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Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by thesuave10(m): 8:34am On May 14, 2017
Amberon:
You who is not a scientist and nor has taken part in any scientific experiments obviously think you have anything worthy of contribution/rebuttal to scientifically proven facts?

Those things are mere fact and theories and who told you I'm not a scientist or haven't taken part I experiment. Hehe you'd wish you knew the man behind this moniker. Anyways later.
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by ANTONINEUTRON(m): 8:34am On May 14, 2017
xynerise:


Not my concern but definitely not Christian. That should be a native English name
Thesame Way 'japhet' Is A Jewish Name

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Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by Afonjafucker(m): 8:35am On May 14, 2017
Japhet04:
I met this girl recently everything has been going well until she found out I am an atheist, she started avoiding me and said she doesn't want anything to do with me because of that fact.

I really like her cry, is there anything I can do to ignite a change of mind on her part


Bro go find another babe. She probably doesn't need someone who will destroy her faith. Go find another atheist babe to like. There are so many of them especially afonjas on Nairaland

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Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by neocortex: 8:36am On May 14, 2017
krispycash:


She knows that if you don't stand for something, you will fall for anything... A real man believes ... He has faith... He knows where he stands... Being a Christian is not a religion... It is a way of life with one universal rule... LOVE....
Your choice to be an atheist is not something I can condemn... But logic never answers it all... Somethings go beyond logic... Love is not a mixture of chemicals... Can u love her?? If yes, How can u love her and not love what she stands for
It is very simple... Don't do it because u want her... Do it because u love the next person who calls u a fool... Or slaps you... There is no shame is standing For Christ...

Tell me one thing you do/you don't do that differs from an average person ?
If you take your time to think about it you would realise you are living
in delusion.

Having faith is meaningless and smart people have long discovered that.

When dealing with humans, it is a potentially fatal mistake to rely on faith,
many have learned the hard way, so I am offering you this free advice.

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Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by xynerise: 8:37am On May 14, 2017
ANTONINEUTRON:
Thesame Way 'japhet' Is A Jewish Name

But he is not a Jew neither does he believe in the Jewish God.

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Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by neocortex: 8:39am On May 14, 2017
savvy12:

Exactly! That's how I see atheists. They are people who don't want to live under the law. They want to do as it pleases them.
ITS BETTER TO BELIEVE THERE IS GOD AND DIE TO FIND OUT THERE ISNT THAN TO BELIEVE THERE IS NO GOD AND DIE TO FOUND THERE IS.
make hay while the sun shines.
ignorance is not an excuse for atheism. Even ignorance itself is a sin.

And you are the stellar example of human morality,
you don't lie, cheat, keep malice, see others as inferior ?
Get off your high horse and face reality.

The last time I checked, the most ignorant of humans are the most religious.

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Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by Tangiloo: 8:40am On May 14, 2017
Naso
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by SavageGarden(m): 8:41am On May 14, 2017
obataokenwa:
I carefully read this your comment and I came to understand that you converted to atheist cos of too much reading and literature.

You call our own believe and the one we believe in disgusting. That's symptom of madness cos if truly you're not going mad, you won't just abuse the believe of another.
You'll be fully mad next season.

You don't know nothing. You clearly can't even comprehend properly. So your God tells You to go about predicting when folks you haven't seen to go mad? I really feel sorry for you that's the sad part.

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Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by MiddleDimension: 8:41am On May 14, 2017
lefulefu:

and yet una dey complain say christian girl no wan gree date una.tell me wich sane christian babe go wan date persin wit badmouth like this.make una tell una friend to look for a fellow atheist babe to marry cheesy.

actually, it is the theists here on NL that have a vile filled mouth. You only need to go through this thread in order to see it! Stupid people everywhere!

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Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by thesuave10(m): 8:42am On May 14, 2017
Sakes:


Well, I thought the Argument for Atheism is long defunct.....l mean exhausted....
We don't express in the NEGATIVE without a Complementary closure.. ..

You see, to SAY You don't believe in gOD is to assume god as a premise for your belief therefore making Same your Belief.
If one say: I DON'T LIKE OBI, then OBI is the Subject matter....the TOPIC, the likeness(negative or Positive) is hinged on OBI.. & nothing else.... else the person actually likes something else....
So is the 'BELIEF'concept....
So, Am waiting for the poster to Complete his STATEMENT with what he BELIEVES IN....


I understand your philosophical argument. It's a bit intellectual. However you seem to be missing the point. Belief is a very fluid concept. theism by definition is The belief in a God or supreme being. Atheism is the belief that there's no God or supreme being. Two tings can be deducted from the atheism definition :
1 the belief in the non existence of God
2 after weve passed number 1 the next step is since you don't believe in God, what do you believe in. Some people don't believe in anything at all. Some people believe in nature or science or some other stuff.
Regardless if what the poster believes, we can conclude that he doesn't believe in God. The question of what he believes in is not quite important in this context Cuz the girl is saying either you believe God or fck off which for me is stupid. People should be evaluated based on their individual characters and from what I've seen atheism allows one to do that to the best.

