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7 Ways Nigerian Guys Trick Ladies Into ' Use And Dump' Relationship by DanceVille: 5:25pm On May 15, 2017 |
Nigerian Single ladies are often at the receiving end in a good number of relationship. It is not a news that several Nigerian guys break the heart of ladies they could have dated for more than five years. The blame game never ends between Nigeria guys and ladies. It is unfair if aguy breaks the heart of a lady who has been with him for a long time. Sometimes, a guy could tell a lady it is all over without thinking of the emotional consequences of what the woman will face afterwards. It is very hard for women to keep their emotions bottled in; single ladies often express their love for a man who has won over their heart. In this case, the man could decide to play such a lady as yoyo. Similarly, 'Base on Logistics, ladies are involved in acts that make men take undue advantage of them all the time. They easily fall into the trap men set for them all in the name of love, which is indeed shrouded with so much deceits. 7 Ways Nigerian Guys Trick Ladies Into 'Use And Dump' Relationship 1. Money Factor Nigerian Ladies are synonymous with the word 'money'. One of the ways to win a runs lady's heart is to play the money game. This is because the lady will easily succumb. Likewise, there is hardly any lady who does not respect a man who spends on her. Moreso, it is important for a guy to know he will spend on his lady. However, if the lady is the lady-mad type, guys will know she is highly susceptible to deceit. In this way, she will be used and dumped. 2. Marriage Factor When a Nigerian guy tells a lady he is seriously interested in marrying her and the lady refuses, the next thing the guy does is to devise ways in which he would hoodwink the lady. This is because guys are very smart at knowing what category a lady belongs (runs girl or wife material). Immediately a man finds out a lady is a runs girl, the next thing the man tires to do is to have fun with her and dump her. Ladies who fall into this category come up with lamentation that a guy was with them for some years, but later left them. 3.Dating The word dating is what guys use to trap single ladies. If a lot of ladies are asked what they want, they will answer they want dating. Therefore, a man will play his trump card and stick to the woman for a very time until he achieves his aim of use and dump. 4.Ladies' Priorities Some Nigerian ladies deceive themselves by setting fantastical goals for themselves. They build castle in the air. They tell the guy this is what they want and nothing. They play the time delay game whereby the guy will be at their mercy. Ladies of this nature do not give a guy either a YES or a NO answer for a long period of time. When the guy discovers the lady is neither here nor there in terms of the type of relationship she wants, the guy behaves a fool until he harms the lady and dumps her. 5.He Pretends To Be Rich Some Nigerian ladies really love the fine things of life and would not want to settle down with a struggling guy. Some guys would borrow their friend’s car and even borrow their houses just to form rich guy. Some ladies end up falling for this kind of guy and when you already deep into the relationship, you realize, you fell for a fake person.And after the guy has achieved his mission of him tricking you... He later dumps you. 6.Dedicated InChurch/ Mosque Once a guy realizes you are a religious person and he wants you, he would do anything to get you, even if it means dedicating all his time to serving God. Those kind of guys would follow you to all the weekly activities, they would join a unit in church just so you think they are Jesus lovers. They want you to think they actually love serving God whereby based on logistic.... They are only doing that so that they can gain your attention.. They don't have any feelings for you, except to use and dump you.. Smh! 7.He Takes All Your ‘Crap’ Some guys would let you do whatever you want without complaining. They let you yell at them and insult them. Some would even apologise when they know they are not wrong just to get you. Just become their girlfriend and they will show you who they are really are. Before you say one word, he would have slapped some sense into you. And that will surely leads to an abusive relationship, and am 100% sure he will dump you since he has achieved his mission... This is not to say all Nigerian guys play these tricks. There are still some genuine ones out there. One just has to be careful when falling in love so you don’t end up with someone who is pretending to be what he is not and then you end up unhappy and full of regrets.. Compiled By: DanceVille cc:lalasticlala 2 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: 7 Ways Nigerian Guys Trick Ladies Into ' Use And Dump' Relationship by thesicilian: 5:31pm On May 15, 2017 |
He who pays the Piper dictates the tune... |
Re: 7 Ways Nigerian Guys Trick Ladies Into ' Use And Dump' Relationship by dingbang(m): 5:35pm On May 15, 2017 |
Use and dump is a such a strong word You can't tell me I was the only one who enjoyed the sex. When I was paying for her wares, she was stupidly smiling sheepishly... Don't annoy me! |
Re: 7 Ways Nigerian Guys Trick Ladies Into ' Use And Dump' Relationship by Nobody: 5:36pm On May 15, 2017 |
Ladies are not naive.They wont go into a relationship one's they know the guy cannot spend at first sight. |
Re: 7 Ways Nigerian Guys Trick Ladies Into ' Use And Dump' Relationship by Kondomatic(m): 5:41pm On May 15, 2017 |
Dating is for fun and shouldn't be taken serious |
Re: 7 Ways Nigerian Guys Trick Ladies Into ' Use And Dump' Relationship by babyfaceafrica: 5:41pm On May 15, 2017 |
What is do you mean trick?..is shE a minor?..she was gullible and refuse to be wise.she preferred a fine boy to a nice boy,she preferred a yahho boy to a honest boy,she wanted it all!!!..she deserves what she gets!!!! |
Re: 7 Ways Nigerian Guys Trick Ladies Into ' Use And Dump' Relationship by DanceVille: 6:57pm On May 15, 2017 |
thesicilian:Hmmmmmm..... |
Re: 7 Ways Nigerian Guys Trick Ladies Into ' Use And Dump' Relationship by DanceVille: 6:58pm On May 15, 2017 |
Kondomatic:Bro.... Like seriously? |
Re: 7 Ways Nigerian Guys Trick Ladies Into ' Use And Dump' Relationship by DanceVille: 6:59pm On May 15, 2017 |
dingbang:That really gat me smile... |
Re: 7 Ways Nigerian Guys Trick Ladies Into ' Use And Dump' Relationship by DanceVille: 7:00pm On May 15, 2017 |
babyfaceafrica: |
Re: 7 Ways Nigerian Guys Trick Ladies Into ' Use And Dump' Relationship by Kondomatic(m): 7:03pm On May 15, 2017 |
DanceVille:Yes |
Re: 7 Ways Nigerian Guys Trick Ladies Into ' Use And Dump' Relationship by DanceVille: 7:44pm On May 15, 2017 |
Ladies..... Your opinions please.. |
Re: 7 Ways Nigerian Guys Trick Ladies Into ' Use And Dump' Relationship by ThemiDhayor(f): 10:31pm On May 15, 2017 |
This is true... I once was a victim of this... This is vewi educative... Lemme ask bro lalasticlala... what did you think dear? Let our nairalanders ladies learn.. Danceville... thanked so much. |
Re: 7 Ways Nigerian Guys Trick Ladies Into ' Use And Dump' Relationship by ThemiDhayor(f): 10:32pm On May 15, 2017 |
dingbang:C his mouth.... |
Re: 7 Ways Nigerian Guys Trick Ladies Into ' Use And Dump' Relationship by dingbang(m): 10:34pm On May 15, 2017 |
ThemiDhayor:come an beat me |
Re: 7 Ways Nigerian Guys Trick Ladies Into ' Use And Dump' Relationship by DaZion(m): 10:36pm On May 15, 2017 |
observing on top my papa roof.. I agree with the op... Sir lalasticlala..........Food don ready.. Serve us. ***********----********---***** Spread my mat... Come join me sit down. |
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