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Help! My boyfriend won't take me back. by Nobody: 8:32pm On May 04, 2017 |
I don't know what's wrong with me, everytime I feel insecure in the relationship or he does something to piss me off, I end the relationship. At that moment I'm overwhelmed with anger and he has a way of blanking me when we argue and because I can't release the anger, I quit the relationship. I really do love him. He is my dream man, I approached him and introduced myself and we just fit. Except my "It's over" drama every month. I finish with him every month (when I come on my period, I can't control my emotions). He said he can't take me seriously and if I broke up with him again he won't take me back and I broke up with him last week for the 5th time ![]() What's wrong with me? Do other women feel like this? Men what would you do in his situation? 9 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Help! My boyfriend won't take me back. by yomi007k(m): 8:36pm On May 04, 2017 |
![]() Have u tried treating typhoid? 745 Likes 42 Shares |
Re: Help! My boyfriend won't take me back. by Nobody: 8:42pm On May 04, 2017 |
Why are you so insecure and no other women don't feel like that 21 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Help! My boyfriend won't take me back. by YoungBlackRico(m): 8:51pm On May 04, 2017 |
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Re: Help! My boyfriend won't take me back. by Nobody: 8:57pm On May 04, 2017 |
I really really really really really really need advice ![]() ![]() ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: Help! My boyfriend won't take me back. by luminouz(m): 9:00pm On May 04, 2017 |
Well! 7th time is a dream!!!! But u sef no try.....haba ur too insecure for any guy's good!!!! D guy even try...me don commit by d 3rd time!!! 8 Likes |
Re: Help! My boyfriend won't take me back. by Nobody: 9:03pm On May 04, 2017 |
luminouz: Don't say that! But I really love him and I don't mean it. He has exhausted the conversation with me. It's my time of the month! I have some chemical imbalance I think. All these sound like excuses but it's the truth. I guess I've lost him for good, huh? 4 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Help! My boyfriend won't take me back. by Nobody: 9:04pm On May 04, 2017 |
What man needs that level of instability? I hope He does not take you back because you have developed an expectation that he will always take you back. You need to focus on having emotional maturity before embarking on relationships. The fact that you have such insecurities does not help because you will always find fault where none exist.For you to not like yourself ( low self esteem ) what happened? Why do you transfer your anxieties on to him? You know he had nothing to do with the way you feel about yourself . Or does he? 123 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Help! My boyfriend won't take me back. by luminouz(m): 9:06pm On May 04, 2017 |
HerPov:Ermmm...all may not be lost dear......but let him understand ur chemical imbalance issh maybe he will calm down enough to come back...but I sense insecurity in u not all hormonal imbalance n stuff...... Like I said d guy try...me no be fan of DRAMA 10 Likes |
Re: Help! My boyfriend won't take me back. by luminouz(m): 9:07pm On May 04, 2017 |
Raine80:It's my babe Raine80 d Counselor! ![]() ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: Help! My boyfriend won't take me back. by Nobody: 9:08pm On May 04, 2017 |
HerPov:Learn to handle issues wisely. Love doesn't hurt, why are you hurting your boyfriend all the time. I'll advice you to be on your lane for a while before begging him. 10 Likes |
Re: Help! My boyfriend won't take me back. by Nobody: 9:10pm On May 04, 2017 |
Raine80: Damn! Sister be easy ooo ![]() You are so right. I am not in denial of my low self-esteem and insecurities. A lot has happened to me that my self worth is shattered. I don't know what to do. You are right. I have nothing to say. ![]() 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help! My boyfriend won't take me back. by Nobody: 9:11pm On May 04, 2017 |
Oyind17: Thank you dear ![]() |
Re: Help! My boyfriend won't take me back. by Nobody: 9:11pm On May 04, 2017 |
HerPov:hey...how old are you ![]() 12 Likes |
Re: Help! My boyfriend won't take me back. by Nobody: 9:12pm On May 04, 2017 |
luminouz: We've exhausted this issue. It's only by the grace of God, he will come back. Thank you for your time dear, I appreciate it. 1 Like |
Re: Help! My boyfriend won't take me back. by Nobody: 9:12pm On May 04, 2017 |
Re: Help! My boyfriend won't take me back. by Nobody: 9:13pm On May 04, 2017 |
Raine80:always stating things exactly like they are... I like you for this. 1 Like |