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Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by thesuave10(m): 8:45am On May 14, 2017
Sakes:


Well, I thought the Argument for Atheism is long defunct.....l mean exhausted....
We don't express in the NEGATIVE without a Complementary closure.. ..

You see, to SAY You don't believe in gOD is to assume god as a premise for your belief therefore making Same your Belief.
If one say: I DON'T LIKE OBI, then OBI is the Subject matter....the TOPIC, the likeness(negative or Positive) is hinged on OBI.. & nothing else.... else the person actually likes something else....
So is the 'BELIEF'concept....
So, Am waiting for the poster to Complete his STATEMENT with what he BELIEVES IN....


Regardless of whether he puts a complementary closure or not is not important in this context unless you want to engage in a philosophical argument with him. In this context what is important is his belief in the non existence of a God
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by MultiCEO1: 8:45am On May 14, 2017
You refused and rejected God. He didn't come on social media to cry, because he accepts and allows your use of your volition power. Now another person has refused and rejected you and here you are whining and looking to change her.

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Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by neocortex: 8:46am On May 14, 2017
felixomor:


Just as we are not also born atheists.
It has been proven that humans are born to believe

You seem to be good in peddling half-truths, human are born to believe what exactly ?
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by obj84(m): 8:49am On May 14, 2017
Edu3Again:


I agree with her, go find fellow atheist or moslem marry.
Leave christians alone.
must you involve Muslim, face your problem I beg
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by Nobody: 8:49am On May 14, 2017
No one is ever born into religion it's a personal choice that you make after childhood to walk the earth unguided or not.

I don't blame her some atheists are a filled with cynicism and a negative view of religion or clouds their judgement and for women what's the point of dating you if we can't see ourselves with you.

You choose to be an atheist and sorry but she also chose what type of man she is looking for

Show her how different you are and if it doesn't work be thankful for coming but never be bitter sha

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Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by ANTONINEUTRON(m): 8:50am On May 14, 2017
xynerise:


But he is not a Jew neither does he believe in the Jewish God.
Are You A Jew


Or Do I Have To Be A Roman And Worship Zeus Before Bearing Anthony

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Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by 1kinggy(m): 8:52am On May 14, 2017
Japhet04:
I met this girl recently everything has been going well until she found out I am an atheist, she started avoiding me and said she doesn't want anything to do with me because of that fact.

I really like her cry, is there anything I can do to ignite a change of mind on her part


Don't try to force her. Even if both of you are atheists and your understanding of atheism are poles apart, don't force her into your beliefs or lack thereof.

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Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by MiddleDimension: 8:53am On May 14, 2017
krispycash:


She knows that if you don't stand for something, you will fall for anything... A real man believes ... He has faith... He knows where he stands... Being a Christian is not a religion... It is a way of life with one universal rule... LOVE....
Your choice to be an atheist is not something I can condemn... But logic never answers it all... Somethings go beyond logic... Love is not a mixture of chemicals... Can u love her?? If yes, How can u love her and not love what she stands for
It is very simple... Don't do it because u want her... Do it because u love the next person who calls u a fool... Or slaps you... There is no shame is standing For Christ...

atheists do not stand for anything? It turns out that we are the ones who stand for the very best values of humanity you can ever think of!

Ofcourse the christian stands for a thing and those things are: homophobia, islamophobia, mysogyny, etc. These are worthwihile values according to the religion that is modelled by the number one bastard, Jesus christ of nazareth!

And yes, i called christianity a religion, and that's what it is! It is no use trying to divorce christianity from religion just because religion has gained an evil reputation.

If you say religion is man SEEKING god like you now pretend to believe, then i think christianity is the number one religion! Verses like "he is the rewarder of those who diligently SEEK him", "Seek ye first the kingdom of god...", "he who COMES to me, i shall not cast aside", "WRESTLE your salvation with fear and trembling", "BE holy as your heavenly father is holy", all verses like these are central to the christian faith. So anyone who defines religion as man seeking god and devorces christianity from religion is only being a hypocrite living a lie! Christianity is the first example and the best representation of religion.

Stope the lies fools!

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Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by xynerise: 8:53am On May 14, 2017
ANTONINEUTRON:
Are A Jew


Or Do I Have To Be A Roman And Worship Zeus Before Bearing Anthony

If you bear the name of a roman god,then it means you believe in the religion.
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by thesuave10(m): 8:54am On May 14, 2017
xynerise:


If you bear the name of a roman god,then it means you believe in the religion.

This is stupid undecided
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by chukxie(m): 8:56am On May 14, 2017
Go date an atheist. Simple! Find someone that shares similar views as you. That isn't hard to do, is it?
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by MiddleDimension: 8:58am On May 14, 2017
solasoulmusic:
No one is ever born into religion it's a personal choice that you make after childhood to walk the earth unguided or not.

I don't blame her some atheists are a filled with cynicism and a negative view of religion or clouds their judgement and for women what's the point of dating you if we can't see ourselves with you.

