some men/women are too dirty, can not even wash their under pants.

Not my business anyway.. .any man I'll marry will never cheat on me. Not all men cheat...

W oooo unto that man that has cheated and intending to still cheat on their wives.and then term it its in the nature of a man to chat. .firstly love GOD so much and you Wil LOVE your wife so much that the act of cheating seems impossible to you...its really in our DNA so pray for self..control

vetisrael:
Same question I askd my colleague tday at work. This lady is dating a married man and I just wonder why its so difficult for some married men not to cheat on their wives, tho I askd her why d man is cheating and she told me that the man told her d wife caused it.
Makes me scared the more if I am also not going to cheat on my woman because I will marry soon.
I have come to a conclusion dt 3things combined won't make a man cheat on his woman cos d 3things are very important. If a man has 1 or 2 out of those things, there is 45% possibility that he may still cheat.
The 3things are:
1. True love for ur woman
2. Fear of God plus Holy Spirit
3. 100% self discipline.

And you didn't mention plenty sex from the woman. You neva start. This is the major reason why men cheat. Yes, there are a few men that will still cheat whether the wife sexes him 100 times a day, but they are in the vast minority. Most men cheat because they do not get enough sex at home and the women are not willing to understand that sex is very important to a man. So after all the long talk and congee hold am well well, even a saint will start to look for it outside. FACT.

Vorpal:


Eh ehn! Those ones dey? *shocked it's coming from a woman*

There are such men, maybe when you get married _you'll be privy to such gist. Married people feel comfortable discussing such with their fellow married people 'cos they believe you can relate.

Go to fertility clinics and see them plenty. Haven't you noticed the increased sales of all sort of PED, even here on NL?
Na cat dey drink am?

What most married men won't tell you is, at different point in time: they experience drastic drop in libido. Their wives have to wait it out.

PaperLace:

There are such men, maybe when you get married _you'll be privy to such gist. Married people feel comfortable discussing such with their fellow married people 'cos they believe you can relate.

Go to fertility clinics and see them plenty. Haven't you noticed the increased sales of all sort of PED, even here on NL?
Na cat dey drink am?

What most married men won't tell you is, at different point in time: they experience drastic drop in libido. Their wives have to wait it out.

Lol


Those who are not that enthusiastic about sex except for the urge may find that phase quite knotty in their marriage. So all this sex gra gra, is just youthfulness.

Some married men cheat because dogs eat their umblican cord when they were little baby. And married women also does the same thing too. It's a vice versa .

Only irresponsible men cheat on their wives. Real men don't cheat.
For those saying that it is in the nature of men to cheat, that is a big fat lie.

Most men who cheat do so out of selfishness and lack of respect for women. This is one of the reasons why naija men fear to marry career women and women who can hold their own. They would rather marry those they can easily suppress and throw all manner of poo at.

Wicked naija men!

Some of them are not even sexually strong since they suffer from weak erect1on, but they will still be carrying about small girls just to break their wives' hearts, and waste money on sex enhancing drugs.

kimbra:
Only men with flawed values cheat on their wives. I know for sure that there are men that no matter what the lady looks like or how enticing the free sex offer is they'd never cheat on their wives 'cause is usually some minutes pleasure which is likely to ruin your matrimonial home. Weak men cheat, real men don't.

"Cheating is in our DNA". Is an excuse weak men use to feel it's ok to cheat.

As a young man I have realised that so many men underestimate their wives. Sugar mummies are way too numerous than Sugar daddies. Are these not mostly married women?

Even for the woman abi?

Blackblood247:
A friend of mine said "you can't be eating rice alone for the rest of your life. You're bound to want to have a taste of Amala, semovita or beans once in a while. It is just a natural phenomenon"

There are various reasons why men do cheat in marriage, i share some of them below:

https://dunamisblog.com/why-do-men-cheat-in-marriage/