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Females In Nigeria (F.I.N) Facebook Member, Nags Husband To Death by ebusfav: 2:06pm On May 16, 2017 |
A member of 'Females in Nigeria' group on Facebook, which Charity Aiyedogbon a.k.a Chacha belonged to before she went missing, reportedly nagged her husband of 9 years to death. According to Facebook user, Azubuike Chinenye, the lady's late husband who was pushed into having a girlfriend outside his marriage, reportedly died of cardiac arrest because his wife 'won't give him peace at home.' Here's the emotional post she wrote; "So today I received double bad news. I am so down. I have been crying and begging God to remove this guilt. I will write about the particular one eating me up. I met him some years ago. Such a nice man. Friendly. Free spirited. Quiet. And a good father. He came to me for advise about his marriage. He's far older than me and I respected him for meeting a small girl like me to advise him about his marriage. He has been married for 9 years and in this 9yrs he doesn't know the meaning of peace. He hates polygamy and wants to raise his kids under one roof. His wife wasn't his first love. He visited his father and his family introduced her to him as his wife. He refused telling them he has someone already and he's waiting for her to be done with her masters. Long story short, he visited again, she was in the house, she served him his meal, he was drowsy, he managed to bath and slept off. He woke up the following day and felt uneasy like someone had sex with him. After some months, he noticed he kept visiting home and started developing love for this girl. He tried resisting the temptation and told his love he wanted to get married, that since she's done with her masters, she should return and let him do something. She refused that she wants to stay back and do her PhD. He kept persisting until the girl broke the news that she's pregnant. Years later, he helped her get a job, told her not to disturb spending her money in the house since he's wealthy. Unfortunately she became something else. No respect. No love. No care. Always shouting, any little thing is quarrel, today he's a fool next day he's a weakling. He's an educated man at least a PhD holder and he managed his home well, there's nothing like authority or "I'm the head", " be submissive ". He made his home a friendly place. She became a nag, he kept enduring. Several times he reported her to her family yet she won't change. She started abusing him, became violent, killing his emotions. He has sat her down several times asking what the problem is, sometimes it is her car which he must change and he obeyed yet no peace. Another time, her phone yet no peace. Later, she needs vacation to different countries yet no peace. Jhoy, I met a young girl at the airport when my flight was delayed. Her battery was down and she used my phone to call her brother who was to pick her up from the airport. We discussed the economy meltdown, boarded, landed and that was it. In the evening, she called to thank me for the benevolence and from then, she sends me happy new month messages and goodwill texts. I finally picked up courage to call her on her birthday that's 9 months after meeting, sadly she was hospitalized due to appendectomy. I was worried and still kept in touch. Madam, finally we started dating. Its been 2years and this girl gives me peace of mind. She respects me. Gives me business ideas which helped boost my career. She's everything I want in a woman but I'm married. After much advise, I concluded by telling him that I don't support adultery. Try and fix your home. No woman wakes up to be abnormal towards her husband if something didn't trigger it. Please take her on a date and ask her where you've gone wrong. I pray she talks but keep me posted. He agreed. A week later he gave a feedback that she finally opened up and said, her mother advised her to be firm so that he will have fear for her and not misbehave. I laughed through out the date and assured her that I am not that kind of man. I told her the best way to win my heart is giving me peace. I want a lovely home. A peaceful home and I promised not to give her any reason to to feel insecure. Now, how do I tell this other girl that my wife is a new person. I told him, just tell her the truth. From all you've said that girl sounds like a good person. After a long time, he sent a chat telling me how she hasn't changed and they had a minor misunderstanding because he put the nanny's name on their business class trip to Dubai, that he should fix her younger sister not the nanny. He refused that it will be unfair of him and before he will start his car, she used her kitchen pestle to destroy my windscreen. I have been in a hotel for two days just to clear my head. I even miss my kids badly. I begged him to calm down and pray. I went ahead to request for her Facebook handle which he gave. I monitored her page and found out she's a FIN member. Well, I told him to use prayers and help his wife. He still complained about her late nights and frivolous lifestyle. In his words, Jhoy I'm sorry I have to call my girlfriend. She gives me peace. Last month, I met with his wife at an event and she came to congratulate me for being a strong woman. In her words, well its because you're not firm. My husband can't even try such with me. If he says one, I have said