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Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by 2buffagain(m): 11:52pm On May 06, 2017 |
MrBrownJay1: Lobatan! 1 Like |
Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by braine(m): 11:52pm On May 06, 2017 |
MrBrownJay1: most of these aunt Bs don't understand this. 1 Like |
Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by Nobody: 11:56pm On May 06, 2017 |
MrBrownJay1:Nope,i dont concur. Well, we all have different perspectives and uve just said yours. I dont agree that i have to sexually satisfy him before he marries there is a difference between love and lust. How do i know if he truly loves me if all he does is have sex with me whenever he sets his eyes on me. I know affection can be shown tru body language but nonetheless a man that doesnt have self control is that one a man. And its has now become a trend in our society that a man will tell you its because he loves you that he wants to have his way with u when in actual sense he just wants to satisfy his desires. Everything boils down to one thing know the kind of man or woman you want to get married to,if as a woman your guy is sexually active and you are not,you need to discuss on it because its issues like this that bring about divorce. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by JERRY1925(m): 11:56pm On May 06, 2017 |
MissCuppy: wrong...very wrong...I think both male and female should just get matured in whatever they do....u might b loyal to a guy and he will marry u and cherish u...like craze... u can also have series of boyfrnd..nd ull get him more confused...and u lose all... fact is..we really want to get married.......!!!!!....but its tough for us..things have really changed..we all want confort. 1 Like |
Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by ChiefSweetus: 11:57pm On May 06, 2017 |
djkall:I pity this poor foolish girl that agreed to marry an unripe simpleton like you. Imagine her family, relatives, neighbors and colleagues seeing her picture online and learning her "fiance" is a braggadocious playboy and cheat who is doing her a favor by marrying her. I reiterate, Poor foolish girl. Congrats bro. 21 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by chimeziedickson: 11:57pm On May 06, 2017 |
@misscuppy,u give them little or no attention and they keep running after u like babies......Note that flower flourishes in the morning and fades in the evening......no time...... 2 Likes |
Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by MrBrownJay1(m): 11:57pm On May 06, 2017 |
AgricSalt: Why would anyone enquire about marriage hall and any nonsense about getting married, when they are not interested in marriage yet?! That is what desperate to marry women do!!!! 1 Like |
Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by Nobody: 12:03am On May 07, 2017 |
Partially true!...banky wanted/taosted adesua, BUT he procrastinated, adesua professed love for jidenna, banky felt threatend/challenged and took the bull by the horns, the rest is history....... |
Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by braine(m): 12:05am On May 07, 2017 |
djkall: congrats bro! you're one lucky dude. 2 Likes |
Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by MisterKings(m): 12:06am On May 07, 2017 |
eezeribe: What do you think mean by short cut |
Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by MrBrownJay1(m): 12:06am On May 07, 2017 |
dupsyluzy: Sista, fair enough... But how would you know if you can satisfy him (or vice versa) before marriage? i hope that your "game" in the bedroom is as good as all these experienced gals out there. And if it isn't, I suggest you learn quickly, be open minded and figure out what freakish desire your future man will have.... Because NO man wanna be stuck with a "plank of wood" in the bedroom 5 Likes |
Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by MisterKings(m): 12:08am On May 07, 2017 |
MissCuppy: U go tey for single ville 2 Likes |
Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by TinaAnita(f): 12:08am On May 07, 2017 |
