SexyGirl787:
I cant leave my husband cos of sex I luv him so much

Then keep on looking for ways to improve. Maybe bring intimacy gadgets in the bedroom or try different positions. Make it spontaneous, have sex in the car, in the kitchen..anywhere. Play some sexy music in the background, whilst having sex. Try and have longer pre-intimacy sessions. Be as kinky as possible. There's some things you can do, to improve your sex life. If nothing works, then you have to endure it. Im sorry.

]you have to continue to tell him what you like. Tell him how to satify you. The way you satisfy yourself, try and get him to mimic that. . And I am sure he will be pleased knowing fully well that he satisfy you

Op that's where your answer lies

SexyGirl787:
He is good @touchin nd sukin boobs but not suckin my pussy I don't like him sukin my pussy but I like givin him heads...

wow...u'd be the First Lady I'm coming across that dislikes getting head, but I strongly believe thats because you've not been given "good head"

Do u have plans of cheating on him

Safiaa:
Then keep on looking for ways to improve. Maybe bring intimacy gadgets in the bedroom or try different positions. Make it spontaneous, have sex in the car, in the kitchen..anywhere. Play some sexy music in the background, whilst having sex. Try and have longer pre-intimacy sessions. Be as kinky as possible. There's some things you can do, to improve your sex life. If nothing works, then you have to endure it. Im sorry.

just like the one on my siggy...

SorftWerk:
just like the one on my siggy...

I tried to download it, it didn't work

Seriously...... On the issue of sex, I have given up since. Anything goes these days. Right now, I don't get freaked abt sex stuffs no matter how sacrilegious or weird. We have no control over sex....we are just trying to repress it and conform to societal standard....To our ego, its a sad. thing... But then, we have to accept it if we want to live without heartaches

Safiaa:
I tried to download it, it didn't work

all u gotta do is click on the link and it will show u a page like the fist pic, wait a few seconds and it will show u a page like second pic... Then click download and you're good! That's if you're using UC browser Tho.


But if it's chrome, u would see something like the 3rd pic. You'd see "Downloading" at the bottom center of ur screen and that's it.

Hope it helps.

SexyGirl787:

SorftWerk:
all u gotta do is click on the link and it will show u a page like the fist pic, wait a few seconds and it will show u a page like second pic... Then click download and you're good! That's if you're using UC browser Tho.


But if it's chrome, u would see something like the 3rd pic. You'd see "Downloading" at the bottom center of ur screen and that's it.

Hope it helps.

Thank you veru much.

Safiaa:
Thank you veru much.

welcome my dear.. Don't forget to tell me what u feel about it after listening

SorftWerk:
welcome my dear.. Don't forget to tell me what u feel about it after listening

wow. The song is reallly nice. Who's the guy? Loving it !!

SorftWerk:
welcome my dear.. Don't forget to tell me what u feel about it after listening

"tonight just go all the way with me...all the way with me". I love this songg.

The OP is just confused and using you guys to catch fun. She says one thing and contradicts herself in another.

Safiaa:
wow. The song is reallly nice. Who's the guy? Loving it !!

hes a friend actually... I just tryna promote it for him. The video is on YouTube already too.. U can check that out.

Thanks for ur feedback dear

SexyGirl787:
Pls who else is experiencing this? My husby hits me hard and try to satisfy me with all his strength he is everywomans dream he can last in bed 4 up to 40mins tryin 2 please nd maake me cum but most tyms I dnt enjoy it somtyms I feel d pleasure esp when he suck my breast but I always imagine it's anoda man wit a big black dick on me that is how I derive my pleasure. I enjoy sex with him wheneva I imagine anoda man on me. I hav neva discusd dis wit him cos he won't b happy dat is y I kept it 2myself. Pls who else is experiencing this and how can I overcome this? Pls I love my husband nd cannot hurt him or lose my marriage. Sometimes I even watch porn just to enjoy myself while alone. Pls advice

Cc: lalasticlala, Royalroy etc pls move to necessary section. Thanks

Sad, you are attracted to him.

SorftWerk:
hes a friend actually... I just tryna promote it for him. The video is on YouTube already too.. U can check that out.

Thanks for ur feedback dear

i watched it on youtube, i dont like the video. But the song is nice.

Safiaa:
"tonight just go all the way with me...all the way with me". I love this songg.

tonight I represent the guy with the money who lives fast but still baby don't lie young...


And if you gotta go I understand why, I can never be the number guy, I don't even mind the number 2

You know I got a special spot to help u remember me..

Cnt advice on this... I aint married

Safiaa:
Then keep on looking for ways to improve. Maybe bring intimacy gadgets in the bedroom or try different positions. Make it spontaneous, have sex in the car, in the kitchen..anywhere. Play some sexy music in the background, whilst having sex. Try and have longer pre-intimacy sessions. Be as kinky as possible. There's some things you can do, to improve your sex life. If nothing works, then you have to endure it. Im sorry.

Are they dogs?. Their problem is not about the frequency of the sex but satisfaction.

Safiaa:
i watched it on youtube, i dont like the video. But the song is nice.

yh..some pple said same...im sure the next will be better... Glad u like it dear

kimbra:
Are they dogs?. Their problem is not about the frequency of the sex but satisfaction.