ten. I laughed and said, then your home is a battle field because your husband might be lacking peace. She said, who cares? No man can control me oh... If you're hard, they will fear you and do nothing. I smiled, I hugged her and said, whatever rocks your boat I wish you the best. I finally met her husband and he came with his girlfriend. She's such a beautiful and intelligent woman. I almost gave them my blessings. I still preached against adultery and encouraged him to work on his home but I still supported him and said, no matter what do what makes you happy. Any home that lacks peace isn't a home. This night his girlfriend called to break the news that he's dead. He died of cardiac arrest. How? His wife asked him to allow her organise a children's day picnic where she'll invite her friends and he said no problem remind me on Wednesday. She seized his keys and demanded he writes a check immediately. He insisted giving her on Wednesday and walked out to share with the kids in their car. On their way he complained of not being able to breathe. He was rushed to the hospital where he died and the driver called his girlfriend first where she was able to kiss him final goodbye. I have been crying. I feel bad. Why didn't I advise him to divorce. Why didn't I tell him to marry his girlfriend. Why do I feel like his ghost is behind me. God please make him wake up. He's too nice to die. Someone please wake me. Wake meeeee. God give him another chance. Allow me advise him to cheat. He only married a bad wife. He doesn't deserve death. Friends please I need your support and prayers. This news is too much to bear. God please. Mr. ....... I am sorry ........... I am sorry....." http://www.lailasblog.com/2017/05/females-in-nigeria-fin-facebook-member.html 2 Likes 4 Shares
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Re: Females In Nigeria (F.I.N) Facebook Member, Nags Husband To Death by Nobody: 2:07pm On May 16, 2017 |
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Re: Females In Nigeria (F.I.N) Facebook Member, Nags Husband To Death by Nobody: 2:09pm On May 16, 2017 |
Great...! She don enter guiness book of records, hope she's happy now? 20 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Females In Nigeria (F.I.N) Facebook Member, Nags Husband To Death by youngest85(m): 2:12pm On May 16, 2017 |
Say what say what |
Re: Females In Nigeria (F.I.N) Facebook Member, Nags Husband To Death by whitebeard(m): 2:17pm On May 16, 2017 |
StephDamielola:nawa for u oo FTC in how many post now...just chill 2 Likes
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Re: Females In Nigeria (F.I.N) Facebook Member, Nags Husband To Death by mikky4764(f): 2:28pm On May 16, 2017 |
telling him not to cheat is a good advice, but pls don't be too had on urself. u didn't do anything wrong...The only thing is that u wld have worked more on the lady than the man. 17 Likes |
Re: Females In Nigeria (F.I.N) Facebook Member, Nags Husband To Death by NevetsIbot(m): 2:29pm On May 16, 2017 |
Still waiting to find that lady that'll nag at me continuously or try to control me. I'll just laugh and IGNORE her totally. She ain't getting nothing like emotions or cash from me... Nothing! In the end when she sees that her tatics aint working, she'll get back to her senses Well, my face is always hard and serious! 101 Likes 8 Shares
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Re: Females In Nigeria (F.I.N) Facebook Member, Nags Husband To Death by yeyeboi(m): 3:55pm On May 16, 2017 |
Ok |
Re: Females In Nigeria (F.I.N) Facebook Member, Nags Husband To Death by YelloweWest: 3:56pm On May 16, 2017 |
But what happened to fin?? I can't see the group anymore 3 Likes |
Re: Females In Nigeria (F.I.N) Facebook Member, Nags Husband To Death by TINALETC3(f): 3:56pm On May 16, 2017 |
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Re: Females In Nigeria (F.I.N) Facebook Member, Nags Husband To Death by chubbygal(f): 3:56pm On May 16, 2017 |
People of this generation are bleeped! No true love, No loyalty, No trust, No honesty. Relationship nowadays is like a party,once the cake is finished the party is over. Nobody cares. To find a wife material is war now. You cant be dating someone now and expect to be the only one,just pray your the highest shareholder in their heart. 40 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Females In Nigeria (F.I.N) Facebook Member, Nags Husband To Death by updatesflow: 3:57pm On May 16, 2017 |
RIP to the man. I guess the lady is very happy now. Governor Ambode bans VIO permanently from Lagos roads http://www.updatesflow.tk/2017/05/lagos-state-governor-ambode-bans-vio.html 2 Likes |
Re: Females In Nigeria (F.I.N) Facebook Member, Nags Husband To Death by TheLogicalMind(m): 3:57pm On May 16, 2017 |
PROVERBS 25 VERSE 24: "It is better to live in a corner of the housetop than in a house shared with a quarrelsome wife." 52 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Females In Nigeria (F.I.N) Facebook Member, Nags Husband To Death by PqsMike: 3:58pm On May 16, 2017 |
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Re: Females In Nigeria (F.I.N) Facebook Member, Nags Husband To Death by etinanguy(m): 3:58pm On May 16, 2017 |
Madam nsuk ukom oh 8 Likes
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Re: Females In Nigeria (F.I.N) Facebook Member, Nags Husband To Death by tydi(m): 3:58pm On May 16, 2017 |