I always tell whoever cares to listen that what you see in a relationship is what you will get in a marriage. If you marry a girl who hardly stays at home then don't expect her to change to Aunty B all of a sudden. If you marry a girl who can't lift a finger to assist you with one domestic work or the other don't expect her not to employ the services of a maid when she becomes a wife. If a guy takes a girl for granted simply because she is always available it only means that the love is one-sided because if a guy truly loves a girl he would always want to be with her plus he would never take her for granted or take her constant availabilty for granted. What's the guarantee that a guy won't take the lady who played hard to get for granted after he marries her? What's the guarantee that he won't get tired of living with her? Any guy who chases after you simply because you are not always available is only obssessed with your absence and not you as a person. Why not make yourself available every now and then let's see if he will continue the chase? A guy who is truly interested in you will never take you for granted. Getting married is not the issue but staying married. Whoever can't maintain a good relationship will definitely have a terrible marriage as a faulty relationship can't produce a good marriage. Aunty B rocks I'm sorry.. It pays to be a home girl 29 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by Nickymezor(f): 12:08am On May 07, 2017 |
Seenyo:U dont say... Neva knew Adesua had a crush on Jidenna. |
Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by 2buffagain(m): 12:09am On May 07, 2017 |
dupsyluzy: In some scenarios, you don't even need to satisfy his urges. Flirting and teasing (And various hints at how much of a freak you'd be TO YOUR HUSBAND) is sometimes good enough. Most "Good girls" will instead be doing "ewww" when the man is trying to guage how much a freak she is....not knowing that THAT is really what will keep that guy in your court after marriage. You don't have to give it to him, your job is to let him know how much of a freak you'd be to your husband and only to your husband. You should be able to confidently tell him things like "Mehn the man I choose to marry must like getting his ass ate" as casually as you would discuss politics. ![]() A lot of girls haven't bothered to understand the male mind and think guys think like them. That "sharing feelings" or some shit is what men want to do with them for the rest of their married life together. 5 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by braine(m): 12:10am On May 07, 2017 |
Joavid: Trust me, it's the sex, don't ask me how I know. that shït...can have a hold on a nigga. 2 Likes |
Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by Nobody: 12:11am On May 07, 2017 |
MrBrownJay1: so in a nutshell, be fucking him like a IndecentStar, and all is well ![]() 1 Like |
Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by Alezy(m): 12:11am On May 07, 2017 |
BoosBae:u are 110% wrong. its not how far but how well. aunty A will only attract her kind and later learn the hard way. reason why we have so many failed marriages. smh |
Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by Nobody: 12:15am On May 07, 2017 |
2buffagain:Sure,thats what am talking about just because u are a good girl or a born again doesnt mean u shouldnt talk about how much of a freak you are willing to be. I have friends that when u hear us saying some stuffs u had think we are actually doing it but we are just saying it for the fun of it. 1 Like |
Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by amerlin(m): 12:16am On May 07, 2017 |
[quote author=Onyejemechimere post=56272019]An apparent Nigerian lady has shared detailed reasons why good girls dont marry first. In the write-up that seems to be from her perspective, she talked about women being toys to men and how a woman should act so as to be valuable in the eyes of the opposite sex. Everyone who read her writeup, Women and men, were all concurring to it...Read below [img]www.fotor.com-2017-05-06-18-57-46.jpeg">https://2.bp..com/-6RI67ZpYcDc/WQ4OpXcnnQI/AAAAAAAAF8w/dGmf3YEr1CMMot2r8KH5pRP_DL6Br-_egCLcB/s1600/screenshot-www.fotor.com-2017-05-06-18-57-46.jpeg[/img] [img]www.instagram.com-2017-05-06-18-58-27.jpeg">https://1.bp..com/-2XS6X5Qu9cM/WQ4OzTmmWII/AAAAAAAAF80/6Y4lO1b-DRYSfWuqicYBrianoPbou-ikQCLcB/s1600/screenshot-www.instagram.com-2017-05-06-18-58-27.jpeg[/img] [img]www.instagram.com-2017-05-06-18-59-30.jpeg">https://3.bp..com/-_BQdKVtH-24/WQ4PCzRX1TI/AAAAAAAAF84/O1pnjGiDdQ8eKvIlBMTUcquOSWIa0sf2ACLcB/s1600/screenshot-www.instagram.com-2017-05-06-18-59-30.jpeg[/img] http://www.lailasblog.com/2017/05/nigerian-lady-explains-why-good-girls.html [/quote A man that married aunty A is a LovePeddler monga.. IF he sees another girl better than A he will go for her |
Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by Alezy(m): 12:17am On May 07, 2017 |
kings20:God bless you. Please say it again. I don't understand how some ladies will sleep with a thousand men collecting money and misbehaving and later expect to get married to a humble n gentle man. 1 Like |
Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by Supnaija(m): 12:17am On May 07, 2017 |
What actually happens is Aunty A becomes a mistress/side chic. Aunty B becomes a wife. Because don't get it twisted men want that faithful woman at home not someone with the possibility of f**kin the neighbor 1 Like |
Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by ibnzubair(m): 12:17am On May 07, 2017 |
Safiaa: Sweet name |
Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by Nobody: 12:18am On May 07, 2017 |
Going by the contents of her piece just last week, Crush is a gross-under-statement! But it may also be a calculated attempt at making banky jealous/forthcoming tho! |
Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by tosyne2much(m): 12:18am On May 07, 2017 |
iamadonis2:Her case tire me ooo baba... Na she sabi sha |
Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by JerryTemi(f): 12:19am On May 07, 2017 |
Archangel seriously she is really saying the truth,I swear to God,you guys really kill us with everything,after all the stress but from what someone said up there,you don't have to give him all the milk before commitment. Thanks a lot. |
Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by HARDDON: 12:20am On May 07, 2017 |
Is she advocating all ladies turn runzing? Post wud hv been perfect if she gleaNed off d positives of aunty A n add em to Aunty B. Why cant we have it all? Besides, aunty A, i can assure u, wud always hv issues in her home. Big duels. Mostly wud cheat on d husby, break up n marry anoda richer guy, short ill temper cos they wudnt wano submit to their men. Drink like fishes! N God help that husby if he can satisfy her Too many negatives. 3 Likes |
Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by MrBrownJay1(m): 12:22am On May 07, 2017 |
Joavid: Be a classy decent proper woman outside, but when you get to that bedroom, you must take care of BUSINESS and become that LovePeddler (to him)... Yes! Be all he desires, without being fake like these pornstars. Keep his attention on you, and renew your bedroom antics ever so often. He wants a dirty LovePeddler then become that animal and dress up like one, before sex. He wants to be handcuffed and roughed up, then ho buy tools and whips to deal with him.... WHATEVER IT TAKES. Its not easy to diScover it all as many men rather be freaky with strangers and keep their loving wife in the dark.... But all women must find ways to unlock that secret place. dupsyluzy: You sound so innocent... Ok, I suggest you keep praying for that good man that will stick with you, whether sexually miserable/satisfied or not. But remember that if you don't satisfy your man sexually, someone will. 4 Likes |
Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by Nobody: 12:22am On May 07, 2017 |
MrBrownJay1:I believe marriage shouldnt be test and trial,there is a reason it is for better or worse. There is always a chance for learning just because one person isnt getting it right doesnt mean the marriage is over,you stick together tru the good and bad times. And besides u had know if she can be sexually active or not through ur conversation with her. The overall thing be that let God be ur guide. |
Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by jfleece(m): 12:22am On May 07, 2017 |
The 21st century had brought nothing but refurbished prostitutes.. It's hard to get a decent women these days, just imagine wat dis idiot is writing 5 Likes |
Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by Alezy(m): 12:23am On May 07, 2017 |
Joavid:you should know better it's for sex. that's why he wouldn't wanna leave her and wouldn't wanna marry her. haven't u wondered why men some men don't joke with thier family yet they have a lady they sleep with outside? ask them to marry that lady and u will be shocked with their reply 1 Like |
Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by Alezy(m): 12:27am On May 07, 2017 |
JerryTemi:yes u don't have to give him all the milk before he commits but u also don't need to be a runz girl for him to commit. |
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