Re: Help! My boyfriend won't take me back. by Nobody: 9:13pm On May 04, 2017 |
HerPov:like? |
Re: Help! My boyfriend won't take me back. by Nobody: 9:13pm On May 04, 2017 |
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Re: Help! My boyfriend won't take me back. by luminouz(m): 9:14pm On May 04, 2017 |
HerPov:U welcome dear!!! |
Re: Help! My boyfriend won't take me back. by luminouz(m): 9:15pm On May 04, 2017 |
SorftWerk:Now u know why I do too!!!! |
Re: Help! My boyfriend won't take me back. by Nobody: 9:18pm On May 04, 2017 |
Control your emotions , even when u are angry . Stop bn impulsive thinking the world revolves round your feet. I was like u in my early twenties ![]() But later I became mature emotionally and in total control of my feelings . Work on yur impulsive feelings . its important. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help! My boyfriend won't take me back. by Nobody: 9:18pm On May 04, 2017 |
HerPov:i see.. For a while I thought u were 16, you gats put that behavior aside and think of making things right for once with boo boo, don't play with his feelings, learn to consider his feelings before doing some things... Now when you're sorry, you should mean it and be ready to desist from it. Age isn't on ur side anymore and he seem to be the cool type... Make things right...make your "home" right.... Stay safe. 24 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help! My boyfriend won't take me back. by Nobody: 9:19pm On May 04, 2017 |
luminouz:can we marry her together? She'll bear kids for u the first year and bear mine the next year... Sounds fair enough isn't it? ![]() 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help! My boyfriend won't take me back. by luminouz(m): 9:20pm On May 04, 2017 |
SorftWerk:Lmaooooo! Sowie bro...I DONT SHARE!!!!! Try ermmmm.....other gehs ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: Help! My boyfriend won't take me back. by Nobody: 9:22pm On May 04, 2017 |
HerPov:If I lie to you are and tell you what you want to hear then that is not helping. That's setting you up to fail. A lot happens to many people but you make peace with your past as there is nothing that you can do to change past misdeeds against you. Unless you change this will be a very vicious cylcle. Learn how to me mindful, mindfulness is essential in personal growth. Words hurt more than flash pain. You might not mean what you say , but it's said regardless. And there are consequences to those words this being one of them. When you feel the urge to "mouth off" walk away. That includes the awful texts I know you sent him. He got tired learn from that. 6 Likes |
Re: Help! My boyfriend won't take me back. by Nobody: 9:22pm On May 04, 2017 |
alexialin: How do I work on them? It's like a nagging feeling like something in my head is shouting do it! do it! I feel like I'm crazy! I am so impulsive ![]() The worst thing is that it doesn't clear for a week so I will be strong on my decision then a week later I regret what I did. What did you do or stop doing? How do I control my impulsive behaviour? 2 Likes |
Re: Help! My boyfriend won't take me back. by FreeSpirited: 9:22pm On May 04, 2017 |
I used to have a girl Like that.....she manipulates and uses emotional blackmail on me a lot.....I just had to call it quit at a point.. Small issue...she would say she's not interested again... Small issue na quarell everyday , always daring my patience... I broke up with her when I went for service....she cried and curse her life....At least I was happy with sanity. She was surprised I cud make such decision to end it.. cos she was used to the break and makeup circle..... Op .....Good riddance to you. Grow up. U can only use that dirty tactics on a weak man....or on a man with low self esteem....Any strong man will break up sharply or won't take u serious 28 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Help! My boyfriend won't take me back. by Nobody: 9:26pm On May 04, 2017 |
Raine80: Thank you Raine ![]() I know you are right. I guess I will have to enjoy this humble pie and learn from it. I just wish he wasn't the test subject for my disfunction ![]() 6 Likes |
Re: Help! My boyfriend won't take me back. by Nobody: 9:30pm On May 04, 2017 |
SorftWerk: Thank you. I never once considered his feelings, if I did I wouldn't have done it. I was so fixated on what I was feeling that I never stopped to think. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help! My boyfriend won't take me back. by Nobody: 9:32pm On May 04, 2017 |
HerPov:Such is life, this is an experience you learn from it, and better yourself. 1 Like |
Re: Help! My boyfriend won't take me back. by Nobody: 9:33pm On May 04, 2017 |
Raine80: *Sigh* Well, thank you for your time and energy dear, much appreciated. |
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