Hello fellow Nairanders,

Once upon a time in 2016, I fell in love with a beautiful damsel who happened to be a virgin. We became very intimate and had great sex.After sex, she always thanked me for making her feel so extraordinary.As at that time, I was madly in love with her.

We got engaged in December 2016 in a grant style due to the fact that am working as a graduate engineer in a multinational firm.

I sincerely had the intention of taking her to the altar until early February, my friend alerted me that he saw my girl in a club with four(4) young men...I got worried and quickly called, her phone rang, no response.I gave her 458 missed calls until later in the evening, she answered"Nkem, am so sorry, I was sleeping while your calls came through"

I wept and called my friend to confirm if his is very sure of what he told me...He insisted.I kept wondering, how could an engaged woman flirt around with guys? I was shocked because I got 95% of what women need-money, good sex,good looking, good job e.t.c

In a nutshell, I invited her to my place and interrogated her and she admitted that she went to club with those guys but nothing happened.No woman would truly agree that she "spreaded" her legs for another man.

My feelings for her crashed to 0%..She pleaded for 30 days until she involved my pastor.My pastor told me to embrace forgiveness which I did...We started all over again and she promised to be faithful, loyal and honest at all times..

A month later she took in.The badnews came as a shock to me because I never cum inside her whenever we had sex...I quickly rushed to see my family doctor.He told me there is 100% chances of any woman to get pregnant with the method I adopted.

Due to the fact that my feelings for her is still at 0%, I begged her for an abortion and she replied"over my dead body"..Her family called me and I told them I am not ready and they threatened to arrest me...They sent her to my house last week with her protruded stomach without my consent...It was very late and I had no choice than to let her in.

Luck ran out of her this morning when she got a call from one Pastor Mike...I was curious to know if it is "hygienic" for a pastor to call a beautiful damsel in the early hours of the day...I questioned her and she told me the guy is a genuine pastor...
Me:pastor of which church?
She:Catholic Church
Do catholic church ordain pastors?

I called the so-called Pastor Mike and he said, he is not a pastor.

I have contacted my family and friends, but am not yet comfortable with their counsel.

One good thing about Nairanders is that from the bad, the good and the ugly comments, a wise OP should be able to get something out of nothing.

Long live Nairanders!!!
Long live the Federal Republic of Nigeria!!!

God has created this
Lets it be my man
Even abortion can't disrupt what God wants to create

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Can someone pls summarize so i can comment

Probably the person below

first of all, change dat ya topic, hw cn u "MISTAKENLY" giv her belle.
was she pasin by wen u wia abt to trow ur spam over d fence n it mistakenly pour on her?

This is tough.
Firstly what do you mean by"mistakely impregnated her"How much is condom?
But the mistake you made first is by using the withdrawal method instead of condom..she might be carrying another man child and not yours but no evidence.
The only option here is paternity test.

Oh the deed has already been done.
But a little voice inside me tells me that u might not be the father of the child.
Don't be fuckn scared of arrest and the police call her parents and tell them what happened and how u don't trust their daughter because she bike the trust you have on her, and that u have a feeling that the kid is not yours and you can only marry her if she delivers and u do a paternity test on the child or better still tell them you no go marry but u go take care of the kid and mother.
Or Just marry her.
All these things weak me for women stuffs.
My own story about the girl I meet recently that lied to me used another maga to the extreme just make my zeal for looking for a partner reduce to 45%.

Yeah...sincerely, am very confused

The only solution here is when the baby comes and if ur willing to have a DNA test juz to make sure that the baby is yours...

kaziblake:
This is tough

Am confused

TrapQueen77:



The only solution here is when the baby comes and uf ur willing to have a DNA test juz to make sure that the baby is yours...

Thanks

This is pathetic but your only way out is save for DNA test after which you can make any decision but for now.play the.fool

Bros be responsible for ur actions n face it as a man
Wen u were lashing wtout cd u neva askrd if drr cud be an issue.


That lady aint really yours.


I knw u may doubt d paternity but u can do a dna test wen d time is right.


Wish u d best

humm this is a serious issue

firstly try ur best to find out about that pastor b4 u can take any step bcz what I'm seeing here ain't proof that you're the only person who get that pregnt , even it may not be you


but you can't do anything without proof

You could have seen some signs of unfaithfulness in her. Please don't marry that girl. And you as a girl in a relationship, yet have other boyfriends. You have problems.

Afonjashapmouth:
This is pathetic but your only way out is save for DNA test after which you can make any decision but for now.play the.fool

Wow!!! I got ur message.

Thank u

Let her deliver the baby, go for DNA, Sue her if u are not the father. Thank me later

Ha! My bro this lady, Mcheeeeew I mean the way I see this matter something is wrong somewhere the first is She went to the club but nothing happened with all those calls you made, secondly She to someone else and lied that She spoke with a Pastor as you confirmed. So She is up to something and that Belle self with her behaviours, Hmmmm! Even me I no go believe am say na me get the belle. Shine your eyes.

