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Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by Nobody: 7:54am On May 14, 2017
wise and clever people learnt early on that they can display conventional behaviour or mouth conventional idea without having the need to believe in them.
From experience you can now see that being an Atheist is not beneficial. think as you like but behave like others

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Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by ekhai(m): 7:54am On May 14, 2017
xxxtedyxxx:
Nonsense
I have pity for your miserable life.
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by able20(m): 7:57am On May 14, 2017
Japhet04:
I met this girl recently everything has been going well until she found out I am an atheist, she started avoiding me and said she doesn't want anything to do with me because of that fact.

I really like her cry, is there anything I can do to ignite a change of mind on her part

@ Op who told you're an atheist, you are just a confused man . you don't even have any knowledge about your world view.
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by LaExpert: 7:57am On May 14, 2017
Japhet04:
@ bolded


What impact has your existence made to the world if I may ask undecided

Modified

How i wish Nigerians especially ladies would realize that religion is a scam and that one must not be a religious person to be morally upright

Relate with people based on their individual characteristics and not based on their religious views.

@poster i am sure if God ever existed and we were to stand before a jury panel to be judged in heaven, you will be given a one way ticket to hell

It is not about being Christian or not, it is all about being morally upright

PS, you are a foôl to judge me like that undecided

Atheist, where does your moral standards come from?

Your mind? Your environment?
Where exactly?
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by chemystery: 7:58am On May 14, 2017
IAmAmbrose:


At the end i thank god i'm an atheist....... Bros abeg which god
the god of sarcasm grin

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Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by walls01: 7:59am On May 14, 2017
hahn:


Better let her be since she is avoiding you. Find someone else who is more open minded

My wife was a theist initially. She worked in the church and even preached in buses.

But then when I finally dumped god in the trash bin, we had discussions and debate and today she has also dumped the idea.

Not everyone can handle the reality check that comes with non belief

Dump the idea of a God in the trash good, you must have a good reason, pls what do you think give rise to the universe? Pls your own thought not a religious argument
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by ANTONINEUTRON(m): 8:02am On May 14, 2017
xynerise:
I am more concerned about your name. Please, change it to an atheist name.
So Which Religion Name Is 'Danny Drinkwater'

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Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by bareal(m): 8:02am On May 14, 2017
Japhet04:
I met this girl recently everything has been going well until she found out I am an atheist, she started avoiding me and said she doesn't want anything to do with me because of that fact.

I really like her cry, is there anything I can do to ignite a change of mind on her part



How did you know that you are an atheist? you that cannot make ten sentences without mentioning the name of God at least once!


dey there dey deceive urself
You are doing yourself oh!
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by RichlyOBS(m): 8:03am On May 14, 2017
where's the girl at? I would love to see her and talk to her for you.... don't worry just give me her number
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by MECASINO: 8:03am On May 14, 2017
BRO. SHE NEEDS A CHANGE IN UR LIFE AND U'RE D ONLY ONE THAT TURN THINGS AROUND 4 UR OWN GUD. WEN U'RE READY TURN A CHRISTIAN, U CAN DEN CALL BACK ON HER. CHRISTIAN LIFE IS D BEST LIFE 2 LIVE EVER WITHOUT LOOSING A DINE ESPECIALLY THINGS LIKE THIS. 10S
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by Sammiejokes(m): 8:03am On May 14, 2017
skillful01:
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SMH...nothing good can come-out from such an atheist,for once,be open to new ideas even if you won't accept it.
The babe naa just dey mess her self, nothing good can come out an atheists, and most of the phones I phones is from an atheist, Nairaland wey she use type this rubbish naa atheist.
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by Kingsley1000(m): 8:04am On May 14, 2017
YOU ARE AN IDIOT FOR CONDEMNING HIS RELIGIOUS AFFLIATION..HE CHOOSES NOT TO BELIEVE IN GOD,HE HAS THE RIGHT TO....YOU GUYS SHOULD STOP USING FACEBOOK,WATSAPP AN D NAIRALAND BECAUSE THE OWNERS ARE ATHEIST

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Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by Jflex07(m): 8:04am On May 14, 2017
klax:
I always wonder when a child born in Nigeria with Nigeria blood claiming atheist it surprises me a lot. Young man I guess you need psychiatrist examination and I really pity your parent a lot.

