firstking01:
I'm excessively sensitive and to concious of what's happening around me....i joke but at the same time takes lil things too serious....i'm controversial to say the least.

Amarabae:
are you an atheist?

LordOfNaira:


My horror story "You Are Not Alone" was inspired by my visit to my mom's grave one night. But, really, I don't stroll to cemeteries to write O. It is not really an easy thing to do.

I used to have a girlfriend. She did fall in love with horror movies and I did adjust some of these weird behaviors but she left when it got too much. When it got to the stage that I started considering hunting for ghosts in abandoned buildings

firstking01:
God forbid bad thing....seems you don't really know what the word "blasphemy" is.....and btw, why do you ask if i'm atheist seeing most of my threads about God and even my siqqy castiqatinq the atheist and you are still asking i'm an atheiest.

FreeSpirited:
Na wahala be dat o......don't marry a short temper girl ......I usually give a benefit of doubt....I also believe there are two or three ways to a situation...so I don't easily conclude or get bothered

firstking01:
And plus, i always believe in the impossible

FreeSpirited:
Hmmm...u will definitely worry a lot

Amarabae:
ok, maybe a misunderstanding somewhere. Apologies if offended.

firstking01:
I believe you can do or achieve anything.

Raine80:
My attribute would be looking at a problem and wanting to solve it immediately...sometimes it's ok to leave it till the next day day I have learnt to do this ( slowly)

SmellingAnus:
I'm honest/straightforward very understanding etc but she has to cope with my high ....

FreeSpirited:
lols, is that a bad attitude your spouse might have to cope with??

firstking01:
You don't gerrit...we humans have limits to what we can do or the height we can attain in life, but what happens when you feel like you can even be richer than king solomon....what happens when you begin to think that you are a perfect being??...


What will push a human being to climb a pole and touch high tention believing that he can never be electrocuted...what will make you believe that you can jump into a sea and helplessly you come out alive...what will inspire you to believe that you can't die

ZarZar:
I'm very introverted:
I don't like to go out much. Asking me to go out becomes a bargaining game
I really don't like people much I'm always polite though, just don't expect me to hang around your friends all the time. They're YOUR friends after all, not mine.
I can't pretend, which closely relates to the point above. I won't hang around people I don't like just because. It drains me.
This one is weird, I don't know how to express certain feelings e.g. excitement. So no, I won't "woop woop" & clap like a seal to show how excited I am, I do that inside. On the outside I simply smile That can easily be mistaken for being ungrateful or whatever, but really, the feeling is there, I just don't know how to express it.
I like to be left alone sometimes to "recharge" & ponder about stuff. DO NOT DISTURB
Sometimes I have a hard time controlling my emotions Once my temper is lost, honey, you'll need a hound just to find it Thankfully, I don't get angry for too long.
I'm brutally honest, which often mistaken for rudeness. Meh.
Oh & I'm jealous too. I love hard, that's why

ZarZar:
I'm very introverted:
I don't like to go out much. Asking me to go out becomes a bargaining game
I really don't like people much I'm always polite though, just don't expect me to hang around your friends all the time. They're YOUR friends after all, not mine.
I can't pretend, which closely relates to the point above. I won't hang around people I don't like just because. It drains me.
This one is weird, I don't know how to express certain feelings e.g. excitement. So no, I won't "woop woop" & clap like a seal to show how excited I am, I do that inside. On the outside I simply smile That can easily be mistaken for being ungrateful or whatever, but really, the feeling is there, I just don't know how to express it.
I like to be left alone sometimes to "recharge" & ponder about stuff. DO NOT DISTURB
Sometimes I have a hard time controlling my emotions Once my temper is lost, honey, you'll need a hound just to find it Thankfully, I don't get angry for too long.
I'm brutally honest, which often mistaken for rudeness. Meh.
Oh & I'm jealous too. I love hard, that's why

ZarZar:
I'm very introverted:
I don't like to go out much. Asking me to go out becomes a bargaining game
I really don't like people much I'm always polite though, just don't expect me to hang around your friends all the time. They're YOUR friends after all, not mine.
I can't pretend, which closely relates to the point above. I won't hang around people I don't like just because. It drains me.
This one is weird, I don't know how to express certain feelings e.g. excitement. So no, I won't "woop woop" & clap like a seal to show how excited I am, I do that inside. On the outside I simply smile That can easily be mistaken for being ungrateful or whatever, but really, the feeling is there, I just don't know how to express it.
I like to be left alone sometimes to "recharge" & ponder about stuff. DO NOT DISTURB
Sometimes I have a hard time controlling my emotions Once my temper is lost, honey, you'll need a hound just to find it Thankfully, I don't get angry for too long.
I'm brutally honest, which often mistaken for rudeness. Meh.
Oh & I'm jealous too. I love hard, that's why

Youdondeymad:
Hahahahahahhaahaha,you don dey....no let me complete am,the last sentence got me cracking.



