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Re: What Does The Bible Say About Sex Before Marriage? by owambe22(f): 12:36pm On May 07, 2017
OLAADEGBU:
What does the Bible say about sex before marriage? Is it a sin for two people who are in love to have sex before marriage?
it's a sin my. it's just that due to some selfish interest of our so called men of God they don't want to tell us
Re: What Does The Bible Say About Sex Before Marriage? by obayaya(m): 12:36pm On May 07, 2017
CandidSeeker:


I say therefore to the unmarried and widows, It is good for them if they abide even as I. But if they cannot contain, let them marry: for it is better to marry than to burn. 1Cor.7:8-9

......But if any man think that he behaveth himself uncomely toward his virgin, if she pass the flower of her age, and need so require, let him do what he will, he sinneth not: let them marry. - 1Cor.7:36

1st Corinthians 7 is a complicated passage that seems to give tacit support to premarital sex
Re: What Does The Bible Say About Sex Before Marriage? by udatso: 12:37pm On May 07, 2017
Edu3Again:
cheesy

1Co 6:18 Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body.

Though in one religion fornication is allowed to help the combatants.

They call it S3x jihad.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UWPPZmclogU



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tCX-YfLuRwg


So it's only in Christianty that fornication is frowned on
This religion you speak about, is there a text from their authentic books permitting fornication?
Cos as far as I know, this religion takes the punishment of fornication or adultery very serious and has lead to the faith being condemned for their stern and stringent punishments.

In this religion, you aren't only asked not to fornicate but move far away from it. That is to say even acts that lead to fornication and adultery are prohibited.

I hope you leave this religion out of your discussion next time
Re: What Does The Bible Say About Sex Before Marriage? by Achillesdam500(m): 12:38pm On May 07, 2017
Caricature:
Ok oh. Oga looker tongue
But wait is that really you or someone else undecided?

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Re: What Does The Bible Say About Sex Before Marriage? by TechPanda(m): 12:40pm On May 07, 2017
Brio984:
give this man a bottle of origin
before ncor, he sure silienced that guy giving absurd examples

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Re: What Does The Bible Say About Sex Before Marriage? by kov624665(m): 12:41pm On May 07, 2017
nifemi25:
Is it possible for you to buy garri from the market and not taste it ?
Yes it is......NEXT please
Re: What Does The Bible Say About Sex Before Marriage? by Brazilian30: 12:41pm On May 07, 2017
What if both parents is aware of that? And they are in support. And you agreed to marry each other
Re: What Does The Bible Say About Sex Before Marriage? by GeneralOjukwu: 12:42pm On May 07, 2017
" Spread forth & multiply " shocked

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Re: What Does The Bible Say About Sex Before Marriage? by tmayusuf: 12:43pm On May 07, 2017
OLAADEGBU:
What does the Bible say about sex before marriage? Is it a sin for two people who are in love to have sex before marriage?

Kill Women Who Are Not Virgins On Their Wedding Night

But if this charge is true (that she wasn’t a virgin on her wedding night), and evidence of the girls virginity is not found, they shall bring the girl to the entrance of her fathers house and there her townsman shall stone her to death, because she committed a crime against Israel by her unchasteness in her father’s house.  Thus shall you purge the evil from your midst. (Deuteronomy  22:20-21

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Re: What Does The Bible Say About Sex Before Marriage? by MrBrownJay1(m): 12:44pm On May 07, 2017
Nigeriadondie:

Hahahhaa people wud always want to defend the indefensible. Oloshoism na long bad thing grin

jetage1:
What! Its Official!! The End Is Here!!! What An End Time Interpretation!!!!

chukwukahenry:

stop deceiving urself and others

villavic:

now you mean the likes of davido, wizkid, flavour and so on even tubaba are following the bible? i wish you join them so they can share little part of their apartment in left side of heaven(i didnt mention abeg) with you

jamalnation:

read your Bible more bro

forandy:

By this analogy, it's safe perhaps to say FORNICATION doesn't have a meaning

BWAAAAH, Sundays always bring these gullible sheep in force.... Let me guess, you guys just came back from church?!