I was forced to have a glance at your profile to look at your picture definitely you look like lucifer for real now I realised truly anything of devil are always ugly look at yourself just go and get a better mirror look again at yourself you will see tru picture of lucifer Ll over your face. I love what the girl did and she must not date you.

If my sister come home with a guy like you I bet you your parent will not recognise you again by the time you will be release from.military gaurd room. I swear walahi.

You better give your life to God and stop being stupid. Atheist my foot, in fatct do you even know the meaning of Atheist Parent train your children this boy forming Atheist is another known lack of home training child I pity your parent a lot.

I descended on you so harsh because it has become so often of you talking Atheist all the time but this one I chose to do profile check on you and I'm not disappointed your picture says it all. You need help now I noted you.

Mod don't ban anybody for talking sense to this pot blacken face boy. People like him don't need advise much than talking sense to them and send them errand back to their parent at home.
You can pass your message across without pouring insult. Are you really a good Christian, or your just a hypocrite!

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Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by goldedprince: 8:04am On May 14, 2017
zealblinks:

why the insult? When im christian what did you expect me to say?
Thats my view. Kill yourself bastard child
son of olosho mother. thunder fire your generation there
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by chikazor(f): 8:05am On May 14, 2017
guy,go look for atheist like yourself
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by Nobody: 8:06am On May 14, 2017
karwa:
the most dangerous, criminal, destructive and wicked people on earth today are religious people-hypocrite, scammers, paedophiles, wife beaters prostitutes, terrorists are associated with one religion or another while free thinkers are the most trust worthy, God fearing and law abiding in all societies-OP, if she doesn't see your worth as a human being, back out, she is not worth changing for. she may end up in the hands of a wife beater who is very religious
karwa:
the most dangerous, criminal, destructive and wicked people on earth today are religious people-hypocrite, scammers, paedophiles, wife beaters prostitutes, terrorists are associated with one religion or another while free thinkers are the most trust worthy, God fearing and law abiding in all societies-OP, if she doesn't see your worth as a human being, back out, she is not worth changing for. she may end up in the hands of a wife beater who is very religious
karwa:
the most dangerous, criminal, destructive and wicked people on earth today are religious people-hypocrite, scammers, paedophiles, wife beaters prostitutes, terrorists are associated with one religion or another while free thinkers are the most trust worthy, God fearing and law abiding in all societies-OP, if she doesn't see your worth as a human being, back out, she is not worth changing for. she may end up in the hands of a wife beater who is very religious
and yet una dey complain say christian girl no wan gree date una.tell me wich sane christian babe go wan date persin wit badmouth like this.make una tell una friend to look for a fellow atheist babe to marry cheesy.
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by bareal(m): 8:07am On May 14, 2017
able20:

@ Op who told you're an atheist, you are just a confused man . you don't even have any knowledge about your world view.

More like diary of a confused man? kikikikiki grin
able20:

@ Op who told you're an atheist, you are just a confused man . you don't even have any knowledge about your world view.

More like diary of a confused man? kikikikiki
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by IAmAmbrose(m): 8:07am On May 14, 2017
chemystery:
the god of sarcasm grin



funny guy
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by Nobody: 8:08am On May 14, 2017
Either ways Japhet... God bless you... Your name Japhet carries a very strong meaning... God bless you and I do pray you get a visitation that would change your ideology about things being black n white..
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by Kingsley1000(m): 8:10am On May 14, 2017
MiddleDimension:
So much hate from the theists here on NL. Then you begin to wonder are they not the believers of the bible? And why have they fallen below the standard of their book? The bible said it in Jude vs 9 that "yet the archangel micheal when he ARGUED did not venture to pronounce judgement (villed words)...". But here we have christians saying all manner of shame words to someone who does not believe in their faith.

