hi My bestie has being dating dis Guy for two years now yet d relations hip is leading no Where # d Guy cals her once in a month when she complains he wil claim he has being busy # #d Guy is a graduate and well to do but he has nt for once supported her finacially knowin fully well her dad is late # their chat is always about how he cnt wait to marry her bla bla bla Is there a future for dem #She is currently in final year# advice her for me

Nairalanders no dey get problem, it is always our friends with all the problems

wait! why you put "#" all over the place na

just tell us you're the one (not bestie) , no one would hurt you

Never support her financially as if He be her father abi Atm

babe just waka comot if u think there is no future
u dont need an advice

wat do you want your bestie to do
Break​up and blame u later

or
Break up and thank you later

Lol. Nairalanders gat no chill. see funny comments above me

becca4216:
hi My bestie has being dating dis Guy for two years now yet d relations hip is leading no Where

Do you actually believe that ANY r/ship should lead to marriage, regardless of what happens within that said r/ship?

d Guy cals her once in a month when she complains he wil claim he has being busy

So the amount of phone calls made is now a priority in r/ships?

d Guy is a graduate and well to do but he has nt for once supported her finacially knowin fully well her dad is late

Maybe the guy wants to see wifey qualities in her, aka this lady helping her own damn self. If any deluded person thinks that, because your parents are late, means that anyone you date should help you financially.... Then I suggest they drop this lazy liability of a partner sharp!

# their chat is always about how he cnt wait to marry her bla bla bla Is there a future for dem #She is currently in final year# advice her for me

Let me guess... Being busy is forbidden in your part of the world, and only discussion that matter to this clueless person should be about how much money the mugu has transferred to her account. Right?!

SuperSuave:
Nairalanders no dey get problem, it is always our friends with all the problems

wait! why you put "#" all over the place na

lol am nt d one o if am d one i go sai so no bigg o

He can't wait to marry someone he calls just once in a month?
My dear,weda na you abi na your friend get d issue,the person better run away and go find her own husband,cos this one is a time waster

MrBrownJay1:


Do you actually believe that ANY r/ship should lead to marriage, regardless of what happens within that said r/ship?



So the amount of phone calls made is now a priority in r/ships?



Maybe the guy wants to see wifey qualities in her, aka this lady helping her own damn self. If any deluded person thinks that, because your parents are late, means that anyone you date should help you financially.... Then I suggest they drop this lazy liability of a partner sharp!



Let me guess... Being busy is forbidden in your part of the world, and only discussion that matter to this clueless person should be about how much money the mugu has transferred to her account. Right?!

pls he suppose d cal am two times a week atleast swry u follow guys wey no dy spend on bae abi lol DT is NT cool #checkamnahifunabaehowugofeel#

MarshRiley:
He can't wait to marry someone he calls just once in a month?
My dear,weda na you abi na your friend get d issue,the person better run away and go find her own husband,cos this one is a time waster

tnx atleast sombori ils catching d rhema of dis post

becca4216:
tnx atleast sombori ils catching d rhema of dis post

Tell the lady that guys call the lady they love everyday,not once a month

SuperSuave:
Nairalanders no dey get problem, it is always our friends with all the problems

wait! why you put "#" all over the place na

Jinf:
Sounds more like YOU need an advice (i don't see how this is a bestie thing)

I wish i had the time to break down your post and analyze them... Here's my 2 cent, forget about "I love him". Sit down and ask yourself, "Is this the kind of man i deserve?". If your answer is yes, continue dating him. If your answer is no, break up and move on.

Have this at the back of your mind tho: No guy owes you anything. Know that it's not his duty to support you financially, however there's nothing wrong in him assisting and "dropping something".

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SuperSuave:
Nairalanders no dey get problem, it is always our friends with all the problems

wait! why you put "#" all over the place na

lol NT me dear #bestie# cool advice

becca4216:
pls he suppose d cal am two times a week atleast swry u follow guys wey no dy spend on bae abi lol DT is NT cool #checkamnahifunabaehowugofeel#

If someone had NOTHING to tell you then they have no reason to call you... Only insecure women expect men to call them regardless if they want to or not. I hope your bestie will finally wake up because its obvious this man ain't the donkey she is seeking for.

If spending money on calls (or else) is your views of whether a r/ship is good or not, then you have failed!

Mbok yak nduok odudu etuk

Advice on what? D calls he ain't making or d money he ain't giving! Fvck it...must be d money......let her hustle for herself..she is in final year na.....is providing money for her upkeep d way naija ladies view a guy as good I just TIRE!!!!

That's your friends problem not yours. She can make up her own mind. You have offered your many opinions on the matter and nothing has changed. Your friend needs to figure out what's more important in her life.

That guy is dating another girl.

Take it or leave it

With a very poor writings.

She dnt put the part that the girl told him no sex before marriage oo, nw she want finicial support!

becca4216:
hi My bestie has being dating dis Guy for two years now yet d relations hip is leading no Where # d Guy cals her once in a month when she complains he wil claim he has being busy # #d Guy is a graduate and well to do but he has nt for once supported her finacially knowin fully well her dad is late # their chat is always about how he cnt wait to marry her bla bla bla Is there a future for dem #She is currently in final year# advice her for me

gbefun! lienus irolabi eyan bestie....aunty na u den dey use play kite and not your friend ,stop lying

Pm her number I will treat like the queen she is.

This issue get as e be....but why specify on he has not supported her in anyway. Well truth is that the guy get anoda babe shall. Anybody that claims too busy but busy doing nothing definitely is giving up time for someone else. To me let ur friend take her decision herself but advice her in a neutral way so that last last u nor go be bad person you know sey una wen be female sabi reason anyhow.