OK, class is in session, come and get some biblical EDUCATION:

I want each and everyone of you to use NOTHING but your brain...if you have one and are in full control of it, and answer the following question (a YES or NO will do as I don't need any hypocritical NONSENSE)

A) were Abraham/king David/king Solomon highly respected men of the bible?

B) did these men have sex outside marriage?

C) if you've answered NO to question A or B, go back to church and get acquainted with your Bible, as you are ignorant about what's written in it.

D) if you've answered YES to question A and B, then you have passed the biblical intelligence test, and therefore here is your final question: why were these men NOT viewed as sinners (or punished) by god?

FINAL QUESTION: if you actually believe that premarital sex is a sin, then what does the bible say is the punishment for it?!

Let me hear you say AMEN to your NL biblical education!!!!

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Re: What Does The Bible Say About Sex Before Marriage? by Iamzik: 12:44pm On May 07, 2017
OP three questions for you:

1. Do you believe in the Bible?
2. What is fornication?
3. What did Jesus teach about fornication? Did he teach against it or did He encourage it?

Answer these and you have the answer you seek.
Shalom
Re: What Does The Bible Say About Sex Before Marriage? by Nobody: 12:44pm On May 07, 2017
It says stay out of it
Re: What Does The Bible Say About Sex Before Marriage? by ezinnelity(f): 12:52pm On May 07, 2017
There is no Hebrew or Greek word used in the Bible that precisely refers to sex before marriage. The Bible undeniably condemns adultery and sexual immorality, but is sex before marriage considered sexually immoral? According to 1 Corinthians 7:2 , “yes” is the clear answer: “But since there is so much immorality, each man should have his own wife, and each woman her own husband.” In this verse, Paul states that marriage is the “cure” for sexual immorality. First Corinthians 7:2 is essentially saying that, because people cannot control themselves and so many are having immoral sex outside of marriage, people should get married. Then they can fulfill their passions in a moral way.
Since 1 Corinthians 7:2 clearly includes sex before marriage in the definition of sexual immorality, all of the Bible verses that condemn sexual immorality as being sinful also condemn sex before marriage as sinful. Sex before marriage is included in the biblical definition of sexual immorality. There are numerous Scriptures that declare sex before marriage to be a sin (Acts 15:20 ; 1 Corinthians 5:1 ; 6:13 , 18 ; 10:8 ; 2 Corinthians 12:21 ; Galatians 5:19 ;
Ephesians 5:3 ; Colossians 3:5 ; 1 Thessalonians 4:3 ; Jude 7). The Bible promotes complete abstinence before marriage. Sex between a husband and his wife is the only form of sexual relations of which God approves (Hebrews 13:4 ).
Far too often we focus on the “recreation” aspect of sex without recognizing that there is another aspect—procreation. Sex within marriage is pleasurable, and God designed it that way. God wants men and women to enjoy sexual activity within the confines of marriage. Song of Solomon and several other Bible passages (such as
Proverbs 5:19 ) clearly describe the pleasure of sex. However, the couple must understand that God’s intent for sex includes producing children. Thus, for a couple to engage in sex before marriage is doubly wrong—they are enjoying pleasures not intended for them, and they are taking a chance of creating a human life outside of the family structure God intended for every child.
While practicality does not determine right from wrong, if the Bible's message on sex before marriage were obeyed, there would be far fewer sexually transmitted diseases, far fewer abortions, far fewer unwed mothers and unwanted pregnancies, and far fewer children growing up without both parents in their lives. Abstinence is God’s only policy when it comes to sex before marriage. Abstinence saves lives, protects babies, gives sexual relations the proper value, and, most importantly, honors God.

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Re: What Does The Bible Say About Sex Before Marriage? by Edu3Again: 12:52pm On May 07, 2017
udatso:

This religion you speak about, is there a text from their authentic books permitting fornication?
Cos as far as I know, this religion takes the punishment of fornication or adultery very serious and has lead to the faith being condemned for their stern and stringent punishments.

In this religion, you aren't only asked not to fornicate but move far away from it. That is to say even acts that lead to fornication and adultery are prohibited.