What a shame!!!
IT'S APPARENT THAT RELIGION HAS BROUGHT SEGREGATION,HATE AND DIVISION AMONG NIGERIANS,BEFORE THE ADVENT OF THE MISSIONARIES 100YEARS AGO,WE WERE LIVING IN PEACE AND HARMONY

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Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by Nobody: 8:10am On May 14, 2017
Nazeren:
Haha. Dope.

abi na? grin
the most sane thing to do when getting married is get a compactable partner.wat happened to the atheist ladies in his community? cheesy
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by Sakes: 8:11am On May 14, 2017
thesuave10:



I know how they are done. Extensively. This doesn't disprove atheism. It only gives reasons for it. Whether it's a conscious effort or a subconscious one it doesn't disprove atheism

Well, I thought the Argument for Atheism is long defunct.....l mean exhausted....
We don't express in the NEGATIVE without a Complementary closure.. ..

You see, to SAY You don't believe in gOD is to assume god as a premise for your belief therefore making Same your Belief.
If one say: I DON'T LIKE OBI, then OBI is the Subject matter....the TOPIC, the likeness(negative or Positive) is hinged on OBI.. & nothing else.... else the person actually likes something else....
So is the 'BELIEF'concept....
So, Am waiting for the poster to Complete his STATEMENT with what he BELIEVES IN....
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by zealblinks(m): 8:16am On May 14, 2017
goldedprince:
son of olosho mother. thunder fire your generation there
you will die before your honour
nothing good shall come your way
mark my word
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by neocortex: 8:17am On May 14, 2017
Just move on, if she sees a problem in you being an atheist now, even
if you are able to convince her she might use it as a blackmail tool later.

Smart people date character while naive ones date label.
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by Collins10(m): 8:20am On May 14, 2017
Raine80:
You come as you are. If that shoe does not fit the foot, try another shoe. You don't have to give up what you believe in just because someone does not understand why. Did she ask why you had this point of view? You did not lie to her or try to deceive her. She has the problem of not being open minded not you.
Nah. The bae has no problem at all, sis. I think she knows what she wants and dating an atheist is certainly not one of them. We should not crucify the girl. She no want the guy be say she no want am. I am a Christian and I cant date an idol worshipper. It doesnt make me a bad person, sis.
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by seun1960(m): 8:22am On May 14, 2017
Why must you?
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by Igbaba2: 8:22am On May 14, 2017
Splinz:
That's the price you have to pay for being an atheist. To each one his cross, please carry yours, and be strong. smiley
simple!
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by neocortex: 8:23am On May 14, 2017
klax:
I always wonder when a child born in Nigeria with Nigeria blood claiming atheist it surprises me a lot. Young man I guess you need psychiatrist examination and I really pity your parent a lot.

I was forced to have a glance at your profile to look at your picture definitely you look like lucifer for real now I realised truly anything of devil are always ugly look at yourself just go and get a better mirror look again at yourself you will see tru picture of lucifer Ll over your face. I love what the girl did and she must not date you.

If my sister come home with a guy like you I bet you your parent will not recognise you again by the time you will be release from.military gaurd room. I swear walahi.

You better give your life to God and stop being stupid. Atheist my foot, in fatct do you even know the meaning of Atheist Parent train your children this boy forming Atheist is another known lack of home training child I pity your parent a lot.

I descended on you so harsh because it has become so often of you talking Atheist all the time but this one I chose to do profile check on you and I'm not disappointed your picture says it all. You need help now I noted you.

Mod don't ban anybody for talking sense to this pot blacken face boy. People like him don't need advise much than talking sense to them and send them errand back to their parent at home.

You are nothing but a unreasonable tout. You are Nigerian, yet
you were deceived to abandon your forefathers belief for a
foreign one, what does that make you ?

