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Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by Nobody: 7:16am On May 07, 2017
[quote author=tainot2002 post=56282692][/quote] lol. that ur dog is funny
Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by mhizminna(f): 7:17am On May 07, 2017
When I saw d description of Aunty B, I was like chai!! See me ooo! I sacrifice too much yet get little or nothing in return.
Anyways am trying to live without him now, I pray someone better walks into my life otherwise na rev sister things oo lolz I canor come and go and kill myself
I don tire jare

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Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by iwadobo: 7:21am On May 07, 2017
I married my girlfriend just within six months of our knowing each other, and she was super Auntie B. All her auntie A friends are mostly singles or divorced. Be decieving yourself till u become Methuselah in your father's house. No real man marries a LovePeddler like you. Whores are for rascals.

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Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by Maghan37: 7:22am On May 07, 2017
This girl is really deceiving herself because no one wants to marry a slut. There is a difference btw take home to mum and have a good time

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Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by Toks2008(m): 7:23am On May 07, 2017
auntysimbiat:
Good girl like me oo... I need a good guy too oo

#TeamAuntyB

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Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by Toks2008(m): 7:29am On May 07, 2017
mhizminna:
When I saw d description of Aunty B, I was like chai!! See me ooo! I sacrifice too much yet get little or nothing in return.
Anyways am trying to live without him now, I pray someone better walks into my life otherwise na rev sister things oo lolz I canor come and go and kill myself
I don tire jare

Hmmmm!

1.Are you financially independent?

2.Do you love God?

3.Are you a great cook?

4. Are you humble and we'll mannered?

5. Are you physically attractive?

6.Are you too picky?

If your answer is yes to the first 5 and no to #6 and you are still single then I don't know what to say...

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Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by Toks2008(m): 7:33am On May 07, 2017
MissCuppy:
She nailed it.


If you give these men much attention, they take you for granted, that's why I give them little or no attention, they come running like little baby.

Yinmu ...keep deceiving yourself until mongo park discover you

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Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by abashi47(m): 7:34am On May 07, 2017
well, it seems we share the same belief...
Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by koning: 7:35am On May 07, 2017
mamachizzy:
she is right to a certain level. never ever be too available



She is totally wrong. What she wrote is utter nonsense. I am a guy. I am in a position to tell you which of the aunties we prefer. Believe this Olosho writer at your own peril.

If the girl that stays at home can cook, fvck very well(very important) and is reasonably good looking and obedient, she is home free. Her boyfriend will never leave her to marry aunty A.

The boyfriend will fvck aunty A on the outside, but she will marry, protect and guard aunty B(his live-at-home and available girlfriend) with his life

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Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by Chukabiz1961(m): 7:39am On May 07, 2017
Patient dog they say eats the fattest bone. Aunty B is always a wife material why Aunty A who is always on the fast lane will first get a good husband and first leave. This is no longer a story as we have seen and read about many of them. I am not here to mention names.

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Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by Nobody: 7:40am On May 07, 2017
Am Aunty 'b' always doing girl, why my wild friends are living a good life, who good girl eppp??

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Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by koning: 7:44am On May 07, 2017
MissCuppy:
She nailed it.


If you give these men much attention, they take you for granted, that's why I give them little or no attention, they come running like little baby.


You are talking about little boys with saggy pants here. I don't think you've met real men. Men 35 and above looking for a wife DO NOT have the patience for all that hide and seek games played by little girls like you.

You could sleep with him on the first date and he will still marry you if he really likes you.

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Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by bjt(m): 7:51am On May 07, 2017
Chukabiz1961:
Patient dog they say eats the fattest bone. Aunty B is always a wife material why Aunty A who is always on the fast lane will first get a good husband and first leave. This is no longer a story as we have seen and read about many of them. I am not here to mention names.
You are on point. Getting married first does not guarantee happy home

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Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by ThatFairGuy: 7:52am On May 07, 2017
Very good girl, wife material. grin grin
auntysimbiat:
Good girl like me oo... I need a good guy too oo
Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by Deepfreezer(m): 7:54am On May 07, 2017
Just like my baby. She a good gurl and im an amazing guy.
Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by chinazor006(f): 7:56am On May 07, 2017
I will still advice ladies to always be true to themselves! Don't change ffrom Aunty A to B just for anything! No be to marry first ooo! A happy is built from the inherent virtues of Aunty B!
Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by Mujtahida: 7:57am On May 07, 2017
AgricSalt:
The only thing I can contribute is to encourage women to reach out to men about HOW TO GET MARRIED.

Many men know little or even afraid of this topic. Because we are rarely taught at home. Simple

For example, do you know that your boyfriend does not know how much a wedding hall costs. He does not even have a sketch of what a wedding ceremony involves. How is he going to get married soon?

Put him in perspective and you will see him hurrying up
Must people wed before they get married?
Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by niceguy7(m): 7:58am On May 07, 2017
MissCuppy:
She nailed it.


If you give these men much attention, they take you for granted, that's why I give them little or no attention, they come running like little baby.
Really?......
Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by DavidEsq(m): 8:03am On May 07, 2017
PapiSmith:
Because Aunty A married earlier doesn't mean she will have a happy home.

Ask Toke makinwa.
And Mercy Aigbe and Tonto Dike.....and odas we kno

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Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by 4C2215131: 8:19am On May 07, 2017
sekxy:
so moral lesson is to stop being a good girl.
chai..oriegwu

Nope! She didn't imply that!

She said "stop making yourself too available...". It's basic economics; scarcity informs an increase in price.
Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by 4C2215131: 8:21am On May 07, 2017
BoosBae:
When he gets wifely benefits in a relationship, why would he need a wife?