I hope you leave this religion out of your discussion next time

Then explain how come there is s3x jihad?
If fornication is not allowed, how come there is s3x jihad that people obey grin

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Re: What Does The Bible Say About Sex Before Marriage? by donnie(m): 12:53pm On May 07, 2017
Mesage from Rev Dr Chris Oyakhilome.. on Sex Before Marriage

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Re: What Does The Bible Say About Sex Before Marriage? by thunderbabs: 12:57pm On May 07, 2017
MrBrownJay1:


Here is a clue: many great men of the bible had baby mamas, mistresses and concubines (which they were NOT married to), and they were not viewed as sinners by god (check Abraham, king David, King Solomon etc)...

So it is very simple: so long as the babe is NOT married to another man, it is NOT a sin.

Haaaaaaaaa!!! E beru Olorun faa shocked
Re: What Does The Bible Say About Sex Before Marriage? by mohammadyusuf66(m): 12:58pm On May 07, 2017
honestly, the way people encourages sex b4 marriage and baby mama things is appalling, I wonder what religion they follow cos all religion frowns on the immoral act
Re: What Does The Bible Say About Sex Before Marriage? by mohammadyusuf66(m): 12:58pm On May 07, 2017
honestly, the way people encourages sex b4 marriage and baby mama things is appalling, I wonder what religion they follow cos all religion frowns at the immoral act
Re: What Does The Bible Say About Sex Before Marriage? by Iamzik: 1:00pm On May 07, 2017
MrBrownJay1:




BWAAAAH, Sundays always bring these gullible sheep in force.... Let me guess, you guys just came back from church?!

OK, class is in session, come and get some biblical EDUCATION:

I want each and everyone of you to use NOTHING but your brain...if you have one and are in full control of it, and answer the following question (a YES or NO will do as I don't need any hypocritical NONSENSE)

A) were Abraham/king David/king Solomon highly respected men of the bible?

B) did these men have sex outside marriage?

C) if you've answered NO to question A or B, go back to church and get acquainted with your Bible, as you are ignorant about what's written in it.

D) if you've answered YES to question A and B, then you have passed the biblical intelligence test, and therefore here is your final question: why were these men NOT viewed as sinners (or punished) by god?

Let me hear you say AMEN to your NL biblical education!!!!

A. Yes
B. Yes
C. It's yes and yes as you can see
D. They were viewed as sinners and were punished accordingly. You need to stop treating the Bible like multichoice objectives. You can't pick the ones that suit you.

Abraham's delay in child birth was a test. He couldn't wait and was encouraged by his wife to have an extramarital affair with his maid. He is the father of all nations and you and I are sharing in his punishment till today. Without Ishmael you won't have religious terrorism from the Middle East today.

David was expressly judged. The sword remained in his house. Absalom his son slept with all his wives on the roof top before the whole city and then overthrew his father David.

Solomon was chosen out of mercy to replace David. He satisfied himself with 1000 women and what was the outcome? The women introduced their gods into Israel leading to idolatry and he couldn't keep is really together. His kingdom was divided and Israel became a weak nation leading to its conquest by Babylon.

You can use your head knowledge and logic to justify whatever you want. It's your life but stop misleading people on this forum.

Go on fornication provided you can bear the consequences.

Check the whole of your Bible and tell me one man that committed fornication and was not punished at all.

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Re: What Does The Bible Say About Sex Before Marriage? by thunderbabs: 1:01pm On May 07, 2017
sekxy:

I have seen such in the bible..true,but who are the fornicators

Fornicators must be gals jumping from prick to prick i guess and guys eating different snails upandan....omo, all na sin. May Jah forgive us sad
Re: What Does The Bible Say About Sex Before Marriage? by Nobody: 1:03pm On May 07, 2017
Rather than prohibit sexual pleasure, the Bible shows that it is a gift from God to married people. He created humans “male and female” and viewed what he had made as being “very good.” (Genesis 1:27, 31) When he brought the first man and woman together in marriage, he said that “they must become one flesh.” (Genesis 2:24) This bond included the pleasure of sexual intimacy along with a close emotional connection.

