He needs another child, n u did d wrong thing by going to d hospital alone. Talk to him n don't be forceful.

SmartChoices:
Possibly womb evacuation!

did Julius berger handle the contract

He will come back.for sure after you proclaim both by your words and action youre sorry promising you won't do that again. Chikena!

tollahni:
I'm got married when I was 21 nd I have a 5 year old daughter...my husband nd I agreed to have just one kid due to our busy life...of recent my husband started acting funny,He started bringing up topics about having another baby. He refused to go with me to the hospital for This family planning stuff...so I went nd did it on my own...Last week he found out nd since then he's been avoiding me he doesn't want to talk or come close....I tried explaining to him yesterday but he just got upset nd left.....I love my husband....what do I do to get him back?

you are a shameless cheat who loves it without a condom, you clearly don't want mistakes and you went and did it anyway. if truly you value your husband, you will realise he is the head and won't have ever had it in you to undermine his authority by taking such decisions alone. anyway the deed has been done, if only he could have the sense to go get that second child outside while you offer your family planned punna to the people you deem fit or respect enough.

tollahni:



No I don't....I can't really take care of another child my job is really stressful

permit me to say ur a selfish being, so u would deny ur husband the chance to have another child just cos of ur job? Women and misplaced priorities. I see u housing a baby mama soon

mizlovette:
permit me to say ur a selfish being, so u would deny ur husband the chance to have another child just cos of ur job? Women and misplaced priorities. I see u housing a baby mama soon

Job over family! Some women are very shameless. Job that you can get sacked over family?

The OP is just a lazy asss. Plus a selfish one. I won't blame the man if he gets another child outside. For chrisssake one child Forever

Abeg park one side op. If you like, allow your marriage crash.

WHICH MAN WOULD LOVE TO HAVE ONLY ONE KID IN THIS COUNTRY.MADAM YOU ARE VERY SELFISH AND A CHEATER.NONSENSE POST

tollahni:
I'm got married when I was 21 nd I have a 5 year old daughter...my husband nd I agreed to have just one kid due to our busy life...of recent my husband started acting funny,He started bringing up topics about having another baby. He refused to go with me to the hospital for This family planning stuff...so I went nd did it on my own...Last week he found out nd since then he's been avoiding me he doesn't want to talk or come close....I tried explaining to him yesterday but he just got upset nd left.....I love my husband....what do I do to get him back?

How old is your husband now? Humour me.

Your husband wants kids, you want to face your job.

Solution:Tell your husband to go and marry another wife that'll give him kids since you don close shop.

Problem Solved.

So after all the advice given to you in your former thread u still went ahead to do what's on ur mind....


If he brings in another woman now, you go begin shout, but simple instruction you can't obey....

Mtchewww, face ur wahala alone joor

family planning is a joint decision. You showed your husband a lot of disrespect and relegated him to the background by taking such a decision without his knowledge and consent. It seems clear to me that there are more to this... I doubt such a busy work that allowed you have time to visit hospital for family planning and also put this on nairaland and reply comments will be too busy for a child. I only wonder the kind of women we call wives these days. only God can help us.

He will come around.dont worry

If i were ur husband, i will go outside and give another woman belle
will not touch u n will not tell u abt it till de puts to bed
fucck off madame

yasolan:
He will come around.dont worry

No way God will provide his own wife for him... Who will love and respect him... And not take him for granted

Homeboiy:
If i were ur husband, i will go outside and give another woman belle

will not touch u n will not tell u abt it till de puts to bed

fucck off madame

She doesn't deserve the man.... obviously she's still whoring about

All these stupid women sef....?? why is it that they always get married to calm and cool guys sef??

You tied your womb because of a job..... Now I know that some of you are wicked....

tollahni:



Seriously? I'm a 100% loyal

Huh!


You are everything but loyal......Your action on this matter speaks volume

Sacrificing your marriage on the alter of stressful job. bwhaaahahahah

gracile:
Talk to him

...about what?

.........that you went your way without due consent and mutual agreement??

.............that your work comes first


..................that you are too busy to protect your family's interest

?

tollahni:


I just had to nd it's to our advantage

our or your advantage .you think you wise

tollahni:



No I don't....I can't really take care of another child my job is really stressful

so you rather do job than take care offspring

when you married at 21,why didn't u tie your womb and get more money if you think work was more important than your family?

what diff does it make tying it at 26/27 even without yiur hubby's consent?

that way too gross an offense in a marital affair










I just wish your hubby throws his calmness out of the window and gives u what ur action deserves

so simple and easy...if you dnt him give another child another lady will give him and you have loose him be that....if you close ur pussy for pregnancy 100 ladys will be glad to be his baby mama

xynerise:


Stop replying him. Some people are lunatic in this section

Please stop this!!!!

Grace87:
I can advice you to give him time, let him calm down...Then prepare him a very nice meal, pamper him, give him some good loving...then talk to him give your reasons but consider his feelings as well.

It will work itself out...

Mama good loving!!!!!!

If I am your husband, by now you should be referred to as Ex Wife. You are evil

Madam, why are women this selfish? your husband must be a fool to sleep on the same bed with you for another night. what you did is called deep betrayal and gross disrespect. if were your husband, i would impregnate another lady right away. you are obviously too you to know what marriage is all about before you dabble into it. your kind will sleep with your boss because you value your stupid job more than your family. NONSENSE.

You shouldn't have taken your topic to the romance section, a action littered with immature children with no tangible advice but insults.

Now to your topic. Why on earth would you put a job (someone else's sweat) over children that will bring joy and comfort to you till your old age? A job that you may resume one day and recieve sack letter, a job that God forbid if something happens to you, you will only be honoured with a minute of silence after which it's business as usual. Is that what you want to sacrifice having children for? Having another child can never be a disturbance to your job, you will adjust before you know it.

Your husband has every reason to get mad at you, it is your duty to make sure he doesn't stay mad. You apologize to him and tell him that you are open to having another child and MEAN IT.

Do you even know the damage you are doing to your reproductive system with all these family planning injections? You may not even find it easy to conceive after you've stopped and you may have to end up getting treatments to restore your hormone levels. Put a stop to them immediately for the sake of your health.

your family shud be ur priority! who told you a man wound be ok wit jst one kid? datz y i wont let my wife wrk for any firm dat takes much of her time! i'd rather save up money and set up a bussiness for her! madam face ur family dat shud be ur first love! seat him down n apologise to him. family planin is of different types! if its nt d contraceptive or d injectable type it can easily be reverst! so do dat n save ur marriage. job too stressful my asss! my wife tries dat sshit wit me shez simply goin back to her fathers house for sabatical leav!

Eddygourdo:
you are a shameless cheat who loves it without a condom, you clearly don't want mistakes and you went and did it anyway. if truly you value your husband, you will realise he is the head and won't have ever had it in you to undermine his authority by taking such decisions alone. anyway the deed has been done, if only he could have the sense to go get that second child outside while you offer your family planned punna to the people you deem fit or respect enough.

How does 'he is the head' come in here now? No b only undermine his authority. On top her own body o

Funnicator:


Job over family! Some women are very shameless. Job that you can get sacked over family?

The OP is just a lazy asss. Plus a selfish one. I won't blame the man if he gets another child outside. For chrisssake one child Forever

Abeg park one side op. If you like, allow your marriage crash.

When he agreed to it before marriage, he didn't know? Abeg park one side

Homeboiy:
If i were ur husband, i will go outside and give another woman belle

will not touch u n will not tell u abt it till de puts to bed

fucck off madame

And who do you think you'll be doing?