U see why I advice girls to keep their virginity atimes, it will save u a lot of headaches.

The only problem here is you're too in love with the girl. From the names you described her one could tell, she has your mumu button.

Since pastor Mike said he isn't a pastor, he might be her side nigga. Go and tell her parents you don't trust their daughter and wouldn't want to have such a woman as a wife to avoid future divorce. You could do a paternity test after the birth of the child but will support her all through till the DNA is done and if it's yours you'll marry her.

kimbra:
The only problem here is you're too in love with the girl. From the names you described her one could tell, she has your mumu button.

Since pastor Mike said he isn't a pastor, he might be her side nigga. Go and tell her parents you don't trust their daughter and wouldn't want to have such a woman as a wife to avoid future divorce. You could do a paternity test after the birth of the child but will support her all through till the DNA is done and if it's yours you'll marry her.

Always so explicit, straight to the point, unbiased & honest.
A million likes
How are you doing ma?

sunshyne20:



Always so explicit, straight to the point, unbiased & honest.
A million likes
How are you doing ma?

Lol, I'm good. How are you?.

kimbra:
Lol, I'm good. How are you?.

Great dear.
Being a while. Missed you ma

yomi007k:
Bros be responsible for ur actions n face it as a man
Wen u were lashing wtout cd u neva askrd if drr cud be an issue.


That lady aint really yours.


I knw u may doubt d paternity but u can do a dna test wen d time is right.


Wish u d best

Thanks

In all honesty my man. Do not and I say again, Do not marry this girl. Now the reason she cheated on you is your fault sha but do not marry her at all cuz if I tell you how to correct yourself(cuz it's your fault) when you guys get married she'll cheat again. Keeping it real!

sunshyne20:


Great dear.
Being a while. Missed you ma

Aww, don't miss me too much.
Do have a nice day.

thesuave10:
In all honesty my man. Do not and I say again, Do not marry this girl. Now the reason she cheated on you is your fault sha but do not marry her at all cuz if I tell you how to correct yourself(cuz it's your fault) when you guys get married she'll cheat again. Keeping it real!

Interesting! !! Pls continue!!!

macroscopic:
Interesting! !! Pls continue!!!

following...

dude just calm down and wait till she gives birth and do a DNA test
nothing is hidden under the sun..but don't ever try to marry this girl even if they threaten fire and Brimstone's

kimbra:
Aww, don't miss me too much.
Do have a nice day.

You too.
God bless you

The miracle working "pastor mike"

infantlion:
Hello fellow Nairanders,

Once upon a time in 2016, I fell in love with a beautiful damsel who happened to be a virgin. We became very intimate and had great sex.After sex, she always thanked me for making her feel so extraordinary.As at that time, I was madly in love with her.

We got engaged in December 2016 in a grant style due to the fact that am working as a graduate engineer in a multinational firm.

I sincerely had the intention of taking her to the altar until early February, my friend alerted me that he saw my girl in a club with four(4) young men...I got worried and quickly called, her phone rang, no response.I gave her 458 missed calls until later in the evening, she answered"Nkem, am so sorry, I was sleeping while your calls came through"

I wept and called my friend to confirm if his is very sure of what he told me...He insisted.I kept wondering, how could an engaged woman flirt around with guys? I was shocked because I got 95% of what women need-money, good sex,good looking, good job e.t.c

In a nutshell, I invited her to my place and interrogated her and she admitted that she went to club with those guys but nothing happened.No woman would truly agree that she "spreaded" her legs for another man.

My feelings for her crashed to 0%..She pleaded for 30 days until she involved my pastor.My pastor told me to embrace forgiveness which I did...We started all over again and she promised to be faithful, loyal and honest at all times..

A month later she took in.The badnews came as a shock to me because I never cum inside her whenever we had sex...I quickly rushed to see my family doctor.He told me there is 100% chances of any woman to get pregnant with the method I adopted.

Due to the fact that my feelings for her is still at 0%, I begged her for an abortion and she replied"over my dead body"..Her family called me and I told them I am not ready and they threatened to arrest me...They sent her to my house last week with her protruded stomach without my consent...It was very late and I had no choice than to let her in.

Luck ran out of her this morning when she got a call from one Pastor Mike...I was curious to know if it is "hygienic" for a pastor to call a beautiful damsel in the early hours of the day...I questioned her and she told me the guy is a genuine pastor...
Me:pastor of which church?
She:Catholic Church
Do catholic church ordain pastors?

I called the so-called Pastor Mike and he said, he is not a pastor.

I have contacted my family and friends, but am not yet comfortable with their counsel.

One good thing about Nairanders is that from the bad, the good and the ugly comments, a wise OP should be able to get something out of nothing.

Long live Nairanders!!!
Long live the Federal Republic of Nigeria!!!

Take care of her now and promise to marry her on one condition only; if the baby is yours after paternity test.
Who knws the baby my resemble u sef.
Dont wory, cos wory doesnt solve anytin o, it only complicate things & make u los focus.