The Bible describes the pleasure that husbands find in marriage with these words: “Rejoice with the wife of your youth . . . Let her own breasts intoxicate you at all times. With her love may you be in an ecstasy constantly.” (Proverbs 5:18, 19) God also intends for wives to enjoy sex. The Bible says: “Husbands and wives should satisfy each other’s sexual needs.”—1 Corinthians 7:3, God’s Word Bible.

Limits on sexual pleasure
God reserves sexual relations for marriage mates only, as Hebrews 13:4 shows: “Let marriage be honorable among all, and the marriage bed be without defilement, for God will judge fornicators and adulterers.” Married couples must be faithful and maintain their commitment to each other . They find the greatest delight, not by pursuing selfish gratification, but by applying the Bible principle: “There is more happiness in giving than there is in receiving.”—Acts 20:35.
Re: What Does The Bible Say About Sex Before Marriage? by clems88(m): 1:05pm On May 07, 2017
AHCB:
Aside biblical interference. What's your opinion on sex before marriage?
bros no need asking her just check her profile , it showz shez a born again to d core oo
Re: What Does The Bible Say About Sex Before Marriage? by Nobody: 1:06pm On May 07, 2017
thunderbabs:


Fornicators must be gals jumping from prick to prick i guess and guys eating different snails upandan....omo, all na sin. May Jah forgive us sad
Lol.that's ur assertion.

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Re: What Does The Bible Say About Sex Before Marriage? by Nobody: 1:06pm On May 07, 2017
Yuneehk:

So I'm thinking you also taste beans in the market before you buy it
Epic
Re: What Does The Bible Say About Sex Before Marriage? by Julivas(m): 1:06pm On May 07, 2017
4 Marriage is honorable in all, and the bed undefiled; but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.

Hebrews 13 : 4

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Re: What Does The Bible Say About Sex Before Marriage? by Originalsly: 1:11pm On May 07, 2017
Legal marriage...as defined by man... and marriage according to the Bible are not the same. We need to deal with them separately. Sex before marriage.... marriage as set out by man?...where one has to make it official?..sex before signing the document?... the most that can be is illegal... but not a sin. A sin is the transgression of Biblical laws/practices...not that of man's. According to the Bible... if a man can't contain himself he should go and find a wife. The one that he chooses to have sex with is his wife.... no sex before marriage involved. But if he chooses to sleep around... then that's fornication. If his wife chooses to sleep with another man... then that's adultery for the wife and ehmmm...lover boy. If the husband decides to have another wife.. two total... not sure if that's adultery ....according to the Bible.
Re: What Does The Bible Say About Sex Before Marriage? by MarieSucre(f): 1:11pm On May 07, 2017
alexistaiwo:
I don't drink I don't smoke I don't party every weekend I don't take drugs But I can never play with that holes underneath the female body grin
Damn what anybody says
You actually mean damn what God says.
Re: What Does The Bible Say About Sex Before Marriage? by Prince3d(m): 1:11pm On May 07, 2017
It is clearly stated in the bible that fornication is a sin. If you still have doubts, ask your Pastor. If your Pastor says that fornication isn't bad, run for your life.
Re: What Does The Bible Say About Sex Before Marriage? by MarieSucre(f): 1:11pm On May 07, 2017
Edu3Again:
cheesy

1Co 6:18 Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body.

Though in one religion fornication is allowed to help the combatants.

They call it S3x jihad.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UWPPZmclogU



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tCX-YfLuRwg


So it's only in Christianty that fornication is frowned on

There is nothing like sex jihad anywhere in the Quran. Those people are formulating arrant nonsense.
Re: What Does The Bible Say About Sex Before Marriage? by Nobody: 1:12pm On May 07, 2017
MarieSucre:


There is nothing like sex jihad anywhere in the Quran. Those people are formulating arrant nonsense.
There is.
Re: What Does The Bible Say About Sex Before Marriage? by MarieSucre(f): 1:13pm On May 07, 2017
SmartChoices:
There is.
Nope there isn't.

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