yomi007k:



Have u tried treating typhoid?

©YBR

luminouz:
Well! 7th time is a dream!!!! But u sef no try.....haba ur too insecure for any guy's good!!!! D guy even try...me don commit by d 3rd time!!!

HerPov:


Don't say that! But I really love him and I don't mean it. He has exhausted the conversation with me. It's my time of the month! I have some chemical imbalance I think. All these sound like excuses but it's the truth. I guess I've lost him for good, huh?

Raine80:
What man needs that level of instability? I hope
He does not take you back because you have developed an expectation that he will always take you back. You need to focus on having emotional maturity before embarking on relationships. The fact that you have such insecurities does not help because you will always find fault where none exist.For you to not like yourself ( low self esteem ) what happened? Why do you transfer your anxieties on to him? You know he had nothing to do with the way you feel about yourself . Or does he?

HerPov:
I really really really really really really need advice

Raine80:
What man needs that level of instability? I hope
He does not take you back because you have developed an expectation that he will always take you back. You need to focus on having emotional maturity before embarking on relationships. The fact that you have such insecurities does not help because you will always find fault where none exist.For you to not like yourself ( low self esteem ) what happened? Why do you transfer your anxieties on to him? You know he had nothing to do with the way you feel about yourself . Or does he?

Oyind17:
Learn to handle issues wisely. Love doesn't hurt, why are you hurting your boyfriend all the time. I'll advice you to be on your lane for a while before begging him.

HerPov:
I don't know what's wrong with me, everytime I feel insecure in the relationship or he does something to piss me off, I end the relationship. At that moment I'm overwhelmed with anger and he has a way of blanking me when we argue and because I can't release the anger, I quit the relationship.
I really do love him. He is my dream man, I approached him and introduced myself and we just fit. Except my "It's over" drama every month.
I finish with him every month (when I come on my period, I can't control my emotions). He said he can't take me seriously and if I broke up with him again he won't take me back and I broke up with him last week for the 5th time

What's wrong with me? Do other women feel like this? Men what would you do in his situation?

luminouz:

Ermmm...all may not be lost dear......but let him understand ur chemical imbalance issh maybe he will calm down enough to come back...but I sense insecurity in u not all hormonal imbalance n stuff......
Like I said d guy try...me no be fan of DRAMA

SorftWerk:
hey...how old are you

Raine80:
What man needs that level of instability? I hope
He does not take you back because you have developed an expectation that he will always take you back. You need to focus on having emotional maturity before embarking on relationships. The fact that you have such insecurities does not help because you will always find fault where none exist.For you to not like yourself ( low self esteem ) what happened? Why do you transfer your anxieties on to him? You know he had nothing to do with the way you feel about yourself . Or does he?

HerPov:


Tooooooooo old

SorftWerk:
like?

HerPov:


We've exhausted this issue. It's only by the grace of God, he will come back. Thank you for your time dear, I appreciate it.

SorftWerk:
always stating things exactly like they are... I like you for this.

HerPov:


Between 28 and 35

luminouz:

Now u know why I do too!!!!

SorftWerk:
can we marry her together? She'll bear kids for u the first year and bear mine the next year... Sounds fair enough isn't it?

HerPov:


Damn! Sister be easy ooo

You are so right. I am not in denial of my low self-esteem and insecurities. A lot has happened to me that my self worth is shattered. I don't know what to do. You are right. I have nothing to say.

alexialin:
Control your emotions , even when u are angry .
Stop bn impulsive thinking the world revolves round your feet. I was like u in my early twenties
But later I became mature emotionally and in total control of my feelings .

Work on yur impulsive feelings . its important.

Raine80:

If I lie to you are and tell you what you want to hear then that is not helping. That's setting you up to fail. A lot happens to many people but you make peace with your past as there is nothing that you can do to change past misdeeds against you.

Unless you change this will be a very vicious cylcle. Learn how to me mindful, mindfulness is essential in personal growth. Words hurt more than flash pain. You might not mean what you say , but it's said regardless. And there are consequences to those words this being one of them. When you feel the urge to "mouth off" walk away. That includes the awful texts I know you sent him. He got tired learn from that.

SorftWerk:
i see.. For a while I thought u were 16, you gats put that behavior aside and think of making things right for once with boo boo, don't play with his feelings, learn to consider his feelings before doing some things... Now when you're sorry, you should mean it and be ready to desist from it. Age isn't on ur side anymore and he seem to be the cool type...

Make things right...make your "home" right.... Stay safe.

HerPov:


Thank you Raine

I know you are right. I guess I will have to enjoy this humble pie and learn from it. I just wish he wasn't the test subject for my disfunction

Raine80:

Such is life, this is an experience you learn from it, and better yourself.