Dogs? So spicing things up now means they're behaving like dogs? When did i bring frequency into this? Being spontaneous has nothing to with frequency. It could actually build up the excitement, leading to more pleasure from both sides. Nobody is saying they should fucckk 24/7. Its just a suggestion. Because at this point shes desperate

Safiaa:
Dogs? So spicing things up now means they're behaving like dogs? When did i bring frequency into this? Being spontaneous has nothing to with frequency. It could actually build up the excitement, leading to more pleasure from both sides. Nobody is saying they should fucckk 24/7. Its just a suggestion. Because at this point shes desperate

Spontaneity has to do with introducing new ideas to spice their sex life. You mentioned having sex in the car, kitchen and anywhere which was the reason I asked if they're dogs. She should talk to her husband about her fetish, perhaps they could get a solution. BTW, what kind of a wife imagines another man on her when she and her husband are making out?...she should see a shrink.

I'm afraid nothing may make her enjoy sex with her husband the way she wants to. She even said he sucks her and her husband is endowed between his thighs and he hits it well! She even said she enjoys sex usually or so when she pictures her man to be someone else. This is what I keep saying: having sex with the same person, no matter how much you try to make it more interesting, will eventually become boring. This, I really fear. It is one of the things I fear most in marriage.

SexyGirl787:
His di*ck is not small it's big though not very big it satisfy a woman I njoy it sometimes but most times I don't dats y I always pleasure myself with porn nd imaginations.

You are addicted to porn and masturbation

Na wa o

SexyGirl787:
Pls who else is experiencing this? My husby hits me hard and try to satisfy me with all his strength he is everywomans dream he can last in bed 4 up to 40mins tryin 2 please nd maake me cum but most tyms I dnt enjoy it somtyms I feel d pleasure esp when he suck my breast but I always imagine it's anoda man wit a big black dick on me that is how I derive my pleasure. I enjoy sex with him wheneva I imagine anoda man on me. I hav neva discusd dis wit him cos he won't b happy dat is y I kept it 2myself. Pls who else is experiencing this and how can I overcome this? Pls I love my husband nd cannot hurt him or lose my marriage. Sometimes I even watch porn just to enjoy myself while alone. Pls advice

Cc: lalasticlala, Royalroy etc pls move to necessary section. Thanks

There is what is called the MHC - major histocompatibility complex - gene and this can be used for sexual mate selection . The sweat is composed of some compounds that make up this gene and the odour from these compounds can be perceived by women through smell . Women's ability to perceive this is at its optimal state during their ovulation . Women are most likely aroused by men who have dissimilar MHCs . The more dissimilar the MHC of a man is from the woman , the more she'll be attracted to him or even sexually aroused .

There's the possibility that you and your husband have very similar or closely similar MHCs that's why you don't enjoy sex with him or you don't get Hot no matter what he does . And when this is the situation , the woman is more likely going to fantasize about other men during sex for her to enjoy sex .

So this could be the case dear , its not about his big peniz size or physical appearance , the MHC is very likely culpable for your problem .

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Most times that's why women cheat . They are naturally drawn to men with very dissimilar MHCs . Not that the man is not trying his best with love , romance or sex . Its just biology

SINZ:
Telling him will most likely bruise his ego, YES. But a problem shared is half solved. Its better he knows his defects so he can work on himself (peniis enlargement creams and pills). A friend of mine hated his wife's cooking. He endured for years until he mistakenly let it slip one day during an argument and that led to some unprintable events . Unknown to him, his wife actually hated the watery egusi soup she cooks but cooks it because she felt he prefers it that way. Even the way she fixes other meals were as a result of the pattern with which he told her his mother cooked for him.


Long story short: Tell him. Worse case scenario; he'll sulk for a few weeks but he'll eventually get over himself and swing into action seeking ways to make a "Lex Steele" out of himself.

I like your advice sir but how can you jump to a fast conclusion that his dick is small? Do do you know how wide her pussy is?

U hav to talk to him abt hw u enjoyed sex. wat u want n dnt want
U hav to stop watching porn cox it's damage ur mind n tink abt sex, porn is just a friction
My dear u need to visit a therapist

Kondomatic:
I like your advice sir but how can you jump to a fast conclusion that his dick is small? Do do you know how wide her pussy is?

You have a point there...

OP, kindly show us what your working with, for proper scrutiny.

Kondomatic:
I like your advice sir but how can you jump to a fast conclusion that his dick is small? Do do you know how wide her pussy is?

It's the general concensus .. too much porn , little sex with real women.

It's even in the Kamasutra, different shapes and sizes.

SexyGirl787:
Pls who else is experiencing this? My husby hits me hard and try to satisfy me with all his strength he is everywomans dream he can last in bed 4 up to 40mins tryin 2 please nd maake me cum but most tyms I dnt enjoy it somtyms I feel d pleasure esp when he suck my breast but I always imagine it's anoda man wit a big black dick on me that is how I derive my pleasure. I enjoy sex with him wheneva I imagine anoda man on me. I hav neva discusd dis wit him cos he won't b happy dat is y I kept it 2myself. Pls who else is experiencing this and how can I overcome this? Pls I love my husband nd cannot hurt him or lose my marriage. Sometimes I even watch porn just to enjoy myself while alone. Pls advice

Cc: lalasticlala, Royalroy etc pls move to necessary section. Thanks

Hehehe. 40 minutes is not the ultimate. A friend of mine lasts up to 4 hours and his wife is always speechless when they make love.

u probably not attracted to him.this is wat happens when u forced to marry someone u don't love.wat an endtime marriage that would be.