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Re: How Do Introverts Cope In Job Race by Egohunter: 7:05am On May 15, 2017 |
dupsyluzy:You chose to be what u are regardless of ur upbringing. Being an introvert is nt why u flop at these things, it cld also happen to an extrovert. Be guided 3 Likes |
Re: How Do Introverts Cope In Job Race by projet: 7:33am On May 15, 2017 |
there is nothing wrong been an introvert... it's only in Nigeria that people that are asslickers are considered to know how to work against people that are very professional. introverts don't go about licking people ass...they strive for independence. 33 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Do Introverts Cope In Job Race by KAYD007(m): 7:35am On May 15, 2017 |
not easy oo....the odds are well stacked against us 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Do Introverts Cope In Job Race by Ikem11(m): 7:36am On May 15, 2017 |
People say am too proud and doesn't like talking to them because I belittle them... But to me I wasn't just that I like being my self and talking isn't my thing. Now I don't have friends! Tears* 13 Likes |
Re: How Do Introverts Cope In Job Race by ifenes(m): 7:38am On May 15, 2017 |
Winters22: The paradox is you don't go all out finding jobs, you probably don't need to, but you end up getting what is yours. Most likely you become your own boss due to the fact that you have it in you. Introverts are usually bosses or employers 25 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do Introverts Cope In Job Race by blackpanda: 7:39am On May 15, 2017 |
dupsyluzy: Sounds to me like u weren't dedicated or matured enough to handle working environment. Your boss was not the problem, you were. You should adapt to fit ur job and not vice versa. Actually u are not alone. This is a problem with most of our youth. Laziness is a big no no 6 Likes |
Re: How Do Introverts Cope In Job Race by Greatidonis: 7:39am On May 15, 2017 |
Being an introvert is hard sometimes, currently at my work place I'm being seen as someone who likes forming, because I don't have time to gossip I just like to do my job and be left alone. I don't even like eating in the staff canteen, but at the end of the day people feel your feeling to much of yourself. I just want to be left alone if it's not necessary don't talk to me about it. In Naija the will say he or she likes claiming but this is just the way we are. 17 Likes |
Re: How Do Introverts Cope In Job Race by JeffreyJamez(m): 7:39am On May 15, 2017 |
I'm an introvert and I have a job. I didn't go looking tho, I was recommended for the job and got it based on my skills. And based on the fact that I always pay attention to details,I am able to do my job effectively. I was promoted to General Manager which basically means I have to start interacting with people on a daily basis. Now I am an Introvert with a temper. I get irritated and angry easily, Especially if I'm trying to explain something and the person is not getting it. Pisses me off. Thanks to my boss tho, I've learnt how to tolerate people Especially annoying clients. 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do Introverts Cope In Job Race by JeffreyJamez(m): 7:41am On May 15, 2017 |
Greatidonis: Exactly. 9 Likes |
Re: How Do Introverts Cope In Job Race by Greatidonis: 7:42am On May 15, 2017 |
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Re: How Do Introverts Cope In Job Race by Onliie(m): 7:44am On May 15, 2017 |
The problem with Nigerian system is that we mistaken loudness for effectiveness. We expect everyone to have same extroverted character. That's why things rarely work out in the long run for most institutions. Because we miss out on very effective, intelligent introverted individuals. The interview method in Nigeria is flawed and people behind it don't even know what they are doing and can't get what they want. An average introvert will 'break down' in front of a seven-man panel. Whereas he would likely be freer in front of one man interviewer. Does that mean he's less effective? No. 25 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Do Introverts Cope In Job Race by hinograce: 7:47am On May 15, 2017 |
In my own case. I get jobs easily but sustaining it is d issue. Cos some people will think u have malice with them. Where as u don't. I'm just into myself that's all 2 Likes |
Re: How Do Introverts Cope In Job Race by Runninghare(m): 7:47am On May 15, 2017 |
INTROVERTED BEHAVIOUR is a plus, it envokes pity/interest from employers, if only d introvert can add smartnes s/he will be able 2 play his hand properly. In career, introverts should try if possible 2 avoid ones that will demand human relations, but in truth, personality traits are mixtures not wholes. Concentrate on ur strengths and get what u want 10 Likes |
Re: How Do Introverts Cope In Job Race by chicute20: 7:48am On May 15, 2017 |
am one. I don't even know how to go abt changing it. Am currently serving and am finding it difficult to make friends or get connected . |
Re: How Do Introverts Cope In Job Race by Horlawoomey(m): 7:48am On May 15, 2017 |
dupsyluzy: I can relate to what you experienced, some of us are just like that but in future try to improve in some peoples' skills, it will help you in other jobs or your own private job. Number one thing human crave for so much is attention, give it to them and they will give anything in return. I am still an introvert but now know how to relate to people well without changing my nature, thanks to some books by Dale Carnegie. I wish you the best. 8 Likes |
Re: How Do Introverts Cope In Job Race by miketayo(m): 7:56am On May 15, 2017 |
It's not easy honestly, I m also am introvert, but I have this thing called pretence, I can flow with ppl wen I try, dats actually how I got my job after 6months search.. 6 Likes |
Re: How Do Introverts Cope In Job Race by richinvestor: 7:56am On May 15, 2017 |