You choose to be an atheist and sorry but she also chose what type of man she is looking for

Show her how different you are and if it doesn't work be thankful for coming but never be bitter sha

some atheists are cynical you say? Haven't you read what your theistic fellows have written here? A person they have never met came online with a heart of good will to share his emotional dilema, and all your 'faithful' brothers had to tell him is to curse him even though they have never met him at all!

My dear, the reason we atheists go all out against you guys is because of the bile we get from your fellows as is evident here already. May be if theists behave in line with the values which they claim they teach, atheists will be civil with them.

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Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by ANTONINEUTRON(m): 8:59am On May 14, 2017
xynerise:


If you bear the name of a roman god,then it means you believe in the religion.
Flawed!!

What Is Ur Name
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by Segedinho(m): 9:00am On May 14, 2017
One stupid thing about atheist is that they believe in evolution of human from ape
But so far they r apes and also they r humans but no sign of homo erectus or so...does this shows that evolution seized or sumtin

Also many see n believed n magic or evil power like marine n still don't blv in God supremacy.... Anyway dere z nothing new as the bible v foresighted these set of people and regarded them as fools....

Oga japhet it is very simple.... U cant force 2 immiscible substance... Look 4 n atheist n kiss stop lamenting....
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by MiddleDimension: 9:04am On May 14, 2017
Afonjafucker:


Bro go find another babe. She probably doesn't need someone who will destroy her faith. Go find another atheist babe to like. There are so many of them especially afonjas on Nairaland

if someone can destroy your faith, then it questions what exactly you believed!

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Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by xynerise: 9:04am On May 14, 2017
ANTONINEUTRON:
Flawed!!

What Is Ur Name
Xynerise
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by xynerise: 9:05am On May 14, 2017
thesuave10:


This is stupid undecided
Exactly what Atheists are
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by SavageGarden(m): 9:06am On May 14, 2017
maxwell60:
ARE THERE ATHEIST IN NIGERIA? LOL WATIN DEM KNOW?, A COUNTRY THAT HAVE SOME OF THE WORST UNIVERSITIES IN THE WORLD WHAT DID THEY KNOW ABOUT DIVINITY HUMAN ORIGIN, AND THE COSMOS? PEOPLE THAT HAVEN'T LEFT THE SHORES OF NIGERIA ARE STILL CALLING THEMSELVES ATHEIST FUNNY PEOPLE. NIGERIANS ARE TOO DUMB TO BE ATHEIST. ONLY A FOOL WILL ARGUE ABOUT DIVINITY WITH A NIGERIAN ATHEIST.

Ouch you makeit sound like Atheism is a course tought in Schools hence because of our almost failed education system it can't be tought properly. Just hear yourself and the inferiority complex you represent. Does your ignorance know no boundaries or you take some certain pride in being asinine? It has to be cos your comment is very indicative of a brain bereft of intelligence. You are way to dumb to be having an opinion anyway.

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Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by thesuave10(m): 9:07am On May 14, 2017
xynerise:

Exactly what Atheists are
Ok.
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by thesuave10(m): 9:09am On May 14, 2017
maxwell60:
ARE THERE ATHEIST IN NIGERIA? LOL WATIN DEM KNOW?, A COUNTRY THAT HAVE SOME OF THE WORST UNIVERSITIES IN THE WORLD WHAT DID THEY KNOW ABOUT DIVINITY HUMAN ORIGIN, AND THE COSMOS? PEOPLE THAT HAVEN'T LEFT THE SHORES OF NIGERIA ARE STILL CALLING THEMSELVES ATHEIST FUNNY PEOPLE. NIGERIANS ARE TOO DUMB TO BE ATHEIST. ONLY A FOOL WILL ARGUE ABOUT DIVINITY WITH A NIGERIAN ATHEIST.


YOU'VE PROVED YOURSELF A TYPICAL FOOLISH NIGERIAN. HAVE YOU HEARD OF WHAT WE CALL INTERNET OR THINKING FOR YOURSELF OR LIFE EXPERIENCES undecided

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Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by Nobody: 9:10am On May 14, 2017
MiddleDimension:


some atheists are cynical you say? Haven't you read what your theistic fellows have written here? A person they have never met came online with a heart of good will to share his emotional dilema, and all your 'faithful' brothers had to tell him is to curse him even though they have never met him at all!

My dear, the reason we atheists go all out against you guys is because of the bile we get from your fellows as is evident here already. May be if theists behave in line with the values which they claim they teach, atheists will be civil with them.

I am sorry I haven't read all the responses don't take them to heart though two wrongs can never make it right. In my response I was just trying to be very honest maybe it's the individuals so I said some

I am not saying with religion one is a better person but with religion there are boundaries emotionally, physically and sexually that guide you to live a decent life with a lasting legacy and it shows in behavior, character and diction.

I am not condemning you just making you understand having an open mind to question religion Is good i think it's brave but it's the name calling let's all respect our differences

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