Am very sorry to bother you guys, it just that am confused. Am very much inlove with this cele girl, she has been my source of strength and inspiration, we are planning on something strong wedding but the problem here is that she is not willing for us to have the wedding in a Pentecostal church, I make her see reasons for us to do so but she refused. Please guys what should I do am afraid of losing her. I love her so much.

If she is cele, why do you want her to marry in penticostal church? You have to go marry her from her church, her home and her people. If you worried about marrying her from her church, why marry her at all. Cos after all, it is still cele that is in her.

Please marry her in her church... Should this even be an issue?,mchew

Hmm the problem is that my people say they won't follow me to the wedding I grew up in a pastornage

talk2alabama:
Please marry her in her church... Should this even be an issue?,mchew

He feels a little self entitled. That she should bend his way because he is marrying her. Plus his people prolly look down on her religion hence he doesn't want to bring his people to her type of religious place . If his people don't like her upbringing, why is he then marrying her? He should marry from his father's church.

Hhmmmm

I even told her after the wedding she can continue with her church.
she even said if I don't want the wedding in her church that we should go for traditional and court marriage

Religion causing confusion and problems since 1600

try traditional wedding

My guy, she don light your candle somewhere.....na to pray make the candle no burn finish, make e off soonest. I don talk am finish.
#PrayerKey

If you want to let her continue worship in Cele after the wedding then go and marry her in Cele. You have already relinquished your authority to her

Having beards doesn't make you a man.... leading the family's decisions does.