what we will not hear in this modern age? which one again is fin members kwa what actually will be their modus operendi?? 2 Likes |
Re: Females In Nigeria (F.I.N) Facebook Member, Nags Husband To Death by simplemach(m): 3:58pm On May 16, 2017 |
Never heard of FIN before sha. But for the Nagging, there's nothing women cannot do. I fear them 1 Like |
Re: Females In Nigeria (F.I.N) Facebook Member, Nags Husband To Death by NwaObinkita: 3:58pm On May 16, 2017 |
![]() Na wa This story about FIN no dey FINISH It is too long abeg. Lemme finish my bottle of Hero jo, I will come back to read comments |
Re: Females In Nigeria (F.I.N) Facebook Member, Nags Husband To Death by Nobody: 3:59pm On May 16, 2017 |
Nairaland and irrelevant news are like bread and butter ![]() 6 Likes |
Re: Females In Nigeria (F.I.N) Facebook Member, Nags Husband To Death by LexngtonSteele: 4:00pm On May 16, 2017 |
Many Nairaland girls in this category....e.g. delishpot, joy1706 to mention a few ![]() No home training....microscopic IQs.....shout about FEMINISM because it's fashionable Eventually at age 50 without any man to stomach their excesses.... You see them in front seats at Shiloh ![]() ![]() 33 Likes
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Re: Females In Nigeria (F.I.N) Facebook Member, Nags Husband To Death by ADAMUdaCOWBOY: 4:00pm On May 16, 2017 |
HMMM. Our legal systems worldwide has refused to accept nagging as a form of domestic violence. We as a people are also quick to condemn every man that hits the wife as a beast, coward etc. While I don't justify wife beating in anyway, I wish to state that many wife beaters today were not violent pre-marriage and never dreamt they'd ever hit someone, least of all their wives, but here they are! Whenever there is a post on Nairaland on a man beating the wife, the name calling party starts and you hear even unmarried men saying 'I can't beat my wife' lol. Many women today, quite sadly are gifted in the art of exhausting a man's reservoir of patience. I have never ever come close to beating my wife o! Lai lai! It is not because I am perfect in that respect but because my wife helped to make it happen. What can a woman so nice possibly do to me to warrant such a reaction. I took time (5 years to be precise) to ensure I didn't make the mistake of marrying one of those uncouth females; wolves in sheep clothing, roaming the streets lookin for a man whose life they can wreck. Several years down the road, I have nothing but joy in my heart and gratitude to God and my wife for the ocean of peace I call my home. GOD KNOWS THAT IF I HAD MADE THE MISTAKE OF MARRYING ONE OF THOSE LOUSY BRATS, SHE'D LEAVE MY HOUSE IMMEDIATELY I NOTICE THAT ATTITUDE. AH! I CANNOT SURVIVE NAGGING O! AT ALL AT ALL! 78 Likes 9 Shares |
Re: Females In Nigeria (F.I.N) Facebook Member, Nags Husband To Death by SexyNairalander: 4:00pm On May 16, 2017 |
booked |
Re: Females In Nigeria (F.I.N) Facebook Member, Nags Husband To Death by adorablepepple(f): 4:00pm On May 16, 2017 |
![]() Now she can nag herself to death! Useless woman 11 Likes
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Re: Females In Nigeria (F.I.N) Facebook Member, Nags Husband To Death by ADAMUdaCOWBOY: 4:00pm On May 16, 2017 |
taiyeayodeji:If you had read my post well you would have seen how I said 'our legal systems worldwide', I also said 'I don't support wife beating in anyway' and I even said what I would do in the face of persistent verbal abuse (send her out of my house, period!). I still maintain, had I married a lousy wife, I swear before she gets on my nerves to the point of me hitting her she will pack out of the house in one week, never to return! That guy endured it for 9 years and a heart attack was the result. Sharp guys like me will not get a heart attack over a lousy brat! 8 Likes |
Re: Females In Nigeria (F.I.N) Facebook Member, Nags Husband To Death by Nobody: 4:01pm On May 16, 2017 |
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Re: Females In Nigeria (F.I.N) Facebook Member, Nags Husband To Death by BiafraBushBoy(m): 4:01pm On May 16, 2017 |
fools Try this with me, I will kill you, your mum that advised you, your dad that didn't train you well and every member of the FEMALES IN NIGERIA group that advised you at one point!! A girl will show her true color in a relationship. Fear girls without emotions or who act before thinking and later saying sorry!! IDIOT FEMALES!! 7 Likes |
Re: Females In Nigeria (F.I.N) Facebook Member, Nags Husband To Death by Mujaheeeden: 4:01pm On May 16, 2017 |
I'd rather remain unmarried than to marry a nagging wife 3 Likes |
Re: Females In Nigeria (F.I.N) Facebook Member, Nags Husband To Death by Nobody: 4:01pm On May 16, 2017 |
Hmmm |
Re: Females In Nigeria (F.I.N) Facebook Member, Nags Husband To Death by Kobicove(m): 4:01pm On May 16, 2017 |
These people would sit at their computer and 'cook' up an incredible story ![]() 29 Likes |
Re: Females In Nigeria (F.I.N) Facebook Member, Nags Husband To Death by ifewise(m): 4:02pm On May 16, 2017 |
Women and Nagging =Arsenal & Top 4 But D man messed up big time,He should hv Ignored d lady & Acted as if she doesn't exist. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Females In Nigeria (F.I.N) Facebook Member, Nags Husband To Death by adeniyi3971(m): 4:02pm On May 16, 2017 |
ummmmm 1 Like 1 Share |
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