You are always doing these things for him, because you want him to see how many yards of wife material you possess? You should tone it down, Less is more.

Guys be like "why buy the cow when the milk is free"??

Ladies be wise.


This post has nothing to do with who marries first.

Note: the "milk" is never even free!
Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by MBtz(m): 8:21am On May 07, 2017
MissCuppy:
She nailed it.


If you give these men much attention, they take you for granted, that's why I give them little or no attention, they come running like little baby.

Wehdone Ma!!!
Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by MissJoy29(f): 8:23am On May 07, 2017
I will summarize my point by saying that generally, we hurt the GOOD ones in our life and let the BAD ones hurt us(both men and women alike). It's a vicious circle that will keep happening until we change our mentality, our attitude, our approach, our desire and above all, our order of priority. Marriage is too much of a big event in our lives to NOT BE about HOW EARLY but TO BE about HOW WELL!!!




P.S. A shout-out to all the Aunty B's here. Keep on being good and homely but don't sell yourself cheap. A good man who PERCEIVES your worth will not play you like a toy nor allow you "over impress" him so as to know how many yards of wife material you are..

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Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by Cannonleo(m): 8:23am On May 07, 2017
arrant nonsense in my own view.
in my class, all the bae we consider , ugly,non-tushed up and non. fashionable are keeping us attending wedding ceremonies with very fine guys as their hubby while our slay mamas ans hapenning baes are still running around on every dick dey see

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Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by Nobody: 8:25am On May 07, 2017
4C2215131:


Nope! She didn't imply that!

She said "stop making yourself too available...". It's basic economics; scarcity informs an increase in price.
we are still saying the same thing..the good geh should be immitating the bad geh..by not being available and jumping from one man to another.please read it well,this time slowly
Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by Nobody: 8:29am On May 07, 2017
Aunty A is likely to get divorced... i said likely.
Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by Mujtahida: 8:30am On May 07, 2017
MrBrownJay1:


Be a classy decent proper woman outside, but when you get to that bedroom, you must take care of BUSINESS and become that LovePeddler (to him)... Yes!
Be all he desires, without being fake like these pornstars.

Keep his attention on you, and renew your bedroom antics ever so often. He wants a dirty LovePeddler then become that animal and dress up like one, before sex. He wants to be handcuffed and roughed up, then ho buy tools and whips to deal with him.... WHATEVER IT TAKES.
Its not easy to diScover it all as many men rather be freaky with strangers and keep their loving wife in the dark.... But all women must find ways to unlock that secret place.




You sound so innocent... Ok, I suggest you keep praying for that good man that will stick with you, whether sexually miserable/satisfied or not. But remember that if you don't satisfy your man sexually, someone will.
Oga mi even sexually satisfied men cheat. It's imperative that we understand the age we are living in. No fit - for - all - formula works. Ask many women, they will tell you that they sucked, spanked and were spanked, chained and were chained, did the freak thing, the odd sweet thing, were as dynamic as a dynamo, as seductive as karma sutra, did tantric sex and every conceivable idiosyncratic thing in bed mixed with being a dutiful and good woman or wife to a man but STILL...
We are refusing to face a fundamental reality which is that most men, generally speaking are polygamous. The ancients in almost every part of the world recognised this reality and allowed a man to have wives and mistresses. Even in christianized Europe concubinage was an accepted social norm especially among the aristocrats and upper class. But today we want to be 'good' but life is ruthless and will not allow for such hypocrisy.
Another thing is this: if we agree that men generally speaking are polygamous then what of women? The truth is with the emphasis on gender equality women too are branching out, showing they can men-multitask. The ancients were successful in being polygamous and still having wives they had a hold on because they didn't allow any room for gender equality.
Marriage is a container. People in this age do not want to be contained. I think we have either outgrown marriage or at least outgrown this form of marriage that is one man, one wife.

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Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by ShilohEagle(m): 8:33am On May 07, 2017
auntysimbiat:
Good girl like me oo... I need a good guy too oo
Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by TheNewAgeFarmer(m): 8:33am On May 07, 2017
MissCuppy:
She nailed it.


If you give these men much attention, they take you for granted, that's why I give them little or no attention, they come running like little baby.
The end will tell if they are actually little babies!. I am sure they need something from you. Therefore they need to act to get what they want!.
Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by DeRay98(m): 8:40am On May 07, 2017
Bumbae1:
But Aunty A can marry have children end up divorced undecided

Her ass won't seat in one place, kurukere waka don enter her blood and she go leave her husband or stay to continue her "runs".
Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by Mujtahida: 8:41am On May 07, 2017
arrestdarrester:


The guy with the primary story must have nailed it for all the ladies who do not consider God a factor. I advise all the God-fearing ladies out there to neither be Aunty A nor Aunty B. Be Aunty C, the one with the God Factor. In Christ you have a blanket cheque: if you ask anything in my name I will do it. This is fact if you will believe.

Remember, God said after all these things do the gentiles seek. Your Heavenly Father knows you have need of these things (e.g husband). But seek first the kingdom of God in your purpose. Seek next His righteousness in your personal life. And all these things shall be added unto you. This may sound foolish, but remember God uses the foolish things of this world to confound the wise.
Yet Christians have the same divorce rate as non Christians and their marriages are as problematic as the rest and their families dysfunctional as that of non christians.
Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by Realist2: 8:43am On May 07, 2017
sekxy:
so moral lesson is to stop being a good girl.
chai..oriegwu

She forget to add that aunty A die earlier than Aunty B as result of exposure to various kind of STI,,STD ,cancer ( ana.l , blowj.op) and victim of money rituals.

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