I'm an introvert but I no dey dull myself. I be sharp guy walahi. .one thing about me is that I get angry easily...and I dnt take shit at all...because if I para enh...people around me go fear walahi......well I'm still n my early 20's and I dnt plan to work under any body unless federal or state government job....I'm already saving for my future. .after I graduate...na far state from my state I dey go to start new life.... 12 Likes |
Re: How Do Introverts Cope In Job Race by Donald3d(m): 7:57am On May 15, 2017 |
Be a freaking freelancer, I aint working for anyone no more. Especially that carrying a bag of a thing,wetin concern person wey dey IT department with carrying your bag from your car,wetin do your hand. And the eye service the other employees doo, arrrgh.I am sticking with freelance . 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do Introverts Cope In Job Race by Horlawoomey(m): 7:57am On May 15, 2017 |
Being an introvert is actually cool but people in this part of the world most people don't understand human nature and psychology. Most see introvert as Dummy, proud or a shy person which actually are not real. To be introverted comes with some disadvantages in the work place, the good news is that these cons can be changed to strength if the person in question can improve in some areas of relations, public speaking and general confidence building. Knowing that people don't usually give a f**k will go a long way in realizing that life is beautiful. You don't have to be an extrovert overnight, you just have to improve on some areas of life, go out there, mingle for a while and go back inside to enjoy your private time and recharge. 7 Likes |
Re: How Do Introverts Cope In Job Race by Ramanto(m): 8:00am On May 15, 2017 |
i'm damn introverted. i don't even know how to establish a long gist with fellow colleagues let alone trying to impress the boss with personal questions like, 'how was your night?', 'how is the family' etc the best favour anybody can do me is not to bother me with cheap talks. But how can i do that without impressing it on people that i'm arrogant? my own luck is that anybody interviewing me seems to be impressed with just whatever i say. 7 Likes |
Re: How Do Introverts Cope In Job Race by Nobody: 8:05am On May 15, 2017 |
its quite a big challenge being an introvert in d Nigerian job market. This is because ppl won't understand u. Introvert is a trait either inherited or cultivated due to upbringing. As an introvert u either termed a snob or 'over-serious' Mayb introverts shud adopt some ideas of extroverts without licking anybody's a**. Perhaps being ambivert will smoothen d rough edges. I started mingling easily at work place wen I became ambivert. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do Introverts Cope In Job Race by Nobody: 8:08am On May 15, 2017 |
[quote author=dupsyluzy post=56523594][/quote] Lolzzzzzz,,, bt wait oooo,,this line..."I can't look at a guy eyeball to eyeball" got me Lmao... Do u want to come out being an introvert 1 Like |
Re: How Do Introverts Cope In Job Race by Nobody: 8:09am On May 15, 2017 |
What's with all these introvert talk every time Nextttt abeg |
Re: How Do Introverts Cope In Job Race by joe4christ(m): 8:10am On May 15, 2017 |
Favourite01: Nature never leaves anyone stranded. Take a good look at your creative abilities, you sure might have potentials that will make you lots of money and eventually turn you to an employer someday. Put your creativity to work, put your mind to use. You will discover a solution to a human problem and that will change your story. Probably you ain't even design to work under any boss, but be the boss. Check deep within pls! 2 Likes |
Re: How Do Introverts Cope In Job Race by Nobody: 8:10am On May 15, 2017 |
Wow.. and i thought i was the only one... so there are people like me 4 Likes |
Re: How Do Introverts Cope In Job Race by Nobody: 8:10am On May 15, 2017 |
dupsyluzy: Lolzzzzzz,,, bt wait oooo,,this line..."I can't look at a guy eyeball to eyeball" got me Lmao... Do u want to come out being an introvert Do you always feel bad abt it 1 Like |
Re: How Do Introverts Cope In Job Race by martineverest(m): 8:12am On May 15, 2017 |
The lifestyle is weird,... I no lie u But it helps me in knowing ppl psychologically 6 Likes |
Re: How Do Introverts Cope In Job Race by Runninghare(m): 8:13am On May 15, 2017 |
Ramanto:U ARE A MASTER OF POLISHED ENGLISH, EVEN WEN U TALK OFF-POINT, FEW NOTICE IT. I HAIL U O 1 Like |
Re: How Do Introverts Cope In Job Race by Nobody: 8:13am On May 15, 2017 |
elfeezy:Yes that's good. I used to be too rspecially at meetings but then you just have to speak up when things concerning your work are being discussed Also it is good for people to identify where you stand on issues before they count you as an enemy 1 Like |
Re: How Do Introverts Cope In Job Race by babyfaceafrica: 8:13am On May 15, 2017 |
Introverts need to be smart,intelligence is different from smartness............if you are in an environment and they want you to blend with them,please so!!!..it is not thatvhard....one thing I have come to notice is that a lot of people like pretence...so I give them what they want!!!!!.....someone say it is not easy,nothing is easy!!!!.......if my boss likes jist,na in go tire,....doesn't make me less of an introvert!!........the only downside are moodswings,which can be reduced by taking little alcohol. If I have to be with people and my mood has changed,I just take small liquor to make me get through....this life ,people judge you by what they see,not what you can do,introverts better start getting wise,before the lousy extroverts take all the juicy jobs!!!! 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Do Introverts Cope In Job Race by menwongo(m): 8:14am On May 15, 2017 |
Favourite01: Try self-employment |
Re: How Do Introverts Cope In Job Race by delana(m): 8:14am On May 15, 2017 |
Ikem11:This so much describes me. 1 Like |
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