And even worse is your proposed reaction to your sister's guest,
same reaction I will expect from an uncivilized brute.

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Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by Collins10(m): 8:24am On May 14, 2017
Japhet04:
you just earned my respect
Yea.... Because she told you what you wanted to hear.
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by xynerise: 8:29am On May 14, 2017
ANTONINEUTRON:
So Which Religion Name Is 'Danny Drinkwater'

Not my concern but definitely not Christian. That should be a native English name
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by neocortex: 8:29am On May 14, 2017
ekhai:
SHE IS GOD FEARING BABE. THEREFORE SHE IS DIRECTLY OPPOSITE OF YOU. I PRAISE HER DECISION. GO LOOK FOR THOSE WHO SHARE SAME IDEOLOGY WITH YOU.
Christians behave the same way an average person does. They lie
as others do and also fornicate as others do.
If we are to judge christian based on the bible, none can meet up,
yet you had the audacity to qualify the girl as "GOD FEARING".
The only thing unique about christians is that they dance in church
on sundays.

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Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by olujastro: 8:32am On May 14, 2017
danidee10:


Sadly some people will carry Religion untop their head like it's a do or die affair.

Sometimes i think if i was born into Hinduism (Don't want to say islam hahaha grin). Today i would've been defending that Religion as the best in the world, as the "Right way".

I'm not an atheist and i believe in God, but You don't need to be super smart to know Religion is man made. It's Man's attempt to explain how he found himself on earth and why some things happen that he cannot explain. (Science has explained some but there's a lot left to explain)

Religion is not a fixed thing. It always adapt to the "CURRENT SITUATION OF THE WORLD"

Hundreds of Years ago people believed the earth was flat and the sun and stars revolved around us. (Even the bible and several holy books support this belief)

Fast forward to today Science has told us Otherwise, It's round and we move around the sun (They're still people who believe it's Flat and they're some convincing Reasons <I would really like to discuss the topic with an open minded person> )

Anyway most Religions adapted to the Fact that "THE EARTH IS SPHERICAL, BECAUSE SCIENCE SAID SO WITH SOME PROOFS."

The Bible described the earth as flat with Foundations and a firmament that separates the waters below from the one above.

But ask any bible believing christian if they believe the world is Flat they'll tell you Noooo it's round because of Science, Geography, etc etc and Even though the bible says otherwise. (I wish i could ask the Pope or one of these our Nigerian Papa's this question)

My point is Religion would always adapt depending on the situation, If most religions were really Special and sent down from Heaven this wouldn't be the case and everything they teach would be 100% True with no errors or contradictions. Every major Religion today has adapted their teachings and Several other beliefs to Keep up with the Modern times and stay current.

The Flat earth and Round earth is a good example because it cuts across a lot of Religions, but they're several things that have changed as time progressed in different religions.

Most Atheists i know are even better people than Christians that carry God and church untop their head.
Where is it said in the Bible that the Earth is flat? Can you show me? Would love to see.

The concept of a spherical earth doesn't make sense to me as well. Cos I think we should be turned upside down when we go 180 degrees from one part of the earth.
But I strongly agree that the earth is spherical and not flat, not because I learned that in Geography class, but because I've seen many videos from Space that clearly show a spherical horizon of the earth.

Same way I strongly believe in God, not because I was born into Christianity, but because I've spent so much time reading the Bible from A-Z almost twice now. Anyone who says he later dumped Christianity for Atheism hasn't "Studied to show himself approved unto God".
If these private jet pastors are the reasons people aren't interested in Christianity anymore, then there are many non materialistic pastors like Kumuyi.

Until atheists can tell me who created everything they see around us: the earth, sky, seas, land, clouds, rain, thunder, etc. Then they can have my ears. Afterall, the things around them, from their houses, chairs, tables were all created by someone, they didn't "evolve".
The Bible clearly describes how every single thing was created by God.
Shikena

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