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Beamborla:


We have the boldened in common and it's kind of hard to find someone who really understands that.

The difference here is just like I don't get all excited, I can't get really mad as well. When offended, I try to talk about it immediately.. My anger dies off easily. And yes, I overlook things a lot because I'm too lazy to get angry.

Frolic:
Well, lets get started then. We dont have forever

Prettythicksmi:
I hate cooking
I love sleeping,infact i can sleep for two days without waking up lol
I dont take tins too serious,takes everything as a joke.

ZarZar:


Wow, I so wish I could just shrug things off like you do, but I can't lol. Something I'm still working on though. I'm so glad you can relate to the rest, because it often makes me feel like a terrible person-the fact that I can't connect to about 90% of the people I meet. I'm extremely selective of who I get close to.

forMom:
hmn

farting out loud

Beamborla:

Lol... I had this eureka feeling when I came across your post. It's not a good one but it's reliving to know you are not alone...although, curiosity has made dig dip into it and I found out I'm phlegmatic. What can I do, I embraced it.

It's good you can at least express your anger. Sometimes, I just want to spit fire and brimstone, I want be really angry but for where? I just can't do it...can't even keep malice...lol.

It's so bad I can't even show remorse. Not like I don't feel it, I just don't know how to express it.

I'm really praying for who would marry me.

ZarZar:
I'm very introverted:
I don't like to go out much. Asking me to go out becomes a bargaining game
I really don't like people much I'm always polite though, just don't expect me to hang around your friends all the time. They're YOUR friends after all, not mine.
I can't pretend, which closely relates to the point above. I won't hang around people I don't like just because. It drains me.
This one is weird, I don't know how to express certain feelings e.g. excitement. So no, I won't "woop woop" & clap like a seal to show how excited I am, I do that inside. On the outside I simply smile That can easily be mistaken for being ungrateful or whatever, but really, the feeling is there, I just don't know how to express it.
I like to be left alone sometimes to "recharge" & ponder about stuff. DO NOT DISTURB
Sometimes I have a hard time controlling my emotions Once my temper is lost, honey, you'll need a hound just to find it Thankfully, I don't get angry for too long.
I'm brutally honest, which often mistaken for rudeness. Meh.
Oh & I'm jealous too. I love hard, that's why

FreeSpirited:
We can't shy away from the fact that we all have our good and bad sides. It's always good to know your bad side so that when your spouse is reacting you will be more understanding. You will also be able to handle the situation more calmly.

It's actually better and less stressful for our partner if we plan to change, though we all know its easier said than done.

My negative tendencies which my spouse might have to cope with are:

1 I rarely sweep my room..my younger ones or babe do that for me.

2 No matter how I try, clothes will always litter my room...My wife must a good home-setter

3 When I eat I don't like removing the plate to the kitchen I usually stand up, leaving the plate.... means I will get a househelp

4 I hate going to the market....maybe it might change someday

5 I love disturbing for early morning sex.... ...I prefer early morning sex to any other sex.

6 I use sarcasm a lot and I'm blunt to a fault and very opinionated when need be

7 I can be very playful though I have control over this

8 I'm very forgetful, girls find it annoying. Its actually the little things I do forget not books

These are my major negative attitudes : and I hope to change someday, or my spouse will cope and love me nevertheless. Share yours.

ZarZar:


Lol @ you're praying for whoever marries you. I'm sure the right guy will understand As "flawed" as we may be on the surface, underneath it all, there's often a genuine, loving soul that doesn't ask for too much, except to be understood. I know that is all I ever ask. I may not voice it, but it's my deepest desire. Just get me. The remorse part, well, rarely do I ever give a flying bleep about what I do & how it affects others, unless I really care about a person. I which case, I will beat myself up about whatever I did. People often say I'm harsh. They just don't understand that I'm even harsher on myself. Shrugs. Seems we have a lot of things in common

Venica:
got hearing problem that prevent me from making phone calls. find it very difficult to converse when its dark. could need light to hear whatever u are saying .

i love attention like two days old baby


can't stand d smell of alcohol . lends to instant vomiting

LePrezident:


You love hard and 'make love' hard... hmm good to know... welcome from your sabbatical ma'am...

ZarZar:


Lol @ making love hard. Let me tell you something, I can go long stretches of time
without even that. In fact, I think I CAN live without "it". I'm not a nymph

Thanks