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Choosing A Life Partner. by Capableben(m): 7:32pm On May 14, 2017 |
Choosing a life partner: There are no laid down rules, formulae or principles for choosing a perfect life partner anywhere. Most times the choices are influenced by the peoples background, taste and religion. Today i bring you some points that will go a long way in helping you choose a life partner, these may not work for everybody but will surely work for most people. 1. Values Compatibility: Every normal human should have a set of values to lead his life everyday, there are things, activities or lifestyle that you value. Before you choose a life partner, you should be sure your values don't contrast but are compatible. 2. Steady source of income: Marriage isn't for boys/girls; it is strictly for men/women that have a sense of responsibility. You don't wanna get married and have your parents still feeding you, hence, there should be a steady source of income first before taking a life partner. 3. Social Compatibility: I keep telling my friends that my future wife will be my best friend as soon as we get married. She will be beside me anywhere i go and asides being my confidant, she will be my gossip mate. All these can only be possible if you two are socially compatible. Imagine telling your partner that Donald Trump, the President of America has shut his boarders against foreigners and she/he be like, "Has George Bush been changed?”. Social compatibility matters alot. 4.Spiritual compatibility: Take a partner that will complement your spiritual life and not one that will undermine your efforts of spiritual growth. 5. Physical Compatibility: How do you like your partner? Hourglass shape? Masculine with abs? Tall or short? Huge or petit? Go for what you want, because to each, his own. Don't make a choice today and say " this isn't what i bargained for” tomorrow. Physical compatibility matters. 6. Don't Limit Your possible Choices: Some people for one silly reason or the other have sworn that that they can never marry outside their tribe, country or race. Thing is we are all human and some of us have our destinies tied outside our tribes,countries and races. Do away with the eyes of a tribalist or racist when choosing a partner, love is the ultimate and paramount reason. Noteworthy is also the fact that people nowadays choose partners based on the size of their pockets. This is utterly an act of blindness because love is irreplaceable no matter the opulence. Source: http://ogabenji..com.ng/2017/05/choosing-life-partner.html?m=1#more 62 Likes 6 Shares
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Re: Choosing A Life Partner. by fav444(f): 8:03pm On May 14, 2017 |
May God give us our heart desire... 121 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Choosing A Life Partner. by Nobody: 8:09pm On May 14, 2017 |
Number 2 make sense 20 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Choosing A Life Partner. by walesalak(m): 8:42pm On May 14, 2017 |
well said. choosing a life partner isn't an easy something especially with fake life ppl live wth this days... God help us in discerning d right person. . 33 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Choosing A Life Partner. by Fmartin(m): 8:47pm On May 14, 2017 |
Bumbae1:wadup ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Choosing A Life Partner. by Nobody: 8:50pm On May 14, 2017 |
2,3,5 gat it... Nice one op 3 Likes |
Re: Choosing A Life Partner. by Headlesschicken(m): 8:57pm On May 14, 2017 |
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Re: Choosing A Life Partner. by Capableben(m): 7:38pm On May 15, 2017 |
Nma27:yea, thank you. |
Re: Choosing A Life Partner. by Capableben(m): 7:38pm On May 15, 2017 |
Headlesschicken:lol, ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Choosing A Life Partner. by Capableben(m): 7:38pm On May 15, 2017 |
walesalak:Exactly, all these factors revolve around God. 5 Likes |
Re: Choosing A Life Partner. by Capableben(m): 7:41pm On May 15, 2017 |
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Re: Choosing A Life Partner. by Fuckshiit: 7:41pm On May 15, 2017 |
iôn fûçking need me â fûçking life partner cös they all blöödyfûçkiñg höés out there ![]() 8 Likes |
Re: Choosing A Life Partner. by Kennitrust(m): 10:21pm On May 15, 2017 |
Marriage is not anything to joke with It create happiness and sadness It can ruins u and can make u hold Prayerfully choose ur partner 6 Likes |
Re: Choosing A Life Partner. by josephine123: 10:22pm On May 15, 2017 |
nice one op |
Re: Choosing A Life Partner. by Nobody: 10:22pm On May 15, 2017 |
astrological compatibility comes first joor 1 Like |
Re: Choosing A Life Partner. by AlphaStyles(m): 10:22pm On May 15, 2017 |
things to consider when choosing a Nigerian babe - her love for cash - ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: Choosing A Life Partner. by chibabe259(f): 10:22pm On May 15, 2017 |
Working dick should be added. 8 Likes |
Re: Choosing A Life Partner. by Goldenheart(m): 10:23pm On May 15, 2017 |
![]() Number 7 killed it.... 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Choosing A Life Partner. by lilfreezy: 10:23pm On May 15, 2017 |
breast and yansh must big, I don't like buying pillows in the market 32 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Choosing A Life Partner. by oviejnr(m): 10:24pm On May 15, 2017 |
Let me bookmark this page, I have this new lady I've been talking to. I hope she's worth it or will drop at next available bustop ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: Choosing A Life Partner. by Goldenheart(m): 10:24pm On May 15, 2017 |
Re: Choosing A Life Partner. by nattyjay(m): 10:24pm On May 15, 2017 |
Compatibility of z oza room 1 Like |
Re: Choosing A Life Partner. by NothingDoMe: 10:24pm On May 15, 2017 |
Lala go and sleep |
Re: Choosing A Life Partner. by Daslim180(m): 10:24pm On May 15, 2017 |
Ok |
Re: Choosing A Life Partner. by Khutie: 10:24pm On May 15, 2017 |
chibabe259:Yhu eh! ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Choosing A Life Partner. by Flexherbal(m): 10:25pm On May 15, 2017 |
Nice! |
Re: Choosing A Life Partner. by ednut1(m): 10:26pm On May 15, 2017 |
Its nothing but a gamble. Forget list 4 Likes |
Re: Choosing A Life Partner. by adexgii(m): 10:26pm On May 15, 2017 |
fav444:May God give us the best that will suit who we are 12 Likes |
Re: Choosing A Life Partner. by InvertedHammer: 10:26pm On May 15, 2017 |
/ I can interprete women into a simple language. Ladies: What qualities do you fancy in a lady? Interpretation: What do you like so that I can "package" myself better? / 2 Likes |
Re: Choosing A Life Partner. by oviejnr(m): 10:26pm On May 15, 2017 |
Fuckshiit: ![]() 12 Likes
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Re: Choosing A Life Partner. by olanreyman(m): 10:27pm On May 15, 2017 |
GOD help we the guys... I don't know what kind of ladies we have nowadays . They keep on proving that their only usefulness is fucking 16 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Choosing A Life Partner. by InfinixMine: 10:27pm On May 15, 2017 |
Op, are you stating from experience? 1 Like |
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